For a long time, the church has assumed that if people just receive the right teaching, real transformation will follow. But this conversation pushes back on that idea in a big way. Michael Sullivant joins Brandon and Jen to explore what happens when brain science, attachment theory, and spiritual formation are brought into the same room. They unpack how the human brain was designed for belonging, why attachment is central to identity, and how emotional and relational maturity have too often been separated from spiritual maturity. The conversation moves into the difference between left-brained information and right-brained formation, how trauma leaves unfinished stories in people, and why joy is not a side issue but a major part of becoming like Christ. Michael also shares practical rhythms that can help rewire the brain toward peace, gratitude, and deeper connection with God and community. This one gets into discipleship, healing, joy, trauma, gratitude, group identity, healthy correction, and why the church may be overdue for a relational reformation. https://radiusministries.orghttps://lifemodelworks.org/ App on Apple Store- Hearing Heart - icon for app looks like episode graphic Books Mentioned-https://amzn.to/47Mb2BShttps://amzn.to/4c2msnyhttps://amzn.to/3Q1PMlt To get links to the Free books Michael mentioned- email sandy@unrefinedpodcast.com Timestamps:00:00:51 Why information alone does not create maturity00:03:17 Michael Sullivan’s background and conversion story00:07:57 From church leadership to Life Model Works and Radius Ministries00:10:19 What Radius Ministries does00:13:00 What neurotheology means00:15:07 Defining attachment and why it matters00:17:31 Attachment love and the image of God00:19:55 Adoption, belonging, and relational need00:22:19 Marriage, attachment, and why people matter most00:24:44 Attachment, addiction, and the right hemisphere00:26:52 Attachment to God and attachment to community00:29:09 Emotional maturity and spiritual maturity belong together00:31:32 Why the right hemisphere matters in discipleship00:33:56 Trauma as an unfinished story00:36:15 How to begin building healthy attachment with God00:38:40 Gratitude as a practice that rewires the brain00:41:06 Greeting, joy, and golden memories00:43:27 Golden memories and recognizing God’s presence00:45:54 Joy, sacred moments, and God memories00:48:17 Revisiting meaningful moments with Jesus00:50:39 Why feelings matter more than many Christians were taught00:53:00 Log jams, deep healing, and releasing what is already in us00:55:20 What it looks like to practice the disciplines of joy00:57:43 Love as gladness to be with someone01:00:09 Group identity and healthy correction01:02:34 Joy resistance and starting small01:05:00 Joy capacity and contagious peace01:06:58 Regulating the right hemisphere and identity practice01:09:23 Tongues, trust, and right-brain spirituality01:11:47 Five minutes of gratitude three times a day01:14:10 Trauma, fear, and the Holy Spirit as the spirit of mental health01:17:28 Jesus in the trauma story01:19:52 Humility, healing, and rich soil01:22:15 Relational reformation and the future of the church01:26:40 Recommended books and resources