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Matthew & Nancy Greger
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This is the unfiltered, unscripted podcast where Nancy and Matthew’s real life gets the spotlight—messy, hilarious, and unexpectedly meaningful. From navigating family drama and awkward money talks to wild stories and ones we’ll definitely regret later, hot takes, and questionable life advice, we dive in headfirst—no edits, no scripts, no pretending we’ve got it all figured out. We laugh, we overshare, we occasionally make sense. Think of it as your weekly dose of real talk, relatable moments, and just enough chaos to make things interesting. Nancy and Matthew keep it raw, relatable, and refreshingly unpolished. Just two people figuring life out in real time—and bringing you along for the ride. Perfectly imperfect and refreshingly honest. Grab your coffee (or cocktail) and let’s get into it.

  1. When the Holidays Get Messy: Chaos, Kids & Christmas Expectations

    DEC 2

    When the Holidays Get Messy: Chaos, Kids & Christmas Expectations

    Chaos, coffee, barking dogs, grandkids, paint fumes, and Christmas expectations—this episode has it all. Fresh off Thanksgiving, Nancy and Matthew dive into holiday stress, big decisions, emotional overload, and what happens when life gets messy and loud. From managing expectations to navigating kids, dogs, decorating (or NOT decorating), and everything that hits at once in December… this one’s real, relatable, and unfiltered. If you've ever tried to hold it together during the holiday season, welcome home. Takeaways: The holiday season invariably brings an array of chaotic experiences, from managing family expectations to juggling multiple responsibilities, which can lead to emotional overload. Nancy and Matthew candidly discuss their decision to forego elaborate Christmas decorations this year, opting instead for simplicity amidst ongoing home renovations. Through sharing personal anecdotes, they highlight the importance of maintaining realistic expectations concerning holiday gatherings and the inevitable stressors associated with them. They emphasize the significance of preparation and organization as essential strategies to alleviate the overwhelming nature of the holiday season for families. The couple reflects on their experiences with holiday traditions, acknowledging how they evolve and adapt as family dynamics change over time. Listeners are encouraged to find joy in the present moment, cherishing time with family while acknowledging the inherent challenges of the holiday season.

    31 min
  2. Thankful, Tired & Navigating Life’s Feelings and Big Decisions

    NOV 25

    Thankful, Tired & Navigating Life’s Feelings and Big Decisions

    It’s Thanksgiving week, and Matthew & Nancy get real about gratitude, exhaustion, big life decisions, downsizing, money mistakes, emotional overwhelm, and navigating it all together. From parenting reflections to Facebook Marketplace chaos to processing selling their home, this episode is honest, messy, and full of heart. Takeaways: Embracing vulnerability is essential when addressing significant life transitions, as demonstrated by our discussions on gratitude and family updates. Navigating the complexities of financial decisions can often lead to feelings of overwhelm and uncertainty, particularly when selling a cherished family home. Our differing approaches to processing emotions highlight the importance of communication in maintaining alignment as a couple during stressful times. The experience of letting go of possessions serves as a metaphor for releasing expectations and embracing change in our lives. Silence, while sometimes necessary, can create tension in a marriage, underscoring the need for open dialogue about feelings and decisions. Reflecting on our Thanksgiving traditions reveals the beauty of simplicity and gratitude amidst life's challenges and changes.

    32 min
  3. I Love You… But I Need My Space

    NOV 11

    I Love You… But I Need My Space

    Whether it’s a fishing trip, a facial, or just locking the bathroom door for five uninterrupted minutes—this episode is all about the vital (and often funny) truth that healthy relationships need personal space. Nancy and Matthew reflect on their early parenting years, share their current routines for alone time, and talk openly about guilt, boundaries, and self-care. They also dive into the importance of balance, mutual respect, and why doing things apart can actually bring couples closer. It’s relatable, real, and surprisingly rejuvenating. 🧑‍🤝‍🧑 People Mentioned: Donny (Matthew's friend)Tanya (Ultra event)Megan & Vinny (couple friends) 🏢 Companies/Organizations Mentioned: GrowthDayUltra (Brendon Burchard event)Silvermine Arts CenterPowerhouse Women event Takeaways: In nurturing healthy relationships, it is paramount to acknowledge the necessity of personal space. Engaging in activities separately can foster a deeper connection between partners when they reunite. The dialogue emphasizes the significance of establishing boundaries to combat feelings of guilt in shared responsibilities. Through personal reflections, Nancy and Matthew illustrate the rejuvenating effects of self-care routines amid parenting duties. They highlight that self-care, whether through hobbies or personal time, is essential for maintaining balance in a relationship. The podcast advocates for mutual respect and understanding, particularly regarding the need for alone time in a partnership.

    31 min
  4. Retirement Redefined: Freedom, Purpose, and the 9-Year Plan

    NOV 4

    Retirement Redefined: Freedom, Purpose, and the 9-Year Plan

    In this candid conversation, Matt and Nancy Greger unpack what retirement really means after 37 years of marriage, raising kids, and now grandparenting. They challenge the traditional idea of retirement as “doing nothing” and instead explore how freedom, purpose, and planning shape their vision for the next chapter. From financial goals to staying active in community and service, they share their honest struggles, hopes, and the mindset shifts that keep them moving forward. If you’re thinking about your own retirement or life’s next phase, this episode will inspire you to create a meaningful, joyful future on your own terms. Whether you’re 30 or 60, this episode challenges you to rethink what you’re working toward and why—because retirement isn’t an end, it’s a new beginning filled with freedom, community, and purpose. Takeaways: Retirement is fundamentally a transition to a life of intention, freedom, and joy rather than merely an end to work. The Greger's journey underscores the importance of financial planning and community engagement in achieving a fulfilling retirement. It is essential to cultivate a purpose and maintain active involvement in meaningful activities throughout the retirement phase. Creating a retirement plan that includes both financial goals and community service aspirations can lead to greater fulfillment and satisfaction in life. The Greger's perspective on retirement emphasizes that it is crucial to remain active and engaged, rather than succumbing to a sedentary lifestyle. Ultimately, retirement should be viewed as an opportunity to explore passions and strengthen relationships, ensuring a vibrant and purposeful life.

    31 min
  5. Wrinkles, Wisdom & Why We Still Laugh About Getting Older

    OCT 28

    Wrinkles, Wisdom & Why We Still Laugh About Getting Older

    In Episode 23 of We Should Probably Edit This – But We Won’t, Nancy and Matthew dive deep into the realities (and ridiculousness) of getting older. They cover: Wrinkles, naps, and the mysterious disappearance of metabolismWhy laughter really is the best faceliftThe balance between aging parents and grown kidsFinancial lessons, personal growth, and letting go of “shoulds”Travel dreams, staying active, and refusing to slow down It’s equal parts reflection, comedy, and truth — because if you can’t laugh about getting older, you’re missing the best part. From sagging jowls and forgotten glasses to retirement dreams and rollercoaster regrets, Nancy and Matthew get real (and really funny) about aging. They share what’s changed, what still matters, and the life lessons that come with gray hairs, grown kids, and grandkids. It’s a brutally honest — and surprisingly hilarious — take on what it means to grow older together with love, laughter, and a little less hair. Takeaways: Aging brings both physical changes and emotional adjustments that require honest reflection. The significance of maintaining friendships and social connections becomes increasingly apparent as we age. Financial preparedness is crucial for enjoying a comfortable retirement and avoiding stress later in life. Life experiences lead to a shift in priorities, where joy in simple moments outweighs previous concerns. Embracing the inevitability of aging allows for a focus on personal growth and fulfillment. Understanding that life stages bring different challenges can help navigate the complexities of aging.

    33 min
  6. The Joys of Grandparenting: Reflections from G-Ma and G-Pa

    OCT 21

    The Joys of Grandparenting: Reflections from G-Ma and G-Pa

    In Episode 22 of We Should Probably Edit This – But We Won’t, Nancy and Matthew get real about grandparenting—from the silly to the sacred. As G-Ma and G-Pa to four grandkids, they reflect on: The hilarious moments (gingerbread mayhem, mismatched socks, basketball drills)Their unique grandparent names and how they came to beThe differences in each grandchild’s personality and how it shapes their bondThe beauty of multi-generational living (and how boundaries still matter)What it’s like to watch your own children become parentsWhy the grandparent phase is funnier, freer, and full of heart Whether you're already a grandparent or just imagining the joy ahead, this episode is a warm hug of family stories, laughter, and legacy. Takeaways: The grandparenting experience is characterized by a delightful blend of joy, laughter, and meaningful connections with each grandchild, highlighting the essence of family bonds. Unique grandparent names, such as G-Ma and G-Pa, reflect personal stories and familial heritage, enriching the grandparenting journey. The dynamics of multi-generational living offer both profound joy and the necessity for establishing boundaries, ensuring harmonious relationships among family members. Observing one's children transition into parenthood evokes a deep sense of pride and nostalgia, as grandparents reflect on their own experiences of raising children. Each grandchild possesses distinct personalities that influence their relationships with their grandparents, creating a rich tapestry of interactions and memories. The grandparent phase is often perceived as a time of freedom and heartwarming moments, allowing for genuine enjoyment without the burdens of direct parenting responsibilities.

    31 min
  7. Grand Canyon Wisdom & Why Laughing Matters

    OCT 14

    Grand Canyon Wisdom & Why Laughing Matters

    In Episode 21 of We Should Probably Edit This – But We Won’t, Nancy and Matthew record from the rim of the Grand Canyon and dive into a wide-ranging, often hilarious conversation about marriage, memories, and making fun a priority. They talk about: Why humor is essential in relationshipsInside jokes that keep families connectedThe surprising lessons of off-grid livingRV dreams and solo trips with their grown kidsEmbracing discomfort (like memory-foam rocks) for real connectionWhy adventure is better when shared They even reflect on the shortness of life in the face of 500 million years of erosion. It's deep, funny, and full of heart. 🧑‍🤝‍🧑 People Mentioned • Ben, Katie & Noah – Their adult kids (get ready for solo trips!) • A very specific friend who would NOT sit on the edge of the Grand Canyon 🏢 Places/Events Mentioned • Grand Canyon National Park • GrowthDay Ultra Event – Scottsdale, AZ • Starlink Wi-Fi (out in the wild) • That one off-the-grid Airbnb they’ll never forget

    20 min
  8. From Toddlers to Tuition: The Parenting Rollercoaster

    SEP 23

    From Toddlers to Tuition: The Parenting Rollercoaster

    Parenting isn’t just a phase—it’s a full-blown adventure. In Episode 20, Nancy and Matthew open up about what it was really like to raise three kids: from newborns in strollers to sweaty teens dodging showers, from stacking firewood to crashing college budgets. They talk through the parenting stages—infants, toddlers, middle school, teenage rebellion, and finally, the bittersweet reality of launching adult children into the world. You’ll hear how they navigated sibling drama, computer time limits (and how their kids outsmarted them), college life, money mistakes, and the all-important family dinner rule. Whether you're in the trenches with toddlers or figuring out how to parent adult children, this episode offers laughter, lessons, and a little relief: You’re not alone. Takeaways: Parenting encompasses various stages, each presenting unique challenges and learning opportunities. The journey from infancy to adulthood involves navigating sibling dynamics and individual growth. Maintaining open communication during family dinners fosters stronger relationships among family members. Financial literacy is crucial; teaching children about money management prepares them for future independence.

    35 min
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This is the unfiltered, unscripted podcast where Nancy and Matthew’s real life gets the spotlight—messy, hilarious, and unexpectedly meaningful. From navigating family drama and awkward money talks to wild stories and ones we’ll definitely regret later, hot takes, and questionable life advice, we dive in headfirst—no edits, no scripts, no pretending we’ve got it all figured out. We laugh, we overshare, we occasionally make sense. Think of it as your weekly dose of real talk, relatable moments, and just enough chaos to make things interesting. Nancy and Matthew keep it raw, relatable, and refreshingly unpolished. Just two people figuring life out in real time—and bringing you along for the ride. Perfectly imperfect and refreshingly honest. Grab your coffee (or cocktail) and let’s get into it.

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