What If We Keep It Real Ben Owden & Henry Sondo

It's no secret that life often throws us curveballs, distracting us from the mundane tasks that need our attention. But here's the truth: mastering consistency is the key to achieving greatness in every aspect of our lives. From personal growth to professional success, it all begins with the commitment to do the little things consistently.

In a world where phrases like "Only God Can Judge Me" and "You Can't Tell Me Nothing" have become mantras, the concept of accountability seems to be fading away. But here's the thing: accountability is not about judgment or restrictions; it's about empowerment and growth. Here we explore the power of personal growth through accountability. We raise a crucial question: How can we cultivate relationship circles that foster personal development through accountability? We'll explore the importance of holding ourselves and others responsible for our actions and choices, and how it ultimately leads to positive change

Is love enough to build a lasting marriage? Is love enough to build long-term relationships? Is love all we need? 

But mark this: There will be terrible times in the last days. People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, without love, unforgiving, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not lovers of the good, treacherous, rash, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God— having a form of godliness but denying its power. Have nothing to do with such people.

They are the kind who worm their way into homes and gain control over gullible women, who are loaded down with sins and are swayed by all kinds of evil desires, always learning but never able to come to a knowledge of the truth. Just as Jannes and Jambres opposed Moses, so also these teachers oppose the truth. They are men of depraved minds, who, as far as the faith is concerned, are rejected. But they will not get very far because, as in the case of those men, their folly will be clear to everyone.

Is it possible to have a successful marriage with an unbeliever? And be happy if married to an unbeliever? What is the difference between a happy marriage and a holy marriage? Is financial wellness a factor when preparing for marriage? What is the right way to measure a successful singleness season? Are there set boundaries to follow or should we create our own? Is a successful season of singleness a precondition for a successful marriage?

These are some of the questions we address in this conversation. Hope the answers are useful for you. 



If this is your first time listening. We've grouped all of our episodes to help you make a decision based on your topics of interest.

INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP/SEX/WAITING


0012 - Overcoming Masturbation
0013 - Are You and Your Partner Equally Yoked?
0014, 0015 & 0016 - I Want to Have Sex First, Then Get Married (Part 1, 2 & 3)
0017 - Being Single in Your 30's

PURPOSE/DREAMS/HUSTLING


0019 - Fear of Failure
0022 - Is Life Without Success Worth Living?
0023 - Don't Waste Your Life
0003 - The Cost of Getting to Your Destiny

FRIENDSHIP


0021 - Friendship and Intimacy
0011 - Owning Your Truth
0024 - Struggles of Unforgiveness

CHURCH LIFE & BIBLE


0010 - Is Cancel Culture a Christian Culture?
0006 - Uvuguvugu Mtamu
0005 - The Algorithm of Blessings

PERSONAL GROWTH


0009 - Comparison Kills
0007 - What Do You Want?
0002 - Serve at Every Opportunity
0001 - Your Mundane is Someone Else's Miracle
0025 - Struggles of Unforgiveness

If this is your first time listening. We've grouped all of our episodes to help you make a decision based on your topics of interest.

INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP/SEX/WAITING


0012 - Overcoming Masturbation
0013 - Are You and Your Partner Equally Yoked?
0014, 0015 & 0016 - I Want to Have Sex First, Then Get Married (Part 1, 2 & 3)
0017 - Being Single in Your 30's

PURPOSE/DREAMS/HUSTLING


0019 - Fear of Failure
0022 - Is Life Without Success Worth Living?
0023 - Don't Waste Your Life
0003 - The Cost of Getting to Your Destiny

FRIENDSHIP


0021 - Friendship and Intimacy
0011 - Owning Your Truth
0024 - Struggles of Unforgiveness

CHURCH LIFE & BIBLE


0010 - Is Cancel Culture a Christian Culture?
0006 - Uvuguvugu Mtamu
0005 - The Algorithm of Blessings
0026 - Flirting with Danger

PERSONAL GROWTH


0009 - Comparison Kills
0007 - What Do You Want?
0002 - Serve at Every Opportunity
0001 - Your Mundane is Someone Else's Miracle
0025 - Struggles of Unforgiveness