Uncomfortable Conversations ISMFT

Racquel Simmons

Intentional sessions is a motion. An organization of you will. That is used to encourage uncomfortable conversations to promote change. You remember when we were young and being told to stay out of grown folks conversations. But now we the new grown folks and most of us have no idea what’s even going on. Right okay so it’s not just me. In.session provides a safe space to question, to reflect and to communicate around those topics that we deserve to be apart of. Whether that may be around the relationship you have with yourself and others, or even considering what life experiences has contributed to your current emotional wellbeing. Overall ,It’s time for us to be apart of the conversations because silencing them will only encourage a repeated passed down cycle of trauma. So Let’s be the change!

Episodes

  1. Don’t let red flags turn pink

    10/14/2024

    Don’t let red flags turn pink

    IG: ​⁠ Chat session: (Email Insessionmft@gmail.com) Meeting notes 1. Love bombing 2. Lack of appreciation 3. Boundary crossing 4. Lack of communication 5. Unwillingness to compromise 6. Gaslighting 7. Inconsistency 8. Put-downs 9. Controlling Behavior 10. Alienation 11. Excessive lying 12. Jealousy 13. Lack of trust 14. Abuse 15. Hot and cold behavior How do you know when it’s time to go? 1. You argue about everything. 2. There are sustained difficulties in your sexual relationship.. 3. You stop doing the little 'just because'gestures that show your partner you love them. 4. You don’t tell them about that awesome thing that just happened at work. 5. You don't want to introduce each other to your inner circles. 6. One of you switches from saying 'we' to 'I.' 7. They're tight-lipped about past relationships. 8. You don’t consult each other before making big decisions. 9. They have a lot of solo plans. 10. You stop seeing their quirks as charming. 11. They’re suddenly showering you with gifts and attention. 12. They project their stress onto you. 13. They start putting you down. 14. There’s a change in how your partner spends money. 15. There's a lack of communication. 16. You switch up your style. 17. They're frequently jealous. 18. Their body language gets...different. 19. They're not willing to compromise. 20. You are their everything. Chat Session: Insessionmft@gmail.com Citation: https://www.womenshealthmag.com/relationships/a24800980/relationship-red-flags/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=mgu_ga_whm_md_pmx_hybd_mix_us_20196160291&gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAjwuMC2BhA7EiwAmJKRrKPxBu-OGGng9F9PK3AeqlC7FMF1cexovRAElnXXFRMUfT0OeNoV1BoCkHsQAvD_BwE https://www.prevention.com/life/a41405111/red-flags-in-relationship/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=mgu_ga_pre_md_dsa_prog_org_us_a41405111&gad_source=1&gclid=Cj0KCQjw_sq2BhCUARIsAIVqmQviCEFmVy1GHgYnu6NvIvwKALaSlfk6hTWInmADn7g1tbyTOoG3QSAaAjlZEALw_wcB BY SHANNEN ZITZPUBLISHED: SEP 27, 2022 12:28 PM EDT

    59 min
  2. I’m having a Quarter Life crisis!!

    10/14/2024

    I’m having a Quarter Life crisis!!

    Chat session email me at: insessionmft@gmail.com . Are you having a Quarter Life crisis? Let me know in the comments . . . Notes from episode: Quarter life crisis Into Acknowledge the guest episodes Every week in September 1 session Sunday Card game/ couple Conversations with a friend Generation conversation - [ ] Generation X is the demographic group directly following the baby boomers. They were born between 1965-1980. - [ ] Millennials are also known as Generation Y and were born between 1981-1996. - [ ] Generation Z (1997-2012)Generation Z is commonly known as Zoomers, the new generation after the Millennials and preceding Generation Alpha. Quarter life crisis A quarter-life crisis is a period of self-reflection and questioning that can occur in a person's mid-20s to early 30s. It's a common experience that can feel like a cross between an identity and existential crisis. People may experience feelings of uncertainty, self-doubt, anxiety, depression, and disillusionment. They may also feel lost or stuck in a rut with their job, or uninspired by things that usually bring them joy. Here are some strategies that may help with a quarter-life crisis: * Journaling Writing about your feelings, thoughts, and goals can help you identify patterns and what's most important to you. * Alone time Solitude can help you reflect on what matters most to you, without social pressure. * Visualization Imagine yourself following different paths and consider how each option makes you feel. * Getting feedback Friends, family, mentors, and other trusted people can provide feedback and insight. * Talking to people You can talk to friends and family about what you're going through, or you can try speaking to people who have a lifestyle or job that you might want to pursue. For example, you could talk to a university career counselor or someone you know who has a job or career you're interested in. Article link: https://www.elitedaily.com/life/turning-29-things-to-remember/1434906 #podcast #quarterlifecrisis #age #genx #milennial #genx

    52 min

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Intentional sessions is a motion. An organization of you will. That is used to encourage uncomfortable conversations to promote change. You remember when we were young and being told to stay out of grown folks conversations. But now we the new grown folks and most of us have no idea what’s even going on. Right okay so it’s not just me. In.session provides a safe space to question, to reflect and to communicate around those topics that we deserve to be apart of. Whether that may be around the relationship you have with yourself and others, or even considering what life experiences has contributed to your current emotional wellbeing. Overall ,It’s time for us to be apart of the conversations because silencing them will only encourage a repeated passed down cycle of trauma. So Let’s be the change!