Uncharted Catholic Man

Craig and Jonah
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Uncharted Catholic Man

Not your typical Catholic podcast. We discuss & laugh about marriage, sex, NFP, abstinence, and Onan. #catholicpodcast #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #onanfans #onan #catechism #catechismofcatholicchurch #baltimorecatechism.

  1. Episode 263: The Great Catholic Abstinence Experiment: Will He Make It to the End?

    5 DAYS AGO

    Episode 263: The Great Catholic Abstinence Experiment: Will He Make It to the End?

    Join Craig and Jonah in this insightful episode as they dive deep into the journey of self-mastery and abstinence. Craig shares his personal experience of overcoming temptations and the surprising benefits he's discovered along the way. In this episode, they discuss: - The challenges and triumphs of a 20-day total abstinence trial - The psychological aspects of self-control and belief - The impact of abstinence on marriage and intimacy - Strategies for navigating the complexities of Natural Family Planning (NFP) - The importance of communication and setting expectations with partners Whether you're curious about self-mastery, navigating relationships, or simply looking for inspiration, this episode offers valuable insights and a candid look at the struggles and victories of personal growth. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell for more episodes! Share your thoughts in the comments below—have you ever tried a similar challenge? Thank you for listening! Timestamps: 00:00:00 - Beginning 00:01:17 - Progress on Abstinence Trial 00:02:20 - Stubbornness and Self-Mastery 00:03:44 - Temptation and Self-Control 00:04:47 - Communication with Spouse 00:07:56 - Challenges of NFP and Intimacy 00:10:48 - Reflections on the Abstinence Experience 00:12:31 - Desire for Intimacy 00:13:38 - Benefits of Intimacy in Marriage 00:19:52 - Navigating the Ceasefire 00:20:47 - Suggestions for Improving NFP 00:25:46 - Prioritizing Intimacy 00:30:29 - Future Plans and Potential Ceasefire 00:32:38 - The Power of Self-Mastery 00:34:03 - Reflections on Past Failures 00:39:37 - Group Support for Future Trials 00:45:50 - Final Thoughts on Intimacy and Self-Mastery 00:47:13 - Conclusion and Encouragement

    47 min
  2. Episode 262: NFP: Path of Sacrifice or Cult of Suffering?

    DEC 1

    Episode 262: NFP: Path of Sacrifice or Cult of Suffering?

    Please reach out to us at unchartedcatholicman@gmail.com or go to unchartedcatholicman.com. Article discussed: https://chrisdamian.substack.com/p/nfp-culture-sometimes-resembles-a The Uncharted Catholic Man is a podcast hosted by two Catholic men, husbands, and fathers. Craig and Jonah describe and discuss their own personal experiences, observations, questions, concerns, and struggles to understand and live out the Catholic Church’s moral teachings with respect to marriage and sexuality. We believe in strengthening marriages and families through communication, mercy, and understanding. We attempt to be faithful to the Church’s teaching, and offer guidance and support to Catholic couples trying to faithfully and fully live out their marriages. If you’d like to reach us, please use our LinkTree https://linktr.ee/unchartedcatholicman or just send us an email unchartedcatholicman@gmail.com #catholicpodcast #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #catechism #magisterium #pope #humanaevitae #humanlife #confession #mercy #2352 #intimacy #licit #masturbation

    50 min
  3. Episode 261: The Great Celibacy Challenge - Is It Even Worse Than NFP?

    NOV 24

    Episode 261: The Great Celibacy Challenge - Is It Even Worse Than NFP?

    If you’d like to reach us, please use our LinkTree https://linktr.ee/unchartedcatholicman or just send us an email unchartedcatholicman@gmail.com As the Uncharted Catholic Man embarks on a personal quest for self-discovery, he reveals his decision to undertake a two-month period of celibacy, exploring the impact it has on his relationship with his wife. Join us as we discuss the ups and downs of NFP, the struggles of abstinence, and the unexpected benefits of taking a break from physical intimacy. Tune in for a lighthearted yet insightful conversation about love, parenting, and the quest for balance in a busy family life. Will he succeed in his challenge? Find out as they share their experiences and thoughts on relationships, intimacy, and the journey of parenthood. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments! Topics Covered: Follow on Twitter for live updates on the journey! https://x.com/CraigOnan/status/1857795947578716463 00:00:00 - Beginning 00:00:30 - Introduction and Family Birthdays 00:01:37 - Funny Birthday Story 00:02:44 - Understanding Women's Psychology 00:03:06 - Quest for Self-Discovery 00:05:20 - Midlife NFP Crisis 00:06:06 - Active Use of NFP 00:07:15 - Challenges of NFP 00:09:12 - Struggles with a Two-Year-Old 00:12:30 - Mental Strain of Abstinence 00:14:40 - Celibacy vs. NFP 00:17:45 - Discussing the Decision with Wife 00:20:47 - Wife's Reaction to Celibacy 00:22:31 - Accountability and Commitment 00:25:44 - Physical and Mental Challenges 00:26:56 - Weird Dreams During Abstinence 00:30:42 - Positive Changes in Relationship 00:32:14 - Importance of Date Nights 00:34:10 - Addressing Relationship Issues 00:37:37 - Concerns About Long-Term Abstinence 00:40:50 - Spiritual and Psychological Aspects 00:42:11 - Future Plans and Predictions 00:45:47 - Reflections on NFP and Relationships 00:50:17 - Public Commitment to Celibacy 00:51:44 - Conclusion and Next Steps Craig Jonah John Farrell Twitter NFP (Natural Family Planning) Marquette method PMAS (Post-Marital Act Syndrome) DMT (Dimethyltryptamine) Christopher West celibacy postpartum Happy Wife School two months date night children marriage intimacy relationship

    53 min
  4. Episode 260: Contraception Conundrum: A Catholic Woman's Quest for Peace of Conscience

    NOV 17

    Episode 260: Contraception Conundrum: A Catholic Woman's Quest for Peace of Conscience

    www.unchartedcatholicman.com unchartedcatholicman@gmail.com Craig sits down with Cristina, a Colombian native and cradle Catholic, to discuss her journey through faith, family, and the complexities of Catholic teachings on contraception and natural family planning (NFP). Cristina shares her experiences of moving to the U.S., raising a family, and navigating the challenges of traditional Catholic values in a modern context. She reflects on her upbringing in a conservative family, her husband’s evolving relationship with faith, and the impact of culture on their views about family planning. Throughout the conversation, they explore the emotional and spiritual struggles surrounding contraception, the importance of open communication in marriage, and the role of conscience in making family decisions. Cristina also shares insights from her family dynamics, including her siblings' varied approaches to NFP and contraception, and the influence of their upbringing on their choices. Topics Covered: Cristina's background and family life The impact of cultural differences on Catholic teachings The journey of faith and family planning Personal struggles with contraception and NFP Insights from family dynamics and sibling experiences Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments below! 00:00:00 - Beginning 00:00:30 - Contraception Mentality and Abortion Concerns 00:01:16 - Introduction of Cristina 00:01:44 - Cristina's Background and Family Life 00:03:37 - Husband's Catholic Background 00:05:00 - Differences in Religious Upbringing 00:07:38 - Husband's Practical Approach to Faith 00:08:56 - Contraception Debate in Marriage 00:10:54 - Mother's Perspective on Family Planning 00:12:31 - Cultural Context of Marriage in Colombia 00:15:28 - Access to Contraception in Poor Communities 00:16:46 - Government Intervention in Family Planning 00:18:30 - Religious Awareness of Contraceptive Use 00:19:46 - Socioeconomic Factors in Family Size 00:20:55 - Financial Stability and Family Planning 00:23:15 - Siblings' Approaches to Family and Faith 00:24:34 - NFP and Family Dynamics 00:27:06 - Sister's Experience with NFP 00:29:05 - Brother's Attitude Towards Contraception 00:30:15 - Sister's Adoption Journey 00:32:15 - Marriage Preparation in Colombia 00:35:19 - Expectations Going into Marriage 00:36:34 - First Pregnancy Experience 00:39:24 - Struggles with Catholic Teachings on Contraception 00:41:37 - Evolution of Thoughts on Family Planning 00:45:25 - Desire for More Children 00:47:29 - Confession and NFP Guidance 00:49:47 - Conversations with Priests on Family Planning 00:52:33 - Struggles with Church Teachings 00:53:37 - Reflections on Natural Law and Church Doctrine Contraception JP II (Pope John Paul II) Colombia South America Catholic Opus Dei Regnum Christi NFP (Natural Family Planning) Paul VI Gestational diabetes C-section Couple to Couple League Turning Point (book) Confession Preeclampsia Celibate Family planning Natural law

    1h 15m
  5. Episode 259: The Truth About Contraception, NFP, And Conscience: A Candid Discussion With A Priest

    NOV 10

    Episode 259: The Truth About Contraception, NFP, And Conscience: A Candid Discussion With A Priest

    www.unchartedcatholicman.com unchartedcatholicman@gmail.com Find Fr. Carr's content: https://www.catholicaudiomedia.com/ Craig and Jonah welcome back Father Carr to discuss the complexities of conscience, morality, and the teachings of the Church. They dive deep into the often contentious topic of contraception, exploring how individuals can form their consciences in relation to Church teachings. Father Carr emphasizes the importance of understanding the nuances of sin, culpability, and the role of spiritual advisors in navigating difficult moral decisions. The conversation also touches on the misconceptions surrounding hell and the motivations behind following Church teachings, challenging the notion that fear should be the primary driver of faith. Join us as we unpack these critical issues, including: The role of conscience in moral decision-making The Church's teachings on contraception and NFP (Natural Family Planning) The importance of spiritual guidance and confession The balance between the letter of the law and the spirit of the law Insights into the historical context of heaven and hell from a Jewish perspective Whether you're grappling with personal moral dilemmas or seeking a deeper understanding of Catholic teachings, this episode offers valuable insights and encouragement. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments below 00:00:00 - Beginning 00:00:30 - Introduction to Conscience and Contraception 00:01:13 - Welcome Back, Father Carr 00:02:08 - Understanding Mortal Sin 00:03:04 - Fear of Hell and Its Impact 00:06:27 - Psychology of Motivation 00:07:28 - Scriptural References to Hell 00:08:50 - Narrow vs. Wide Path 00:10:02 - Historical Views on Heaven and Hell 00:10:34 - Fatima and Its Messages 00:12:36 - Understanding Private Revelation 00:15:35 - Struggles with Sexual Morality 00:18:51 - The Role of Confession 00:21:48 - Forming Conscience 00:23:54 - Conscience vs. Church Teaching 00:27:55 - Culpability and Sin 00:30:41 - Humanae Vitae and Contraception 00:32:30 - Personal Context in Church Teachings 00:36:20 - The Challenge of NFP 00:40:30 - Intrinsic Evil 00:43:38 - The Spirit of the Law vs. The Letter of the Law 00:49:10 - The Role of Prayer 00:50:39 - Communication from the Church 00:52:18 - Upcoming Projects and Interviews The Uncharted Catholic Man is a podcast hosted by two Catholic men, husbands, and fathers. Craig and Jonah describe and discuss their own personal experiences, observations, questions, concerns, and struggles to understand and live out the Catholic Church’s moral teachings with respect to marriage and sexuality. We believe in strengthening marriages and families through communication, mercy, and understanding. We attempt to be faithful to the Church’s teaching, and offer guidance and support to Catholic couples trying to faithfully and fully live out their marriages. If you’d like to reach us, please use our LinkTree https://linktr.ee/unchartedcatholicman or just send us an email unchartedcatholicman@gmail.com #catholicpodcast #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #catechism #magisterium #pope #humanaevitae #humanlife #confession #mercy #2352 #intimacy #licit #masturbation Contraception NFP (Natural Family Planning) Father Carr Ralph Martin Saint Augustine Saint Faustina Sister Leonora Daughters of St. Paul Fatima Baltimore Catechism Humanae Vitae Catholic Church God Jesus Massachusetts Harvard University MIT (Massachusetts Institute of Technology) CatholicAudioMedia.com WROL (Radio Station) Divine Mercy Shrine Saint Maximilian Kolbe Twitter Discord Catholic spirituality Blasphemy Mortal sin Spiritual advisor Grace Eternal life Hell Heaven Procreation Unitive Sacrament Spirituality

    54 min
  6. Episode 258: Fasting or Abstinence: Which is Easier in Marriage?

    NOV 3

    Episode 258: Fasting or Abstinence: Which is Easier in Marriage?

    www.unchartedcatholicman.com In this episode of our podcast, Craig and Jonah dive deep into the complexities of marriage, intimacy, and the challenges that come with navigating relationships in a Catholic context. They discuss the struggles of balancing desire and abstinence, particularly during periods of Natural Family Planning (NFP), and how these dynamics can create tension in a marriage. Craig shares his recent experience with fasting and how it impacted his desire for intimacy, leading to a candid conversation about the differences between men and women in these situations. The duo reflects on the teachings of St. Paul regarding marriage and the difficulties of serving both God and a spouse, while also exploring the implications of polygamy and societal expectations. Join us as we unpack the emotional rollercoaster of married life, the constant push and pull of desire, and the quest for understanding in a relationship. Whether you're married, single, or somewhere in between, this episode offers insights into the realities of love, commitment, and the unique challenges faced by couples today. Topics Discussed: - The impact of fasting on desire and intimacy - The challenges of NFP and its effects on marriage - Differences in male and female perspectives on intimacy - The teachings of St. Paul and their relevance today - Exploring polygamy and societal norms Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments! 00:00:00 - Beginning 00:00:30 - Discussion of St. Paul’s view on challenges in serving God while married. 00:01:09 - Jonah shares his recent fasting experience and its effect on his relationship. 00:01:34 - Intimacy buildup and frustrations from unmet expectations. 00:02:46 - Sensitive discussions the need for a safe communication space. 00:04:18 - Is Polygamy the solution? 00:05:25 - The Pain of Abstinence vs. Fasting 00:07:27 - Effects of Fasting on Desire 00:09:11 - The Struggle of Detachment 00:10:29 - Reconnecting with Intimacy 00:12:35 - Differences in marital experiences and desires between men and women. 00:15:41 - The Burden of Motherhood 00:16:34 - Constant Background Frustration of Abstinence and NFP 00:17:32 - The Challenge of Commitment 00:18:51 - Intermittent intimacy and the resulting emotional strain. 00:19:42 - Universal Struggles in Relationships 00:23:29 - The Complexity of Marriage, and the added weight of Moral Rules 00:25:53 - Emotional highs and lows linked to marital intimacy. 00:27:44 - Polygamy and Its Implications 00:30:45 - The Burden of Catholic Rules 00:35:20 - Navigating Difficulties in Marriage 00:38:32 - Survival Mode in NFP 00:41:38 - The Search for Thriving Couples Expresses a desire to find thriving couples amidst marital challenges. 00:46:58 - The Mystery of Marriage Contemplates marital complexities and gender differences. 00:50:40 - Resignation to the Struggles Jonah reflects on accepting marital struggles and complexities. 00:53:51 - Conclusion: The Cost of Fasting Final thoughts on fasting and a preference for intimacy over abstinence. If you’d like to reach us, please use our LinkTree https://linktr.ee/unchartedcatholicman or just send us an email at unchartedcatholicman@gmail.com

    1h 4m
  7. Episode 257: Intimacy, Ice Cream, and Angry Neighbors: The Unfiltered Truth About Marriage

    OCT 27

    Episode 257: Intimacy, Ice Cream, and Angry Neighbors: The Unfiltered Truth About Marriage

    In this episode of the podcast, Craig and Jonah dive deep into the complexities of mental health, relationships, and the challenges of communication. They share a powerful story about a friend who faced a life-threatening moment and how a seemingly divine intervention changed everything. The conversation touches on the hidden struggles many people carry and the importance of reaching out to those around us. Craig opens up about a recent conflict with a neighbor over his dog, leading to a heated exchange that highlights the challenges of neighborly relationships and the pressures of family life. The duo also discusses the significance of intimacy in marriage, the struggles of navigating periods of abstinence, and the impact it has on their overall well-being. Join Craig and Jonah as they explore these topics with humor and honesty, reminding us all to be kind and attentive to the needs of those around us. Topics Covered: Mental health and suicide prevention The importance of communication in relationships Navigating conflicts with neighbors The role of intimacy in marriage Personal anecdotes and reflections Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments! 00:00:00 - Beginning 00:00:30 - A Close Call: A Story of Hope 00:01:30 - The Weight of Hidden Struggles 00:03:20 - Divine Signals: Listening to the Call 00:05:10 - Understanding the Burdens of Life 00:06:20 - The Complexity of Relationships 00:07:30 - Conflict with the Neighbor: A Dog Dilemma 00:10:30 - Escalating Tensions: The Argument 00:12:00 - Aftermath of the Confrontation 00:15:00 - Navigating Marital Dynamics 00:19:30 - Intimacy and Its Importance 00:21:00 - The Struggles of PMAS 00:24:30 - The Impact of Intimacy on Life 00:27:30 - Debating NoFap and Life Energy 00:30:30 - The Role of Intimacy in Relationships 00:32:30 - The Challenges of NFP 00:35:30 - The Elusiveness of Invincibility 00:37:30 - Conclusion: Reflections on Life and Relationships Andrew Carnegie Henry Ford Napoleon Hill PMAS (Post-Marital Abstinence Syndrome) NFP (Natural Family Planning) Marquette method communication boundaries mental health burdens dreams prayer love life marital act Catholic guilt

    39 min
  8. Catholic Marriage Survival Guide: Duct Tape, Death Stares & Afternoon Delights (Ep. 256)

    OCT 20

    Catholic Marriage Survival Guide: Duct Tape, Death Stares & Afternoon Delights (Ep. 256)

    https://linktr.ee/unchartedcatholicman In this episode of our podcast, Craig and Jonah dive into the ups and downs of family life, sharing Jonah's recent experiences from a vacation at the Hot Air Balloon Festival in Albuquerque, New Mexico. They discuss the challenges of parenting, communication in marriage, and the importance of standing up for oneself in relationships. Join them as they reflect on the dynamics of intimacy after having children, the humorous moments that arise during family outings, and the lessons learned from navigating the complexities of marriage. From dealing with cranky kids to the logistics of travel, this episode is filled with relatable anecdotes and insights that many parents will appreciate. Topics Covered: Highlights from the Hot Air Balloon Festival The importance of communication in marriage Navigating intimacy and abstinence in relationships Funny family moments and parenting challenges Reflections on personal growth and respect in marriage Tune in for a candid conversation that blends humor with heartfelt advice on maintaining a strong family bond! Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments below! 00:00:00 - Beginning 00:00:30 - Pre-Marriage Advice Discussion on the importance of communication about sex and standing up for oneself in marriage. 00:01:09 - Vacation Recap Jonah shares his experience at the Hot Air Balloon Festival in Albuquerque, New Mexico. 00:02:16 - Hot Air Balloon Safety Conversation about the safety measures in place during the balloon festival and the potential for accidents. 00:02:57 - Family Dynamics Jonah reflects on family interactions and the challenges of managing crankiness during the trip. 00:04:54 - Standing Up for Yourself Jonah discusses a realization about asserting himself in conversations with his wife. 00:06:01 - Travel Challenges Jonah recounts the difficulties faced while returning from vacation, including luggage issues. 00:07:38 - Staying with Family Discussion about staying at in-laws' house and the dynamics of sharing a room with the family. 00:08:32 - Desert Periods Challenges of timing intimacy around family planning and natural cycles. 00:11:15 - Communication in Marriage Exploration of how communication has improved in their marriages and its impact on intimacy. 00:12:39 - Twitter Debate on Intimacy Discussion about a viral Twitter debate regarding intimacy after having children. 00:17:17 - The Importance of Communication The need for open discussions about intimacy to avoid long periods of abstinence. 00:18:31 - Navigating Conversations Jonah shares a technique for discussing sensitive topics with his wife. 00:20:52 - Humor in Marriage A light-hearted moment about using a navigation app voice and the idea of a "nagging wife" voice. 00:22:34 - Empty Nest Feelings Jonah reflects on the experience of having fewer children at home and the freedom it brings. 00:25:37 - Date Night Dynamics Discussion about the challenges and humor of trying to have a spontaneous date. 00:30:07 - Traveling with Kids Jonah talks about the difficulties of managing children's sleep schedules during travel. 00:32:31 - Future Travel Plans Plans for an upcoming trip to Phoenix and the anticipation of time alone with his wife. 00:33:40 - Communication and Intimacy Jonah reflects on how improved communication has positively affected their marriage. 00:34:45 - Lessons Learned Final thoughts on the importance of discussing intimacy and standing up for oneself in marriage. 00:37:13 - Upcoming Live Streams Announcement about future live streams and personal projects on YouTube.

    38 min
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Not your typical Catholic podcast. We discuss & laugh about marriage, sex, NFP, abstinence, and Onan. #catholicpodcast #unchartedcatholicman #nfp #naturalfamilyplanning #marriage #catholicmarriage #abstinence #theologyofthebody #catechism #catholiccatechism #humanaevitae #contraception #chastity #faithfullness #catholic #onanfans #onan #catechism #catechismofcatholicchurch #baltimorecatechism.

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  • Creator
    Craig and Jonah
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2024
  • Episodes
    199
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Craig and Jonah
  • Show Website
    Uncharted Catholic Man

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