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We live in a generation of suppressing and not expressing. On each episode of We Met At Acme, host Lindsey Metselaar touches on subjects that we don’t talk about, but all want to know about. We Met At Acme delves into sex, relationships, and vulnerability, with some hilarious anecdotes along the way.

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    • Society & Culture
    • 4.3 • 2K Ratings

We live in a generation of suppressing and not expressing. On each episode of We Met At Acme, host Lindsey Metselaar touches on subjects that we don’t talk about, but all want to know about. We Met At Acme delves into sex, relationships, and vulnerability, with some hilarious anecdotes along the way.

    On Thursday’s We Have Sex ft. Jennifer Fisher

    On Thursday’s We Have Sex ft. Jennifer Fisher

    On today’s episode, I sit down with Jennifer Fisher. Jennifer is a jewelry designer, a clean eater, a mom, a wife, and a major boss. We discuss dating Matt LeBlanc, how she went from TV wardrobe stylist to jewelry designer extraordinaire, keeping it interesting in the bedroom when you’re married, surviving a tumor (that she still has!), raising kids in NYC, eating clean but never restricting, grieving, and so much more! The episode starts with a solo where I discuss reasons it never worked out with exes and siblings with toxic partners. 
     
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    Produced by Dear Media.

    • 1 hr 15 min
    Manifesting Everything We Want ft. Haley Hoffman Smith

    Manifesting Everything We Want ft. Haley Hoffman Smith

    On today’s episode, I sit down with manifesting coach Haley Hoffman Smith. We discuss manifesting and why she swears by it, what she has manifested for her own life, how to change your vibrations to attract better people into your life, how to know if better things are coming for you, attracting (and keeping) great people, and more! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss running into an ex, live shows, getting attacked by a past guest in my DM’s, engagement pressure, the first time I went home with Steven, and tips for meeting the parents. 
     
     
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    Produced by Dear Media.

    • 1 hr 3 min
    Why We’re So Afraid Of Sober Dating ft. Amanda White

    Why We’re So Afraid Of Sober Dating ft. Amanda White

    On today’s episode, I sit down with Amanda White, a licensed therapist and the author of Not Drinking Tonight. We discuss - why she got sober, social anxiety when drinking, what to say on a date if you're not drinking, our relationships with alcohol, alternative date ideas without alcohol, how to be sober at your wedding, times we were f***ed up and regret it, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss feeling lost in your late 20s, boosting confidence when you have acne, making new friends later on, and how to nudge towards a second date.
     
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    Produced by Dear Media.

    • 58 min
    I Found The Best Dating Advice On TikTok So You Don’t Have To

    I Found The Best Dating Advice On TikTok So You Don’t Have To

    On today’s bonus episode, I have scoured the internet for all of the best TikTok dating advice. I discuss what to say when someone asks what you’re looking for, the one word that means a guy isn’t interested, why you should NEVER end a conversation, how to have attractive energy when dating, why you need to date someone who disagrees with you, and more! 
     
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    • 45 min
    How To Approach Someone IRL ft. Ruben Abergel

    How To Approach Someone IRL ft. Ruben Abergel

    On today’s episode, I sit down with Ruben Abergel, founder of the YouTube channel Social Animal. Ruben and I discuss people’s biggest fears when approaching others in person, what to say when you go up to someone, the reason we don’t meet IRL anymore, why we connect with some people and don’t connect with others, and so much more! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss friendship insecurity, the problem with the chill girl, how to get a player to simp for you, and more. 
     
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    Produced by Dear Media.

    • 58 min
    Insight Into The Male Mind When Newly Dating ft. Dan Perlman

    Insight Into The Male Mind When Newly Dating ft. Dan Perlman

    On today’s episode, I sit down with comedian, writer, and star of Flatbush Misdemeanors. Dan and I discuss how first dates are not a good representation of someone, why it’s important to see someone in their element, the level of stalking a guy does when newly seeing a girl, what makes a guy have an emotional block , telling someone they smell, why waiting to respond to someone is pointless, and so much more! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss my grandpa’s near death experience, Steven’s “surprise” birthday, why I hate music these days, and more. 
     
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    Produced by Dear Media.

    • 58 min

Customer Reviews

4.3 out of 5
2K Ratings

2K Ratings

NP_JT ,

great guests, great conversation

i always love her guests and i like the way that she integrates her IG polls into the podcast because that's the main reason why i started listening. i definitely don't always think she's qualified to dish out dating advice the way she does just because she has a following, but it's entertaining nonetheless, even if you don't agree with her opinions

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Need more than dating tips

I really enjoyed this podcast a couple years ago when I was single and could actually relate to the advice- now that I’ve been in a relationship for awhile I would love for her to talk about ‘being in a relationship’ advice and tools to make a successful marriage etc work and candid advice after you found the guy. It seems like every episode is about how to date and find someone when I think a lot of people listening to this are already past that point.

Fed up please fix this app ,

Yikes

Listening to this podcast helps me to remember how out of touch yet confident people can be when sharing their opinions (or what Lindsey would refer to as “facts.”) Her guest today Jennifer Fisher is a prime example of this. She shares her eating disordered diet and then says she can’t believe that people would not eat this way despite the products that she shares like nut bread or going to the grocery store every few days being not doable for most people. Also most shocking is when they are talking about how it’s better to grow up being a city kid and Lindsey says that because Jennifer’s kids sometimes play basketball on the west side highway that helps them learn not to be afraid of “all kinds of people.” The thinly veiled classism and racism may officially be too much for me to even hate listen to anymore….

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