Westside Podcast

Westside Community Church

This is the official weekly podcast of Westside Community Church in Beaverton, Oregon. We’re made up of a variety of people who like to keep it real, don’t take themselves too seriously and who want to get the most out of life.  At Westside, we welcome people from all walks of life – in fact, there are NO PERFECT PEOPLE ALLOWED! We strive to be a "safe place to investigate faith" so people can come as they are and be themselves while they explore who Jesus is, find friends and make a difference.   We post content here that is practical, helpful, and relevant to real life. We hope you'll find the inspiration, motivation and help to grow. #help #hope #practical #jesus #growth #spiritualgrowth #nojudgment

  1. Staying Committed When Relationships Get Hard

    3D AGO

    Staying Committed When Relationships Get Hard

    Send a text This week on Midweek Motivation, Jess and Rachel talk about something we all feel right now: it’s getting easier to step away from people when relationships get hard. From marriage and friendships to everyday interactions, we’re living in a culture where ghosting feels normal, but God calls us to something deeper: commitment, love, patience, and peace. Discover Why “tapping out” has become the default in our cultureHow trauma, fear, and comfort can shape how we relate to peopleWhat it looks like to stay committed in marriage when it’s hardHow friendships can survive conflict and come back strongerA shift that changes everything: seeing people the way God sees themPractical biblical guidance from Romans 12 and Philippians 2Why simple moments like eye contact and a smile can be life-givingHow Jesus prioritized relationships (the 3, the 12, the 72, and the crowd) When we’re grounded in our identity in Christ, it becomes easier to show love outwardly. This episode is a reminder that we can’t control what other people do, but we can choose to do all that we can. One person at a time, one relationship at a time, we can break the cycle of “connected but alone.” Key Takeaways Commitment is a decision, not just a feelingThe hard thing is often the right thing in relationshipsNot every relationship needs the same investment, but every person deserves love and respectTime with God shapes how we treat peopleDoing “all you can” includes simple actions like reaching out, acknowledging, and staying present Question for you to think about Is there anyone in your life right now that you’ve quietly “tapped out” on, and what would it look like to take one small step toward peace? Calls to action Subscribe so you don’t miss next week’s episode. If this encouraged you, share it with a friend and leave a like or review. Want to connect in person? Come visit a Westside service this weekend at WestsideCommunityChurch.com #MidweekMotivation #WestsideCommunityChurch #Relationships #Friendship #Marriage #Commitment #Bible #Jesus #FaithInRealLife #Romans12 #Philippians2

    56 min
  2. Selfless Love: Put WE First and End the Fight in Marriage | Marriage Monthly

    3D AGO

    Selfless Love: Put WE First and End the Fight in Marriage | Marriage Monthly

    Send a text Romance is great, but it’s not what keeps a marriage strong. In this Love Month episode, we’re shifting the focus from “be romantic” to “be selfless”—because most marriages don’t fall apart from incompatibility… they fall apart from selfishness. If you’ve felt off-track lately, overwhelmed, or stuck in tension, this episode is a jolt back on track. Discover Why “me over we” creates constant friction in marriageHow conflict is often about unmet desires, not the surface issueThe simple shift that makes love feel real again: you first = we firstWhat we learned from hosting a Love Challenge Date Night (10 fun challenges!)Why love is a verb and how your heart follows your actionsHow to build a “competition of honor” that makes marriage fun againPractical ways to say yes more often and short-circuit selfishnessA weekly Love Dare: one intentional act of selflessness every day Key Points Discussed “Real love is not me first—it’s you first.”“Marriage becomes fun again when it becomes a competition of honor.”“Love doesn’t insist on its own way—so we interrupt selfishness on purpose.” Bible Verses Mentioned James 4:1Philippians 2:3Romans 12:10Ephesians 5:251 Corinthians 13:5 Question for you Where have you been putting me over we, and what’s one small way you can put your spouse first this week? Call to Action If this encouraged you, like, subscribe, and share this episode with a couple who needs a reset. And drop a comment: What’s your one act of selflessness this week? #MarriageMonthly #ChristianMarriage #MarriageAdvice #BiblicalMarriage #MarriageHelp #HealthyMarriage #RelationshipAdvice #SelflessLove #MarriageGoals #FaithAndMarriage

    28 min
  3. Why You Communicate Better at Work Than at Home

    FEB 18

    Why You Communicate Better at Work Than at Home

    Send a text Ever notice you can communicate like a pro at work, but at home it falls apart fast? In this replay episode, Gabe sits down with Matt Castile to talk about what actually lowers tension, builds trust, and turns conflict into connection. If you want to stop arguing and start communicating, this is for you. Discover Why your communication changes when you walk into your homeIntrovert vs extrovert conflict, and how to stop misreading each otherThe game-changing principle: “Quick to listen, slow to speak” (James 1:19)How to communicate under pressure without saying what you’ll regretWhy “I statements” can prevent so much damage in relationshipsSimple ways to build trust and vulnerability again Reflection Healthy communication isn’t about winning the argument. It’s about loving the person more than you love your natural style, your defense mechanisms, or your emotional reactions. When you choose to listen deeply, you don’t just change the conversation — you change the relationship. Key Takeaways Your skill doesn’t disappear at home, but your triggers show up moreListening deeply is one of the fastest paths to trustSelf-control matters more than your communication “type”Under pressure, pause before you speak so you don’t do damageUse “I feel…” instead of throwing barbs and assumptions Question for you to think about Where do you need to listen deeply this week — before you speak, defend, or react? Connect Subscribe for weekly Midweek Motivation episodesShare this episode with someone you want stronger communication withJoin us at Westside Community Church online or in person #WestsideCommunityChurch #MidweekMotivation #Communication #Marriage #Relationships #ConflictResolution #ChristianPodcast #FaithAndLife

    32 min
  4. You Say You Trust God… But Do You?

    FEB 12

    You Say You Trust God… But Do You?

    Send a text Trust isn’t just a personality trait. It’s a foundation. In this week’s episode, Jess sits down with Pastor Steve Rady to talk about relationships, anxiety, and what it really means to trust God, not just say the phrase. Together they unpack why trust begins vertically with God and how that foundation changes the way we show up in every relationship. Discover Why trust starts with your relationship with God (vertical before horizontal)What people actually hear when someone says, “Just trust God”How “baby steps” rebuild trust, especially after setbacksPractical ways to strengthen your foundation: Scripture, prayer, communityThe danger of grabbing the steering wheel and trying to control outcomesHow Romans 8:28 reframes loss, uncertainty, and painful seasonsWhy real trust produces integrity and makes you a more trustworthy person If you’ve been feeling anxious about the future, carrying tension in relationships, or realizing you’re trying to manage life in your own strength, this episode is an invitation to return to the foundation and rebuild from a solid starting point. Key Takeaways Trust grows through repetition and real-life testingGod is not asking for a perfect relationship, He wants a real oneScripture and prayer calm the soul and bring clarity for next stepsCommunity matters because trust strengthens when we walk with othersYou can’t control the outcome, but you can surrender the wheel Question for you to think about Where are you trying to take control right now, and what would it look like to surrender that area back to God? ––– Subscribe so you don’t miss next week’s episode. Share this with someone who’s walking through anxiety or relational stress. And if you’re in the area, come visit a Westside service this weekend. You can find out more at westsidecommunitychurch.com. #MidweekMotivation #WestsideCommunityChurch #TrustGod #Relationships #FaithAndLife #Anxiety #Bible #Prayer #Community #Romans828

    30 min
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This is the official weekly podcast of Westside Community Church in Beaverton, Oregon. We’re made up of a variety of people who like to keep it real, don’t take themselves too seriously and who want to get the most out of life.  At Westside, we welcome people from all walks of life – in fact, there are NO PERFECT PEOPLE ALLOWED! We strive to be a "safe place to investigate faith" so people can come as they are and be themselves while they explore who Jesus is, find friends and make a difference.   We post content here that is practical, helpful, and relevant to real life. We hope you'll find the inspiration, motivation and help to grow. #help #hope #practical #jesus #growth #spiritualgrowth #nojudgment