Well Well Well

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Join Cal, Rachel, Jack, Joel and Jordan on Well Well Well each week to get all the latest on mental health, HIV & sexual health, and the overall health and wellbeing of our LGBTIQA+ communities on JOY 94.9 and on the podcast. A service for our LGBTIQA+ community proudly supported by JOY and Thorne Harbour Health.

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Leather Titles Return to New Zealand

Jack and Cal return to the world of leather, kink, and fetish title competitions through Cal’s journey as Mr. Australian Leather, including his visit to Auckland for the inaugural MX Gear New Zealand title. We hear from contestants including a 74-year-old trans man finding his second wind in community, a South Island pup advocating for trans rights, and a self-proclaimed “comedy queen” channelling Princess Margaret on their path to the title. The conversation unpacks how these titles serve as platforms for sexual health advocacy, community building, and solidarity at a time when queer infrastructure is under pressure globally. Chapters 00:00 – Intro and Cal’s sash queen revelation 02:02 – Cal’s history in Melbourne leather community 02:55 – Origins of leather title competitions 03:37 – Evolution toward inclusive mixed gear titles 05:08 – Cal wins Mr Australian Leather title 06:21 – Inside look at leather community gatherings 10:53 – Titleholders as advocates and community leaders 13:10 – What judges look for in competitions 20:53 – Luca 74 year old trans man competes 28:44 – Chief represents South Island at competition 34:16 – Robbie Abundance wins inaugural Mix Gear title 44:18 – Producer Sean on launching the event All chapter timecodes are approximate. Want more Well Well Well? Check out our other JOY Podcasts for more on LGBTIQ+ health and wellbeing at joy.org.au/wellwellwell. If there’s something you’d like us to explore on the show, send through ideas or questions at wellwellwell@joy.org.au Find out more about LGBTIQ+ services and events in Victoria and South Australia at thorneharbour.org. Produced by: Jack Crnjanin & Caleb Hawk
Jul 23

Sex Work Advocacy with Jenna Love

Jenna Love has worked as an independent sex worker for over a decade, and now leads Sex Work Advocacy work as the president of Scarlet Alliance. In this episode she speaks with Jordan about her experience at the Women Deliver conference in Melbourne to the fight for decriminalisation across so-called Australia. We explore the long history of peer-to-peer organising in the sex worker community, the contagious spread of the Nordic model, and what genuine allyship looks like. Chapters 00:00 — Introduction 05:00 — Meeting incredible overachievers at Women Deliver 10:00 — Creating the sex worker networking zone 15:00 — Emerging Together: Sex Work at End of Empire 20:00 — Global solidarity among sex workers across borders 25:00 — Advice for allies supporting sex worker advocacy 30:00 — The Nordic Model and its harmful impact 35:00 — Queensland’s decriminalisation as best practice model 40:00 — Whore Walk: sex work history walking tours 45:00 — Sex work and digital rights All chapter timecodes are approximate. Want more Well Well Well? Check out our other JOY Podcasts for more on LGBTIQ+ health and wellbeing at joy.org.au/wellwellwell. If there’s something you’d like us to explore on the show, send through ideas or questions at wellwellwell@joy.org.au Find out more about LGBTIQ+ services and events in Victoria and South Australia at thorneharbour.org. Produced by: Jack Crnjanin & Jordan
Jul 16

Sneaker Fetish and Sexually Adventurous Men

We discuss sexually adventurous men's project, Down an' Dirty, with Craig from Thorne Harbour Health. This sexual health resource for sexually adventurous men covers kink, fetish, and harm reduction. Wayne from SNKR Bar joins to discuss sneaker fetish culture and his Melbourne-based community events for sportswear enthusiasts. We also talk about how safe, inclusive spaces support LGBTIQA+ communities explore various aspects of sexual expression while prioritising consent and community connection. Chapters 00:00 - Intro 01:42 - Down and Dirty sexually adventurous men health project overview 02:32 - Extensive range of kink fetish sexual practices content 05:09 - Harm reduction framework keeping community members safe during sexual activities 12:48 - Wayne from SNKR Bar joins to discuss sneaker fetish culture discussion 14:18 - Wayne shares personal journey 19:54 - Sportswear fetish offers accessible affordable alternative to expensive leather gear 24:54 - Sneaker Bar events create welcoming social space for newcomers to explore All chapter timecodes are approximate. Want more Well Well Well? Check out our other JOY Podcasts for more on LGBTIQ+ health and wellbeing at joy.org.au/wellwellwell. If there’s something you’d like us to explore on the show, send through ideas or questions at wellwellwell@joy.org.au Find out more about LGBTIQ+ services and events in Victoria and South Australia at thorneharbour.org. Produced by: Jake Neville, Jack Crnjanin, Craig Bascand
Jul 9

Mental Health Content on Social Media and Pop Psychology Myths Debunked

What's behind the explosion of mental health content flooding social media feeds today? We ask Lilly, a registered psychologist from Thorne Harbour Health's Under the Rainbow program, to help us find the answer. Jake and Jack speak with them about concerning trends including simplified diagnoses, debunked frameworks like love languages and MBTI, and why pathologising everyday behaviours can be problematic. We explore how to spot credible information versus clickbait, why self-diagnosis has both benefits and risks, and what you can expect if you decide to speak with a psychologist or therapist. Chapters 00:00 - Introduction and Social Media Concerns 01:53 - Meet Psychologist Lilly From Under The Rainbow 03:54 - Psychologist Versus Therapist Explained Simply 06:11 - Working As An LGBTIQA+ Psychologist 14:24 - Spotting Mental Health Misinformation Online 16:51 - Red Flags In Pop Psychology Content 27:14 - Debunking Love Languages And MBTI Myths 37:18 - What Your First Therapy Session Looks Like All chapter timecodes are approximate. Want more Well Well Well? Check out our other JOY Podcasts for more on LGBTIQ+ health and wellbeing at joy.org.au/wellwellwell. If there’s something you’d like us to explore on the show, send through ideas or questions at wellwellwell@joy.org.au Find out more about LGBTIQ+ services and events in Victoria and South Australia at thorneharbour.org. Produced by: Jake Neville, Jack Crnjanin
Jul 2

First Nations Storytelling and Mob+

Rachel is joined by Jacob Boehme, an award-winning filmmaker, choreographer, and cultural leader. Jacob shares his journey from a troubled teenager in Melbourne's western suburbs to his studies, where he discovered the deep connections between traditional cultural practice and theatre. We also explore his acclaimed solo work Blood on the Dance Floor, which centres First Nations experiences of living with HIV. He closes after speaking about his current role leading the Mob+ program at Thorne Harbour Health's Positive Living Centre in Prahran. Chapters 00:00 - Show introduction and guest overview 01:52 - Early theatre and dance beginnings 05:54 - Cultural discovery and identity at NAISDA 08:22 - Multidisciplinary ceremony as theatre practice 11:45 - Founding Yirramboi Festival with self-determination 15:50 - Blood on the Dance Floor 20:21 - Introducing the Mob Plus program 26:03 - Hopes for the future of Mob+ All chapter timecodes are approximate. Want more Well Well Well? Check out our other JOY Podcasts for more on LGBTIQ+ health and wellbeing at joy.org.au/wellwellwell. If there’s something you’d like us to explore on the show, send through ideas or questions at wellwellwell@joy.org.au Find out more about LGBTIQ+ services and events in Victoria and South Australia at thorneharbour.org. Produced by: Rachel Cook, Jack Crnjanin
Jun 25

Kink and Activism with Kitty Obsidian

Trans non-binary performer Kitty Obsidian joins us to discuss the intersection of fetish performance, activism, and community health. Joel and Jake speak with them about the legal realities of sex work in Australia, why risk-awareness is essential for both performers and participants, and their involvement with the Touchbase harm reduction campaign. We also talk about creating safer queer spaces and the inaugural Fetish Fantasy Ball fundraising gala supporting sex worker and First Nations organisations. Chapters 00:00 - Intro and Host Welcome 02:11 - Meeting Kitty Obsidian 04:54 - Life Journey and Discovering Queer Identity 09:31 - Performance Audiences From Cabaret To Sex Shows 14:17 - Decolonizing White Centred Performance Spaces 20:50 - Understanding Leather And Rubber Title Pageants 24:42 - Harm Reduction Education And Touchbase Campaign 33:04 - Fetish Fantasy Ball Fundraiser And Personal Self Care All chapter timecodes are approximate. Want more Well Well Well? Check out our other JOY Podcasts for more on LGBTIQ+ health and wellbeing at joy.org.au/wellwellwell. If there’s something you’d like us to explore on the show, send through ideas or questions at wellwellwell@joy.org.au Find out more about LGBTIQ+ services and events in Victoria and South Australia at thorneharbour.org. Produced by: Joel Parker, Jake Neville
Jun 19

Sexperts Trivia for JOY Radiothon!

This special live broadcast from JOY's 2026 Radiothon features a spirited "Sexpert Trivia" challenge. We dive into the archives of Victorian AIDS Council campaigns, decode hanky colour meanings, and discuss the practical importance of various barrier methods. Chapters 00:00 - Radiothon special kickoff and guest intros 04:11 - HIV campaign poster history 08:53 - CondoMan superhero campaign origins 13:11 - Drama Down Under campaign in the top end 17:32 - Barrier methods 28:05 - Hanky codes 32:18 - Final scores All chapter timecodes are approximate. Want more Well Well Well? Check out our other JOY Podcasts for more on LGBTIQ+ health and wellbeing at joy.org.au/wellwellwell. If there’s something you’d like us to explore on the show, send through ideas or questions at wellwellwell@joy.org.au Find out more about LGBTIQ+ services and events in Victoria and South Australia at thorneharbour.org. Produced by: Rhian Graco-Ilves, Jack Crnjanin, Joel Parker, Jake Neville
Jun 11

Why Australia’s HIV Response is State by State

We explore why Australia relies on state-based organisations to tackle HIV and sexual health rather than only one national body.

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Join Cal, Rachel, Jack, Joel and Jordan on Well Well Well each week to get all the latest on mental health, HIV & sexual health, and the overall health and wellbeing of our LGBTIQA+ communities on JOY 94.9 and on the podcast. A service for our LGBTIQA+ community proudly supported by JOY and Thorne Harbour Health.