What Do You Want?!

Hammerheads Media Ltd
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What Do You Want has arrived! Heather Locklear, Jillian Barberie, and Nurse Melanie Mancil, RN, BSN take your calls, texts, and DMs — dishing out unfiltered advice on love, sex, life, health & wellness, and more. Real talk, raw laughs, and decades of Hollywood experience fuel every episode. We take your calls,  LIVE every Wednesday, 7-8pm pacific. Call 515-800-WDYW (9399) Listen now wherever you get your podcasts!

  1. 3d ago

    The Dark Side of Being Famous | Heather Locklear & Jillian Barberie

    Try Momentous Signature Spec Creatine, at http://livemomentous.com and use code WDYW for up to 35% off your entire first order. Start your new morning ritual & get up to 43% off your @MUDWTR with code WDYW at http://mudwtr.com/WDYW ! #mudwtrpod Heather Locklear, Jillian Barberie and Nurse Melanie Mancil are back — and this conversation goes places. After talking about the wild internet rumors, fake celebrity photos and AI-generated stories that are becoming almost impossible to separate from reality, the ladies get surprisingly candid about what being famous actually feels like. Heather looks back at the height of her fame in the ’80s and ’90s, Jillian remembers watching Kardashian-level celebrity change the game, and Melanie wants to know what goes through your head when you walk into a room knowing everybody may recognize you. Then things get darker: unwanted attention, obsessive fans, frightening encounters and the security problems that can come with being recognizable. Heather shares stories from her years with Tommy Lee, while Jillian recalls advice Sandra Bullock once gave her about setting boundaries with fans. The conversation also turns to sobriety, addiction, whether everyone with a drinking problem needs complete abstinence, true crime, the Idaho murders — and the controversy surrounding the granddaughter of Charles Manson. In other words… a completely normal episode of What Do You Want?! Hosted by Heather Locklear, Jillian Barberie and Nurse Melanie Mancil (RN, BSN). Tell us in the comments: Would you actually want to be famous? And what do YOU want the ladies to talk about next? The fame discussion is especially strong because Heather describes simply staying present with the people she was with rather than obsessing over everyone looking at her, while Jerry talks about wanting fame at 20 and then becoming deeply uncomfortable when it actually arrived. Chapters 00:00 Welcome Back to WDYW 00:39 Surviving the Opening Night Party 03:22 Warning: WDYW Imposters & Scammers 04:28 Why People Can’t Find WDYW on YouTube 04:42 The Fake “Heather Locklear House” 05:20 Can You Believe Anything You See Online? 07:14 What Does Being Famous Actually Feel Like? 07:36 Heather & John Mellencamp 08:19 Cancer, Gratitude & Appreciating Life 11:15 Melanie Gets Recognized at the Hollywood Bowl 12:06 Jerry’s 15 Minutes of Fame 12:41 Heather, Tommy Lee & Bobbie Brown 13:15 Why Being Famous Can Cost You Money 15:13 When Kardashian-Level Fame Changed Everything 16:01 “Fame Loves Fame” 16:55 Sandra Bullock’s Advice to Jillian 18:12 Heather on Living With Massive Fame 19:39 Wanting Fame — Until You Actually Get It 20:12 When Fans Cross the Line 20:59 Heather’s Stalker Story 23:53 Did We Ever Finish the Fame Conversation? 24:37 What Everyone Is Watching 26:14 The Idaho Murders 31:49 Drinking, Sobriety & Addiction 32:10 Armie Hammer, Rehab & Addiction 33:00 What Actually Makes Someone an Alcoholic? 34:42 When One Drink Becomes a Disaster 36:02 Is Abstinence the Only Answer? 50:00 Charles Manson’s Granddaughter Documentary 50:44 Jillian Reached Out to Her 51:28 “She’s Marketing Herself” 51:39 Could Deborah Tate Come on WDYW?**

  2. Aug 12

    WDYW LIVE! Heather Locklear, Jillian Barberie & Nurse Mel Go Unfiltered

    Huge special thanks to OneSkin for sponsoring our subscriber drive giveaway! Watch the pod to see who the lucky winner is and Get 15% off OneSkin with the code WDYW at https://www.oneskin.co/WDYW #oneskinpod WDYW is LIVE — and anything goes. Heather Locklear, Jillian Barberie and Nurse Melanie Mancil take What Do You Want?! in front of a live studio audience for the very first time, taped August 7, 2026 during the grand opening celebration of Wow & Flutter Westwood Studios in Los Angeles. What starts as the story of how WDYW came together quickly turns into one of our most unpredictable conversations yet. The ladies debate OnlyFans and whether it's empowering or exploitative, Heather looks back on hosting Saturday Night Live, Jillian and Heather reveal their experiences with 5150 holds, and the audience gets the chance to ask the questions they've always wanted answered. Then things REALLY go off the rails. Heather gets asked about her favorite lover. The ladies reveal some of their biggest regrets, play a dangerous round of F/Marry/Kill, talk peptides and the latest wellness craze, and tackle some surprisingly serious questions about mental health, motherhood, overcoming adversity and what they're most proud of in their lives. Nurse Mel also shares the remarkable story of walking away from drugs and a destructive life at 18 years old, putting herself through nursing school and never looking back. And finally, we announce the winner of our WDYW viewer giveaway — LIVE in front of the audience. Thank you to everyone who came out to celebrate this incredible night with us, including those who drove — and even flew — to Los Angeles to be there. What Do You Want?! is hosted by Heather Locklear, Jillian Barberie and Nurse Melanie Mancil. 00:00 WDYW Goes LIVE! 01:09 How What Do You Want?! Started 03:04 Why We Created WDYW 04:02 Life, Freedom & Women Over 40 06:18 The OnlyFans Debate Begins 07:45 Empowerment or Exploitation? 09:38 When Does It Go Too Far? 11:07 Heather Remembers Chris Farley & SNL 12:17 Celebrity Culture & Compassion 13:33 Mental Health and the 5150 Club 15:47 Do Heather, Jillian & Mel Really Get Along? 17:12 Audience Questions Begin 18:11 Heather Gets Asked About Her Favorite Lover 19:13 The Ladies Reveal Their Biggest Regrets 21:26 The Audience Starts a Dangerous Game 24:04 Jerry Gets Put on the Spot 26:12 Peptides, Wellness & the Latest Health Craze 29:33 A Serious Audience Question 30:56 What Are You Most Proud Of? 32:33 Nurse Mel Reveals Her Remarkable Past 34:28 WDYW Giveaway 36:27 And the Winner Is... 36:53 Thank You From WDYW Like, subscribe and tell us What do YOU want? in the comments. #WhatDoYouWant #HeatherLocklear #JillianBarberie #WDYW #Podcast

  3. Aug 5

    When It's Time to Walk Away From a Friendship

    Get 70- 80% off everything when you sign up as a new VIP at http://fabletics.com/wdyw Try Momentous Signature Spec Creatine, head to http://livemomentous.com and use code WDYW for up to 35% off your entire first order. Sometimes losing a friendship hurts more than a breakup. This week on What Do You Want?!, Heather Locklear, Jillian Barberie and Nurse Mel have an honest conversation about ending long-term friendships, taking accountability, "spiritual narcissism," forgiveness, and knowing when it's finally time to walk away. The conversation takes unexpected turns into celibacy, dating after 50, women-only communities, cosmetic procedures, social media culture, viral animal videos, and why real conversations between people with different opinions matter more than ever. Join the discussion and tell us... Have you ever ended a friendship that felt like losing family? 👍 Like 💬 Comment 🔔 Subscribe for new episodes every week. 00:00 Welcome 00:20 Losing a Friendship Can Feel Like a Death 03:25 Knowing When It's Time to Walk Away 05:25 What Makes a Real Friend? 09:35 Heather on Ending Relationships for Good 10:40 Women-Only Communities After 50 13:55 Is Celibacy Becoming More Common? 16:20 What Would You Change About Yourself? 17:45 Plastic Surgery & Aging Gracefully 20:30 Finding Common Ground Despite Politics 23:20 Jillian's Upcoming Hip Surgery 27:30 The Fascination with Dangerous Animals 32:40 SeaWorld, Wildlife & Human Nature 38:10 Introducing the New Comment Corner

  4. Jul 29

    Mammograms, MAID, and ChatGPT Goes Rogue!

    A big thanks to this week's sponsors Momentous and Quince! Try Momentous Signature Spec Creatine, head to http://livemomentous.com and use code WDYW for up to 35% off your entire first order. Elevate your summer wardrobe. Go to http://quince.com/wdyw for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns Heather Locklear, Jillian Barberie and Nurse Mel return with another hilarious—and unexpectedly emotional—episode of What Do You Want?! This week the conversation goes everywhere... • Jillian shares updates on her hip surgery and her breast cancer journey. • Mammograms that save lives. • A live Instagram disaster involving a credit card. • Funny Hollywood stories about Jimmy Kimmel, Tommy Lee, Dax Shepard and late-night TV. • The team announces an exciting What Do You Want?! LIVE audience event. • New merchandise and giveaway announcements. • Nurse Mel describes an unsettling conversation she had with ChatGPT regarding her health. • The hosts debate AI, mental health, assisted dying (MAID), Alzheimer's disease and difficult end-of-life decisions. • Plus plenty of laughs, behind-the-scenes stories and classic WDYW chaos. Be sure to LIKE, SUBSCRIBE and COMMENT for your chance to win our giveaway and join us at an upcoming show! 00:00 Introduction 01:10 Mammograms & Heather's Cancer Story 04:15 Heather's Tire Disaster Goes Live 06:40 Dax Shepard & Celebrity Stories 09:30 Joe Rogan & Late Night Memories 10:55 Giveaway Announcement 13:15 Live Show at Westwood Studios 15:00 Nurse Mel's Gift for Jerry 17:45 Robot Girlfriends & Random Chaos 20:15 The Right-To-Die Debate 23:00 ChatGPT's Alarming Conversation 29:30 Starbucks Delivery & More Stories 31:15 Alzheimer's & Dementia Discussion 41:00 Relationships, Life & Listener Questions 56:00 Final Thoughts

  5. Jul 22

    Why Women Over 50 Don't Want to Get Married Anymore

    This episode is brought to you by Momentous. Try Momentous Signature Spec Creatine, head to http://livemomentous.com and use code WDYW for up to 35% off your entire first order. Dating has changed—and so have the rules. Heather Locklear, Jillian Barberie and Nurse Mel have an honest (and hilarious) conversation about dating after 50, younger partners, celebrity dating apps like Raya, marriage, divorce, narcissistic relationships, and whether women even want to get married anymore. The conversation then takes a surprising turn into AI companion robots, dopamine addiction, TikTok algorithms, health trends, massage horror stories, and why today's technology may be rewiring all of us. It's funny, brutally honest, and surprisingly relatable. In this episode: Dating after 50 Age-gap relationships Heather Locklear on modern dating Why women are choosing peace over marriage Celebrity dating apps AI companion robots Tesla's Optimus robot TikTok addiction Dopamine explained Dating standards Divorce recovery Beauty trends from TikTok Shop Modern relationships 00:00 Intro 00:35 Dating After 50 02:00 Should You Use Dating Apps? 04:00 AI Robot Boyfriends? 06:15 Huge Age Gaps in Relationships 11:55 Why Women Don't Want Marriage Anymore 16:30 Dating After Divorce 18:00 Massage Horror Stories 22:00 Diets & Weight Loss Then vs. Now 25:10 Dopamine Addiction 28:00 What's On Your TikTok Algorithm? 31:00 Beauty Hacks & TikTok Shop

  6. Jul 17

    I Miscarried... Then Went Live on National TV | What Do You Want?!

    This weeks episode is brought to you by Twelve28rx.com. All of your health care needs at the click of a house. Enter code WDYW10 and get 10% off! Heather Locklear, Jillian Barbary, and Nurse Mel have one of their most personal conversations yet. Jillian opens up about suffering a miscarriage just hours before appearing live on national television, sharing the emotional story she's never fully told. Heather discusses pregnancy later in life, beauty trends, and motherhood, while Nurse Mel separates health facts from internet myths surrounding red light therapy, fillers, collagen, gabapentin, weight gain, and more. The conversation also dives into parenting, relationships, women's careers, food safety, and why modern women continue to face impossible expectations. If you've ever balanced work, family, health, and heartbreak at the same time, this episode is for you. Follow us on Instagram! Heather - https://www.threads.com/@heatherlocklear?xmt=AQG0P6CeBVkYrsivQuVeQfKR9Nc18m1ZN7s2wYfItCB-MSw Jillian - https://www.threads.com/@askjillian?xmt=AQG0P6CeBVkYrsivQuVeQfKR9Nc18m1ZN7s2wYfItCB-MSw Mel - https://www.instagram.com/melaniemancil?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Jerry - https://www.threads.com/@jerrybrunskill?xmt=AQG0P6CeBVkYrsivQuVeQfKR9Nc18m1ZN7s2wYfItCB-MSw 01:00 Welcome back 02:00 Eyebrows, tattoos & beauty trends 05:20 Jillian's miscarriage story 10:20 Pregnancy after 35 14:20 Red light therapy explained 17:30 Gabapentin and weight gain 22:00 The fruit contamination outbreak 24:00 Health supplements & protein 30:00 Can women really have it all? 42:00 Honor killings & cultural differences 45:00 Vigilante justice 48:00 TV & movie recommendations 53:00 Favorite documentaries 57:00 Final thoughts #HeatherLocklear #JillianBarbary #Miscarriage #WomensHealth #Podcast #Motherhood #Menopause #HealthPodcast #RedLightTherapy #WhatDoYouWant

  7. Jul 2

    Laura Clery: Addiction, Narcissists, Divorce & Starting Over | What Do You Want?!

    Laura Clery joins What Do You Want?! for one of her most personal interviews yet. She opens up about addiction, recovery, emotional abuse, co-parenting after divorce, raising a child with autism, surviving a terrifying household accident, rebuilding her life after public heartbreak, and why she finally decided to tell the whole story in her new memoir, What Doesn't Kill You Makes You Hotter. The conversation explores how addiction impacts relationships, recognizing emotional abuse, healing from betrayal, learning to trust again, parenting through trauma, and finding humor in life's darkest moments. Laura also shares the incredible story behind building an audience of more than 26 million followers and turning social media into a career. If you've ever struggled with heartbreak, addiction, toxic relationships, recovery, or starting over, this episode offers honesty, hope, and plenty of laughs. 00:00 Introduction & Laura Clery joins the show 02:00 The terrifying refrigerator accident 10:30 Meeting her future husband in recovery 16:30 Discovering the affair 24:00 Addiction, relapse and rebuilding trust 34:00 Emotional abuse vs physical abuse 43:00 Divorce, restraining orders & protecting her children 53:00 Recovery, sobriety & co-parenting today 60:00 Dating after divorce 66:00 Building a 26-million follower audience 73:00 Why Laura wrote her memoir If you or a loved one has an addiction or is in need for some free guidance and support with substance abuse issues, call the national drug hotline at (888) 966-8152

  8. Jun 25

    Weight Loss Drugs Help Prevent Cancer? | Celebrity Drama & Health Hacks | WDYW

    Could certain recent weight loss drugs someday help prevent cancer? Nurse Mel shares fascinating new research while Heather Locklear and Jillian Barberie weigh in on weight loss, health, aging, and the future of medicine. The conversation quickly spirals into robot companions, self-defense, celebrity documentaries, AI-created art, parenting stories, favorite TV shows, and some surprisingly useful nutrition hacks. From homemade pickles and resistant starches to Johnny Depp's artwork and the future of AI for musicians, this episode delivers the perfect mix of laughs, friendship, and real-life advice. Subscribe for new episodes of What Do You Want? every week. 00:00 Intro & Chaos Begins 02:30 Self-Defense, Crime & Safety Discussion 08:50 Robot Companions & AI Helpers 11:00 New Ozempic Cancer Research 13:00 Weight Loss, Muscle Loss & Healthy Aging 14:00 Heather's Upcoming Procedures & Health Updates 15:00 Homemade Pickles & Healthy Snacking 18:00 Protein, Nutrition & Staying Healthy 20:00 TV Shows, Streaming & Recommendations 23:00 Celebrity Documentaries & Tyra Banks Discussion 26:00 Fashion, Wardrobe & WDYW Photo Shoot Plans 30:00 Parenting Stories & Rocco Discussion 35:00 Johnny Depp's Artwork & Creative Talent 36:00 AI, Music Rights & Protecting Artists 37:00 Favorite Songs & Great Recording Mistakes #WhatDoYouWant #HeatherLocklear #JillianBarberie #NurseMel #Ozempic #HealthPodcast #WeightLoss #CancerResearch #AI #Podcast

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What Do You Want has arrived! Heather Locklear, Jillian Barberie, and Nurse Melanie Mancil, RN, BSN take your calls, texts, and DMs — dishing out unfiltered advice on love, sex, life, health & wellness, and more. Real talk, raw laughs, and decades of Hollywood experience fuel every episode. We take your calls,  LIVE every Wednesday, 7-8pm pacific. Call 515-800-WDYW (9399) Listen now wherever you get your podcasts!

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  • Creator
    Hammerheads Media Ltd
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    40
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2026 What Do You Want?!
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