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Autostraddle.com presents, "Wait, Is This A Date?" a queer dating podcast where hosts Drew Gregory and Christina Tucker are joined by special guests to discuss topics like hooking up with your friends’ exes, flirting via Instastories, and, of course, the classic queer conundrum: is this a date?!

Wait, Is This A Date‪?‬ Autostraddle

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.9 • 42 Ratings

Autostraddle.com presents, "Wait, Is This A Date?" a queer dating podcast where hosts Drew Gregory and Christina Tucker are joined by special guests to discuss topics like hooking up with your friends’ exes, flirting via Instastories, and, of course, the classic queer conundrum: is this a date?!

    1.06 You Should Probably Break up

    1.06 You Should Probably Break up

    Dating isn’t all sexting and thirst traps. It’s also heartbreak. This week on “Wait, Is This a Date?” we’re joined by Autostraddle’s very own sex and dating editor Ro White to discuss break ups. We’re talking break up strategy, when to break up, and the gay tradition of remaining friends afterward. But first! We begin with a free association of break ups to cancel culture and play a game of Is This a Real Queer Celebrity Scandal or Did Drew Just Make It Up? Fun!
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    Theme song: Lauren Klein @laurentaylorklein
    Logo: Maanya Dhar @maanya_dhar
    Episode Produced, Edited, Mixed: Lauren Klein @laurentaylorklein

    • 56 min
    1.05 Best Sex Ever

    1.05 Best Sex Ever

    Our episode topic this week is Best Sex Ever so we are talking about… the best sex we’ve ever had! We’re joined by Autostraddle writer, poet, and journalist Dani Janae as we get into some steamy anecdotes followed by an in-depth discussion about what makes good sex good. And we spend a lot of time on Drew’s sexual hang ups that she may or may not have actually done a lot of work on this summer! Come for the lesbian movie-themed game, stay for the coming.
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    Follow Dani Janae on Twitter @figwidow and Instagram @bell.biv.dahoe 
    Theme song: Lauren Klein @laurentaylorklein
    Logo: Maanya Dhar @maanya_dhar
    Episode Produced, Edited, Mixed: Lauren Klein @laurentaylorklein

    • 57 min
    1.04 Sexting or Something Like It

    1.04 Sexting or Something Like It

    What comes after DM slides? Sexting! Or if you’re for some of us there are like six more steps. Nevertheless our main topic this week is sexting and we’re joined by the extremelet talented writer Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya!
    We start with a game of "Sapho or Drew’s 2014 Journal" before getting into all the ins and outs of sextual relationships. We’re talking tenses, we’re talking instigation, we’re talking pictures — including the vast possibilities of the Live Photo. This week our direct communication is even hotter than usual!
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    SUPPORT INDEPENDENT QUEER MEDIA! Follow @autostraddle and join our membership program, A+!
    Follow Drew Gregory @draw_gregory
    Follow Christina Tucker on Twitter @C_GraceT and Instagram @christina_gracet
    Follow Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya @KaylaKumari
    Theme song: Lauren Klein @laurentaylorklein
    Logo: Maanya Dhar @maanya_dhar
    Episode Produced, Edited, Mixed: Lauren Klein @laurentaylorklein

    • 49 min
    1.03 Dating via Instagram

    1.03 Dating via Instagram

    This week on “Wait, Is This a Date?” we’re joined by Autostraddle culture editor and everyone’s flirting hero Shelli Nicole! Our main topic this week is Dating via Instagram and we get into all the specifics of what was voted by a jury of us to be the best queer dating app. Shelli shares her wisdom and confidence. Drew shares her wisdom and neuroses. And Christina is a very apt pupil — and class clown. And to start us off we play a game of Red Flags!
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    SUPPORT INDEPENDENT QUEER MEDIA! Follow @autostraddle and join our membership program, A+!
    Follow Drew Gregory @draw_gregory
    Follow Christina Tucker on Twitter @C_GraceT and Instagram @christina_gracet
    Follow Shelli Nicole on Twitter @hishelli and Instagram @ayoshelli
    Theme song: Lauren Klein @laurentaylorklein
    Logo: Maanya Dhar @maanya_dhar
    Episode Produced, Edited, Mixed: Lauren Klein @laurentaylorklein

    • 54 min
    1.02 The Chart

    1.02 The Chart

    This week on “Wait, Is This a Date?” we’re joined by Autostraddle CEO and L Word expert Riese Bernard to discuss: The Chart. That’s right! This episode is all about lesbian interconnectivity — hooking up with friends’ exes, friends hooking up with our exes, and the culture created by all that drama. Come for the gossip, stay for the emotional processing. And before that enjoy a game that tests Christina’s boundaries: Would U-Haul? (Spoiler alert: she generally would not.)
    Follow us on Instagram and Twitter at @waitisthisadate
    SUPPORT INDEPENDENT QUEER MEDIA! Follow @autostraddle and join our membership program, A+!
    Follow Drew Gregory @draw_gregory
    Follow Christina Tucker on Twitter @C_GraceT and Instagram @christina_gracet
    Theme song: Lauren Klein @laurentaylorklein
    Logo: Maanya Dhar @maanya_dhar
    Episode Produced, Edited, Mixed: Lauren Klein @laurentaylorklein

    • 44 min
    1.01 Believe People Are Into You

    1.01 Believe People Are Into You

    The very first episode of “Wait, Is This a Date?” is officially out wherever you listen to podcasts! Join the one and only Christina Tucker and me as we play a deeply personal game of F**k, U-Haul, Ghost and discuss our main topic of the week: Believe People Are Into You. We laugh! We cry! We learn about ourselves! (Okay we don’t cry because we’re both earth signs with emotional walls, but we do have feelings.) And because we’re a new podcast if you like this episode please rate and review!
    Follow us on Instagram and Twitter at @waitisthisadate
    SUPPORT INDEPENDENT QUEER MEDIA! Follow @autostraddle and join our membership program, A+!
    Follow Drew Gregory @draw_gregory
    Follow Christina Tucker on Twitter @C_GraceT and Instagram @christina_gracet
    Theme song: Lauren Klein @laurentaylorklein
    Logo: Maanya Dhar @maanya_dhar
    Episode Produced, Edited, Mixed: Lauren Klein @laurentaylorklein

    • 51 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
42 Ratings

42 Ratings

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I am really enjoying your podcast. Thanks for the fun conversations. You guys do a great job keeping a lighthearted banter going with guests.

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