Virago 24/7

Lyanette Talley

Virago 24/7 is a podcast for women who are done shrinking. I’m your host, Lyanette Talley—mother, wife, truth-teller, and warrior in progress.Here is where we unlearn silence, honor our roots, and reclaim our voices.We talk real life—identity, marriage, motherhood, leadership, and healing—with boldness and truth. If you’ve ever been told you’re too loud, too much, or too ambitious...You’re exactly where you need to be.This is everyday growth. Everyday healing. For everyday warriors.We’re not shrinking. We’re taking up space.

  1. FEB 4

    Peace Starts Inside

    What if peace isn’t something we pursue out there, but something we practice inside our own bodies first? We sit down with Barbara With—composer, author, peace activist, and psychic channel—to unpack a down-to-earth process for untangling conflict by separating emotion, intuition, and intellect. Her journey from the stage to “going into the nothing” reveals how creative listening trained her to notice signals most of us ignore, and how strong boundaries keep intuitive work grounded, ethical, and useful. Barbara walks us through Conflict Revolution, a step-by-step method that starts with breath. Instead of fusing feelings with stories, you move emotion through the body, listen for a small imperative nudge of intuition, then let intellect execute what serves the good of the whole. The result is practical: family tensions soften, workplace stalemates open, and you stop outsourcing your peace to other people’s moods. We explore memorable cases—a 25-year in-law standoff, an estranged parent-child relationship—and the surprising way relationships reorganize when you change the way you treat yourself. We also dive into Barbara’s collaboration with Einstein, including a “map of human consciousness” and the idea of compassion as a fundamental force. Whether you treat these as hypothesis or metaphor, the takeaway lands the same: inner clarity creates outer change. If you’re wrestling with boundaries, prayer, or being the family “black sheep,” you’ll leave with a simple daily challenge and a hopeful lens on what’s possible when we choose compassion over ego, one baby step at a time. If this conversation sparked something, follow and share the show, leave a quick review, and invite a friend to try the Conflict Revolution challenge with you. Your next peaceful step starts now. http://www.barbarawith.com Send us a text Go to my website http://www.virago247.net for all things Virago 24/7 You can email me at virago247podcast@gmail.com Instagram: virago24_7 Facebook: Virago 24/7 Thanks for listening and don't forget to share, share, share! Everyday growth, everyday healing with everyday warriors! Music by Deli Rowe: "Space to Move" Logo by Kaylin Talley

    50 min
  2. JAN 28

    Quiet Cravings, Loud Truths

    One choice can change everything. That’s the heart of this raw, unguarded conversation about alcoholism, binge drinking, bulimia, and the quiet rituals people use to cope with pain. I, along with Briana Deck, sit down with author and coach Colleen Clifford (Life Beyond the Binge) to unpack the 95/5 factor—the idea that most drinking nights seem “fine,” but the rare wild-card moment can upend a life. Together, we draw a clear line between willpower and sustainable recovery. Colleen shares how reframing from alcohol helped her move from “I can’t” to “I don’t want it,” a mindset shift that reduced cravings and restored choice. We talk through practical tools for high-risk moments: eat before evening triggers hit, identify the people and places that spike urges, leave early when the vibe turns, and keep honest support on speed dial. The conversation widens to eating disorders and the shared roots beneath addictive patterns: dysregulated emotions, the need for control, and unresolved grief. You’ll hear a candid sobriety story marked by detoxes, anxiety, and blackouts, and the relief that comes with telling the truth, setting boundaries, and building a life you don’t want to escape. Colleen reveals why she’s shifting from coaching to speaking, with a mission to reach teens and young adults about blackouts, consent, and the hidden risks of binge culture. If you’ve ever wondered whether your relationship with alcohol is serving you, this episode offers clarity, compassion, and next steps. Listen, share it with someone who needs hope, and if the conversation resonates, follow the show, leave a five-star review, and tell us what mindset shift changed your life. Send us a text Go to my website http://www.virago247.net for all things Virago 24/7 You can email me at virago247podcast@gmail.com Instagram: virago24_7 Facebook: Virago 24/7 Thanks for listening and don't forget to share, share, share! Everyday growth, everyday healing with everyday warriors! Music by Deli Rowe: "Space to Move" Logo by Kaylin Talley

    1h 5m
  3. JAN 15

    Saving Love When Trust Breaks

    When love is on the line, panic makes smart people do reckless things. We brought in Dr. Becky Whetstone, a nationally recognized marriage crisis manager, to show how to stop the spiral, make clear choices, and protect your family whether you reconcile or part.  We walk through the moments that matter most: how to tell if change is possible, the difference between treatable issues and entrenched personality patterns, and when to pivot from repair to amicable divorce. Becky shares an approach most therapists never teach—directive, research-backed, and designed for high-stakes decisions. We also get honest about dating after divorce and the landmines of blended families. Expect practical guidance on trauma triggers, coupling errors that turn every red flag into a false alarm, and why slow, wide-sample dating leads to better partners and better selves. On stepfamilies, Becky offers hard-won insight: start as an ally, let the biological parent lead discipline, and accept that belonging takes years, not weeks. If you’re staring down infidelity, emotional shutdown, or the crossroads between repair and divorce, this conversation gives you a plan. If this helped, tap follow, share with a friend who needs it, and leave a quick review so more people can find the show. Your support helps us bring more grounded, compassionate guidance to those who need it most. https://www.marriagecrisismanager.com Book: "I (Think) I Want Out: What to do When One of You Wants to End Your Marriage" Send us a text Go to my website http://www.virago247.net for all things Virago 24/7 You can email me at virago247podcast@gmail.com Instagram: virago24_7 Facebook: Virago 24/7 Thanks for listening and don't forget to share, share, share! Everyday growth, everyday healing with everyday warriors! Music by Deli Rowe: "Space to Move" Logo by Kaylin Talley

    52 min
  4. JAN 8

    Men Of Virago Return

    The laughs hit first, but the truths land deeper. We brought the Men of Virago back to the table after a long gap to compare notes on love, loss, growth, and how to build a partnership that lasts. Justin shares career wins and the shock of discovering anxiety through therapy, Philip balances thriving work with the grief of losing loved ones, and Milky—now deep into dental school—opens up about finding love when he least expected it. From there we dive into the framework that keeps relationships steady: a soulmate list to clarify non-negotiables, core values that outlast chemistry, and the messy reality of boundaries with opposite-sex friendships. Is exchanging numbers worth the risk to trust? How does omission become a slow leak in intimacy? We don’t preach; we dissect the gray areas and offer practical rules that actually help. Radical transparency beats secrecy. Perception matters because your partner’s reality matters. If it would look shady on camera, don’t do it. We also rethink apologies and forgiveness. A quick “sorry” without changed behavior is just noise. Real repair looks like action, transparency, and the discipline not to weaponize old wounds. Emotional intelligence threads through it all—the ability to see your part in conflict, share hard truths with kindness, and choose growth over being right. We even tackle the question everyone ducks: how honest is too honest? The filter we use is simple and hard to argue with—speak the truth with love and be kind, or wait until you can. We close with what we want most for 2026: time with the people who matter, renewed purpose at work, deeper faith, better habits, and relationships we’re proud to maintain. If you’re navigating commitment, setting boundaries, or trying to repair trust, this conversation offers a clear, human roadmap for doing it with heart. If this hit home, follow the show, share it with someone you love, and leave a five-star review so more everyday warriors can find it. Send us a text Go to my website http://www.virago247.net for all things Virago 24/7 You can email me at virago247podcast@gmail.com Instagram: virago24_7 Facebook: Virago 24/7 Thanks for listening and don't forget to share, share, share! Everyday growth, everyday healing with everyday warriors! Music by Deli Rowe: "Space to Move" Logo by Kaylin Talley

    1h 25m
  5. 12/11/2025

    Legacy In The Lab

    We unpack how Mirko Beljanski’s environmental view of cancer led to selective plant extracts that target destabilized DNA, and how a SWAT raid in France sparked Sylvie Beljansky’s decades-long effort to prove, publish, and preserve this research. We share new findings on cancer stem cells, synergy with chemotherapy, and practical ways patients can access support safely and legally. • Mirko’s insight into DNA destabilization as a cancer hallmark • Targeting cancer stem cells to reduce relapse risk • The Mitterrand story, lab raid, and human rights case • Rebuilding research in the U.S. through academic partnerships • How to access products, coaching, and published studies • Book proceeds funding ongoing integrative oncology research If people are interested in learning more about this story, about the products, about the research, if they want to support the research and the natural approach to cancer, Sylvie’s book is the best way to start “Winning the War on Cancer, The Epic Journey Towards a Natural Cure.” https://www.maisonbeljanski.com/products/health-coach-services https://www.maisonbeljanski.com/products/winning-the-war-on-cancer (No promo code needed) https://www.beljanski.org/the-beljanski-approach-to-cancer-free-ebook/ Send us a text Go to my website http://www.virago247.net for all things Virago 24/7 You can email me at virago247podcast@gmail.com Instagram: virago24_7 Facebook: Virago 24/7 Thanks for listening and don't forget to share, share, share! Everyday growth, everyday healing with everyday warriors! Music by Deli Rowe: "Space to Move" Logo by Kaylin Talley

    40 min
  6. 10/29/2025

    Rise Beyond Roles

    What if the secret to thriving in a male-dominated field isn’t louder toughness, but smarter design—of your leadership style and your whole life? That’s the throughline of our conversation with author and mechanical engineer Josee Tremblay, who turned three decades in STEM into a clear playbook for women building influence, authority, and a sustainable home base. We start with the real-world frictions: job sites without women’s bathrooms, PPE that doesn’t fit, and subtle judgment that nicks confidence. Josee doesn’t romanticize it, but she doesn’t flinch either. She breaks down how copying “bro energy” often backfires and why the research points to a different lever for women in leadership: pair rock-solid competency with visible warmth. Josee also speaks on the practices that make dual-career ambition possible—aligned values with your partner, honest tradeoffs, and planning goals. She shares the tough call to leave a first marriage that couldn’t support global work, the power of choosing a growth-aligned partner, and the everyday logistics that actually move mountains. If you’re navigating STEM, leadership, or any non-traditional role, you’ll leave with tactics you can use today. Want more? Grab Josee Tremblay's book, "Us And Yet And Yet", and visit http://www.usandyet.com to join her mailing list. If this conversation helps you think braver about your path, follow the show, share it with a friend, and leave a quick review—it helps more everyday warriors find us. Send us a text Go to my website http://www.virago247.net for all things Virago 24/7 You can email me at virago247podcast@gmail.com Instagram: virago24_7 Facebook: Virago 24/7 Thanks for listening and don't forget to share, share, share! Everyday growth, everyday healing with everyday warriors! Music by Deli Rowe: "Space to Move" Logo by Kaylin Talley

    41 min
  7. 08/27/2025

    Say Anything

    Ever wonder where to draw the line between romantic pursuit and something more alarming? This raw, unfiltered episode tackles a situation that started with a casual mention on our podcast and spiraled into something much more concerning. When Lyanette received an unexpected email from someone Shiney had gone on just one date with months ago, we decided to address it head-on.  The conversation dives deep into the misconceptions about romance versus stalking, with powerful insights about personal boundaries and why they matter. We explore how seemingly innocent information shared during early dating—your city, your schedule, even your first name—can be pieced together by someone determined to find you. Lyanette's 24-year-old daughter, Kaylin, joins us midway through, offering a younger generation's perspective that's refreshingly direct: rejection is part of dating, and nobody is entitled to your attention after one date. Most powerfully, we reclaim the narrative around Shiney's happiness. The emailer had attempted to take credit for her "glow," but as she eloquently explains, "My glow is not from any person. I own my glow. I'm glowing and joyful and happy because I choose that." It's a reminder that our joy comes from within, not from external validation or relationships. Whether you're newly single after years in a relationship or navigating the complexities of modern dating, this conversation offers crucial insights about protecting yourself while staying open to genuine connection. Share your thoughts or your own dating safety tips with us at virago247podcast@gmail.com—just know your email might inspire our next episode! Send us a text Go to my website http://www.virago247.net for all things Virago 24/7 You can email me at virago247podcast@gmail.com Instagram: virago24_7 Facebook: Virago 24/7 Thanks for listening and don't forget to share, share, share! Everyday growth, everyday healing with everyday warriors! Music by Deli Rowe: "Space to Move" Logo by Kaylin Talley

    1h 3m
  8. 08/20/2025

    The Divorced and Dating Diaries

    After a summer break, the Virago 24/7 women reunite for a raw, unfiltered conversation about personal transformation. This episode strips away our usual format to make space for honest sharing about the journeys we've been on these past few months. Briana bravely opens up about her mental health struggles, revealing how she's navigating OCD in ways many don't understand. Beyond the stereotypical cleaning compulsions, she shares the terrifying intrusive thoughts that led her to seek professional help. "If I don't stop the microwave at two seconds, my kids are going to die," she explains, giving listeners a window into the anxiety that drove her to finally try medication. Her powerful realization that "getting sober gave me a sound mind to face all my problems" rather than eliminating them offers wisdom for anyone on a healing journey. Meanwhile, Shiney reveals her completed divorce and the cultural stigma she's fighting while rediscovering joy. Her words "I'm the happiest I've been in a really long time" challenge conventional wisdom about staying in unhappy marriages. The conversation explores how children truly thrive when they see their parents living authentically happy lives, not when parents remain in tension-filled homes "for the kids." As the discussion turns to dating after divorce, we share hilarious and horrifying stories about dating apps, mysterious workplace crushes, and the vulnerability of opening your heart after heartbreak. Our consensus? Self-growth comes first, and what's meant to be will find you when you're ready. This back-to-school special reminds us that growth isn't just for students – it's for everyday warriors committed to evolving rather than merely existing in patterns. Are you in the same place you were a year ago? If so, perhaps it's time for change. Subscribe now to join our community of women supporting each other through life's messy, beautiful transformations. Send us a text Go to my website http://www.virago247.net for all things Virago 24/7 You can email me at virago247podcast@gmail.com Instagram: virago24_7 Facebook: Virago 24/7 Thanks for listening and don't forget to share, share, share! Everyday growth, everyday healing with everyday warriors! Music by Deli Rowe: "Space to Move" Logo by Kaylin Talley

    55 min
4.7
out of 5
26 Ratings

About

Virago 24/7 is a podcast for women who are done shrinking. I’m your host, Lyanette Talley—mother, wife, truth-teller, and warrior in progress.Here is where we unlearn silence, honor our roots, and reclaim our voices.We talk real life—identity, marriage, motherhood, leadership, and healing—with boldness and truth. If you’ve ever been told you’re too loud, too much, or too ambitious...You’re exactly where you need to be.This is everyday growth. Everyday healing. For everyday warriors.We’re not shrinking. We’re taking up space.