What's Your Ex?

Marilie Daniels

What's Your EX? with Marilie — The Pivot Isn't Starting Over You have an ex you've never talked about. It's not a person. It's the career that let you go. The dream you buried. The version of yourself you walked away from — and still think about at 2 a.m. Here's what nobody tells you: none of it was wasted. What's Your EX? is the podcast about the pivot — career change, reinvention, and second chances — the show about who we used to be, and how it was all preparation for who we are becoming. Because here's the whole idea: the pivot isn't about starting over. It's about finally seeing what you were being prepared for. We all carry exes that have nothing to do with romance. Ex-careers. Ex-dreams. Ex-titles. Ex-versions of ourselves we've outgrown or been forced to leave behind. And most of us quietly file those chapters under "failure," "wasted time," or "the detour." This show exists to change that. To take the parts of your story you're a little embarrassed about — and reveal them for what they actually were: preparation. Every week, Marilie sits down for one honest, warm, no-fluff conversation that flips how you see a chapter of your life. Some weeks it's about feeling behind. Some weeks it's about fear, or reinvention, or who you are when a title disappears, or finding the nerve to begin again. Different angle every time — same through line: you were never starting from scratch. You were starting from experience. This isn't another motivational podcast telling you to erase your past and hustle harder. It's a space to breathe, re-frame, and reclaim what you'd written off — and walk away with one simple, practical idea you can actually use that week. If you've ever felt stuck, felt behind, changed direction, or wondered who you are without your job title — this is your show. It's for the career changers and the late bloomers. The ones starting over at 30, at 40, at 55. Anyone in a season of transition, reinvention, burnout recovery, or quiet personal growth who needs to hear that their story was building toward something all along. Because sometimes the bravest, most freeing thing you'll ever do is look back at everything you've lived — and realize not one bit of it was wasted. So — What's Your Ex? Hit follow, and let's go find out. Together. New episodes weekly. Share this podcast with someone who needs it. #WhatsYourEX · @iammariliedaniels

Episodes

  1. Aug 19

    Who Are You Without the Title?

    Who are you when you can no longer introduce yourself by your job, title, business, or role? For many of us, what we do slowly becomes how we define who we are. So when a career ends, a business changes, the children grow up, or a familiar role no longer fits, it can feel like we’ve lost more than a title. It can feel like we’ve lost ourselves. In Episode 3 of What’s Your EX?, Marilie explores what remains when the label falls away—and why losing a title may actually help you reconnect with the person underneath it. In this episode, you’ll discover: Why titles can become deeply connected to identity and belongingWhy changing roles can leave you feeling lost or invisibleHow to separate who you are from what you doA simple exercise to help you describe yourself without mentioning your jobWhy knowing who you are underneath the label can make endings and pivots less frightening Marilie also shares what she discovered during her own business pivot: the title was never the whole person. Her persistence, love, courage, responsibility, and ability to show up for others were there long before the role—and remained after it changed. Try finishing this sentence: “I am someone who…” But don’t use your career, title, or what you do for money. Because you are not your title. You are the whole person underneath it—and that person goes with you into every chapter. Follow What’s Your EX? for weekly conversations about the chapters we leave behind, what they taught us, and who we are becoming next.

  2. Aug 12

    What to Do When You Feel Behind

    Do you ever look at someone else’s life and suddenly feel like you’re behind? They bought the house. Got the promotion. Changed careers. Built the business. Figured out their next move. And you’re still trying to figure out yours. In Episode 2 of What’s Your EX?, Marilie talks about why feeling “behind” may have less to do with where you actually are—and more to do with whose timeline you’re using to measure your life. Because there isn’t one road. There isn’t one timeline. And the person you’re comparing yourself to isn’t living your life. In this episode, you’ll learn three practical things to do the next time that “I’m behind” feeling shows up: 1. Name the race—and quit it. Whose timeline are you actually trying to keep up with? 2. Look backward before you look sideways. Instead of measuring yourself against someone else, look at how far you’ve come. 3. Pick the next right step. You don’t need to catch up. You need to move. Marilie also shares what she’s learning while navigating her own pivot—and why getting absorbed in building what comes next has changed the way she thinks about being “behind.” Because maybe those years weren’t wasted. Maybe they were preparation. You’re not behind. You’re on your own road. Compare yourself to who you were—not to who they are. Follow What’s Your EX? for a new episode each week, and share this one with someone who needs the reminder that their timeline doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s.

  3. Aug 6

    Nothing You Lived Was Wasted

    You have an ex you've never talked about. It's not a person — it's the job that ended, the dream you set down, the whole version of yourself you walked away from. And you've probably been carrying one quiet fear about all of it: that the time was wasted. In this first episode of What's Your EX?, Marilie takes that fear apart. Here's the idea that changes everything: you cannot live a whole season of your life and come out with nothing. Every chapter — even the ones that ended badly, even the ones you're a little embarrassed about — left something in you. Skills. Instincts. Grit. And when the chapter closed, that didn't leave. It stayed. Because sometimes the pivot isn't about starting over. It's about finally seeing that everything you've lived has been preparing you for what's next. Marilie gets honest about her own story — the string of jobs that felt like "just getting by," two decades as her family's breadwinner, more than ten years as a caregiver — and the moment she realized she was never collecting paychecks. She was collecting tools. Every one of them walked with her into what came next. In this episode: Why "I wasted that time" is the most damaging story we tell ourselvesThe reason we give friends grace we refuse to give our own pastHow to look at a closed chapter and find what it was actually preparing you forThe simple question that turns regret into preparation: what did it teach me?Why you're not starting from scratch — you're starting from experienceIf you've ever felt behind, second-guessed a career change, or wondered whether a season of your life was a detour or a dead end, this one's for you. 🎧 Grab the free one-page action plan HERE — and if it hits you, share it with someone who needs to hear it. So — What's Your Ex? #WhatsYourEX · @iammariliedaniels

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What's Your EX? with Marilie — The Pivot Isn't Starting Over You have an ex you've never talked about. It's not a person. It's the career that let you go. The dream you buried. The version of yourself you walked away from — and still think about at 2 a.m. Here's what nobody tells you: none of it was wasted. What's Your EX? is the podcast about the pivot — career change, reinvention, and second chances — the show about who we used to be, and how it was all preparation for who we are becoming. Because here's the whole idea: the pivot isn't about starting over. It's about finally seeing what you were being prepared for. We all carry exes that have nothing to do with romance. Ex-careers. Ex-dreams. Ex-titles. Ex-versions of ourselves we've outgrown or been forced to leave behind. And most of us quietly file those chapters under "failure," "wasted time," or "the detour." This show exists to change that. To take the parts of your story you're a little embarrassed about — and reveal them for what they actually were: preparation. Every week, Marilie sits down for one honest, warm, no-fluff conversation that flips how you see a chapter of your life. Some weeks it's about feeling behind. Some weeks it's about fear, or reinvention, or who you are when a title disappears, or finding the nerve to begin again. Different angle every time — same through line: you were never starting from scratch. You were starting from experience. This isn't another motivational podcast telling you to erase your past and hustle harder. It's a space to breathe, re-frame, and reclaim what you'd written off — and walk away with one simple, practical idea you can actually use that week. If you've ever felt stuck, felt behind, changed direction, or wondered who you are without your job title — this is your show. It's for the career changers and the late bloomers. The ones starting over at 30, at 40, at 55. Anyone in a season of transition, reinvention, burnout recovery, or quiet personal growth who needs to hear that their story was building toward something all along. Because sometimes the bravest, most freeing thing you'll ever do is look back at everything you've lived — and realize not one bit of it was wasted. So — What's Your Ex? Hit follow, and let's go find out. Together. New episodes weekly. Share this podcast with someone who needs it. #WhatsYourEX · @iammariliedaniels