141 episodes

From Q&A’s and break up tips to simply navigating every stage of life, influencer-turned-entrepreneur Payton Sartain brings you the sisterly advice you didn’t know you needed and honest conversations you’ve always wanted. Whether it’s Payton alone or a conversation with a friend, Note to Self is a space to get grounded, explore new perspectives, and ultimately, empower yourself and others. Grab some wine or a mocktail and enjoy the conversation!

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    • 4.9 • 995 Ratings

From Q&A’s and break up tips to simply navigating every stage of life, influencer-turned-entrepreneur Payton Sartain brings you the sisterly advice you didn’t know you needed and honest conversations you’ve always wanted. Whether it’s Payton alone or a conversation with a friend, Note to Self is a space to get grounded, explore new perspectives, and ultimately, empower yourself and others. Grab some wine or a mocktail and enjoy the conversation!

    Spring Hot List: Beauty & Style Favorites for Spring 2024

    Spring Hot List: Beauty & Style Favorites for Spring 2024

    #141. We’re getting *specific* about everything I’m loving for Spring 2023, from skincare & makeup to fashion favorites and more! 




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    • 45 min
    How to Spring Clean Your Entire Life

    How to Spring Clean Your Entire Life

    #140. My life needs a reset, and in honor of the season, I’m giving it a little Spring Clean. We’re getting granular about how to declutter, recenter, & revamp. 




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    • 48 min
    For The Girls: Too Much Tongue, Friendship Jealousy, & Rolexes (with Emon & Kristen)

    For The Girls: Too Much Tongue, Friendship Jealousy, & Rolexes (with Emon & Kristen)

    #139. The band of besties are back to talk life updates and answer listener questions. We are tackling heavy-hitting topics like how much tongue is too much? And how to navigate friendship jealousy (with your boy besties, to be specific).




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    • 1 hr 17 min
    Simple Pleasures: Little Ways to Improve Your Every Day (Pt. II), with Anastazia Dupee

    Simple Pleasures: Little Ways to Improve Your Every Day (Pt. II), with Anastazia Dupee

    #138. We’re talking about simple pleasures today, aka little things you can do daily to make life just that much more enjoyable. Small indulgences keep me going, so its something I love to share on NTS. Today’s guest, social media influencer and podcast host, Anastazia Dupee, has some really amazing simple pleasures to share, and we get into listener submissions as well. Hope y’all love part II of Simple Pleasures with NTS! 




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    • 1 hr 14 min
    Setting Boundaries With Family, Tolerating Your Bestie’s Toxic Boyfriend & Leaving a Job You Hate (ASK P)

    Setting Boundaries With Family, Tolerating Your Bestie’s Toxic Boyfriend & Leaving a Job You Hate (ASK P)

    #137. In this installment of ASK P, we’re talking topics from family, to relationships, to career and beyond. What do I do if I hate my best friend’s toxic boyfriend? How do I leave a job I once thought was a “dream” but has ended up being miserable? How do I set boundaries with my intense family? Let’s discuss! 




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    • 57 min
    How to Romanticize Living Alone

    How to Romanticize Living Alone

    #136. This episode is a testament to living solo! Sometimes living alone can be lonely, yes, but it’s also an essential experience to have in your twenties, in my humble opinion. Today we’re talking 10 tips to make living alone the best experience ever.




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    • 45 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
995 Ratings

995 Ratings

FrancescaLanza ,

Love!!

A weekly listen since 2022 recommended by my best friend and couldn’t be more grateful. I feel like Payton gets me and I love how she’s confident in herself and her perception/beliefs and doesn’t try to create content that everyone else does. She’s authentic and feel like I can relate to most of her episodes. I love that she shares her experiences and answers Ask P questions thoughtfully and have taken good tips from her. Highly recommend!

krayfishy123 ,

Obsessed

Just discovered this pod & can’t stop listening. Payton is so motivating but also hilarious and real. I live in a different city than most of my girlfriends & listening to this literally feels like having a (albeit one sided) convo with my best gal pals!

Mrs. Amaya ,

Snooze & eye roll

I downloaded the 2024 vision episode after finding it on a top 14 must listen list. Whew, what a bad call. The first 10 minutes were completely unnecessary & listening to her complain about the holidays & not being a “birthday girlie” made me want to stab my eardrums. Once she started talking about searching Pinterest for images for her vision board, I had to just stop listening. Maybe I am the wrong demographic or something but this was not my cup of tea at all.

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