Who Does She Think She Is?

Mele Miller
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Who Does She Think She Is? hosted by charismatic finance expert Mele Miller, explores the audacious financial and professional journeys of remarkable Black women. With humor, honesty, and a good cocktail, Mele invites fellow Black women to share stories of fearlessly entering unconventional spaces, achieving personal successes, and facing financial setbacks, head on.  Mele becomes the trusted money mentor we always deserved while disrupting the same biased systems she endured to get to the top.  “WHO DOES SHE THINK SHE IS?” I know this question well and it used to silence and shame me. As a Black woman in the finance industry, I’ve been met with confusion, apprehension, disrespect, and disapproval.   Who do I think I am to take up space?  My entire life has been an exercise in introducing myself. So, I come ready. I know exactly who I am and introduce myself early and often until people forget their assumptions and only recognize my truth. I am Mele Miller and I am the future of money culture.

  1. APR 15

    Turning Military Discipline into Winemaking & Wealth

    SUMMARY In this episode, Mele Miller hosts Dr. Sheila Adams, a retired military officer and founder of Kai Simone Winery. Sheila shares her inspiring journey of transforming discipline, resilience, and strategic planning from her military career into building an award-winning wine business. Discover how her vision for legacy, representation, and community impact fueled her entrepreneurial journey amid the challenges of starting a winery. If you're visiting San Antonio, be sure to experience the charm of Kai Simone Winery’s beautiful event space and see firsthand what makes it a must-visit destination. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    43 min

  2. APR 1

    The "Theo-Patra" Legacy: Blending Power, Heritage, and Storytelling

    Legacy in the Vines sponsored by Urban Connoisseurs THEODORA LEE The “Theo‑Patra” Legacy: Blending Power, Heritage, and Storytelling.   RESOURCES & LINKS: https://www.urbanconnoisseurs.com/ www.theopolisvineyards.com    WINE CLUB — TheopolisVineyards     Labor and Employment Practice - http://www.littler.com   CONNECT WITH THEODORA LEE: https://www.instagram.com/theopolisvineyards/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/theodora-lee-03570a5/ SUMMARY Uncover the fascinating journey of Theodora Lee, a trailblazing woman who defies expectations at every turn. From law firm success to pioneering a vineyard empire, her story of bold vision, resilience, and authentic leadership will inspire you to rethink what's possible. Dive into a conversation that reveals how purpose and passion can align with financial independence, community impact, and personal joy—all while breaking barriers and redefining legacy.    TIMESTAMPS: 00:42 - Introduction to Theodora Lee and her multifaceted career 01:15 - The influence of an educator household and community leadership 01:55 - How the world perceives Theodora and her impact 02:22 - The importance of making a difference through work and community 03:10 - Breaking barriers as a Black woman lawyer in major law firms 03:37 - Journey to partnership at Littler and early leadership achievements 04:04 - Building a book of business and the significance of rainmaking 04:56 - Achieving partnership in five years, challenging industry norms 05:19 - Leadership trends among women of color in corporate environments 06:10 - The power of strategic career moves and opportunism 07:16 - Redefining success beyond financial gains 07:41 - Joy in client wins, wine tasting, and personal relationships 08:55 - The importance of an integrated life and authenticity 09:49 - Investing in community, schools, and personal values 10:44 - Developing financial independence and early savings mindset 12:29 - Debunking work-life balance and embracing authentic self 13:50 - Investing in community and the power of love and positivity 14:17 - Entrepreneurial spirit from childhood to adulthood 15:58 - Overcoming barriers and emphasizing the importance of education 18:05 - Family legacy, land investments, and the importance of land ownership 21:51 - The transition from law to wine making and land cultivation 25:00 - Building and maintaining a vineyard, and cultivating the land’s potential 30:29 - Business failures, rejection, and learning resilience 35:38 - Continuing education in wine making and fostering diversity 36:34 - Long-term strategic investing and serving underserved communities 37:23 - Advice for young people on wealth-building and patience 39:23 - Planning for retirement and lifestyle beyond the traditional concept 41:08 - The value of experiences, travel, and creating joyful memories 42:21 - The big dream: traveling to every continent with wine and pleasure 43:14 - Curiosity and adventurous pursuits like skydiving 43:43 - Embracing authenticity, self-awareness, and inner identity 45:11 - Reflecting on life’s journey, legacy, and purpose 45:36 - The story behind Theopatra wine label and its cultural significance 48:16 - How to engage with Theopolis Vineyards and upcoming events 49:07 - Closing thoughts on passion, love for life, and living fully Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    51 min

  3. MAR 11

    How Winemaker Shae Frichette Knows the Land Is the Legacy

    Legacy in the Vines sponsored by Urban Connoisseurs SHAE FRICHETTE: The Land Is the Legacy   RESOURCES & LINKS: https://www.urbanconnoisseurs.com/ https://frichettewinery.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/shaefrichette https://www.winemag.com/food-drink/wine-food-pairing-guide/ https://vinepair.com/articles/vineyard-investment-essentials/ CONNECT WITH SHAE FRICHETTE: https://www.instagram.com/shaefrichette https://www.facebook.com/frichettewinery SUMMARY: For generations, Black families worked land they would never own—building wealth for others while their own dreams were deferred. But today, a powerful shift is happening. Descendants of sharecroppers are reclaiming land, building assets, and rewriting the financial legacy of their families. Shae Frichette is the co-owner and winemaker at Frichette Winery, the first Black-owned winery in Washington’s Red Mountain AVA. Transitioning from corporate life to viticulture, she crafts bold, elegant wines and hosts community-focused events, blending passion, storytelling, and hospitality to create memorable wine experiences. TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 - Welcome to the episode: Ownership, land, and legacy beyond wine 00:41 - Introducing Shae Frichette: Winemaker, leader, community builder 02:04 - Perception and identity: How the world sees Shae 03:09 - The power of recognition and presence in community interactions 04:38 - Shae’s journey into winemaking: From dry home upbringing to vineyard owner 05:54 - Soil and environment: Lessons from South Carolina to Eastern Washington 06:50 - Farming as a science, craft, and community ecosystem 08:00 - Involving family and community in vineyard life 09:09 - Failing forward: Learning from planting and soil challenges 10:26 - Creating a safe environment to innovate and learn 11:44 - Timeline of vineyard development and the importance of patience 12:29 - Succession planting in agriculture and its parallels in winemaking 14:20 - Opportunity costs and long-term planning in vineyard investment 15:59 - Jumping into wine business: Strategies for quick entry 17:14 - Strategic positioning: Direct-to-consumer focus and community engagement 18:24 - Overcoming underestimation and industry barriers as a Black woman 19:45 - Community support, family involvement, and sharing the craft 22:50 - Stewardship, investing in community, and the value of collective effort 26:01 - Shae’s personal style, confidence, and alignment with her purpose 28:24 - Navigating industry perceptions and self-awareness in success 33:20 - Engaging the community with Shae’s products and brand 35:40 - Rapid fire: Pairing wine with light seafood and exploring flavors 36:23 - Final reflections: Self-identity, resilience, and building legacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    41 min

  4. FEB 25

    Plant Based & Paid: Heal Your Body, Build Your Bag

    Note from Mele: Physical discomfort teaches us about our body. Get your health in check and save 20% on your first order at https://justthrivehealth.com/CX   Guest links Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/SweetPotatoSoul Website - https://sweetpotatosoul.com/ Jenné’s Cookbook - Sweet Potato Soul Vegan Vibes: 100 Soulful Plant-Based Recipes for Healthy Everyday Meals   Summary Join us for an inspiring conversation with Jenné Claiborne, a disruptor in the food and wellness space, as she shares her journey from childhood passions to building a purpose-driven brand. Discover how her family, culture, and bold approach to health and entrepreneurship shape her mission to transform legacy recipes and promote wellness.   Topics Jenné Claiborne, vegan soul food, health disruptor, food culture, entrepreneurship, legacy recipes, wellness, Atlanta, real estate, financial independence   Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Culinary Disruption 04:26 The Journey of a Culinary Genius 07:07 Early Influences and Passion for Cooking 10:03 The Role of Family in Shaping Career 12:54 Navigating Cultural Expectations and Money 15:46 The Impact of Financial Literacy 18:39 Disrupting Traditional Food Culture 21:32 Facing Resistance in Plant-Based Cooking 24:25 Embracing Individuality and Authenticity 31:22 Navigating Criticism in Culinary Innovation 32:16 Cultural Adaptation and Food Evolution 33:43 The Legacy of Soul Food and Healthier Choices 34:46 The Impact of social media on Content Creation 38:55 Understanding Personal Impact and Community Influence 40:40 Celebrating Financial Milestones and Home Ownership 44:28 Challenging Societal Norms in Real Estate 48:42 Empowerment Through Financial Literacy 50:59 The Importance of Knowing Your Worth 53:12 Self-Identity and Spiritual Purpose Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1 hr

  5. FEB 11

    Discomfort Is Data: What It Taught Me About Leveling Up (Part 2)

    Part 2 - Discomfort is Data: What it Taught Me About Leveling Up   Note from Mele: Get your health in check and save 20% on your first order at https://justthrivehealth.com/CX   Summary This conversation delves into the themes of insecurity, frustration, and adversity in the workplace, emphasizing the importance of communication and understanding in overcoming these challenges. The speaker shares personal insights and practical advice on navigating workplace tension and adversity, highlighting that while frustration often stems from poor communication, adversity is an external force that can impact one's career and personal growth. The discussion culminates in strategies for overcoming adversity and fostering resilience.   Takeaways Frustration is driven by poor communication and unclear expectations. Workplace tension often arises from misaligned priorities. Communication is unique to each individual, influenced by personal experiences. Understanding how others receive your message is crucial to reducing frustration. Frustration can escalate if not addressed promptly and effectively. Clarity in communication can alleviate frustration and improve teamwork. Adversity is an external challenge that can impact one's career. Experiencing adversity does not define who you are as a person. Real solutions for overcoming adversity are essential for personal growth. Adversity is a part of life and growth in our careers. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    41 min

  6. JAN 28

    From Accountant to Kitchenista: The Evolution of Angela Davis

    Note from Mele: Physical discomfort teaches us about our body. Get your health in check and save 20% on your first order at https://justthrivehealth.com/CX Episode Summary: Angela Davis, known as the Kitchenista, shares her journey of transformation, survival, and self-discovery. She discusses her tattoos symbolizing change, her duality of surviving and thriving, and her evolution from an accountant to a culinary artist. Angela reflects on her identity, the challenges of being a Black woman in the workplace, and the importance of neurodivergence in communication. She also delves into her financial journey, the impact of money culture on her upbringing, and the lessons learned in entrepreneurship. Throughout the conversation, Angela emphasizes the significance of embracing change, celebrating personal milestones, and living authentically. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Angela Davis and Her Journey 02:23 Transformation vs. Survival: A Personal Reflection 04:52 Self-Perception and Identity 07:01 The Role of Food in Culture and Identity 07:57 Shifting Career Paths: From Content Creation to Culinary Arts 11:01 The Corporate World: Challenges and Growth 15:52 Navigating Gender Dynamics in the Workplace 20:37 Understanding Neurodivergence and Its Impact 24:00 Embracing Differences: The Power of Self-Acceptance 26:46 The Courage to Learn Publicly 30:14 The Dynamic Nature of Angela Davis: Introvert on Camera 31:34 The Pressure of Appearance 35:12 Money Culture and Its Impact 38:43 Transitioning from Employment to Entrepreneurship 42:22 Financial Education and Self-Discovery 53:32 Embracing Change and Personal Growth Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 3m

  7. JAN 14

    Navigating the Emotional Impact of Layoffs

    In this episode, Mele Miller addresses the significant job loss experienced by over 300,000 Black women, emphasizing the importance of mental health and community support during these challenging times. She shares practical do's and don'ts for navigating job loss, focusing on emotional processing, seeking support, and embracing new opportunities. The conversation highlights the need for self-care, reflection, and the potential for personal growth in the face of adversity. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    20 min

  8. 12/31/2025

    Black Designers Breaking Barriers with Bridgid Coulter-Cheadle

    In this episode of 'Who Does She Think She Is?', Mele Miller engages in a profound conversation with Bridget Coulter-Cheadle, a multifaceted creative and entrepreneur. They explore Bridgid's journey from a curious creative to a successful entrepreneur, discussing the importance of community, financial literacy, and the unique challenges faced by black women in business. The conversation emphasizes the significance of support networks, the tools needed for financial success, and the personal reflections that shape one's identity and aspirations. Bridgid shares her insights on entrepreneurship, the power of storytelling, and the importance of lifting each other up in the journey of personal and professional growth. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    41 min
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Who Does She Think She Is? hosted by charismatic finance expert Mele Miller, explores the audacious financial and professional journeys of remarkable Black women. With humor, honesty, and a good cocktail, Mele invites fellow Black women to share stories of fearlessly entering unconventional spaces, achieving personal successes, and facing financial setbacks, head on.  Mele becomes the trusted money mentor we always deserved while disrupting the same biased systems she endured to get to the top.  “WHO DOES SHE THINK SHE IS?” I know this question well and it used to silence and shame me. As a Black woman in the finance industry, I’ve been met with confusion, apprehension, disrespect, and disapproval.   Who do I think I am to take up space?  My entire life has been an exercise in introducing myself. So, I come ready. I know exactly who I am and introduce myself early and often until people forget their assumptions and only recognize my truth. I am Mele Miller and I am the future of money culture.

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  • Creator
    Mele Miller
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    18
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © RiteSize Consulting LLC
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    Who Does She Think She Is?