Weekly MomenToUs

Pastor Rebecca Grate
Weekly MomenToUs

MomenToUs is a new experimental faith community, in-person & online. We are glad you are here!

  1. AUG 11

    Reading between the Lines: Dinah & Tamar

    This week on Reading between the Lines, we are learning more about the stories of Dinah and Tamar.   These stories are hard. They remind us that life in ancient Mesopotamia was violent. Families united against family, sometimes resulting in fighting, sometimes resulting in death. The use of force, especially against women was common. Women did not have full authority to approve or deny who they would marry. These stories grate against most of our understanding of how the world should work, this sounds so different from how we treat one another now.   But, my friends, we know this story also tells us some truths about how little progress we have made in how we treat one another. Violence and sexual violence against women still occurs and is still a method of warfare. Countries are still seeking to have more land and more resources, invading another area once they have the strength they need. Families still have generations-long feuds with one another, that though they are not as violent as what happened in Shechem in these stories, are still passed on through the generations.   In the midst of a portion of scripture that tends to focus on the patriarchs of our faith, the stories of these two women were recorded and discerned to be integral to the entire story of God’s people that they have remained part of scripture. They are reminders of how power and control can quickly cause us to harm others, when we exploit them for our own gains and desires. May their stories call us back to who God has called us to be - co-workers seeking to restore peace and wholeness in the world.   CW: infertility, rape/sexual violence, and genocide

    27 min
  2. JUN 19

    Reading between the Lines: Rebekah, Leah, Zilpah, Bilhah, & Rachel

    This week on Reading between the Lines, we are learning more about the stories of Rebekah and Leah, Zilpah, Bilhah, and Rachel.   This story that stretches across a large portion of the book of Genesis is not one that is easy to read. There is deep brokenness present within this family, divides so deep that set the stage for the narrative that will come next and will shape the identity of God’s people and influences how God’s people relate to one another today. These are stories that seem to simultaneously buck against the patriarchal systems of the time through Rachel working as a shepherd, side-by-side in the wilderness with other male shepherds, with no one being scandalized. But, then the patriarchy shows up again in how Laban uses Leah, Zilpah, Bilhah, and Rachel as pawns in attempts to earn more wealth and status for himself, along with years of free service from Jacob. There is abuse and sexual abuse throughout these stories. Even though they were abiding by common practices at the time, these practices stripped Zilpah and Bilhah of agency over their own bodies; they could not grant or deny access. And, at least in the case of Bilhah, this spanned male members of multiple generations of the same family. In the midst of this, God claims this family to be the origin of God’s people. It is through Leah, Zilpah, Bilhah, Rachel, and Jacob that generations of God’s people trace their genetic and spiritual lineage. It is through this broken family that God’s promise made with Abraham and Sarah is fulfilled; this is the beginning of those generations that would be so large that they would be impossible to count. This is a sign of God’s faithfulness, but there is also cost to those involved.   CW: infertility, rape and sexual violence, slavery

    29 min
  3. JUN 15

    Reading between the Lines: Hagar & Sarah

    This week on Reading between the Lines, we are learning more about the story of Hagar & Sarai/Sarah. The intertwined stories of Hagar and Sarah can call us to examine things like how those in power, either willingly or unknowingly, cause harm to those without that same power and privilege. These stories can call us to work toward an end to sex trafficking and creating a culture of consent surrounding how our bodies are used by others. This has implications for intimate sexual relationships as well as how individuals with disabilities receive care and are included in decision-making processes.   These stories can call us to examine how people with various intersecting identities and varying amounts of power currently treat others and how we can work toward equity. Learning these stories may uncover the church’s tendency toward hiding abuse that happens within its structure and calling us to rehumanize those who have been harmed and work toward justice. These stories can be models of how to talk with God, being honest with where we are struggling to be faithful, and God’s continual presence in the midst of heartache.   These stories are reminders that we simply cannot take them at face value; we are called to look more deeply, to notice the small details that humanize the characters, and to wonder about the pieces that are missing so that we can work toward a more wholistic understanding of God and God’s presence from the time these individuals lived all the way to us today.   CW: infertility, rape and sexual violence, slavery, child abuse, and domestic abuse

    31 min

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