Understand Your Man

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Welcome to “Understand Your Man”—the podcast that unpacks what men really need, what women truly want, and how couples can bridge the gap for stronger, more fulfilling relationships. Join hosts Natasha Senra-Pereira, a relationship therapist, and Nathan Joblin, author and candid voice on modern masculinity, as they guide you through the new landscape of love, partnership, and communication.

Episodes

  1. 08/27/2025

    Navigating Modern Relationships in 2025: Challenges and Solutions

    In this episode, we explore the evolving dynamics of modern relationships in 2025. We discuss how traditional gender roles and expectations passed down from previous generations are no longer sufficient. Men are finding that the roles of provider and protector need to be redefined, while women navigate challenges their mothers didn't face. The discussion sheds light on the psychological and emotional adjustments required to foster healthier, more meaningful connections in today's world.01:22 - Introduction04:00 - Gender Conditioning: Men, Women, and Relationship Roles08:00 - Relating, Reacting, and the "We" in Relationships12:00 - Transition Times, Daily Roles, and Negotiating Needs16:00 - Modern Relationships: New Structures and Challenges20:00 - Self-Discovery, Growth, and Changing for Yourself24:00 - Silence, Resentment, and Creating Space for Conversation28:00 - Outro & Final Thoughts

    27 min
  2. Connecting With Yourself to Understand Your Man

    08/21/2025

    Connecting With Yourself to Understand Your Man

    In this episode, Natasha and Nathan recap key concepts from their previous six episodes, focusing on understanding and changing energy dynamics in relationships. They discuss attachment styles, emotional triggers, and the importance of self-awareness in fostering healthier connections with partners and family members. Natasha emphasizes the need to heal past traumas and make conscious efforts to regulate one's own nervous system to improve relational dynamics. Practical tips and philosophical insights are provided to help viewers create a safe and loving environment for themselves and their loved ones.00:00 Introduction and Greetings00:08 Recap of Previous Episodes01:42 Understanding Energy in Relationships03:45 Attachment Styles and Compatibility05:58 Healing Through Relationships06:35 Building Safety and Trust16:21 Practical Tips for Emotional Regulation20:54 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

    25 min

  3. 08/13/2025

    The Power of Slowing Down: Building Intimacy and Connection in Relationships

    In this episode, Natasha and Nathan explore the importance of consciously choosing to slow down and connect with your partner and family. Discover practical techniques for stepping off autopilot, such as taking five intentional minutes to greet each other and create a calming home environment. They also discuss the physiological and emotional benefits of these practices, the role of women in initiating this change, and the power of giving genuine attention to each other. Check out the episode and join us in building a compassionate and loving family dynamic. 00:00 Introduction: The Choice to Slow Down 01:12 Engaging in Healthy Conversations 01:40 The Autopilot Trap in Relationships 04:21 Men's Emotional Needs and Affection 09:02 Creating a Welcoming Home Environment 13:02 The Power of Five Minutes 14:37 Building Lasting Connections 20:59 Closing Thoughts and Next Episode Preview

    23 min

  4. 07/10/2025

    Navigating Difficult Conversations Together

    Ever feel like every serious conversation with your partner turns into a minefield? In this episode, hosts Natasha and Nathan break down why talking about tough topics can feel so overwhelming—and how to make it easier for both of you. Discover: • Why men and women often react so differently to the phrase “We need to talk” • The science behind fight, flight, and freeze responses in relationships • How to create a safe space for honest communication (without judgment or blame) • Practical strategies for starting difficult conversations, building trust, and finding common ground • Why flexibility, curiosity, and do-overs are essential for real connection Natasha, a relationship therapist, and Nathan, author of Trapped, share real-life stories and actionable tips to help you and your partner communicate better, understand each other’s needs, and grow together—even when things get uncomfortable. Whether you’re tired of misunderstandings or just want to deepen your connection, this episode gives you the tools to start talking—and keep talking—in a way that brings you closer. Hit subscribe and join us for a new kind of relationship conversation every week! 00:00 Introduction: The Essence of a Good Conversation 00:29 Understanding Communication Styles 02:25 Navigating Emotional Responses 05:43 The Importance of Flexibility in Conversations 09:08 Creating a Safe Space for Dialogue 11:06 Practical Tips for Effective Communication 20:42 Starting the Conversation: Key Phrases 29:56 Conclusion and Next Steps

    33 min

  5. 07/03/2025

    Creating Emotional Safety in Relationships

    In this episode, Natasha and Nathan dive into the concept of emotional safety in relationships. This episode helps couples build deeper connections and improve their communication by addressing the underlying issues that occur when they try to communicate. They discuss the differences in how men and women perceive safety and freedom, and provide practical advice for setting the right environment for successful communication. Key topics include understanding each other’s needs, using discernment in choosing the right time and place for conversations, and fostering mutual respect. 00:00 Introduction to Understanding Men 00:33 Meet the Hosts 01:18 The Concept of Safety for Men 02:07 Creating a Safe Space for Conversations 05:20 Timing and Environment for Discussions 10:01 Understanding Attachment Styles 16:15 The Importance of Mutual Respect 18:42 Practical Tips for Effective Communication 22:36 Conclusion and Next Steps

    24 min

  6. 07/03/2025

    Tools for Self-Regulation in Relationships

    In this episode, our hosts discuss the complexities of emotional self-regulation within relationships. Explore why traditional advice to 'take the higher road' may not always be effective and discuss alternative approaches for achieving personal freedom and happiness. Natasha introduces several therapy modalities like Internal Family Systems (IFS), Deep Brain Reorienting (DBR), and Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing (EMDR) as ways to handle reactivity and emotional triggers. The conversation aims to build a bridge between men and women by promoting self-responsibility and understanding. 00:00 Introduction and Personal Perspectives 00:20 Welcome to Understand Your Man 01:21 The Importance of Safety in Relationships 04:06 Therapies and Self-Regulation 07:28 Understanding Reactivity and Self-Mastery 13:20 The Role of Neuroscience in Therapy 21:50 Conflict as a Gateway to Freedom 26:42 Conclusion and Next Episode Preview

    28 min

  7. 07/03/2025

    Building Bridges: How to Get Deeper Connections

    In this episode, hosts Natasha and Nathan explain how to create healthier and more connected relationships. This episode is all about building a bridge of understanding leading to deeper, more fulfilling connections in modern relationships. They discuss the importance of timing, communication skills, tone of voice, and understanding both your partner's and your own communication styles. The episode explores the evolving dynamics between men and women, the pressures men face, and the significance of fostering a safe environment where both partners can express their needs and vulnerabilities. 00:00 Introduction to Understanding Your Man00:40 Meet Your Hosts: Nathan and Natasha01:29 Changing Dynamics in Modern Relationships03:57 The Importance of Feeling Understood06:27 Masculine and Feminine Energies09:08 Communication and Timing15:44 Challenges Men Face in Society23:36 Co-Creating Healthy Relationships24:33 Conclusion and Next Steps

    26 min

  8. 06/23/2025

    Coming Soon: Understand Your Man

    Welcome to “Understand Your Man”—the podcast that unpacks what men really need, what women truly want, and how couples can bridge the gap for stronger, more fulfilling relationships. Hosts Natasha, a relationship therapist, and Nathan, author and candid voice on modern masculinity, guide you through the new landscape of love, partnership, and communication. In this series, we’ll explore how gender roles have changed, why so many couples feel misunderstood, and what practical tools can help you connect on a deeper level. Expect real stories, expert advice, and actionable strategies for navigating everything from everyday misunderstandings to the big questions about intimacy, partnership, and personal growth. Subscribe now and follow along as we break down the barriers to understanding—and help you create the relationship you’ve always wanted. New episodes every week—don’t miss out!

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Welcome to “Understand Your Man”—the podcast that unpacks what men really need, what women truly want, and how couples can bridge the gap for stronger, more fulfilling relationships. Join hosts Natasha Senra-Pereira, a relationship therapist, and Nathan Joblin, author and candid voice on modern masculinity, as they guide you through the new landscape of love, partnership, and communication.

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