So Hard - A Sexuality Podcast for Men

Justina Victoria
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https://beacons.ai/justinavictoriaWelcome to "So Hard," the podcast that gives guidance on all matters of the male heart, hosted by Justina Victoria, Psychosexual Expert for Men and Couples. This podcast aims to guide men on a journey of self-discovery, healing, strong mental health and fulfillment in love and life. We cover unique topics like the principles of seduction, elevated masturbation, nervous system regulation, unblending from destructive narratives, sexual anxieties, healing insecure attachment (anxious preoccupied, dismissive avoidant, fearful avoidant), meditation, elevated states of consciousness, masculine & feminine energy dynamics, spiritual sexuality (and everything in between! 😜), erectile dysfunction, sex & money, obstacles in dating & relationships and the issues that are unique to men.  But we don't stop there. "So Hard" takes a bold step into the realm of manifestation for men (created by Justina), empowering you to shape your reality with the power of Quantum Physics. Explore the transformative potential of manifesting desires in relationships, career, and personal growth. Whether you're seeking healing, looking to redefine your relationships, or eager to understand the nuances of male sexuality, this podcast is here to guide you on a journey that's rewarding, fascinating, and, indeed, so damn hard. Welcome to a space where men can explore, grow, and embrace the full spectrum of their being with Justina Victoria. 

  1. 6月3日

    Use this Formula to Drastically Change Your Life or Completely Resolve Anxious Attachment

    Send us a text In this episode, I’m sharing the exact 4-part formula I use to change literally anything in my life — and in my clients’ lives and today we’re applying it to one of the hardest things to deal with: anxious attachment. I’ll break down each step — Scripting, Challenge, Manage, and Convince — and show you how to actually use them to rewire your thoughts, your nervous system, and the way you show up in your relationships. You’ll hear: Why most people fail at change and how to fix itHow to stop self-sabotage when your resistance kicks inThe missing piece to finally feeling secure in loveA practice you can do to build tolerance for uncertainty (the core issue behind anxious attachment)If you’ve ever felt stuck in cycles of worry, fear of rejection, or needing reassurance — this is the formula to finally resolve it. Learn more about my work here: www.JustinaVictoria.com Schedule a free consult: https://calendly.com/justinavictoria/phone-consultation

    37 分钟

  2. 5月29日

    The Madonna-Whore Complex

    Send us a text Schedule a Free Consultation:  https://calendly.com/justinavictoria/phone-consultation Client Reviews:  https://www.justinavictoria.com/post/client-testimonials How to Pleasure a Woman Like an Expert ($17):  https://square.link/u/ZXrSSFap Get my Solution for Erectile Dysfunction & Performance Anxiety ($250): https://justinavictoriavip.my.canva.site/erectdt Free Resources:  https://www.justinavictoria.com/post/free-resources Learn More About Me:  www.JustinaVictoria.com 😇😈The “Madonna–Whore” Complex (Explained)  If you can’t seem to lust after the woman you love… If intimacy turns you off… If you feel guilt, revulsion, or confusion during sex with your partner— You may be caught in the Madonna–Whore complex. This psychological split says: 😇 The Madonna — safe, nurturing, “wifey material”… but not sexy. 😈The Whore — wild, erotic, desired… but not someone you could love. ✨ Women are either to be loved… or to be desired. Not both. She’s either the nurturing, safe Madonna—too pure to want… Or the seductive, sexual Whore—too dirty to love. When you’re stuck in this split, you might: → Feel guilty or disconnected during sex → Fantasize about women who are not your partner → Shut down in intimacy, even when you care deeply → Confuse love with boredom, or desire with danger Somewhere along the way, the nervous system got the message that sex is sinful, dark, dirty and should not be associated with love, connection and attachment. That it can taint the value of someone or something pure. In this podcast episode, I break down: 🔹 What the Madonna–Whore complex is 🔹 Why some men shut down sexually when they meet the “one” 🔹 The exact formula I use with my clients to completely resolve this issue Learn more about my work here: www.JustinaVictoria.com Schedule a free consult: https://calendly.com/justinavictoria/phone-consultation

    43 分钟

  3. 5月22日

    This Mens' Dating Coach Really Pissed Me Off

    Send us a text Schedule a Free Consultation:  https://calendly.com/justinavictoria/phone-consultation Client Reviews:  https://www.justinavictoria.com/post/client-testimonials How to Pleasure a Woman Like an Expert ($17):  https://square.link/u/ZXrSSFap Get my Solution for Erectile Dysfunction & Performance Anxiety ($250): https://justinavictoriavip.my.canva.site/erectdt Free Resources:  https://www.justinavictoria.com/post/free-resources Learn More About Me:  www.JustinaVictoria.com In this episode, Justina Victoria calls out toxic dating advice that blames men for attracting “low quality women.” She breaks down why this kind of messaging is not only harmful, but completely misses the point. Attraction isn’t about fault — it’s about familiarity, nervous system wiring, and the unconscious patterns formed in childhood. Justina dives into how trauma, invalidated needs, and a lack of attunement growing up shape our adult relationships, motivation, and self-worth. This episode is a deep reminder that healing doesn’t come from shame — it comes from understanding the why behind our patterns, and reclaiming our power through compassion and nervous system repair. Topics Covered: The problem with labeling people as “low quality” Why attraction is based on familiarity, not fault How childhood programming shapes adult relationships The role of subconscious patterns in dating Why “discipline issues” are often trauma responses The nervous system’s impact on motivation and achievement The importance of attunement and co-regulation in early life Learn more about my work here: www.JustinaVictoria.com Schedule a free consult: https://calendly.com/justinavictoria/phone-consultation

    30 分钟

  4. 4月25日

    These 2 Clients Had Performance Anxiety. Now They Don't.

    Send us a text Schedule a Free Consultation:  https://calendly.com/justinavictoria/phone-consultation Client Reviews:  https://www.justinavictoria.com/post/client-testimonials How to Pleasure a Woman Like an Expert ($17):  https://square.link/u/ZXrSSFap Get my Solution for Erectile Dysfunction & Performance Anxiety ($250): https://justinavictoriavip.my.canva.site/erectdt Free Resources:  https://www.justinavictoria.com/post/free-resources Learn More About Me:  www.JustinaVictoria.com In this episode of The So Hard Podcast, I'm sharing two real stories from men I’ve worked with who overcame performance anxiety in different ways. The first client was thrown into seven months of sexual shutdown and overthinking after a single, devastating comment from his partner—made worse by his anxious attachment style. The second, an experienced man with a rich sexual history, found himself frozen when he finally met someone who truly mattered. You'll hear how we unpacked the root causes of their anxiety, how attachment styles can intensify sexual fear. We'll dive deep into how nervous system healing is essential for lasting change, and how vulnerability, communication, and boundaries are the real superpowers in love and intimacy. If you’re struggling with performance anxiety, erectile dysfunction, anxious thoughts, or just want a deeper understanding of the nervous system’s role in your sex life—this episode is for you. 🔗 Get access to my ERECT digital training, free nervous system resources, and more at www.JustinaVictoria.com Learn more about my work here: www.JustinaVictoria.com Schedule a free consult: https://calendly.com/justinavictoria/phone-consultation

    24 分钟

  5. 4月7日

    This is Your Brain on Childhood Trauma

    Send us a text Schedule a Free Consultation:  https://calendly.com/justinavictoria/phone-consultation Client Reviews:  https://www.justinavictoria.com/post/client-testimonials How to Pleasure a Woman Like an Expert ($17):  https://square.link/u/ZXrSSFap Get my Solution for Erectile Dysfunction & Performance Anxiety ($250): https://justinavictoriavip.my.canva.site/erectdt Free Resources:  https://www.justinavictoria.com/post/free-resources Learn More About Me:  www.JustinaVictoria.com Think trauma means something awful had to happen to you? Nope.  We’ll unpack: Why trauma isn't an "event" and why it's my biggest pet peeve How your brain wires itself around consistent stressWhy you shut down, overthink, disconnect, or rage — and how it’s not your fault (but is your responsibility)And how to finally rewire your system so you can be happy in life and love. This episode is a call-out and a lifeline. Because that’s what I do — I help men stop suffering in silence and actually heal. You're not broken. You're dysregulated. And that can change.  Learn more about my work here: www.JustinaVictoria.com Schedule a free consult: https://calendly.com/justinavictoria/phone-consultation

    33 分钟

  6. 4月2日

    I Saved a Marriage in 3 Weeks

    Send us a text Schedule a Free Consultation:  https://calendly.com/justinavictoria/phone-consultation Client Reviews:  https://www.justinavictoria.com/post/client-testimonials How to Pleasure a Woman Like an Expert ($17):  https://square.link/u/ZXrSSFap Get my Solution for Erectile Dysfunction & Performance Anxiety ($250): https://justinavictoriavip.my.canva.site/erectdt Free Resources:  https://www.justinavictoria.com/post/free-resources Learn More About Me:  www.JustinaVictoria.com In this episode of The So Hard Podcast, I’m sharing the exact process I used to help a couple on the brink of divorce completely turn things around—in just three weeks. She was one of my very first clients over a decade ago. They’ve come back to me over the years when things got tough, but this time, she messaged me saying it was over. Divorce papers were coming. What happened next was a masterclass in how powerful it is to meet each other's needs, communicate clearly, and commit to doing the uncomfortable things that keep love alive. Inside, I break down: What trust in a relationship actually means (hint: it’s not just about cheating).Why unmet needs cause people to shut down, fight, or stray.The exact weekly steps I gave them that brought them from “it’s over” to 50% happier in just two weeks.How receiving love can feel uncomfortable—and what to do when you hit that ceiling.Why the thing you avoid most is probably the very thing that will change everything.Whether you’re single, dating, or in a long-term relationship, this episode will help you understand the inner mechanics of lasting connection—and how to shift your love life starting now. Learn more about my work here: www.JustinaVictoria.com Schedule a free consult: https://calendly.com/justinavictoria/phone-consultation

    32 分钟

  7. 3月25日

    Supernatural Facts About the Heart That Will Blow Your Mind and Change Your life

    Send us a text Schedule a Free Consultation:  https://calendly.com/justinavictoria/phone-consultation Client Reviews:  https://www.justinavictoria.com/post/client-testimonials How to Pleasure a Woman Like an Expert ($17):  https://square.link/u/ZXrSSFap Get my Solution for Erectile Dysfunction & Performance Anxiety ($250): https://justinavictoriavip.my.canva.site/erectdt Free Resources:  https://www.justinavictoria.com/post/free-resources Learn More About Me:  www.JustinaVictoria.com There’s a side of your heart you were never taught about. The measurable, science-backed, supernatural intelligence built into your biology. In this episode, I’m breaking down mind-blowing truths about the human heart — the kind that shift how you lead, connect, heal, and operate as a man. You’ll learn: Why your heart has its own neural network — and can make decisions faster than your brainThe experiment that proved your heart can sense future events before they happenHow a 10-minute practice can boost your immune system by 49% or moreWhy your heart emits an electromagnetic field 5,000x stronger than your brain’s — and how it affects everyone around youHow elevated emotions like gratitude and love reprogram your biology Backed by science from the HeartMath Institute and Dr. Joe Dispenza, this episode bridges ancient wisdom and modern neuroscience to show you the supernatural truth of who you really are.  References:  Armour, J. A. (1991). Anatomical and functional evidence for a “heart brain.” Journal of Neurocardiology. ↳ Describes the intrinsic cardiac nervous system and its ability to process information independently from the brain. McCraty, R., & Childre, D. (2010). Coherence: Bridging Personal, Social, and Global Health. Alternative Therapies in Health and Medicine. ↳ Shows how heart coherence influences higher brain function and emotional regulation. McCraty, R., Atkinson, M., & Tomasino, D. (2001). Science of the Heart. HeartMath Institute Research Center. ↳ Shows how the heart emits the largest electromagnetic field in the body, and how it reflects emotional states. Rollin McCraty et al. (2004). The Energetic Heart: Bioelectromagnetic Communication Within and Between People. ↳ Discusses how the heart’s field can influence others and extend several feet from the body. McCraty, R., Atkinson, M., & Bradley, R. T. (2004). Electrophysiological Evidence of Intuition: Part 1. The Surprising Role of the Heart. Journal of Alternative and Complementary Medicine. ↳ Demonstrated that the heart responds to emotionally charged stimuli before the brain or body — 4–6 seconds prior.  “Science of the Heart” (HeartMath Institute, 2022 edition) Available at: heartmath.org/research/science-of-the-heart It’s packed with direct citations, visuals, and summaries of decades of peer-reviewed data.  https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S2666354623000893#abs0015 Learn more about my work here: www.JustinaVictoria.com Schedule a free consult: https://calendly.com/justinavictoria/phone-consultation

    35 分钟

  8. 3月18日

    The Ultimate Sexual Experience: Sex as a Portal to Higher Consciousness

    Send us a text Schedule a Free Consultation:  https://calendly.com/justinavictoria/phone-consultation Client Reviews:  https://www.justinavictoria.com/post/client-testimonials How to Pleasure a Woman Like an Expert ($17):  https://square.link/u/ZXrSSFap Get my Solution for Erectile Dysfunction & Performance Anxiety ($250): https://justinavictoriavip.my.canva.site/erectdt Free Resources:  https://www.justinavictoria.com/post/free-resources Learn More About Me:  www.JustinaVictoria.com Learn more about my work here: www.JustinaVictoria.com Schedule a free consult: https://calendly.com/justinavictoria/phone-consultation

    33 分钟
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https://beacons.ai/justinavictoriaWelcome to "So Hard," the podcast that gives guidance on all matters of the male heart, hosted by Justina Victoria, Psychosexual Expert for Men and Couples. This podcast aims to guide men on a journey of self-discovery, healing, strong mental health and fulfillment in love and life. We cover unique topics like the principles of seduction, elevated masturbation, nervous system regulation, unblending from destructive narratives, sexual anxieties, healing insecure attachment (anxious preoccupied, dismissive avoidant, fearful avoidant), meditation, elevated states of consciousness, masculine & feminine energy dynamics, spiritual sexuality (and everything in between! 😜), erectile dysfunction, sex & money, obstacles in dating & relationships and the issues that are unique to men.  But we don't stop there. "So Hard" takes a bold step into the realm of manifestation for men (created by Justina), empowering you to shape your reality with the power of Quantum Physics. Explore the transformative potential of manifesting desires in relationships, career, and personal growth. Whether you're seeking healing, looking to redefine your relationships, or eager to understand the nuances of male sexuality, this podcast is here to guide you on a journey that's rewarding, fascinating, and, indeed, so damn hard. Welcome to a space where men can explore, grow, and embrace the full spectrum of their being with Justina Victoria. 

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