WHO AM I‪?‬ Paul Ugobor

Wisdom is critical to our lives. Without wisdom, we would fall into all sorts of avoidable issues in life. Wisdom will make you unhappy sometimes, that when your friends come to you asking you to go with them to a place, you are not just happy with yourself, and you turn it down, that is wisdom at work to save you from untold pains that you will eventually hear of that your friends got themselves into. You need wisdom to relate with people, who sometimes want to cut you down, but wisdom will make you maintain your composure and your self-esteem.

Greed is defined as a selfish and excessive desire for more of something than is needed. Envy, lust and lack of contentment are the things that fuels our compulsive desires. Greed will lead us to lie, compromise to get something that we want immediately. What we do not seem to understand is that greed, makes us to consume and waste what others could have meaningfully use to their advantage. Every greedy person will find out that they are not a happy set of people, because they have low self-esteem of themselves.www.paulugobor.comiyobosaugobor@gmail.comInstagram: @pugoborFacebook: pugoborYouTube Channel: https://youtu.be/DCZ4q7wHbDY

Majority of us, if not all of us, have greed or hidden greed resident within us. Greed is a desire to have more than the value we have created. Greed is a desire to have more than what others have. Greed is insatiable, and most often than not, the cause of greed, is man or woman's ingratitude for what they have. Until we are contented with what we have, we will easily fall prey to the seductive and tempting lures of Satan to cause us to compromise in order to meet our greed.www.paulugobor.comiyobosaugobor@gmail.comInstagram: @pugoborFacebook: pugoborYouTube Channel link: https://youtube.com/channel/UCHMgcSHuu4qtOUfZN49QWVg

Marriage is for the matured. It is not a female or a girl that should go into marriage, but a woman, just as it is not a boy or male that should be involved in a marriage, but a man. Women in abusive relationships notice the behaviour of the man during dating, and all she says to herself, is that "I will be able to change him in due course", or they accept the lie that says, "the devil you know is better than the saint you don't know". Carry yourself high woman, because you are not a decorative accessory, you have value, don't allow any man turn you to a punching bag.www.paulugobor.comiyobosaugobor@gmail.comInstagram: @pugoborFacebook: pugobor

Abusive relationships did not start in one day. In today's episode, we spoke of why a man will engage in such abusive relationships. First, we must understand, that it is only a man that God gave the mandate to be married and not boys. Relationships with our spouse involves responsibilities, and until we are ready or our shoulders is strong enough to carry such responsibilities, we should not get into a relationship that will be to the detriment of both parties.www.paulugobor.comiyobosaugobor@gmail.comInstagram: @pugoborFacebook: pugobor

Majority of abusive relationships did not begin long after the relationships started or after the marriage had gone far, the abuse started right from the beginning, but those in such abusive relationships, decides to turn a blind eye to such abuses, believing that a change will come, and they will be regarded as heroes or heroines for not throwing in the towel so quickly. You have no reason whatsoever to remain in an abusive relationships.www.paulugobor.comiyobosaugobor@gmail.comInstagram: @pugoborFacebook: pugobor