UnDeletable Dad

Tracy Poizner

Parental Alienation coach Tracy Poizner will teach you to neutralize hostility and loyalty conflicts to protect your children from emotional damage due to high-conflict coparenting. Start designing your own legendary outcome today!

  1. APR 21

    65. Human Design for Parenting with Nina Cuellar-Barry

    In this episode of Undeletable Dad, Tracy Poizner sits down with human design expert and author Nina Cuellar-Barry to break down a powerful—but often overlooked—tool for understanding your children on a deeper level. For divorced and separated dads navigating high-conflict parenting, the traditional tools and approaches are no longer effective. Human Design is a practical framework to understand your child’s emotional wiring, decision-making style, and behavioral patterns—so you can stop guessing and start connecting. Nina's upcoming book "Parenting with Human Parenting" reveals how small shifts in awareness can dramatically improve communication, reduce conflict, and help you show up as the grounded, magnetic father your kids naturally turn toward. Why traditional parenting tools often fail dads after divorce/separationHow Human Design reveals your child’s emotional and behavioral blueprintThe difference between emotionally driven vs. instinct-driven childrenHow to respond to emotional overwhelm without escalating conflictWhy some kids absorb and amplify other people’s emotionsHow to guide decision-making based on your child’s natural designThe hidden reason some kids struggle with time, pressure, and transitions[00:00] What “Undeletable Dad” really means in modern fatherhood[03:00] Meet Nina Cuellar-Barry and her journey into Human Design[06:00] Why blended families need different parenting tools[07:30] What Human Design actually is (and why it works)[12:00] How Tracy discovered Human Design—and why it clicked[16:00] Reading a Human Design chart (simple breakdown for parents)[20:00] Emotional vs. non-emotional children explained[32:00] How kids absorb and amplify parental emotions[34:00] The danger of kids becoming emotional caregivers[38:00] Decision-making styles: gut instinct vs. emotional timing[40:00] Nina’s book Parenting with Human Design Nina Cuellar-Barry is a certified Quantum Human Design Family Coach, retired special education teacher, and author of Parenting with Human Design. She helps parents understand their children’s unique energetic blueprint to create more harmony, connection, and ease in family dynamics. Undeletable Dad, hosted by Tracy Poizner, is built for divorced and separated fathers who refuse to lose their connection with their children. The show delivers practical tools, mindset shifts, and unconventional strategies to help dads step out of survival mode and into confident, intentional fatherhood. Visit undeletabledad.com for courses and to apply for private mentorship with Tracy.

    42 min
  2. FEB 3

    64. Ron Platt — Divorce Insurance, Foster Care Reform & Protecting Families in Crisis

    In this powerful and deeply human episode of The Undeletable Dad Podcast, Tracy Poizner sits down with Ron Platt - serial entrepreneur, foster father, and systems-level advocate for families navigating divorce and parental alienation. Ron shares the personal journey that led him to create the first divorce insurance product of its kind, alongside a national membership organization designed to support single and divorced families holistically — financially, emotionally, and structurally. This episode is essential listening for fathers who want to protect their relationship with their children, even when life throws unexpected obstacles in the way. Ron’s foster parenting journey How becoming a foster father reshaped his understanding of family, permanence, boundaries, and advocacy — and what it taught him about children who’ve experienced trauma and instability. Why traditional systems fail divorced families From courts to child support enforcement to mental health access, Ron breaks down where the cracks are — and why parents often fall through them. The creation of Divorce Insurance (Support Insured) A groundbreaking insurance product that ensures child support and alimony payments continue in situations where the paying parent: Dies Becomes disabled Is involuntarily unemployed Declares business bankruptcy This protection prevents parents from being labeled “deadbeats” due to circumstances beyond their control — and protects children from sudden financial disruption. How Support Insured actually works Affordable annual premiums Coverage tied only to court-ordered support amounts Up to 12 months of continued payments during hardship Available to either parent Why this matters for fathers facing high-conflict divorce Financial collapse often leads to loss of parenting time, court sanctions, and alienation. This product helps fathers stabilize during crisis — without losing access to their children. The mission of NASDF (National Association for Single & Divorced Families) A first-of-its-kind membership organization offering: Free & discounted mental health support Career and employment resources Childcare and family discounts Advocacy for foster care reform Programs aimed at preventing intergenerational poverty Foster care reform & child advocacy Ron explains how privatization, instability, and lack of consistent therapeutic care harm foster children — and what systemic changes must happen next. Divorce doesn’t just separate families — it exposes them to financial, emotional, and institutional risk. This episode shines a light on practical solutions, not platitudes. Ron Platt isn’t theorizing — he’s building infrastructure that protects parents and children when life doesn’t go according to plan. If you’re a father navigating: Divorce or post-divorce instability Child support pressure Fear of losing access to your kids Systemic unfairness …this conversation will give you clarity, options, and hope. National Association for Single & Divorced Families (NASDF) 👉 https://nasdf.org Support Insured (Divorce Insurance Program) 👉 Available through NASDF membership Undeletable Dad Programs & Mentorship 👉 https://undeletabledad.com Contact Tracy Poizner for video courses and live/Zoom 1:1 mentorship: 📧 tracy@undeletabledad.com Your relationship with your children should never be collateral damage. This episode is about protecting fathers, stabilizing families, and building systems that actually work — even in the hardest seasons of life. Thanks for listening - your kids thank you, too!

    32 min
  3. 07/03/2025

    63. Breaking the Silence: Men’s Mental Health & the Courage to Heal — with Dr. Gilda Carle

    In this empowering and insightful episode of the Undeletable Dad Podcast, Tracy sits down with the renowned relationship and business expert, Dr. Gilda Carle. Famously known as the "Love Doctor" from her MTV days, Dr. Gilda brings decades of experience and wisdom into an often-overlooked topic—men’s mental health. Drawing from her newest, thought-provoking book, "Real Men Don't Go Woke," Dr. Gilda sheds light on the hidden crisis of men's emotional well-being, revealing alarming statistics around depression, loneliness, and suicide rates among men, particularly those facing challenges like parental alienation, divorce, and isolation. Episode Highlights: Men’s Silent Crisis Why men often suffer in silence and the alarming statistic that suicide is the leading cause of death for men under 50. Insightful discussion about celebrities like Howie Mandel, Pete Davidson, Simon Cowell, and Will Smith, highlighting that even seemingly successful men struggle deeply behind the scenes. The Book Behind the Conversation Dr. Gilda reveals why major publishers rejected her book due to its provocative title and how she bravely took the publishing journey into her own hands. How this book, described as "a love story for men," has resonated globally, reaching readers who felt isolated and alone in their experiences. Understanding the Woke Narrative A deep dive into why "woke" culture poses unique challenges to men's self-esteem and emotional health. Discussion on why society quickly labels men as "toxic," pushing some toward self-denial and despair. Strategies for Emotional Mastery Dr. Gilda introduces her powerful three-step approach: "Frame it, Claim it, Tame it" to manage anger and emotional overwhelm. Practical examples and communication strategies to foster better understanding in personal and professional relationships. Taking Personal Responsibility Why taking responsibility for your emotional state and life circumstances is foundational to healing and personal growth. Real-life anecdotes from Dr. Gilda’s extensive coaching experience, including the critical need to recognize and address one's own role in personal struggles. Empowering Women to Support Men How women can create emotionally safe environments for the men in their lives to openly express vulnerability without shame. The importance of genuine listening and compassionate communication, breaking down misconceptions around male vulnerability. Transformative Insights for Relationships Dr. Gilda’s direct, no-nonsense advice about avoiding the pitfalls of victimhood, codependency, and "people-pleasing." How authentic self-expression and vulnerability become the foundation for lasting and fulfilling relationships. About Dr. Gilda Carle: Dr. Gilda Carle is a celebrated relationship expert, author of 19 books, and former MTV personality known as the “Love Doctor.” She expertly combines relationship and business strategies, helping individuals and corporations communicate effectively, build resilience, and cultivate genuine connections. Connect with Dr. Gilda: Website: drgilda.com LinkedIn, Instagram, TikTok: @DrGilda Host Information: Reach out to Tracy at UndeletableDad.com for support, resources, or coaching on navigating fatherhood, parental alienation, and men’s mental health. Listen in, share with friends, and join the vital conversation about breaking the silence around men's mental health. It’s time to heal. 2/2

    49 min

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Parental Alienation coach Tracy Poizner will teach you to neutralize hostility and loyalty conflicts to protect your children from emotional damage due to high-conflict coparenting. Start designing your own legendary outcome today!

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