What Fresh Hell: Laughing in the Face of Motherhood | Parenting Tips From Funny Moms Margaret Ables and Amy Wilson

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Why is it that summer never seems to be the picture-perfect, sun-washed experience we want for our kids? Amy helps a listener ditch her mom guilt over not providing her kids with the "perfect" summer.
"I have the end of summer scaries. Or end of summer mom guilt. I feel so bummed that I have spent most of the summer in survival mode instead of really enjoying it with my children. I probably have seen way too many of those "you only get 18 summers" posts. My oldest starts first grade in two weeks and I feel like I completely failed. I wish we had spent more time swimming, riding bikes, all of that quintessential summer stuff. Instead, I feel like I've spent most of it breaking up fights with his 4 year old brother, keeping the 18 month old from injuring himself, and saying "no" to every request. 
I'm notoriously hard on myself so I probably just need a reality check. Does anyone else feel this way?"
It's totally normal to feel like the summer is a more difficult time of year, especially with three little kids to entertain, Amy explains. There are more hours of daylight and more unstructured time.
And, by the way, your kids don't vaporize once they turn 18, and if they're away at college, summer is when you WILL see them, at least somewhat more than you did during the school year. Try to decouple yourself from the overwhelming "you only get 18 summers with your kids" messaging. It robs you of the ability to remain present THIS summer with your kids.
So how do you try and be present with your kids without worrying about how many summers you have left in the bank? Start super small. Declare that it's "ice cream dinner" tonight or let the kids cover the driveway in chalk drawings. The "summer memories" we're supposed to be making are by definition lazy and unstructured. And those little things we may think are nothing special are probably what our kids will look back on most fondly.
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How can we be responsive, rather than reactive, when our child misbehaves? Chazz Lewis, host of the podcast Learning Curve with Mr. Chazz, explains practical steps for navigating our children's behavior issues with empathy and compassion, rather than judgement.
Mr. Chazz is an educator, speaker, and activist. With over 1.5 million followers across social media, Mr. Chazz has helped countless parents and teachers navigate the challenges and triumphs of raising and teaching children.
Margaret and Mr. Chazz discuss:

The one thing that can really help a child who comes from a troubled home

The five steps for a conscious-based parenting approach

Simple mantras to keep in mind for a healthy perspective on parenting


Here's where you can find Mr. Chazz:

mrchazz.com

@mrchazz on IG

@mrchazzmrchazz on TikTok, FB, and YT


Listen to Learning Curve with Mr. Chazz, an Adalyst Media podcast!


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Most of us have either experienced—or refereed—sibling rivalry. So what do we do when our kids are constantly at each other's throats? Why do they fight constantly, and how do we get them to stop?
In this episode, Margaret and Amy discuss:

How parents consciously and unconsciously contribute to sibling rivalry

How to know what's normal sibling rivalry and what's harmful bullying

When to step in and when to let your kids work it out themselves

Why treating your kids fairly is not the same as treating them equally


Here are links to some of the resources mentioned in the episode:

Rob Quinn for Newser: This Bird Takes Sibling Rivalry to Extremes


Claire McCarthy for Harvard Health Publishing: Sibling rivalry is normal — but is it helpful or harmful?


Anahad O'Connor for the New York Times: When the Bully Is a Sibling



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Parenting is a constant process of choosing the lesser evil. When it's stomach flu or Coxsackie, they're both bad, but when you're playing Would You Rather?, you've still got to pick one.
In this episode, Amy and Margaret discuss:

What their kids' names REALLY are

Rat backpacks

The horror of perma-noisemakers


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What does it mean to perform the role of "dad" in today's world? How do the ways the world perceives our children affect the ways we perceive ourselves?
Lucas Mann is the author of ATTACHMENTS: ESSAYS ON FATHERHOOD AND OTHER PERFORMANCES, a collection of essays about parenting that The New Yorker just called "intense, poetic, and almost uncomfortably honest." In this interview, Lucas tells us about his experiences, how and why he writes, and what he's learned along the way.
Here's where you can find Lucas Mann:

www.lucasmann.com

@lucaswmann on IG

@LucasWMann on X

Buy ATTACHMENTS: https://bookshop.org/a/12099/9781609389536


https://www.newyorker.com/books/under-review/should-we-expect-more-from-dads


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Amy thought The Love Boat was filmed in real time, at sea. Margaret's grandfather had all the kids convinced his dining room light switch controlled the Tappan Zee Bridge. We asked our listeners for all the silliest things they fully believed as children, and in this episode, we highlight all of the absolute dumbest.
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