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Some ideas are unpopular for a reason—and others are unpopular because they ask us to slow down and think. UNPOPULAR is a space for thoughtful, faith-rooted conversation with Tim and Bella, engaging difficult questions about life, relationships, virtue, and what it means to pick up your cross and follow in a culture that prizes self-leadership.

  1. 5d ago

    Are These Normal Problems or Relationship Red Flags?

    Invitations have gone out, deposits are paid, and families are excited, but are you? Engagement is not just a countdown to a wedding; it is a final season of discernment for a marriage. And it's not the time to explain away serious relationship problems solely because calling off a wedding is inconvenient. Join Tim and Bella as they ask the sometimes unpopular question, "Is this relationship healthy enough to build a marriage on?"

  2. Jul 21

    Sexpectations, Expectations, and Other Marriage Surprises

    You expect marriage to bring big adjustments: sex, money, family, communication, learning how to build a life together. But sometimes the greatest tension comes from the surprisingly small things. How often you clean, how you spend a Saturday, or what a "reasonable purchase" is. In this episode, Tim and Bella unpack the big expectations couples bring into marriage, the little assumptions they may not even realize they have, and how to reframe expectations into opportunities for growth and grace! Drop us a note at hello.unpopularpodcast@gmail.com. Send us a message, ask a question, or share a topic you'd like to hear about!

  3. Jul 7

    Praying Together Is Awkward: How to Build a Shared Spiritual Life

    Ever wondered what "two becoming one" means on a spiritual level? In engagement season, you are not just planning a wedding, you are preparing to become one life, one home, and one spiritual unit. But what does that actually look like? Do you need to pray together every night? Start doing devotions as a couple? Who should take the lead on making this a priority? In today's episode, Tim and Bella chat about the building blocks for creating a firm, spiritual foundation from which you can pour into the lives of others! Drop us a note at hello.unpopularpodcast@gmail.com. Send us a message, ask a question, or share a topic you'd like to hear about!

  4. Jun 24

    A Note of Encouragement To Engaged Couples

    In this special episode, Tim and Bella take a few moments to share a heartfelt encouragement with couples who are in or near the engagement season of life.   As always, you can drop us a note at hello.unpopularpodcast@gmail.com! Send us a message, ask a question, or share a topic you'd like to hear about!

  5. Jun 17

    Why Dating Fizzles Out In Marriage

    During engagement, you are planning the wedding, but even more importantly, you are preparing for your future marriage. Learning how to have fun, awesome, and continuous date nights should be a high-priority task for the longevity and romance of your future marriage. Join Tim and Bella as they chat about tools to future-proof your date nights in marriage, such as Happy Camper Dates, Standing Dates, and Unlocking the Keys to Your Heart. Get ready to take notes, as this episode is filled with practical ideas and foundational principles for successful dating in marriage! Drop us a note at hello.unpopularpodcast@gmail.com! Send us a message, ask a question, or share a topic you'd like to hear about!

  6. Jun 10

    The 10 Financial Commandments (Approximately)

    In this episode, Tim and Bella talk practically about money as you prepare for marriage: saving, tithing, budgeting, debt, generosity, and the everyday habits that shape a couple's financial future. If you're interested in growing in your financial stewardship, this conversation is a great place to start! Let's unpack approxmiatly 10 principles for how to think and act when it comes to money matters.   Drop us a note at hello.unpopularpodcast@gmail.com! Send us a message, ask a question, or share a topic you'd like to hear about!

  7. Jun 3

    Money, Money, Money: To The Theme of Marriage, Not Abba

    Love conquers all… but can it conquer a mountain of debt, mismatched spending habits, and poor financial choices? In this episode, Tim and Bella unpack financial wisdom for engaged couples and anyone wanting to do money well in marriage. From debt and spending habits to tithing and generosity, they tackle the must-have money conversations that help couples build a strong financial foundation for marraige. Did you know? You can drop us a note at hello.unpopularpodcast@gmail.com. Send us a message, ask a question, or share a topic you'd like to hear about!

  8. May 27

    In Laws or Outlaws? How to Build Better Family Relationships in Marriage

    Parental relationships in marriage can be a gift, but they often become one of the first places couples feel real tension. Whether it's your own parents or your future in-laws, these relationships can quickly expose expectations, loyalties, boundaries, and old family patterns. In today's episode, Tim and Bella unpack how engaged and married couples can think wisely about their parents and in-laws, build healthier connections, and move toward lasting, God-honouring relationships, without wandering into "outlaw" territory.

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Some ideas are unpopular for a reason—and others are unpopular because they ask us to slow down and think. UNPOPULAR is a space for thoughtful, faith-rooted conversation with Tim and Bella, engaging difficult questions about life, relationships, virtue, and what it means to pick up your cross and follow in a culture that prizes self-leadership.

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  • Creator
    tim and bella nielsen
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    27
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © tim and bella nielsen
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    Unpopular