Walking the Way

Walking the Way

Walking the Way is a podcast about learning how to live the Christian life—carefully, honestly, and over time.Each week, Simon is joined by theologian and teacher James Porter as they walk through biblically grounded books and themes that shape not just what Christians believe, but how those beliefs are meant to be lived. This is not a debate show or a sermon series. It’s a guided apprenticeship—an invitation to think deeply, clarify what Scripture actually teaches, and practice faith in everyday life.In a culture that prizes optimization, speed, and self-definition, Walking the Way asks a different question: What does it look like to live under the authority of Scripture—and does that way of life actually produce something better?Through thoughtful conversation, careful explanation, and practical weekly applications, Simon and James explore how Christian formation happens through obedience, repentance, community, and time. Each episode is designed to leave you grounded, clarified, and equipped to take one small step forward.Whether you’re new to Christianity, returning to it, or seeking to mature in your faith, this podcast is for those who want more than inspiration. It’s for those who want formation.Because the Christian life is not just about belief—it’s about walking the way.

Episodes

  1. 3d ago

    Week 5 - Loving the Stranger

    Week 5 — “Loving the Stranger”In Week 5 of our eight-week series through The Meaning of Marriage, Simon and James explore one of the hardest realities inside every long-term relationship: eventually, the person you married begins to feel like a stranger.Why does the “in-love” experience fade? Why do hidden flaws suddenly become impossible to ignore? And why does marriage often expose things in us that we never wanted to see?In this episode, we unpack Timothy Keller’s argument that marriage does not merely unite two people — it reveals them. Marriage brings our fears, pride, selfishness, insecurities, wounds, and patterns into the light. But that exposure is not meant to destroy us. It is meant to transform us.Together, we discuss the power of truth in marriage, the healing power of love, and why only grace can keep truth and love from tearing a relationship apart. We explore the difference between “dross” and “gold,” why mature love learns to distinguish between a person’s sin and their deepest identity in Christ, and how forgiveness and repentance become essential to spiritual friendship.We also examine how spouses unintentionally miss each other through different “love currencies,” why deliberate love matters after the in-love experience fades, and how grace allows couples to confront sin without cruelty and forgive without denial.Most importantly, we look at Christ — the One who sees us fully, knows us completely, and still loves us to the end. His grace becomes the foundation that allows truth and love to work together instead of destroying one another.This conversation is not just for married couples. It is for singles, dating couples, engaged couples, skeptics, and anyone trying to understand forgiveness, vulnerability, transformation, and the deeper realities of covenant love.Topics in this episode:• Why spouses eventually feel like strangers to one another• The difference between the in-love experience and mature love• How marriage exposes hidden flaws and weaknesses• Why truth in marriage can feel painful but necessary• The story of Rob and Jessica and the power of honest confrontation• The difference between “dross” and “gold” in a person• How affirmation and love can heal deep wounds• Understanding different “love currencies” and love languages• Why deliberate love matters after romance changes• The danger of using truth as revenge or love as avoidance• How forgiveness and repentance keep truth and love together• Why the gospel gives both humility and emotional securityScripture Referenced:Ephesians 4:15Ephesians 5:25–33Romans 7:15–25Hebrews 3:13Matthew 5:23–241 John 3:19–20Next Week:“Embracing the Other” — how the differences between men and women can become sources of frustration, misunderstanding, and conflict, but also opportunities for growth, humility, and deeper unity when viewed through God’s design.This podcast contains AI-assisted discussion and commentary inspired by themes from The Meaning of Marriage by Timothy Keller and Kathy Keller. All original source material and intellectual property rights remain with their respective authors and publishers. This series is intended for educational, devotional, and discussion purposes.

    59 min

  2. May 26

    Week 4 - The Mission of Marriage

    Week 4 — “The Mission of Marriage”In Week 4 of our eight-week series through The Meaning of Marriage, Simon and James explore a deeper question behind every marriage and relationship: What is marriage ultimately for?Is marriage mainly about happiness, romance, stability, children, or building a life together? And what happens when those things change, weaken, or disappoint?In this episode, we unpack Timothy Keller’s argument that the mission of marriage is spiritual friendship — a covenant relationship where husband and wife help one another become the radiant, holy, fully alive people God is making them to be in Christ.Together, we discuss why marriage begins with friendship, what true friendship requires, why shared spiritual direction matters more than chemistry alone, and how Christian marriage becomes a companionship aimed at future glory rather than merely present happiness.We also explore the dangers of “pseudo-spouses” — good things like career, children, parents, or success that can slowly displace the marriage relationship — and why Scripture calls husbands and wives to make their marriage the primary human relationship in their lives.Most importantly, we look at Christ as the ultimate spiritual friend and divine spouse — the One who loves His people not merely to comfort them, but to transform them into beauty, holiness, and glory.This conversation is not just for married couples. It is for singles, dating couples, engaged couples, skeptics, and anyone trying to understand friendship, covenant, identity, and the deeper purpose of marriage.Topics in this episode:• Why marriage begins with friendship• The three marks of true friendship: constancy, transparency, and shared vision• How Christian friendship differs from ordinary friendship• Why spiritual friendship is central to marriage• What it means to help someone toward future glory• The danger of building marriage mainly on attraction or status• How parents, children, career, and success can become “pseudo-spouses”• Why marriage must become the primary human relationship• How Christ models spiritual friendship and covenant loveScripture Referenced:Genesis 1–2Ephesians 5:25–33Philippians 1:6Proverbs 17:17Hebrews 10:24–25Song of Solomon 5:16Next Week:“Loving the Stranger” — how marriage reveals the real person beneath the romance, and why covenant love learns to love not only the idealized version of someone, but the changing and imperfect person they truly are.This podcast contains AI-assisted discussion and commentary inspired by themes from The Meaning of Marriage by Timothy Keller and Kathy Keller. All original source material and intellectual property rights remain with their respective authors and publishers. This series is intended for educational, devotional, and discussion purposes.

    1 hr

  3. May 19

    Week 3 - The Essence of Marriage

    Week 3 — “The Essence of Marriage”In Week 3 of our eight-week series through The Meaning of Marriage, Simon and James explore one of the central questions behind every relationship: What is love really built on?Why does modern culture often treat love as a feeling that must be constantly maintained? Why do so many people fear commitment while still longing for deep intimacy? And what happens when romance fades, disappointment enters, or marriage becomes costly?In this episode, we unpack Timothy Keller’s argument that the essence of marriage is not merely emotional attraction, but covenant love — a binding promise of future faithfulness that creates the safety where deep intimacy, trust, vulnerability, and lasting affection can grow.Together, we discuss the difference between consumer relationships and covenant relationships, why marriage vows matter, how actions of love shape feelings of love, and why promise is not the enemy of passion but the place where mature love develops.Most importantly, we look at Christ as the ultimate example of covenant love — the One who stayed, gave Himself, and loved not because we were lovely, but to make us lovely.This conversation is not just for married couples. It is for singles, dating couples, engaged couples, skeptics, and anyone trying to understand love, faithfulness, and the deeper purpose of marriage.Topics in this episode:• The difference between consumer love and covenant love• Why marriage vows are promises of future love• How commitment creates deeper intimacy• Why actions of love often lead feelings of love• The danger of defining love only by emotion• How promise strengthens identity and freedom• Why mature love is deeper than early romance• How Christ models covenant faithfulnessScripture Referenced:Matthew 19:3–9Ephesians 5:25–33Song of Solomon 8:6–71 Corinthians 13:4–7Next Week:“The Mission of Marriage” — how marriage becomes a lifelong spiritual friendship aimed at helping one another become who God created us to be.This podcast contains AI-assisted discussion and commentary inspired by themes from The Meaning of Marriage by Timothy Keller and Kathy Keller. All original source material and intellectual property rights remain with their respective authors and publishers. This series is intended for educational, devotional, and discussion purposes.

    1 hr

  4. May 12

    Week 2 - The Power for Marriage

    Week 2 — “The Power for Marriage”In Week 2 of our eight-week series through The Meaning of Marriage, Simon and James explore one of the hardest realities about marriage: love requires a kind of power most people do not naturally possess.Why do selfishness, resentment, defensiveness, and pride show up so quickly in relationships? Why is it so difficult to consistently serve another person with patience, humility, and grace? And why can even good marriages slowly become emotionally exhausted?In this episode, we unpack Timothy Keller’s argument that the real power for marriage does not come from compatibility, personality, romance, or sheer effort. It comes from the Holy Spirit making the love of Christ real to the heart. Together, we discuss mutual submission, self-centeredness, emotional wounds, covenant love, repentance, forgiveness, and what it means to be “filled with the Spirit” in everyday married life.Most importantly, we explore how the gospel gives people the inner resources to stop making themselves the center and begin loving another person with freedom and joy.This conversation is not just for married couples. It is for singles, dating couples, engaged couples, skeptics, and anyone trying to understand how the gospel reshapes the way we love others.Topics in this episode:• Why self-centeredness is the great enemy of marriage• What it means to be filled with the Holy Spirit• Why marriage cannot thrive on romance alone• The difference between serving and resentful serving• How emotional wounds affect relationships• Why people often demand from others what only God can provide• The meaning of “submit to one another out of reverence for Christ”• How the gospel gives both humility and securityScripture Referenced:Ephesians 5:18–332 Corinthians 5:14–151 Corinthians 13:4–7Next Week:“The Essence of Marriage” — what love really is, why covenant matters, and how promise deepens romance instead of destroying it.This podcast contains AI-assisted discussion and commentary inspired by themes from The Meaning of Marriage by Timothy Keller and Kathy Keller. All original source material and intellectual property rights remain with their respective authors and publishers. This series is intended for educational, devotional, and discussion purposes.

    1h 3m

  5. May 11

    Week 1 - The Secret of Marriage

    In Week 1 of our new eight-week series through The Meaning of Marriage, Simon and James begin with the foundation: “The Secret of Marriage.”Why does modern culture seem both obsessed with love and deeply skeptical of marriage? Why do so many people long for marriage while also fearing it? And why does marriage often feel far harder than we expected?In this episode, we explore Timothy Keller’s argument that the problem is not marriage itself, but our understanding of what marriage is for. We discuss soul mates, compatibility, cohabitation, modern individualism, self-centeredness, and the crushing expectations people place on romance today.Most importantly, we look at Paul’s words in Ephesians 5 and uncover the “great mystery” at the center of marriage: that God designed marriage to reflect the self-giving love of Christ and the church.This conversation is not just for married couples. It is for singles, dating couples, engaged couples, skeptics, and anyone trying to understand love, commitment, and the gospel more deeply.Topics in this episode:• Why marriage is both painful and wonderful• The myth of the perfectly compatible soul mate• Why modern relationships struggle under unrealistic expectations• How self-centeredness damages love• Why marriage changes people• The difference between sentimental love and covenant love• How the gospel gives both the pattern and the power for marriageScripture Referenced:Ephesians 5:18–33Genesis 2:18–25Next Week:“The Power for Marriage” — why no marriage can thrive without the work of the Holy Spirit and why self-centeredness is the great enemy of love.This podcast contains AI-assisted discussion and commentary inspired by themes from The Meaning of Marriage by Timothy Keller and Kathy Keller. All original source material and intellectual property rights remain with their respective authors and publishers. This series is intended for educational, devotional, and discussion purposes.

    48 min
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Walking the Way is a podcast about learning how to live the Christian life—carefully, honestly, and over time.Each week, Simon is joined by theologian and teacher James Porter as they walk through biblically grounded books and themes that shape not just what Christians believe, but how those beliefs are meant to be lived. This is not a debate show or a sermon series. It’s a guided apprenticeship—an invitation to think deeply, clarify what Scripture actually teaches, and practice faith in everyday life.In a culture that prizes optimization, speed, and self-definition, Walking the Way asks a different question: What does it look like to live under the authority of Scripture—and does that way of life actually produce something better?Through thoughtful conversation, careful explanation, and practical weekly applications, Simon and James explore how Christian formation happens through obedience, repentance, community, and time. Each episode is designed to leave you grounded, clarified, and equipped to take one small step forward.Whether you’re new to Christianity, returning to it, or seeking to mature in your faith, this podcast is for those who want more than inspiration. It’s for those who want formation.Because the Christian life is not just about belief—it’s about walking the way.

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