Who Wrote the Rules?

vickishaw
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This limited-series narrative podcast follows a personal and philosophical journey that peels back layers of the societal rules and norms we all inherit. Having grown up with certain values and ideas of success, and then finding them to not be so fulfilling, Vicki Shaw documents her philosophical journey grappling with modern, yet outdated values as a software engineer in Big Tech. Confrontation with her western worldview deconstructs long-held ideas of success, wealth, and domination, and begins an inquiry into where values come from and how to live more fully. Follow along as she sheds attachments to the status quo, questions old narratives, and reconstructs her values with an eye for morality--to eventually arrive at values closer to indigenous ones. Find more information, thoughts, and show notes on the substack, where you can also support this work. https://www.whowrotetherules.com/

Episodes

  1. MAR 5

    Unraveling Value and Narrative with Valuescience

    Where do our values come from? Can we evolve them to live better? And why does "value" mean something totally different from "values"? In this episode, we meet an intentional community called Magic that explores those questions through a scientific lens, in a philosophy called valuescience. David Schrom, the community's founder, tells his story of challenging the narratives we inherit, which culminates in a painful estrangement from his father. Personal reflections on valuescience and David's story help me reconcile past moral questions of working in tech, and grapple with how difficult it is to examine the ideas we become attached to. Trigger warning: This episode contains mentions of suicide that some listeners may find upsetting.

    40 min

  2. JAN 28

    Back Pain and the Thread of Kinesthetic Wisdom

    A horrible bout of back pain creates curiosity about the underlying societal influences on our bodies, and causes me to take a leave of absence from my tech job. For this story, I interview a posture guru, Esther Gokhale, about how pain may arise from influences beyond our physical bodies, including speculation of a break in the thread of what she calls kinesthetic wisdom. We glimpse examples from indigenous cultures, antique art, and vintage clothing stores to see how postural averages change, and what that might mean for our own bodies. In uncovering these hidden layers, questions arise about what else by might be more improvised than previously thought.

    32 min

  3. 10/20/2025

    Introduction

    This intro is told through Vicki's (clumsy) experience playing a video game: Civilization 6. Through this story, we'll encounter the seminal themes of the series: Why are we obsessed with dominance and is there another way to thrive? Where did we get our ideas about what's good or valuable? What does it mean to embrace more sensible values?

    14 min
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About

This limited-series narrative podcast follows a personal and philosophical journey that peels back layers of the societal rules and norms we all inherit. Having grown up with certain values and ideas of success, and then finding them to not be so fulfilling, Vicki Shaw documents her philosophical journey grappling with modern, yet outdated values as a software engineer in Big Tech. Confrontation with her western worldview deconstructs long-held ideas of success, wealth, and domination, and begins an inquiry into where values come from and how to live more fully. Follow along as she sheds attachments to the status quo, questions old narratives, and reconstructs her values with an eye for morality--to eventually arrive at values closer to indigenous ones. Find more information, thoughts, and show notes on the substack, where you can also support this work. https://www.whowrotetherules.com/

Information

  • Creator
    vickishaw
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    3
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Copyright 2025 All rights reserved.
  • Show Website
    Who Wrote the Rules?

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