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Episodes

  1. 11/26/2018

    Personal Transformation, what is behind these sexy words : are you a Victim of your Subconscious programs?

    No matter what I do it often seems like I keep on recreating the same patterns – in career, business, health, relationships. It feels like I take one step forward, but then invisible forces pull me two steps backward to my old habits and worn out ways of being… Does it sound familiar to you? Maybe you have read some self-help books, watched youtube videos, even attended personal development seminars, but somehow it does not bring long-lasting, sustainable results. The invisible forces that are pulling you back are your subconscious beliefs & programs. There is a huge area of things we don’t know we don’t know, which end up running our lives; subconscious programs are in this area. They are blind spots we often have no idea we have, but they are responsible for 95% of the outcomes until we bring them to our conscious awareness. If you have noticed a certain pattern in any area of your life, which is repeating itself, pay close attention. There might be an unseen, default program which is running this area. In the second part of ”Personal Transformation, what is behind these sexy words” Podcast my guest, Richard, is sharing his unique experience of uncovering & reprogramming his unconscious programs.   The post Personal Transformation, what is behind these sexy words : are you a Victim of your Subconscious programs? appeared first on Upgreatable.

    47 min
  2. 02/24/2018

    Why we are obsessed with changing others?

    Episode Highlights: Relationships are mirrors that can serve to show us things about ourselves that can be realized in no other way. What you see in another and don’t like most probably exists in you in some form Growth partnerships are our most challenging relationships. They help us bring to the surface our own incomplete parts, what we are committed to in the relationships; at the same time, they help us to fulfill our purpose, such as understanding, patience, compassion Most of the time when we point at another we project our own insecurities, beliefs, stories,,,our own b******t. We are very good at turning around any situation to validate our own commitments Most of the time if we struggle in relationships we run away, close up or try to change another We are obsessed with changing others. But can we accept and love the idea that people are different? That they are coming from different backgrounds, families, have gone through different experiences that shaped who they are Every person is going through his perfect evolution process. Honor his choices. If you want to help him accept, support and love him the way he is and see what will happen We love criticizing and blaming our parents for not raising us ”in a right way”. What if we can filter the way they behave with us, what they advise us through the eyes of love? What if it’s the only way they know how to show they love you? Never say to another he/she need to change or fix something; what you will get in return is their resistance. If you want to support your friend, family member, partner create safe space, allow him/her to be as he/she is. We all need safe space to open up, to be heard and loved   The post Why we are obsessed with changing others? appeared first on Upgreatable.

    43 min
  3. 02/14/2018

    Why do we keep on reliving same relationships patterns?

    Episode highlights: We unconsciously gravitate towards partners that we find familiar, who cause us to feel the same type of emotions. Subconsciously somebody who will appear to be outside of our ‘’type’’ we will find unattractive. It’s becoming our subconscious habit. ‘’Good guy’’ or ‘’Good girl’’ might be not that boring at the end:)  Same types of relationships make us to relive the same type of emotions over and over again. We are becoming addicted to them. Being unaware of it we attract the same type of relationships to get a bit more of the same drug  Often the roots of our relationships patterns lie in our childhood. We replicate the relationship our parent had between themselves or the relationship we had with one of our parents  Our relationships, especially, the most difficult ones are our greatest gifts. They show us what do we need to heal, accept and love more about ourselves  Our partners only triggers in us what we have incomplete about ourselves  It’s our body, unconscious, who chooses our romantic partners, because it knows what within us need to be healed and who can help to bring it to the surface. Our mind will judge our choices  We tend to bring our unresolved issues from the past in the new relationships. We see ‘’ex’’ traits in a person who has nothing in common with our ‘’ex’’. We bring our old programming to new relationships. Unaware, we always want to validate our story about the relationship is true  Having incomplete parts about ourselves, we behave as an upset child, we bring our ‘’hurt’’ in the relationships. Our partners do the same. Create ‘’safe’’ environment and allow your partner to go through his/her own experience to complete what he/she needs to complete. All we want is to share openly in a safe environment  The greatest healer is to feel everything. Many of us find distractions not to do so (alcohol, sex, parties, working extra hard…you name it), recreating same patterns, same experiences  Pain is not a bad thing, but part of the healing process, agent of change  The more you learn to love yourself, the better relationships you will attract     The post Why do we keep on reliving same relationships patterns? appeared first on Upgreatable.

    43 min

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