Unsaid: Conversations We Avoid

Ntokozo Miya
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Unsaid: Conversations We Avoid is a space where healing meets honesty — a soft, soul-deep podcast that feels like sitting in a late-night therapy session with the version of you who finally stopped running. Guided by Ntokozo Miya — healer, storyteller, mirror — each episode unfolds like a real conversation between therapist and client, unveiling the emotional flashbacks, abandonment wounds, childhood echoes, and survival patterns we often dismiss as “just who I am.” Unsaid invites you to stop performing healing — and finally start doing it. Come as you are. Leave a little lighter.

الحلقات

  1. ٧ يناير

    Episode 10: Being Seen vs Being Chosen

    Sometimes people see you — your beauty, your effort, your potential — but still don’t choose you. And that truth hurts. This episode explores the quiet difference between visibility and reciprocity. Between being admired and being met. Between performing for recognition and standing in alignment. We unpack what it means to stop chasing attention and start embodying worth. To stop seeking validation from those who only visit your light, and start aligning with the spaces that can hold it. Because being seen feeds the ego — but being chosen nourishes the soul. And when you finally choose yourself, the Universe begins to, too. https://drive.google.com/file/d/1m_565_ofSwyVwLSuai8V6R6RJqDyVMBc/view?usp=drivesdk

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    Episode 9: Healing Doesn’t Mean Reconciliation

    There’s a quiet grief that comes with realizing that healing doesn’t always mean things go back to how they were. Sometimes, the most loving thing you can do is not return — not because you’re bitter, but because you’ve finally made peace with what can’t be repaired. In this episode of Unsaid: Conversations We Avoid, we unpack the difference between healing and reconciliation. We talk about why peace doesn’t always require proximity, why forgiveness isn’t permission, and how choosing yourself isn’t selfish — it’s sacred. This is for anyone who’s been told that forgiveness means going back, that love means endurance, or that closure can only happen together. Because the truth is: your healing doesn’t need witnesses. Accountability Prompts https://drive.google.com/file/d/1Bo38anuzG3RvVZH7CGllHbgwz8bAYZeV/view?usp=drivesdk

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    Episode 8: Peace isn’t passive - it’s a boundary

    Welcome home. In this week’s episode of Unsafe Conversations We Avoid, we explore the truth that peace isn’t about silence or avoidance — it’s about clarity and protection. Too often, peace is mistaken for shrinking, for keeping the peace at your own expense. But what if peace was something stronger? What if peace was a boundary that shields your energy, your softness, and your sanity? Join me as we unpack the quiet strength of peace — how it asks for courage, how it costs us comfort, and how it expands beyond self-preservation into collective healing. This episode is an invitation to stop performing calmness and start practicing protection. Accountability Prompts/ Homework https://drive.google.com/file/d/1hpGAc82ugkiGpUQdJ29dZVBSn49fgvIk/view?usp=drivesdk

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    Episode 7: Anger isn’t ugly, it’s information

    Anger has been painted as dangerous, destructive, even unfeminine. But what if we stopped shaming it and started listening to it? In this episode of Unsafe Conversations We Avoid, we unpack how anger is not a flaw to fix but a signal to explore. Together, we’ll look at the ways society has taught us to silence our anger—especially as women—and how we can instead honor it as a compass pointing toward unmet needs, broken boundaries, and spaces that call for healing. https://drive.google.com/file/d/12crQ06kNZUI01-myf167g73x6POnvZNw/view?usp=drivesdk

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    Episode 6: Joy After Survival

    In this week’s episode of Conversations We Avoid, we sit with the truth that survival is not the finish line—it’s just the beginning. Too often, we carry the weight of our past battles as if that’s all we’ll ever be: survivors. But joy after survival asks us to risk more, to soften, to open our hands to life again. It’s about practicing joy as a discipline, even when the world has taught us to brace for the worst. Together, we’ll explore what it means to not just endure but to live, to celebrate the smallest victories, and to remember that joy isn’t frivolous—it’s necessary. https://drive.google.com/file/d/1cvEX04SkFehQFOGAstzCPbW5gf_3Y00u/view?usp=drivesdk

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    Episode 5: The Apology You’ll Never Get

    In this episode of Unsaid: Conversations We Avoid, we sit with the pain of waiting for words that may never come. The apology you’re holding out for — the one that would make it all make sense, that would finally validate your story — may never arrive. But healing isn’t in their hands, it’s in yours. Together, we’ll explore what it means to grieve the apology you’ll never get, and how to release yourself into freedom, peace, and self-validation. https://drive.google.com/file/d/19rwZm3YbL4eFgBcErjLMTsghRE6ofufJ/view?usp=drivesdk

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    EPISODE 4: “The Weight of Being the Strong One”

    In this episode of Unsaid: Conversations We Avoid, we sit with the hidden cost of being “the strong one.” The dependable friend. The one who always has it together. The one everyone leans on, but who has nowhere to lean themselves. We’ll explore how strength becomes a mask, why it often leads to silence and loneliness, and what it means to finally put the weight down. This episode is a reminder that strength isn’t about carrying it all — it’s about letting yourself be human, too. https://drive.google.com/file/d/1iYpRlodMuj4osAwOkVl777Kn4CliXJsB/view?usp=drivesdk

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    Episode 3: “Letting go” isn’t betrayal, it’s responsibility

    In this episode of Unsaid: Conversations We Avoid, we explore the weight of letting go — not as an act of betrayal, but as a deep form of responsibility to ourselves. Sometimes choosing distance, silence, or release is the most honest way to honor our growth. We’ll talk about the guilt that often follows, why responsibility can feel like abandonment, and how to reframe letting go as an act of care rather than a wound.

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    Episode 2: Victimhood is a Drug

    Episode 2 – Victimhood is a Drug In this episode of Anti-Age: Conversations We Avoid, I unpack the seductive pull of staying in victim mode. We talk about how pain can become an identity, why it feels easier to sit in “what happened to me” instead of “what can I do now,” and the hidden ways victimhood robs you of growth, joy, and self-respect. This isn’t about dismissing real pain — it’s about refusing to live addicted to it. If you’ve ever caught yourself repeating the same story, waiting for the world to save you, or measuring your worth by your wounds, this one is for you. Please do check the accountability prompts below: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1juj9wcMFwhyXxrLkSVXO54oPUeci91HY/view?usp=drivesdk

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  10. Episode 1: If everyone triggers you, the wound is yours

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    Episode 1: If everyone triggers you, the wound is yours

    Unsaid invites you to stop performing healing - and finally start doing it Come as you are Leave a little lighter We say the things we’ve avoided, because healing is the truth In this episode, we open the door to what’s been sitting heavy on the chest. Disrespect. Boundaries. Self-betrayal. This is the conversation you’ve been having with yourself in silence. Let’s say it out loud, together. https://drive.google.com/file/d/12ezhmI3aO4SmXiC8dDUTTnsbhGzjmn7i/view?usp=drivesdk%20

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Unsaid: Conversations We Avoid is a space where healing meets honesty — a soft, soul-deep podcast that feels like sitting in a late-night therapy session with the version of you who finally stopped running. Guided by Ntokozo Miya — healer, storyteller, mirror — each episode unfolds like a real conversation between therapist and client, unveiling the emotional flashbacks, abandonment wounds, childhood echoes, and survival patterns we often dismiss as “just who I am.” Unsaid invites you to stop performing healing — and finally start doing it. Come as you are. Leave a little lighter.

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