37 episodes

Marriage kinda sucks, and it doesn’t help when your husband decides to cheat on you. So what do you do when “happily ever after” blows up in your face? For me, I decided to break the cycle of silence and share my awkward story of infidelity, separation and making marriage work after betrayal. Join me each week as I explore the pain and pleasure of marriage and second chances. It’s time to WAKE UP or BREAK UP!

Wake Up or Break Up‪!‬ Elsie Bobo

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.6 • 13 Ratings

Marriage kinda sucks, and it doesn’t help when your husband decides to cheat on you. So what do you do when “happily ever after” blows up in your face? For me, I decided to break the cycle of silence and share my awkward story of infidelity, separation and making marriage work after betrayal. Join me each week as I explore the pain and pleasure of marriage and second chances. It’s time to WAKE UP or BREAK UP!

    Better together: Part 3 of 3

    Better together: Part 3 of 3

    In the final installment of this 3 part series, I sit down with Marcel and Alicia to get the low down on how they repaired their marriage and learned more about themselves in the process.  Forgiveness after infidelity may not work for every relationship, but for this couple,  it brought them closer together. 

    Out of respect for his marriage, Marcel is no longer on social media, but you can follow Alicia on Instagram: @alicia_maria83
    You can also find me...
    On Instagram: @wakeupelsie
    On Youtube: "Wake Up or Break Up"
    Or my Coaching Page: wakeupyourpassion.com

    EPISODE MUSIC PRODUCED BY: DESHAWN SINCLAIR 

    • 48 min
    Marcel shares his side of the story: Part 2 of 3

    Marcel shares his side of the story: Part 2 of 3

    In part 2 of our unexpected 3 part series, Marcel shares his perspective on how love and loyalty drifted to infidelity and regret.  Marcel candidly describes the contributing factors that led him to cheat, as well as the drastic yet necessary measures he took to keep his marriage together (and thriving). 

    In part 3, I sit down with Marcel and Alicia to get the real deal of how they repaired their marriage and if their love is still going strong today. I hope you stay tuned for  part 3!

    Out of respect for his marriage, Marcel is no longer on social media. 
    You can contact Alicia on Instagram: @alicia_maria83
    You can also find me...
    On Instagram: @wakeupelsie
    On Youtube: "Wake Up or Break Up"
    Or my Coaching Page: flow.page/wakeupelsie

    EPISODE MUSIC PRODUCED BY: DESHAWN SINCLAIR 

    • 37 min
    Alicia shares her side of the story: Part 1 of 3

    Alicia shares her side of the story: Part 1 of 3

    I strongly believe, "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger," and the same can be said for my beautiful guest Alicia.  She is a mom of 3 teenagers, overcame infidelity after 18 years of marriage, and is a breast cancer survivor.  

    In part 1 of this unexpected 3 part series, Alicia shares her journey of falling in love, motherhood, cancer, and forgiveness after infidelity. In part 2, we'll hear her husband's side of the story. And in part 3, I'll sit down with the both of them and get the real deal of how they kept their marriage together. 

    Their story is beyond powerful! I hope you tune in to all 3 parts! 

    You can contact Alicia...
    On Instagram: @alicia_maria83
    You can also find me...
    On Instagram, Clubhouse, Tiktok: @wakeupelsie
    On Youtube: "Wake Up or Break Up"
    Or my Coaching Page: flow.page/wakeupelsie

    EPISODE MUSIC PRODUCED BY: DESHAWN SINCLAIR 

    • 35 min
    Tamisha Breaks Up...and Spiritually Wakes Up!

    Tamisha Breaks Up...and Spiritually Wakes Up!

    In this episode I talk with Tamisha, a podcaster, singer/songwriter, spiritual coach,  entrepreneur, and Vibe Queen! Tamisha shares her story of separation, self-discovery, spiritual awakening.  I was incredibly honored to have Tamisha share her story for the first time on my podcast.   If you're on a spiritual journey, or if you're feeling lost after after infidelity and separation, this is a great episode for you!

    You can contact Tamisha...
    On Instagram: @vibequeenmusic and @vibetalkawaken
    Her Website:  www.vibequeenmusic.com
    Or Her Coaching Page: www.bit.ly/MAPconsultation


    You can also find me...
    On Instagram, Clubhouse, Tiktok: @wakeupelsie
    On Youtube: "Wake Up or Break Up"
    Or my Coaching Page: flow.page/wakeupelsie

    EPISODE MUSIC PRODUCED BY: DESHAWN SINCLAIR 

    • 40 min
    Katharine Wakes Up...and Speaks Out!

    Katharine Wakes Up...and Speaks Out!

    In this episode I talk with Katharine, a blogger, social media influencer, and married mom of two.  Katharine shares how she discovered her husband's infidelity shortly  after the birth of their first child, and two days after their 1 year wedding anniversary.  Katharine's story of family obligation, transparency,  post-partum depression, and acceptance is truly inspiring. I hope you take a moment to listen to her story.

    You can follow Katharine's  journey...
    On Instagram/Clubhouse/all Social Media: @thebearess
    Blog: thebearess.com

    You can also find me...
    On Instagram/Clubhouse/ TikTok: @wakeupelsie
    On Youtube: "Wake Up or Break Up"
    Or my Coaching Page: www.wakeupyourpassion.com

    Music Produced by Deshawn Sinclair

    • 50 min
    Full Circle Radio Interview w/ Ms. Wanda

    Full Circle Radio Interview w/ Ms. Wanda

    Last week I was blessed with the opportunity to share my story of love, betrayal, forgiveness, and growth on Full Circle Radio with Ms. Wanda. She is such an amazing human and friend, and she's passionate about lifting women up through her podcast and radio show. 

    Download episodes of Ms. Wanda's Full Circle Radio wherever you listen to podcasts, or check out Full Circle Radio LIVE every Saturday on 97.5fm (Sacramento).  You can also follow Ms. Wanda on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/full_circle97.5/

    You can also find me...
    On Instagram, Clubhouse, and TikTok: @wakeupelsie
    On Youtube: "Wake Up or Break Up"
    Or my Coaching Page: www.wakeupyourpassion.com

    • 45 min

Customer Reviews

4.6 out of 5
13 Ratings

13 Ratings

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Epic podcast about cheating, love and what will happen

Elsie takes you through a journey of self discovery to which she shares her story of being cheated on and then taking her husband back. It’s crazy to think but she goes in-depth in her own mind as well the reason to why her husband cheated and why they didn’t workout. It’s a completely different perspective of all the other relationship podcasts out there. And did I mention that she’s a life coach who’s here to help you out??? Go subscribe and listen!

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