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  1. 05/21/2024

    Joshua Gibson & Max Aita: Evolving the Coaching Landscape in Weightlifting

    Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:00:02]: Welcome, everybody, back to the weird and strong podcast. I'm your host, Jeremy Grunsteiner. Today I've got Josh Gibson and Max Ada on the podcast, so we've got a twofer. Not usually our format. We usually talk one on one, and I love being able to have multiple voices in the room at the same time. So I'm excited about this. Josh, how you doing, man? Joshua Gibson [00:00:22]: I'm doing very well. It's. It's quite different to be on the other side of the mic. Um, literally, it's the same side, but, you know, this time being interviewed instead of doing the interviewing. So, um, I'm looking forward to the conversation. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:00:35]: Yeah. Very cool and welcoming back. Max, how are you doing today? Max Aita [00:00:38]: Hey, I'm well. I'm doing really well. Um, you know, just, uh, just living the dream. One day closer to death, 1ft in the coffin. You know, that always reminds me kind of stuff. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:00:51]: It always reminds me of, uh, uh, my favorite birthday song of. Are you guys, if you guys are familiar with Aurelio Voltaire, he's kind of a gothy, rocky alternative guy. He's got a birthday song or his happy birthday, my old friend. It seems this horror show will never end. Something about something. You're closer to your last breath. And here's to one day closer to death. Max Aita [00:01:16]: Wow. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:01:17]: Sounds dark. Max Aita [00:01:19]: It really just resonates with me. I feel that. I feel that on a regular basis. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:01:24]: We have to make sure to send that one to max on his birthday whenever that comes up. Max Aita [00:01:28]: Yeah. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:01:29]: As we start, every guest or two guests on this podcast, I've got a weird question for you guys. Are you ready? Joshua Gibson [00:01:35]: I'm ready. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:01:36]: Awesome. Josh, I'm going to start with you. Imagine yourself in a universe where pro wrestling and weightlifting have been combined and merged. You're set to compete, and you have to set yourself a walkout song. What walkout song are you picking for your weightlifting competition? Joshua Gibson [00:01:59]: That's a fantastic question. I love that we're developing alternate, you know, universes in which we operate. This one happens to clash or bring together weightlifting and wrestling. And for my walkout song, you know what? I'm going to make it as predictable as possible, and I'm going to say enter the sandman by Metallica. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:02:24]: Entrez, Sandman. Funny enough. So I just recently retired from my gigging life as a musician, and that was the last song. Last song we played. Joshua Gibson [00:02:36]: Wow. Max Aita [00:02:37]: Yeah. Joshua Gibson [00:02:38]: What a coincidence. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:02:39]: Yeah. Max, how about you? What is your. I know it's been a while since you've even. Since you've been on the competition platform, what song is going to bring you back out? Max Aita [00:02:50]: You know, what even is music? Let's break that down. Let's get down to the actual, the sound waves hitting our eardrums and really think about this. I have no idea. People ask me, well, someone asked me last night, what's your favorite song? And I just don't, I don't have, like, a favorite song. I mean, there's a lot of songs I'll listen to that I like, but I never thought of, like, oh, this is my favorite, or I know what a walkout song would be. Probably it either be, it always be something humorous to me. So, you know, it would probably be, probably be some kind of, I don't know, you know, some super, super bad poppy song from the eighties or like, maybe like a Cindy Lauper, like, you know, true colors or something. Just to be, just to be weird and confusing. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:03:45]: Give people, like, a questioning of who's actually about to come out right. Max Aita [00:03:50]: Well, versus, like, the predictable, you know, Metallica song. It's like everyone's, everyone's going to hear that and they're just going to be tuned out by the time, by the time the chorus comes around. You want someone engaged, you want them really fired up. You want people to hate you. You know, I can't control whether people are going to love me when I walk out, but I can definitely get them to hate me. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:04:10]: Well, it was like I just saw, it was in retrospective of somebody like the macho man who came out to pomp and circumstance where you're like, this is supposed to be like, this is a guy who's wearing a neon cowboy hat and shades and he comes out to this regal tune. It really makes people go, what is actually happening? Max Aita [00:04:30]: Right? And you almost wonder how much of those pro wrestlers, as anything progresses and gets more refined, you get more and more of like the, you know, I'm sure the current batch of pro wrestlers have, like, you know, come up and groom themselves through it and like, they are 100% through and through within the culture. But the old days, it was like, you know, the pro wrestler wasn't a profession. You became something like that. It's like, if you ever listen to, like, a Hulk Hogan's story, it's like he was like a guy who was, you know, doing all his weird shit and, you know, somehow ended up in it. So, like, how much of those guys were just like, it was just a inside joke for them to be everything the way they were, you know? Joshua Gibson [00:05:16]: Well, yeah, yeah. And juxtaposing this to the UFC, you have like, UFC one and it's like a sumo wrestler versus, like, a Brazilian jiu jitsu grappler. And it's like the most nonsensical that, like, what is happening? That's kind of what wrestling was like back in the day with, like, Mick Foley and. Max Aita [00:05:32]: Right. Joshua Gibson [00:05:32]: All these guys where it's just like, pieced together, you know, ragtag rugged. You're, you're throwing people off of like, you know, the top of a cage, onto tacks, on the, on the rink, on the ring, and now it's like, yeah, super groomed, super, like, cosmetic and aesthetic and theatrical. Yeah. Changes a lot. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:05:53]: Yeah, yeah. Whereas you look back, it's like, how much of that were they just making up on the fly? Oh, yeah, most of it, yeah. Or they're like, we're going to figure something out and we're going to make it happen. Max Aita [00:06:02]: Yeah. You know, just like you, you and your buddy just, you know, stripped down to your skivvies, oiled up, grabbing each other's thick, hard, veiny muscles and, you know, just getting next to each other. A couple of bros rubbing nips. You know, maybe the lips touch, maybe it's, you know, maybe it's only 1020 seconds at most, but they did touch. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:06:23]: And you gotta make sure some people, you gotta make sure a whole crowd of other guys is, oh, yeah, lots. Max Aita [00:06:29]: Of men watching us struggle with each other's bodies. Joshua Gibson [00:06:35]: I'm glad this is titled the Weird and Strong podcast because I think Max definitely provides the weird. I'm not sure if he any longer provides the strong, but definitely not one of those criteria. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:06:45]: Yeah, yeah, I think it's. And I appreciate that because it, I mean, it's making me laugh. So, I mean, that's, you know, in my, in my book, that's one of the things that I, I value a lot and value the most. Uh, thinking about into weightlifting, because, you know, ultimately, if you describe weightlifting a bit wrong, you know, we strap on a bunch of spandex, wear some high heels and lift some heavy weights over, over our head with our bros, uh, thinking to, um, the lifters in the world, um, since you both have gone through and had careers as weightlifters and competed, what are some of the things that. Or if you were to start over today or start over from scratch, let's say you're learning as a beginner again, knowing some of the things that you do know, what are the areas that you would focus on now as a beginner versus perhaps where you started from? Joshua Gibson [00:07:41]: Yeah. I mean, my mind instantly jumps to, I would find someone who can help me develop a process for figuring out what works and what doesn't. And I think there are a 1001 ways to make someone better. I mean, we see that through the wide variety of weightlifting coaches and the wide variety of methodologies they use. It's all weightlifting, but the iterations can be pretty stark. And people are still getting better, right? People are still setting. You know, we had Hampton Morris at a world record, and I don't think anyone else trains like him. Like, no one trains equivalent to him. Joshua Gibson [00:08:15]: I would say very few people train equivalent to Olivia Reeves. You go to a local meet and you're going to see a larger diversity of how people train, too. But the thing that really matters to me is, do you have a process by which you can track changes and performance and technique and really how people are taking to the training, and then you can make modifications that make sense. So when I started, I did 1001 different programs and I look back and I think, wow, that one really worked. What worked about it? And it's like, well, did it work because of the program or the time point or, like my stage and my lifting? And that's hard to single in on if you don't have a process that's a bit more strategic, a bit more well thought out, and a bit more, well, um, kind of like understood and documented. So you need good, good record keeping and I think kind of from start to finish, I wish I would have had that laid out so I could look back at trends and pick up on them. And with athletes I coach, that's kind of the big thing is, you know, what, what works, what doesn't, what can we change and then how do we know if the change is happening? Fact. Um, so I wo

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  2. 05/14/2024

    Max Aita: Unpacking a Methodical Approach to Coaching

    Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:00:02]: Welcome, everybody, to another episode of the Weird and strong podcast. I'm your host, Jeremy Gruensteiner. With me today, I've got Max Ada. Max, how you doing today, man? Max Aita [00:00:10]: I'm doing pretty well. Yeah. I'm a little early in the morning, but just getting some work done and having a good time. Yeah. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:00:17]: Sunshiny, California in an early morning. Sounds great. Sounds great. Overall, as we do with everybody on the show, I've got a weird question for you. Are you ready? Max Aita [00:00:28]: Cool. I'm ready. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:00:30]: Okay. Describe the most awkward photo you've ever taken. Max Aita [00:00:36]: Oh, well, okay. Probably not the most awkward, but one of the greatest photos of me ever taken. That would fall into awkward. But it's one of those photos where it's like, when you see it, it totally is. It's hilarious. But there's a meet. We did a power lifting meet. I did. Max Aita [00:00:59]: I didn't compete, but I had a couple lifters compete, and it was at Mark Bell's gym. This is like, God, it's probably, like 13 years ago, and my lifter won the cash prize, right? And so we took a photo of it, like, us kind of hanging out and standing there just kind of joking around, holding the money or something. And, like, a couple days later or whatever, I'm looking at the photo and I'm wearing these pants, these shorts that just happened to, like, drape in in just the right way that, like, my crotch, like, right from my crotch down to where the pocket must have been something in my pocket. It's like this perfectly shaped, like, you know, member that looks like it's, like, it's, like, over a foot long. It's, like, hilarious. Like, it's this, like, you know, ridiculous. Like, and you look at it and it's like, I actually have the photo on my phone. I always joke around my wife, and I always, like, pull it up. Max Aita [00:02:05]: But, yeah, it's like this hilarious looking. Like, when you see it, you're like, oh, my God. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:02:09]: What the hell? Max Aita [00:02:11]: That's got to be the most weird photo of me, for sure. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:02:13]: And you still keep it around? Max Aita [00:02:17]: Oh, yeah, no, I pull it out regularly. I show people on the street, on the subway. I was, you know, hey. Hey, Jason, you might think. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:02:23]: What do you think? Max Aita [00:02:23]: Yeah, you might think I'm a loser, but look at this. So, yeah, that's gotta be it, for sure. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:02:30]: That's. That's a great kickoff to the weird and strong podcast having. I mean, it's not the first time we've gone down that route with, especially with other coaches, because let's be honest. We're all basically 13. Um, yeah. Especially. Especially when it comes to the humor aspect of it. Max Aita [00:02:48]: Oh, sure. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:02:49]: You know, we. We talked a little bit off air of, you know, you growing up in, in Montana, and, like, people who are listening to this are familiar with, uh, the weightlifting community and, uh, familiar with you, you know, have that. That, uh, background of your work with Abhijeev, your work that you've done over. Gosh, what is it? Almost three decades of coaching in the sports, of weightlifting and powerlifting. Max Aita [00:03:11]: Oh, wow. Yeah. Over 20 years, for sure. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:03:14]: Yeah, yeah, yeah. And so with that, and, you know, you're. You're affiliated with many known brands and your own gym and your own companies. What's one thing that's unconventional about you that people may not know about? Max Aita [00:03:31]: I don't know if. I don't know if there's anything unconventional. That's hard to. It's hard to answer. I think the. The. Probably the one thing. And it's like, also, I don't know what people. Max Aita [00:03:44]: I don't know what people don't know. Yeah. So it's hard to answer that. But I would say, like, you know, probably the thing that I get, the thing that I probably got most a few years back was, like, this, the bulgarian thing that, like, that's, like, the thing I do, and that's the, like, you know, the essence of everything that's driven my. My coaching or whatever. And I would say it's not, you know, it's certainly not the case. Like, I don't. I've never been, like, this huge proponent of it or done this bulgarian style training with lots of people, but I've always been kind of, like, I would say, known for that or for the squatting stuff. Max Aita [00:04:23]: But I would say the thing that's unconventional is that I feel like my approach to trying to solve these problems is, is a bit different where I see, you know, the problem of trying to get somebody better at lifting or try to improve their performance or try to, you know, trying to produce a champion. Like, is, you know, the approach should be really methodical, and the approach should have some kind of, you know, basically objectivity to it that I think doesn't exist a ton in weightlifting now. I think people, like, like to latch on to. They like to latch on to, like, you know, what's the simplest answer for this? Like, what's the quick factoid? If you look at, like, the general nature of the way people do things now, weightlifting, even at the highest level, the, you know, at the world, you see a lot of just, like, I guess they call it, like, sort of shooting from the hip. Like the, like, methodical approach doesn't. Is not pervasive in my mind. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:05:34]: Okay. Max Aita [00:05:34]: Like, program writing, programming, doing programming, do all that stuff is not pervasive. So I'd say that's sort of my. Where I would say, you know, I fall. And I'm sure a lot of people are like that, too. But that would be the thing is that, you know, it's a little more weird in that way that, like, I would say being more methodical is the sort of element of what I do now. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:05:53]: Sure. And then in that, you know, for the listeners, uh, do you have an example of that, that of what that looks like from being much more methodical versus perhaps some of the things that you've witnessed at maybe a world's level that do have that shooting from the hip feel sense? Max Aita [00:06:09]: I mean. Yeah. So I'd say a good example is, like, a lot of coaches, a lot of people get into this and they, they start with, like, very beginner coaches start with the most obvious stuff they can touch, which is exercises. So you get in the gym and your whole perception, a lot of coaches that have coached for a long time will understand this sort of evolution. But day one, you know, you're a coach. You're just telling people to like, you're. You're throwing cues out and you're like, hey, do this, do that. Like, stay on your. Max Aita [00:06:43]: Stay on your heels or, you know, push with your arms or whatever, and you sort of feel like queuing is like the key to everything. I just find the right cue or I, you know, what's the cue for this? Like, whatever. Then you kind of move to exercises like, oh, I discovered a new movement and we're going to do this exercise. And that's the thing that fixes everything. And then, you know, you kind of graduate to like, oh, you know, it's all about this kind, kind of program, the sets and reps and these things, and that becomes this sort of evolution of like, you know, as you progress as a coach, you sort of latch onto these things whereas, you know, methodical approach would be, you know, taking a first principles approach to the way you do things. So looking at, like, what are the principles that govern the training process? What are the principles that govern coaching, that govern any of these elements and starting from there and building a system that emerges out of those principles. So an example would be like coaching and queuing some of the principles behind that would be like, make sure that your queuing is informative in a way that it actually improves the athletes performance. Or in training programming, make sure that you prioritize the principles of training in order that they're of their importance. Max Aita [00:08:13]: So specificity, overload, fatigue management, so you don't make decisions based on the little thing you found. So a cue sounds great, and it works for a minute. And so you will see coaches build systems around that. Oh, this is the cue that works, or this is how it should feel. And they build it around that. They build their system around that. Like. Like, a good example is like, the leg strength thing, the squat strength thing. Max Aita [00:08:41]: Oh, well, I squatted a lot and my. My lifts went up. So therefore, the program should be built around making your squat bigger. But that violates some principles of training in that, like, it's not necessarily maximizing specificity. Right. So I say all this kind of roundabout in that, like, the methodological approach is one in which you take the principles of training and you build a system that emerges from those principles versus what most people do, or I see a lot is people formulate systems or formulate programs based around sort of, like, you know, gut feelings or intuition that are not necessarily corroborated by principles or evidence or anything. It's just kind of a throw it in the air and let's do it right. And you see this a lot. Max Aita [00:09:34]: You see this at worlds. You see it all the time. Like, a good example would be like, Carlos Nassar before the. Before the Europeans this year, who watched him warm up in a training hall. And, like, a day or two out, he's doing like a 160 hang snatch triple. And he missed one of the reps. And, like, he won. He did great. Max Aita [00:09:59]: He lifted super huge. Like, I would have a hard time sitting there and being like, why did you do that? Like, what was the reason for doing th

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  3. 12/20/2023

    John Ryder: Adventures in Navigating the Music and Creative Fields

    Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:00:01]: Welcome back to the Weird and strong podcast, folks. I am your host, Jeremy Grunsteiner, and we've got an amazing musician that I have had the pleasure to get to know over the past year. We've got John Ryder on the show, the mastermind behind ghost made cellophane and empires of delirium. We talk about his path as a musician, where that has taken him both geographically, musically, and artistically, and also what's coming up for him in the future. So stay tuned, and let's get weird. Welcoming John Ryder to the weird and strong podcast. How you doing, man? John Ryder [00:00:37]: You know, I'm doing great. How you doing? Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:00:39]: I'm doing. I'm doing real well. It's great to see you again. It's been about a month and a half since we've seen each other, and, yeah, I'm glad that you're here. And I have a weird question for you. Are you ready? John Ryder [00:00:53]: Yeah. Shoot. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:00:56]: Is a quesadilla a grilled cheese sandwich? John Ryder [00:01:03]: I would say no. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:01:05]: Okay, fine. John Ryder [00:01:06]: I would say no. I think a grilled cheese sandwich is like brother and sister with, like, a melt. Okay. It's a type of, like, grain breaded material that's different. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:01:20]: Okay. John Ryder [00:01:21]: I feel like. I feel like if you did, like, um, you know, tortilla, it's. It's just a different type of family of grain. Yeah. I think that that's how I would differentiate the two. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:01:34]: Okay. John Ryder [00:01:35]: Yeah. Yeah. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:01:36]: So if you made a grilled cheese sandwich with potato bread, would it still count as a grilled cheese sandwich? John Ryder [00:01:44]: I would say so, yeah. I think it's the. It's the overall, like, end texture of, like, how it's. The bread is, like, risen from, like, bread versus, like, a tortilla. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:01:55]: Sure. So, like, if you made it with a pita, it wouldn't count. It would be. John Ryder [00:02:01]: It'd be closer to the tortilla. Yeah, I feel, yeah. Yeah. I actually, like, low key. Worked in the bakery for, like, three years, so maybe I have a slight bias to that. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:02:14]: But, like, so leavened versus unleavened. And that's the determination for the grilled cheese sandwich for you. John Ryder [00:02:22]: For me? Yeah. What about you? Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:02:27]: Well, this is a complicated question for me, it's like, I would say, yeah, it's a grilled cheese sandwich, but ultimately it's also a salad. John Ryder [00:02:37]: A salad? Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:02:38]: Yeah. John Ryder [00:02:38]: How's it a salad? Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:02:40]: So the definition of a salad, one of the definitions of a salad is any incongruous mixture. John Ryder [00:02:48]: Oh. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:02:49]: So, like, any mixture of ingredients is technically a salad. And so because it's not suspended in liquid, which would be a soup. It means that a quesadilla is a salad. So any of you wanting, wanting to get in your extra salads, just know a KCD is also a salad. Yeah. There's a very fun GitHub repository that talks about this, which is a salad theory. So proposing that all things in the universe are either a super salad based on their suspension in a liquid. So human beings could be postulated as walking soups or walking salads, depending on how you argue the point, based off of their criteria, which is just fun. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:03:39]: Fun thought experiments that people can run and play around with. Like, the definition of words gets real. John Ryder [00:03:46]: Weird in the way it does. Yeah, I'm definitely a soup. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:03:52]: You're definitely a soup. John Ryder [00:03:53]: Yeah. Probably something spicy. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:03:55]: Feeling like a spicy soup today. John Ryder [00:03:57]: Yeah. Yeah. Some spicy ramen. Yeah, for the butthole. I'm just saying. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:04:04]: That's great. Awesome, man. Let's talk more about you. For those that haven't been formally introduced to you, this is your ability to be able to share what makes John weird. What are the ways that you've shown up unconventionally in the world? What does that path look like for you? John Ryder [00:04:28]: Obviously, I'm very much into the music aspect of life, and I feel like, you know, I've kind of came in as an outcast into, like, what? You know, I'm from Minneapolis, but, like, the Minnesota music scene because I spent so much time in Los Angeles and some time up in Fargo, and I kind of came in out of left field with, like, I can video edit, I can, you know, use Photoshop, you know, record most of my own stuff, mix master most of my own stuff, you know, from, like, a omni perspective of, like, what it means to, like, make content as a music creator. And I feel like, you know, it's not a knock on the music scene currently. I do think it's a really good music scene, dare I say, better than the La music scene. But a lot of people are still kind of stuck, you know, in the prehistoric era of music, which is I want to, like, play guitar, and that's it. You know, I want to play drums. That's it. And I feel like if you want to have any kind of success and the music scapegoat nowadays, you have to be able to do a lot of different things, and not just the tech stuff on the back end, but also the social media on the front end and then just to think outside the box. So many metal bands have someone dying in their music video or blood or whatever. John Ryder [00:06:12]: And just thinking outside the box, being willing to take risks. And I think that's kind of where I feel unconventional, because, I mean, if you've heard, you know, like, empires of delirium, it's very much unconventional. It's a bass, vocals, and drums, and then the same thing musically for ghost made cellophane, which is, like, you know, right now, like, hip hop songwriters and, like, any kind of really heavy metals doing well in Minnesota. And it's a more melodic, ambient soundscape, but heavy vibe. And I think just coming in with that different perspective has set me apart in either band that I decide to make a focal point. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:07:01]: That's really cool in looking at that. So you talked about having these different skills, like, just the video editing the Photoshop and then getting used to and being really present on social media, because I noticed that, like, damn, John John's got this figured out, like, sitting there, like, for my own business, sitting and taking notes, even though it's not necessarily promoting music, but, like. Like, taking note of how somebody like you is able to bring that forward. What was that path like for you to learn how to balance all of these different roles or how to start to even just learn how to. How to effectively edit a video or make a social media post? What was that process like for you? John Ryder [00:07:50]: Honestly, it was really interesting. I've always been a huge fan of film, so that was kind of my. That was kind of my path as far as, like, okay, well, you know, I did, like, maybe like, a year and a half of film in college and then, like, a semester of web design and, like, a year of photography and Photoshop. And, like, it was interesting because I. When I took the classes, I wasn't really good at it. And then as I wanted to focus on music and, you know, you probably. I don't know if you've experienced this, but people want to, like, charge you so much money for content. And it's, you know, especially, like, when I lived down in LA, it was just like everybody was just taking advantage of. John Ryder [00:08:41]: There's, like, a stereotype for musicians on LA. It's the person who does. Who knows, like, three guitar chords and has a lot of money. And so that person, you know, it's like, oh, yeah, I'll pay $1,000 for this person to do this photo shoot for me and five, $6,000 for that person to do that video for me. And, you know, for me as a blue collar person, it's not really realistic. So I kind of went through and sucked at it for probably a good two or three years. I went back and looked at photos recently, and I was like, in videos, and I was like, man, using Final cut Pro X and those videos, someone can make a better video now on their phone than, you know, the numerous hours I spent on that one very poorly edited video. So, you know, it's weird for me because I started from a place of, well, it's. John Ryder [00:09:44]: I don't have any other path because I can't afford to pay people to do stuff for me. And then you kind of. When you. When I have done that, you. It's out of your hands. And I could speak about that here in a sec. But, yeah, to be on the flip side of sucking and then having people come up to me and, like, I've had bands locally ask me to, like, film videos for them and. Or do content for them. John Ryder [00:10:11]: And that is encouraging because it tells me that I'm doing something right as far as that aspect, creating something that looks professional, which I think is really important and I think really separates, you know, a band that's going to be a local band with no endpoint versus a band that, you know, could go on tour, you know, and there's exceptions, obviously, but. So that's been really interesting for me. Yeah. And I always ask people. I lean on people, like, you know, I ask Jay a lot of questions, you know? Yeah. But, yeah. Do you want me to expand on that at all or if you'd like. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:10:55]: To, you know, I think that's really great. And, like, the. The lesson that I'm hearing from you on that is something I talk about with people that I work with, and I hear this reinforced for me by, like, the coaches and mentors that I have in my life, as well. Li

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  4. 12/15/2023

    Kyle Smith: Unconventional Wisdom on Fitness, Awareness, and Living Authentically

    Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:00:01]: Welcome back to the Weird and strong podcast. I'm your host, Jeremy Gernsteiner. And today we have a special guest, Kyle Smith, otherwise known as Dapper dude Kyle. We get to talk about where his path has brought him into the coaching space and all of the weird and interesting things that he has discovered and found for himself. So without further delay, let's get weird. Welcome Kyle Smith to the Weird and strong podcast. How you doing today, man? Kyle Smith [00:00:29]: Dude, I'm doing pretty, pretty good. The weather's a little chilly, the sun's barely around, but overall I'm doing well. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:00:37]: That's fantastic. The listener is listening to this because this will be coming out in mid December. They'll be definitely feeling that, unless they live somewhere tropical. Yeah, we're getting into that season, that time of the year. Before we dive in, I've got a weird question for you. Are you ready? Kyle Smith [00:00:56]: Yes. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:00:57]: Awesome. If you woke up tomorrow and found that every single man on the planet could only communicate through interpretive dance, how would you adapt your communication style and your coaching methods? Kyle Smith [00:01:15]: Hmm. Hmm. I would. That's a great question. That's a fun one. That's a strange one. Yeah, I would. I would probably. Kyle Smith [00:01:35]: Well, for myself if I was communicating well, I probably learned a couple different languages because, you know, salsa is like the language of love. But then again, Kapoya is a dance martial art, so I guess it would depend on what I'm going with. But if I were to coach Macarena, obviously. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:01:55]: You just Macarena everything. Kyle Smith [00:01:57]: Yeah. But you know what? Breakdancing would definitely be up there on my list of at least dance moves that I would want to learn. I'm not sure how the utility, actually, the utility would be pretty sweet. And I think coaching people dancing would be really tough. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:02:12]: Yeah. Might be something to try at some point or like, just like a fun, fun exercise. We'll get a. We'll get a room of coaches together and we'll coach each other only using interpretive dance. Kyle Smith [00:02:24]: What's the worst that can happen? Has anyone asked you what your answer is to that? Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:02:29]: No. You're the first person I've asked this question to. Kyle Smith [00:02:31]: I would love to know what yours is. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:02:33]: Yeah, I just. I would dive in. I did study a bit of dance in my day, so I do have a little bit of background to be to not just wiggle and try to figure it out. Not that the structure or anything matters all that much, but a bit of physical awareness and people who come out of the fitness space, which you are from that world as well. We tend to have some body awareness that helps with a lot of that, too. Having some dance background helps with that, too. And looking back, you know, we have previous guests like Ben Walker, who was in musical theater, and so be interesting to hear him answer that question as well. Kyle Smith [00:03:21]: Nice. Do you switch up the questions for the guests? Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:03:23]: I do, yes. Kyle Smith [00:03:25]: Oh, nice. Cool. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:03:26]: Sometimes they're a repeat, but most of the time, there's something a bit new and. Yeah. So something else that we talk about quite a bit on this podcast is in the ways that people show up unconventionally. What are their strengths? What are the ways that make. What are the ways and the things that make them weird? So, Kyle, how do you show up in the world unconventionally, and what makes you weird? Kyle Smith [00:03:53]: Well, you know, one thing that's been a repeat, one. One thing that's been a repeat has been people find the way that I think to be interesting, and that's. And I don't know, maybe just because of what I'm interested in when it comes to the mind and the combination of. Combination of things. Well, it all started with a question that's, like, where it really started. But the way I think seems to be interesting to folks because, honestly, I have no idea. But the main. The main reason. Kyle Smith [00:04:35]: The main way I got my thinking, I'll talk about my thinking a bit, and then maybe you can. Yeah, but the way that I think is very. It's very. It has. I try to create or try to find myself in the way I think is also a reflection of my state of being as well. So I try to think and be in a state where it's energy neutrality. So it's. I really like. Kyle Smith [00:05:13]: I really like thinking. Thinking in expansiveness. Like, the mind does not have any limitations to the thoughts that we can have or the possibilities that we can conjure up. It's interesting because we understand the rules of the world around us, like our reality that we experience. And I think until, and I believe that people are taught what to think rather than how to think. And that puts a glass ceiling on the potential when the mind can have an unlimited capacity. So it's like we may be a physical body, like, we could be a planet, but our brain is the universe, the universe as a bigger whole. And the way they. Kyle Smith [00:06:04]: The way that I think is, I don't know. It just breaks down. It breaks things down to the simplest component, because I think overcomplicating things is simple, and people are really good at overcomplicating things. But when we actually reverse it and pull back. We can simplify things down to the smallest part. And in my opinion, the main reason we don't try to simplify things that could be seemingly difficult is because we do not want to address the truth of that simplicity. Because then it makes it easier for us to feel shame and guilt for not living and being. And interacting in alignment with that. Kyle Smith [00:06:48]: So there's like. So there's like that resistance to trying to simplify things because we don't want to simplify things so much so that we actually have to do the thing that we talked about doing. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:06:59]: Yeah. Yeah. So to, like, summarize and maybe paraphrase some of the things that you're talking about, you know, looking at, let's say perhaps a person is having a very tough time and either making a decision or trying to find a way forward, feeling really stuck in their life, feeling like they're really lost, and they have these. These thoughts that they feel stuck on, and they. It's swirling around, swirling around, swirling around. And you're saying that because we're trying to. We're trying to constrain and control of what we can control of that simplicity. Looks like that when we take that step back, we can actually see it for whatever the easy or simple step forward would be to get us out of that is that totally. Kyle Smith [00:07:48]: We go from a place of perception to a place of perspective. So we go from being in it to being over it. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:07:54]: Yeah, absolutely. Kyle Smith [00:07:57]: That's a great paraphrase. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:07:58]: Thank you. Thank you. You know, on a personal experience, like seeing this happen for myself many times over my life, but even recently, I was struggling with this idea. Struggling. Trying to. Trying to make the. Trying to figure out a solution to a problem. And there's a phrase that I've used over and over again, is this idea of the tyranny of the urgent, like, it has to be done right now, and I have to get it done. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:08:29]: I have to solve this puzzle by Friday because there's timelines and there's things on the line, there's skin in the game, whatever you want to call it, and creating that external pressure for ourselves. And then the moment that I was able to step to the side and let that go, oh, then the solution came and presented itself in a new way. So for you, as you've discovered this, is this something that was really natural to you that you just did on your own, or was there some sort of a path that you came to, to start to find and see this way of thinking for yourself that others find so interesting? Kyle Smith [00:09:14]: I think there is a series of things for sure. I really dig a lot of philosophy. I like researching all sorts of cultures, all sorts of different religions, all sorts of different forms of spirituality, all different sorts of psychedelics. So there's a collection of things that have certainly contributed to my thinking process overall. But if I were to put two points in time where they're the most significant, one would be the world's toughest mudder in 2016. And that one was because I really pushed the body. So after that point, I came up with a philosophy that in order to. In order to build up the mind, we got to break down the body in a sense, because when we are not working in alignment with our thoughts, with our brain and our body, then they're out of alignment. Kyle Smith [00:10:17]: So the way I look at it is that it's the head, the heart, and the intuition, the human consciousness, the animal consciousness, and the higher consciousness. So I break it down to that kind of a thought process. And then if you have your mind wave far one direction and your body the other direction, then things are not going to be able to alignment or align. And so when things are out of alignment, then that's the time that's appropriate to recalibrate. So when I was able to give myself that opportunity to recalibrate those two points, where I was able to say to myself, wow, in my. To my standards, in my opinion, I was just being a pansy ass m**********r, when realistically, for me at that point, it's actually for that lesson from there is any sort of misery that I'm experiencing is most likely due to myself first and less to do with the surrounding environments, ci

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  5. 12/13/2023

    Joel Cochran | Self-Acceptance Is Your Secret Weapon

    Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:00:01]: Welcome back to the Weird and strong podcast. I am your host, Jeremy Grinsteiner. And this episode, we have Joel Cochrane on the show, just a simply badass human being who is a lifelong coach, an entrepreneur, and public speaker. We get to dive into his background. What are the lessons that he learned along the way? So, without further delay, let's get weird. All right. Welcoming Joel Cochrane to the podcast. How are you doing? Joel Cochran [00:00:29]: What's happening, dude? I'm living my best day ever. Every day, man. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:00:35]: That's great. Yeah, you were telling me a little bit about it, of just having an awesome Friday. You were talking about it, and I was like, oh, man, I think I need to get out and get a couple of lifts in today, even though I did a little bit earlier this morning. I've got a weird question for you. Joel Cochran [00:00:51]: Are you ready? I love weird questions. The weirder the better. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:00:56]: I love. Would you rather questions because especially when they are a bit weird. Joel Cochran [00:01:01]: Yeah. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:01:02]: Would you rather have legs as long as your fingers or fingers as long as your legs? Joel Cochran [00:01:11]: I would go with fingers as long as my legs. Why? The way I feel about it is, okay. I get to stay at my height. Fingers can kind of curl in, right? Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:01:28]: Yeah. Joel Cochran [00:01:29]: So I can make a fist. It's going to be a really big fist, but I can make a fist. And then I'm thinking about, like, what I initially went to was, man, how easy would it be to be able to get fruit from the tree? Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:01:43]: Yeah. Joel Cochran [00:01:44]: I'm like, if my fingers as long as my legs, I'd just, like, reach up and I would be another 3ft longer. I'd be able to pull off the perfect apple from the tree. I'd go with that. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:01:58]: Could always pick up things off of high shelves, change the tv channel from across the room without a remote. Joel Cochran [00:02:04]: That's what I'm thinking. I believe that's much more of a win than all of a sudden. I go from my height now to really short and looking up, I just feel like that would be so much more of a detriment. I wouldn't be able to run either. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:02:20]: Or you'd run very slowly? Joel Cochran [00:02:22]: I'd run very slowly, and I would much rather have the capacity to walk and run. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:02:30]: It makes me wonder, would you be able to then use those leg length fingers to help pull yourself along, like, extra legs? Joel Cochran [00:02:38]: Yeah, that would be so creepy. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:02:40]: Yeah. Joel Cochran [00:02:41]: Running down the road and you're just. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:02:42]: Like, somebody's having nightmares from that visual. For real, probably. Joel Cochran [00:02:49]: Yeah. Yeah, I like that. Some Freddy cougar kind of. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:02:58]: You know, looking, know we've gotten connected through the enlifted crowd and lifted experience, as many of the guests currently have come from. I'm curious of what are the things about you that are unconventional or weird that people may not know about? Joel Cochran [00:03:17]: You know, as a. As a coach, I've been a coach my entire life, from the very young age, coaching others, being the captain on my teams and this leadership different position. And I was a recreational coordinator for after school program. So I was in charge of 300 kids and 30 staff and so on and so forth. And one of the things that people are surprised about in terms of one, how long I've been coaching, I've been a coach, like I said, 15 plus years. And to become a master at anything, you need those 10,000 hours and quality 10,000 hours. Yet one of the things that I get on shows a lot and talk about and very open and vulnerable about is my experience with my childhood, with my mom and my dad. And I am a big supporter of healing generational trauma. Joel Cochran [00:04:39]: It's so vital, particularly if you want to have children, because if you are not going to heal your trauma from your parents, you will. Listen up, folks. You will already have passed it down to your kids, knowing or unknowingly. And I have been very blessed and lucky to have had the experience I've had with my parents. Alibit being very hard and difficult and a struggle. Yet what has taught me about myself, what has taught me about my coaching, how at any point, the realities of our past can change, our perceptions of our realities can always change. Doesn't mean that the abuse that I had physically and verbally growing up as a child changes, but my perception of it absolutely does. And my perception of my mother and my father absolutely does. Joel Cochran [00:05:52]: And when you're able to heal that space, you create a very opening, healthy space for yourself, then your parents, then your significant other, and then your kids. Yet, if we don't have self acceptance, go ahead and keep trying to self develop. You're going to get nowhere fast. Because I spent $50,000 on self development, and it wasn't until I had self acceptance that my life truly changed. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:06:27]: Yeah, that's very well said. And amazing revelations in that, of what that path, in a very short and abbreviated version of that, is like for myself. It's a different flavor of that. We said the $50,000 to get to the. Oh, it's actually about self acceptance. Notice that I went from 300 pounds, never touched a barbell, into my life, to competing at a national stage at weightlifting because I went from one extreme to the other and got to it and went, I'm still unhappy and I'm fulfilled. And it wasn't until the last couple of years of getting exposed to our common contacts in the lifted community of what I was actually looking for when I first stepped into a gym was that self connection and that self acceptance. And something you said was about reality. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:07:32]: Your perception of the reality changes ultimately. Isn't that what we only. That's the only thing we actually have is our perception. Reality is our perception. Joel Cochran [00:07:45]: That's right. And a lot of people have an external to internal perception of their realities. What is being told to me? What am I seeing? How is the external world affecting me? Instead of how is my internal world affecting this external universe that I'm living in? We too often get caught up in that realm. I need to get this, achieve this, go to this. The entire time, we're trying to move that finish line just a little bit farther, but we never get past the finish line. And if we do get past the finish line, what are finish lines all about? Stopping. So when you finally get to the national stage and you finally get the gold medal, then what exactly? Oh, that's right. You stop. Joel Cochran [00:08:36]: You stop. Yet, self acceptance, self love is eternal till the day you die. And so if we can create an internal view of ourselves first, then we aren't as affected of the external. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:08:55]: Well, and also to your point of that finish line, the stoppage, it's almost like I was just having a conversation with a friend over coffee about this, this morning and have had this conversation coming up in various ways of, we have this draw towards achievement, towards checking the box, crossing that finish line. It's like we're trying to continually hurry up to rush to the finish line. Yeah, it's like, well, what is the finish line for all of us, right? It's like, would I rather being able to take that step back and look at, am I actually trying to rush towards done and truly done? Or am I distracted from loving the actual process and journey? Am I too distracted with the destination? That I can't see how cool it is to be on the way to. Joel Cochran [00:09:51]: The destination too often to that point. Like, we want to celebrate, we will wait to celebrate until we get to the destination instead of celebrating the actions that get us to the destination. Because if we're celebrating the actions, the destination starts becoming less and less relevant. Because when I celebrate that I made it to the gym today, when I celebrate that I lifted today, I celebrate that I grabbed that bar today, when I go like, do damn good job, 85 pound three position snatch today, that was big high fives for me. Far from my one rep max, but I celebrate those movements, man. Great movements. Good intention. I loved what you did today, Joel. Joel Cochran [00:10:43]: That's amazing. You're healing your back. That's amazing. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:10:48]: Yeah, that's really cool. And reminds me of a practice from a dear friend and former podcast guest as well, of giving yourself permission to do exactly what you said, of give yourself credit for what you did do instead of beating yourself up for what you didn't do, especially towards the end of the day when you're ready to go to bed, of really opening that up and celebrating all of the ways that you did show up. It is so easy for us to get into that space of you didn't do it. It wasn't perfect. So and so is doing it better. I used to be able to do so much more. All of the stories that come up with that for you, what was that major. So you talked about being able to find this self acceptance on this journey. Joel Cochran [00:11:35]: Sure. Yeah. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:11:37]: Was there a particular moment that clicked through finally for you? And what was that moment like? Joel Cochran [00:11:47]: Yeah, the moment for me. I was 36 years old at the time. 36. 35. I was 35 at the time. And I had just gone through a really tough breakup. This is with a girl that I had a house with. We bought this

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  6. 12/11/2023

    Beth Ann | Embracing the Journey to Self-Love

    Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:00:01]: Welcome back to the Weird and strong podcast. I'm your host, Jeremy Gernsteiner, and we have a special episode with Beth Anne, a self love coach and Reiki master who is doing amazing things out in the world. And this was simply such a fun and amazing conversation. We get deep into some of her background and her path of what's brought her into the space of coaching and where she's going. So without further delay, let's get weird, folks. Bethan, welcome to the Weird and strong podcast. It's great to see you. Beth Ann [00:00:34]: It's great to see you, too. Thank you for having me. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:00:37]: Yeah, it's been rad to get to know everybody in the community, especially those of us who were at the enlifted event, which, if you've been listening to all the episodes, might be noticing a theme that this is something that's been coming up with all the guests. So I have a weird question for you. Are you ready? Beth Ann [00:00:57]: Yes. Hit me. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:00:59]: If you were a type of jeans, what type would you be. Beth Ann [00:01:08]: Like? J-E-A-N-S? Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:01:10]: Yes. The pants. Beth Ann [00:01:13]: Oh, I love this question. I would be. Damn it. Corduroy. Corduroy for sure. Yeah. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:01:22]: All right. Any particular style? Boot cut. Bell bottom. Low rise. High rise. Beth Ann [00:01:29]: High rise bell bottoms for sure. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:01:32]: High rise, bell bottom. Corduroy jeans. Beth Ann [00:01:36]: I'm picturing, like, this, like, mustard yellow or brown color as well. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:01:41]: That's just, like early 70s in a nutshell. Beth Ann [00:01:48]: I was born in the wrong generation. Just kidding. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:01:52]: Just missed out on all of that. I suppose you also missed the resurgence of the bell bottoms in the 90s as well. Beth Ann [00:01:59]: Well, I was a baby, but I'm actually wearing bell bottoms right now. They're snake print. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:02:06]: Nice. That's super rad. Beth Ann [00:02:09]: Yeah. So I'm grateful that they're coming back around. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:02:12]: Yeah, super cool. As we talk with everybody, we talk about our guests and their stories and what makes them weird and unconventional. So for you, what are the ways that people might not be aware of that make you unconventional? Beth Ann [00:02:32]: There's so many. I was looking up the definition of weird before hopping on here, and it said there was like, the immediate response was strange and blah, blah, blah. But when I scrolled a little bit, it said weird means of strange or extraordinary character, odd and fantastic. And then underneath that it said of relating to or caused by witchcraft or the supernatural, magical. And I resonate a lot with that. Yeah. I think that when I was reflecting on this and realizing that I was most likely going to be asked what makes me weird or unconventional, I was just washed up by all of these things. And one of the things that stuck out to me was that I enjoy talking to strangers. Beth Ann [00:03:28]: And I mean, like, on the bus, because I don't have a car. I'm on the bus a lot. I like talking to strangers on the bus, in the grocery store, wherever I am. And I feel that seems a little silly to say out loud, but I recognize, especially in the city where I'm at, people tend to avoid even making eye contact with each other. So I like to get through that initial layer of stickiness with strangers and see what's really going on, because I find that most people do want to connect, and they want to be seen and heard, and it's just like a defense mechanism against the threats that could be out there. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:04:11]: Yeah, absolutely. I was just having a conversation with Casey Pepper, which previous episode to this one of something very similar, of this idea of many of us feeling isolated in a world of ever increasing connectiveness. How much more isolated and alone people feel, or at least we're noticing that people feel or that we're seeing take place in the world. Aside from the defense mechanism component of that, do you have any thoughts on why we're finding that more and more? Beth Ann [00:04:47]: Well, that's a whole rabbit hole. Social media and the Internet, I feel, is a super powerful tool. And it also is like. I mean, I find myself doing it where I'm feeling a lack of something or a need to distract myself, and I'll go on Instagram or Facebook or something and see what's on there. And then on there, I am comparing myself subconsciously to all the other people doing all of the cool things to the point of creating this self doubt and separation of me and them as being elsewhere on their journey. So I feel the disconnect in a world that's. I mean, it's literally full of people and opportunities. And like you said, ever expanding connection. Beth Ann [00:05:41]: It can be all too easy to fall into our beliefs of smallness or not enoughness or fear of being seen. And that can come from. I can give you a personal example. I was home schooled until fifth grade. And before I started public school, I had no concept of what was weird or normal. That really wasn't in my understanding. And then when I entered school, I realized that there was ways in which people functioned that were similar ways, that people spoke to each other already existing groups. And it became increasingly scary to try to find my way into those already existing groups. Beth Ann [00:06:29]: And I find that a lot of adults, as well as kids, are walking around with that same feeling of insecurity and not belonging. And we talk a lot in the enlisted community about our Billy voice and the beliefs and thoughts and stories and feelings we all hold. And I think that a lot of people, like the mass majority of people, are walking around secretly feeling like they don't belong. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:07:04]: And is that actually true? Beth Ann [00:07:07]: Are you asking me? Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:07:09]: Yeah. Beth Ann [00:07:10]: Is it true that they don't belong, or is it true that they think they don't belong? Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:07:15]: Yes. Beth Ann [00:07:18]: Well, I can say that that's my perception of what's going on. And I also know that not belonging is right. Like, I remember I heard, I believe it was Halle Meadows, and she had said that one of her affirmations is, I belong everywhere I am. And I plucked that out, and I've been using it ever since as like a mechanism of. Because when I am saying this about general society feeling, this not belongingness, part of it is like a projection of something that I've experienced myself, of feeling like I don't belong where I am. And that is just like, ultimately separating. I'm not even giving people the opportunity to see me or me them as a result. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:08:13]: Yeah, that's interesting. You mentioned of having this sense of otherness or not quite being sure of what social norms are after the home school experience, and I was like, I wasn't homeschooled. I feel that deeply. And I'm assuming that there's also many of us out there that have a very similar experience that we, for whatever reason, don't share of. Like, man, being a kid was real awkward. I didn't really understand what I was supposed to do or who I was supposed to be. And yet somehow we all experience this in this silent pact that we won't talk about it. Beth Ann [00:08:58]: That is interesting because it is universal, even. I'm sure that kids that seem to have large groups of friends were probably experiencing that same thing, of wanting to mesh into the collective mind rather than having their own voice, thoughts, and experience. What's that all about? Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:09:20]: It's like, just the human experience, period, is just a big old ball of weird. Beth Ann [00:09:27]: Yeah, awkward is a good way to put it. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:09:29]: Awkward? Yeah. Beth Ann [00:09:31]: Just like finding your footing. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:09:33]: Yeah. And since you brought it up, and we haven't talked about this on the show in a bit, are you aware of the origin of the word weird? Beth Ann [00:09:45]: I'm not. Will you remind me? Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:09:47]: Yeah, it's okay. So it's cool that you brought up this supernatural aspect of it, because the old english version of weird W-Y-R-D has to do with destiny and the fates. So if you remember, if you're familiar with Macbeth, there were the weird sisters standing for the fates, the three fates, the maiden, mother and Crone. And so it's this idea of this weaving, of this tapestry of reality or of your destiny. And so it's one of the things that we talk about the most on the show is being able to talk about people's experiences and talk about them being themselves, because that's truly weird. In the world of a world of people attempting to be other people, people who are truly themselves are the weird ones because they are marching towards their destiny. Beth Ann [00:10:45]: So it's not like a signifier of not fitting in or of being out of place by any means. It is a representation of moving towards what you came here to do. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:10:59]: Again, it's the story that we tell ourselves, and so we can assign the meaning of not fitting in, of not being enoughness, or we can assign that meaning of being who we are and being in the right place at the right time, being exactly where we need to be at this moment. And knowing that I'm moving forward towards whatever I'm moving towards. Beth Ann [00:11:24]: I really like that reframe. Jeremy Gruensteiner [00:11:28]: It's an interesting one, and we haven't talked about it in a while, so feared. It's bears bringing up in different ways. As that continue

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Step into the exhilarating vortex of the "Weird and Strong Podcast," where the extraordinary is the norm and strength comes in fascinating forms! We're not just a podcast; we're a movement, dedicated to casting a spotlight on the awe-inspiring individuals who dare to make waves in the vast ocean of the ordinary. Our guests hail from every corner of the human mosaic, and they're here to jolt your senses, challenge your perceptions, and leave an indelible mark on your understanding of what it means to be weird, to be strong, to be uniquely impactful. Join us for conversations that resonate with inspiration, peppered with insights that promise to enlighten, entertain, and elevate your every day. We aren't just another show; it's your ticket to a world brimming with wonder and wisdom. Subscribe and strap in for a journey through stories that defy the mundane and celebrate the remarkable. Tune in now and transform your perspective with each enthralling story we unravel. Support the Podcast! Buy Me A Coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/weirdandstrong Weird and Strong Gear: https://weird-and-strong.printify.me/products Learn More About What We Do: https://lnk.bio/weirdandstrong Are you a Millenial that wants to transform from Burned-Out to Bad-Ass, book a free 15-minute call with Coach Jeremy to chat about your goals and struggles: https://api.leadconnectorhq.com/widget/bookings/weird-and-strong-connection-call