300 episodes
What Would Love Do? Jonathon Aslay
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4.8 • 119 Ratings
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The focus of one of America's Leading Mid-Life Dating Coaches has expanded into a deeper, essential philosophy of what it truly means to LOVE.
After losing his 19-year-old son Connor in 2018, Jonathon Aslay’s grief led him on a soul-searching inner journey, where he became aware of an often-overlooked dimension of the dating conversation.
He realized that the process of dating reveals the most common emotional health issue faced by many singles seeking a partner: a distressing lack of self-worth, self-regard, and self-love.
www.JonathonAslay.com
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What To Do When He's Pulling Away - Don't Text Him, Do This Instead!
What To Do When He’s Pulling Away – Don’t Text Him, Do This Instead!
Sorry to burst your romantic bubble but Prince Charming isn’t going to come along and sweep you off your feet. Well, maybe someone will sweep you off your feet but unlike those fairy tales, you’re not going to commit to a relationship without some serious vetting.
The dating process is really like a fact-finding mission. Asking questions and understanding what you both want in a relationship is just the beginning.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why personal growth is a part of every relationship and how to recognize a need to reset vs feeling abandoned.
Let’s talk about… What To Do When He’s Pulling Away
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends -
Establish THIS Before Sleeping With A Man
Establish THIS Before Sleeping With A Man
While a healthy sexual attraction is important in a long term relationship, chemistry alone is not enough to build a foundation…at least not if you want long term companionship instead of a friend with benefits.
Also remember that men and women approach sex differently. Men see it as a physical act while most women view sex as an emotional connection. If you’re not on the same page before sleeping together, you might be in for some disappointment.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to approach conversations about sex and why you need to understand what you want in a relationship.
Let’s talk about… Establish THIS Before Sleeping With A Man
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends -
He's Acting Silent | Does THIS Mean It's Over For Him?
He’s Acting Silent | Does THIS Mean It’s Over For Him?
In a world of complex relationships, it’s easy to feel lost when faced with silence from a partner, especially during the midlife years when you want to find a long term companion.
Instead of living in fear that your relationship is over when he goes silent, use this opportunity to talk with your partner about why this is challenging for you and how it can bring up fears.
Hopefully your guy will be open to talking (not all men are!) and show him some consideration when he shares his own vulnerabilities. When you have committed conversations, you’ll feel empowered and have a newfound understanding of how you both feel and how the relationship should progress.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about the complexities of human connection and how to foster healthier communication and deeper connections.
Let’s talk about… He’s Acting Silent | Does THIS Mean It’s Over For Him?
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends -
Will A Fearful Avoidant Man Ever Commit? with Bev Mitelman
Will A Fearful Avoidant Man Ever Commit? with Bev Mitelman
Understanding attachment styles helps you to understand why your guy does the things he does. In this episode, we’re focused on the fearful avoidant, who is often afraid of abandonment and might have difficulty letting a woman get close to him.
My guest today is Bev Mitelman, M.A., a Certified Attachment Practitioner who has spent her entire career (25+ years) working with adults in the realm of personal growth and professional development. She is also an author and the founder of SecurelyLoved.com .
Listen in as Bev gives some really great examples of how the lessons we learn from childhood affect our adult lives and relationships.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about attachment styles and how each style has a range of traits worth recognizing.
Let’s talk about… Will A Fearful Avoidant Man Ever Commit? with Bev Mitelman
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends -
The 5 Stages Men Must Go Through Before They'll Fully Commit To You
The 5 Stages Men Must Go Through Before They’ll Fully Commit To You
Men and women alike bring childhood trauma into their adult lives and relationships. As humans, there’s no way to avoid it because every lesson we learn in our early childhood sticks with us like glue. Hence the reason personal development is so darn important, so we can all move past those traumas and live our best lives.
Understanding these stages that I talk about in this episode is important because you can gauge how far along your guy is in this process. Of course, there’s no timeline to completing these stages as every one is so different but you’ll recognize if he’s at the very beginning, midway, or nearing the end of the stages.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about what it takes to make a commitment to another person and how to gauge if your guy is near that point.
Let’s talk about… The 5 Stages Men Must Go Through Before They’ll Fully Commit To You
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends -
STOP Dating Men and Do THIS Instead
STOP Dating Men and Do THIS Instead
When you really think about it, the idea of dating is relatively new. In previous centuries, marriages were arranged and there wasn’t much getting-to-know-you-and-falling-in-love. It was more about committing to the best ‘deal’ for each family.
In today’s world with smartphone technology, it’s all too easy to fall into casual ‘friends with benefits’ situationships. But if you want long-term companionship, how do you move past the casual hookups?
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about what dating in today’s world means and why we’re craving connection and companionship more than ever.
Let’s talk about… STOP Dating Men and Do THIS Instead
Resources:
FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching
Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove
Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com
Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends
Customer Reviews
Self- Love before Seeking Love
I’ve been an avid listener for a long time. I’ve followed Jonathon’s advice with a great book collection and resources to help me break the self sabotaging behavior when seeking companionship. He’s very transparent and even shares his personal struggles as lessons for healing or growing.
He’s the author of a great book to start with: WHAT THE HECK IS SELF-Love Anyway.
It’s a great place to start your journey and his show is a great listen to Learn. Thanks Jonathon Aslay!
This podcast is GOLD if you’re dating!
Jonathon has done so much research and has also had his own dating and relationship experience, and has been so helpful to me personally. I also love his book recommendations as well as his guests who are experts in this area. Thank you, Jonathon!
Discernment
Many of us only have a little time to do anything especially focus on the fine details. Diving in deep and analyzing classifying and identifying behavior related to relationships seems like it should be innate however we haven’t even learned what they are! Im done winging it and hoping it’ll last - so far it doesn’t! Thanks to Jonathan we can do this easily! He’s going to point out all of the things you need to keep an eye out for and then give us tips to set up a great relationship. The best part is he serves it up with a dash of funny and a pinch of raunchy! It’s a fun listen, all of his podcasts are! Highly recommend
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