The Sacred Sadist

Alara Sage
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The Sacred Sadist Podcast is for multiple-six and seven-figure leaders — outwardly thriving, secretly constrained. It is for those who have mastered success, discipline, and composure, and can feel the quiet cost of holding themselves together. This is not a podcast about motivation, mindset, or self-improvement. It is about self-binding — the internal restraint that once created success, and now limits power, impact, and ecstasy. Here, that bind is named. And deliberately undone. From bound to liberated.

  1. 3D AGO

    In Conflict Lies Resolution

    In this conversation, Alara Sage explores the intricate relationship between conflict and resolution, emphasizing that conflict is not merely a negative experience but a vital opportunity for growth and understanding. She discusses the nature of dissonance in various relationships, the importance of self-awareness in navigating conflict, and practical approaches to resolving disputes effectively. Through a musical metaphor, she illustrates how dissonance can reveal underlying issues that need to be addressed for harmony to be restored in personal and professional relationships. Desire to work with Alara? Sign up for a power-edge audit. For the leader who’s ready to evolve their power, without burning their empire to the ground. A FREE 1:1 private, precision session for high-level leaders outwardly thriving, secretly constrained. https://AlaraSage.as.me/?appointmentType=86368123 Connect with Alara Sage Alara’s website https://www.alarasage.com Social Media Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alarasage LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alara-sage/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/alarasage Chapters (00:00:00) - Conflict as Resolution(00:07:52) - Conflict Management: The Right Kind of Approach(00:15:55) - Conflicts in the Workplace(00:26:07) - The Search for Conflict in Your Life

    29 min

  2. JAN 29

    The End of Hierarchical Leadership & What is Emerging Instead

    In today’s rapidly changing world, the concept of leadership is undergoing a significant transformation. Traditional hierarchical structures are fading, giving way to more dynamic and collaborative forms of leadership. In this episode, Alara Sage explores the shift from hierarchical leadership, what it entails, and what new models are emerging to take its place. Desire to work with Alara? Sign up for a power-edge audit. For the leader who’s ready to evolve their power, without burning their empire to the ground. A FREE 1:1 private, precision session for high-level leaders outwardly thriving, secretly constrained. https://AlaraSage.as.me/?appointmentType=86368123 Connect with Alara Sage Alara’s website https://www.alarasage.com Social Media Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alarasage LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alara-sage/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/alarasage Chapters (00:00:04) - The Death of Hierarchical Leadership(00:12:08) - The End of Hierarchial Leadership(00:15:30) - A New Kind of Leadership(00:26:23) - Bound to Liberated

    28 min

  3. JAN 22

    Leaders Take Radical Ownership

    In this conversation, Alara Sage discusses the importance of radical ownership in leadership and personal growth. She emphasizes that true leaders do not blame others but take full responsibility for their actions and experiences. Through personal anecdotes, she illustrates how embracing ownership can transform fear into empowerment and lead to profound self-discovery. Alara encourages listeners to excavate their truths, trust themselves, and recognize their innate worth, ultimately guiding them towards a more empowered and authentic life. Desire to work with Alara? Sign up for a power-edge audit. For the leader who’s ready to evolve their power, without burning their empire to the ground. A FREE 1:1 private, precision session for high-level leaders outwardly thriving, secretly constrained. https://AlaraSage.as.me/?appointmentType=86368123 Connect with Alara Sage Alara’s website https://www.alarasage.com Social Media Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alarasage LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alara-sage/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/alarasage Chapters (00:00:00) - Radical Ownership(00:08:45) - Taking Radical Ownership of Your Life(00:17:50) - Exploring the Power of Embodied Leadership

    22 min

  4. JAN 15

    Intrinsic Drive Powers Perseverence

    In this conversation, Alara Sage explores the concepts of intrinsic and extrinsic drive, sharing personal anecdotes and insights on how these motivations influence our goals and desires. She emphasizes the importance of understanding the difference between what we genuinely want to pursue (intrinsic) versus what we feel obligated to achieve (extrinsic). Alara provides practical steps for listeners to identify their motivations and suggests ways to combine intrinsic and extrinsic drives to create a fulfilling and enjoyable journey towards their goals. Desire to work with Alara? Sign up for a power-edge audit. For the leader who’s ready to evolve their power, without burning their empire to the ground. A FREE 1:1 private, precision session for high-level leaders outwardly thriving, secretly constrained. https://AlaraSage.as.me/?appointmentType=86368123 Connect with Alara Sage Alara’s website https://www.alarasage.com Social Media Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alarasage LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alara-sage/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/alarasage Chapters (00:00:00) - Introinsic Drive vs Extrinsic Drives(00:10:45) - Intrinsic Drive vs extrinsic(00:18:34) - How to Combine Intrinsic Drive with Extrinic Drive(00:27:22) - The Sacred Sadist: Bound to Liberation

    28 min

  5. JAN 7

    The Desire Beneath The Goal

    In this conversation, Alara Sage explores the concept of true desires and how individuals often pursue goals that do not resonate with their authentic selves. She emphasizes the importance of understanding one's true desires, which can lead to a more fulfilling life. Through personal anecdotes and client stories, Alara illustrates how societal expectations and false beliefs can cloud one's understanding of what they truly want. She provides a framework for uncovering these desires, including recognizing what one does not want, examining feelings of jealousy and admiration, and asking deeper questions to reach the core of one's desires. Ultimately, the conversation highlights the transformative power of aligning with one's true desires and the journey of self-discovery. Desire to work with Alara? Sign up for a power-edge audit. For the leader who’s ready to evolve their power, without burning their empire to the ground. A FREE 1:1 private, precision session for high-level leaders outwardly thriving, secretly constrained. https://AlaraSage.as.me/?appointmentType=86368123 Connect with Alara Sage Alara’s website https://www.alarasage.com Social Media Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alarasage LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alara-sage/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/alarasage Chapters (00:00:00) - What Do You Desire In Your Life?(00:08:14) - The 3 Steps to Awakening Your Destiny(00:15:25) - How to Realize That You Don't Want This(00:18:31) - What is Jealousy and Acknowledgment of Desire?(00:23:30) - How to Realize Your Desires(00:25:37) - Exploring Why You Desire What You Deserve

    30 min

  6. JAN 1

    Set Standards Instead of Resolutions

    In this conversation, Alara Sage emphasizes the importance of setting new standards for personal and leadership growth in the new year. She discusses the common weaknesses and fears that individuals face, particularly in the context of vulnerability and intimacy. Alara encourages listeners to create new standards in their relationships and self-care practices, urging them to confront their fears and embrace change. The conversation culminates in a call for empowered leadership amidst chaos, highlighting the need for leaders to face their fears and establish clear standards for their actions Desire to work with Alara? Sign up for a power-edge audit. For the leader who’s ready to evolve their power, without burning their empire to the ground. A FREE 1:1 private, precision session for high-level leaders outwardly thriving, secretly constrained. https://AlaraSage.as.me/?appointmentType=86368123 Connect with Alara Sage Alara’s website https://www.alarasage.com Social Media Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alarasage LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alara-sage/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/alarasage Chapters (00:00:00) - New Standards for Yourself in the New Year(00:10:48) - These are the New Standards for Leadership

    20 min

  7. 12/25/2025

    Navigating Loneliness as a Leader

    In this episode, Alara Sage explores the theme of loneliness, particularly in the context of leadership. She discusses how loneliness can be experienced regardless of one's surroundings and emphasizes the importance of understanding the beliefs that underlie these feelings. Alara shares personal anecdotes and insights on how to navigate loneliness through presence, acceptance, and self-compassion, ultimately guiding listeners towards a state of joy and intimacy with themselves. Desire to work with Alara? Sign up for a power-edge audit. For the leader who’s ready to evolve their power, without burning their empire to the ground. A FREE 1:1 private, precision session for high-level leaders outwardly thriving, secretly constrained. https://AlaraSage.as.me/?appointmentType=86368123

    17 min

  8. 12/22/2025

    Podcast Pivot

    The podcast is taking an exciting pivot.  Tune in to learn where it is headed

    6 min
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The Sacred Sadist Podcast is for multiple-six and seven-figure leaders — outwardly thriving, secretly constrained. It is for those who have mastered success, discipline, and composure, and can feel the quiet cost of holding themselves together. This is not a podcast about motivation, mindset, or self-improvement. It is about self-binding — the internal restraint that once created success, and now limits power, impact, and ecstasy. Here, that bind is named. And deliberately undone. From bound to liberated.

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  • Creator
    Alara Sage
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    50
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2024 Sacred Sadist
  • Show Website
    The Sacred Sadist