The Gag is… Podcast

Charli Shanta
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The GAG is" is a powerful podcast that takes you on a journey through the life of a remarkable black woman who defied the odds. Charli Shanta became a teen mom and a widow by 21. Now in her mid 30’s life has been unpredictable, she’s faced unimaginable adversity yet she's never given up. Join Charli as she shares her inspiring story, offering a message of resilience and hope even if it isn’t always perfect. Discover that even in the darkest times there are better days ahead. Laughter can always follow tears. Connect with Me!Email: TheGagIsPod@gmail.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thegagispod/

  1. 2d ago

    Stop Mocking Grief

    Send us Fan Mail Grief doesn’t end after the funeral—and neither do the opinions, comments, and unsolicited advice. In this video, I’m having a real conversation about **life after losing my husband**, what grief looks like when everyone else has gone back to their normal lives, and what it’s like grieving in the age of social media. I’m talking about: 💔 Life after losing my husband 📱 Grief and social media 🗣️ The unsolicited advice people give widows 🕊️ What happens after the funeral 🤖 AI-generated grief videos ❓ Why people are creating AI content using those who have passed away 🚫 When remembrance crosses the line into disrespect This is my experience, my perspective, and a conversation I believe deserves to be had. 💬 **JOIN THE CONVERSATION:** Have you ever received unsolicited advice while grieving? And how do you feel about AI-generated videos of people who have passed away? Please keep the comments respectful. Grief looks different for everyone. Support the show Follow us on Instagram! @thegagispod Email: TheGagIsPod@gmail.com

  2. Jul 31

    The Comeback After Grief

    Send us Fan Mail Finding out the truth about your spouse’s death should never happen through a random YouTube video. After months away from the mic, I’m back to explain why the break lasted so long and what it cost me to get here mentally, emotionally, and physically. This is a raw return episode about grief, trauma, and what it looks like when life keeps swinging even after you’re already down.   I walk through a brutal stretch that includes a lingering breakup, discovering public content that shared details about my husband’s death without my permission, and the spiral that followed when I went searching for answers. We talk about the ethics of telling someone else’s tragedy, the rage that comes with realizing people can profit off pain, and the gut-level question that won’t let go: how does the world get the full story before the wife does? If you’re navigating widowhood, complicated grief, PTSD symptoms, or the heavy mix of sadness and anger, you’ll hear the parts people usually keep quiet.   And because real life doesn’t pause for heartbreak, we also get into the stack of stress that hit next: a scary allergic reaction, the weight of holidays and anniversaries, and why therapy became non-negotiable for me. There’s even a “you can’t make this up” moment with a lawn guy who stopped cutting my grass after I turned him down, because sometimes the absurd shows up right alongside the pain. If you’ve been trying to rebuild after loss, this one is for you. Subscribe, share with a friend, and leave a review so more people who need this kind of honesty can find us. Support the show Follow us on Instagram! @thegagispod Email: TheGagIsPod@gmail.com

  3. 11/07/2025

    Simplify the Holidays: Spending with Intention

    Send us Fan Mail This episode helps you reset holiday expectations and build a simple, firm budget that keeps stress low while making space for meaningful traditions and lasting experiences. We’ll walk through practical steps like using cash envelopes, safe shopping habits, and decluttering before buying, plus ways to teach kids the value of experiences over quick thrills like game skins. What We Cover: Setting a clear family budget and spending capsAvoiding swipe traps and “small discount” luresUsing cash envelopes and safe shopping strategiesDecluttering closets before adding moreBalancing fairness without overspending per childChoosing experiences over piles of giftsTeaching long-term value vs. temporary buysShopping early and skipping panic purchasesGiving within your means (and supporting Angel Tree)Setting healthy expectations with kids and partners🎧 Don’t forget to like, follow, and subscribe so you’ll be the first to know when new episodes drop! Support the show Follow us on Instagram! @thegagispod Email: TheGagIsPod@gmail.com

  4. 10/31/2025

    Trick-or-Treat Tactics

    Send us Fan Mail It’s our 75th episode and a Halloween special with Pink Lady vibes! We’re keeping trick-or-treat night fun, safe, and full of memories that last longer than the candy stash. From planning well-lit walking routes and setting curfews to reflective gear, breathable costumes, and why closed-toe shoes beat Crocs on a debris-filled sidewalk — we cover it all. We talk group coordination, AirTags, candy-check rules that actually work, and how to handle the “just one more house” negotiations. Plus, a quick word on driver awareness at dusk, the teen driver pause, natural bug sprays, and our annual Sonic 50-cent corn dog tradition. Stick around for laughs, a mosquito saga, and a “Thriller” lyric nod to close out this milestone night. 🧡 Please like, share, and subscribe on your favorite podcast app. 📺 Follow us on YouTube & Instagram at @theggispod. 📬 Send your comments to thegguspod@gmail.com — and don’t forget to leave a five-star review! Support the show Follow us on Instagram! @thegagispod Email: TheGagIsPod@gmail.com

  5. 10/24/2025

    Parent Burnout

    Send us Fan Mail We get honest about parent burnout—how the school year, sports, injuries, and constant driving can erase sleep, joy, and any sense of self. We share practical ways to set limits, protect rest, and stop out-parenting other parents so we can show up whole. • naming the signs of burnout and sleep debt • rethinking youth sports time and travel demands • choosing meets and commitments with intention • swapping vices for real recovery habits • using a village for rides and logistics • setting clear boundaries and saying no • communicating needs and limits to kids • giving yourself grace without guilt • simple routines for wind-down and better sleep Please make sure you are liking, sharing, and subscribing on your favorite podcasting app. Make sure you're following us on YouTube at the gag is pot and on Instagram with the same handle. Make sure you leave a review—five stars—because this podcast is the bomb. Support the show Follow us on Instagram! @thegagispod Email: TheGagIsPod@gmail.com

  6. 10/17/2025

    School-Year Family Time, Simplified

    Send us Fan Mail We share simple, real ways to build quality family time during the school year—car chats with the radio off, no-phone dinners, and small rituals that help kids feel seen. From pumpkin nights to pool dares to a heart-racing driving lesson, we show how micro moments add up. • why quality beats quantity for family time • car conversations as a safe space • dinner as a no‑tech zone with Jeopardy • easy traditions like pumpkin painting and food bars • simple games over long, draining ones • mixing spontaneity with consistency • easing test season stress with warmth and humor • visible calendars and kid input for buy‑in • giving yourself grace when weeks are heavy • the teen driving story that became family lore Please make sure you like, share, and you subscribe Please make sure you are following us on YouTube at the gag is pod Episodes in the video form are released on Saturday Support the show Follow us on Instagram! @thegagispod Email: TheGagIsPod@gmail.com

  7. 09/26/2025

    How to Help Your Child Make Friends (parenting tips for kids’ social skills)

    Send us Fan Mail Friendships can make or break the school years—and as parents, we want to help our kids build healthy connections. In this video, we’ll cover why social skills are so important, green flags and red flags in friendships, and practical parenting tips to guide your child without forcing socialization. You’ll learn: ✔️ How to help your child make friends naturally ✔️ The signs of healthy friendships (green flags) ✔️ Red flags like jealousy, criticism, or peer pressure ✔️ How to teach kids social skills like respect, boundaries, and forgiveness ✔️ When parents should step in—and when to let kids work things out Whether your child is shy, struggling with peer pressure, or just learning how to build strong friendships, this video will give you the tools to raise socially smart, confident kids. ✨ Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share for more parenting tips! #ParentingTips #KidsSocialSkills #MakingFriends #ChildDevelopment #PositiveParenting Support the show Follow us on Instagram! @thegagispod Email: TheGagIsPod@gmail.com

  8. 09/19/2025

    Creating Effective Homework Spaces: Tips for Academic Success

    Send us Fan Mail We explore essential back-to-school strategies for parents navigating the transition from summer to the academic year, with practical tips for creating successful homework routines and balancing academics with extracurricular activities. • Create a dedicated homework space free from distractions with good lighting • Consider adding ambient elements like fish tanks, instrumental music, or essential oils to enhance focus • Determine the optimal time for homework based on your child's schedule and energy levels • Make yourself available during homework time to answer questions or provide guidance • Don't hesitate to reach out to teachers when your child doesn't understand an assignment • Always prioritize academics over athletics, even when sports are important • Establish consequences for missed assignments, including limiting electronics until work is complete Make sure you subscribe and hit that notification bell so every time a new episode is released, you are one of the first to get it. Tell your friends and family because we've got good information you can use each and every day. Support the show Follow us on Instagram! @thegagispod Email: TheGagIsPod@gmail.com

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The GAG is" is a powerful podcast that takes you on a journey through the life of a remarkable black woman who defied the odds. Charli Shanta became a teen mom and a widow by 21. Now in her mid 30’s life has been unpredictable, she’s faced unimaginable adversity yet she's never given up. Join Charli as she shares her inspiring story, offering a message of resilience and hope even if it isn’t always perfect. Discover that even in the darkest times there are better days ahead. Laughter can always follow tears. Connect with Me!Email: TheGagIsPod@gmail.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thegagispod/

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  • Creator
    Charli Shanta
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    78
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 The Gag is… Podcast
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