Wholehearted Loving

Georgianna Lee + Stephanie Hunter
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Wholehearted Loving is for growth-oriented people who are "Doing the Work" — but still feel stuck. Hosted by somatic & spiritual counselors Georgianna & Steph, the podcast blends simple self-connection tools with raw, real, and funny stories of personal healing. It’s not more mindset work, it’s the embodied how-to-in-real-life that all your inner work has been waiting for. 🎙️ We go LIVE twice a month on YouTube (call schedule posted on Instagram) 🎧 Replays everywhere you get your podcasts Walk away with practical, 100% usable tools to finally shift your patterns in life and relationships.

  1. 21H AGO

    The Hidden Cost of Emotional Suppression | Ep157

    The Hidden Cost of Emotional Suppression: Research showschronic emotional suppression increases your risk of death by 35% and cancer death by 70%, because your body keeps the receipts. Maybe you can relate to this: claiming "I'm fine. Idon't care. Nothing's wrong." Then slamming cupboards too loudly, hoping someone will notice how not-fine you are. And when they finally ask "Are you okay?", you default back to "I'm fine" anyway. Then you get to be double-mad — and double unexpressed, with compounding interest on your emotional suppression: you're resentful about the original thing AND resentful that they didn't know "fine" meant "not fine". This episode breaks down a 12-year study of 729 people:those who suppressed emotions had 35% increased mortality and 70% increased cancer death. Suppression was measured through six questions we reveal in the second half of the episode. We explore where this starts — childhood conditioning thattaught us expressing emotions wasn't safe — and how it manifests when your body doesn't delete emotions;it stores them as jaw tension, chest tightness, chronic pain, auto-immune disorders and cardiovascular disease. The way out isn't to "just express everything." It's aboutbuilding capacity to FEEL without flooding. Which is entirely what we do over here at Wholehearted Loving. What You'll Learn: • Why "I'm fine" creates compound interest onsuppression—and the cost to your body • The research: 35% mortality, 70% cancer death from emotional suppression (Chapman et al., 2013) • How childhood taught you suppression was safest—and why it made sense then • The difference between suppression and healthy regulation • A 3-breath practice for building capacity to feel without flooding Resources Mentioned: Self-Compassionate Body-Based ToolkitSomatic Integration SessionsConscious Relationship Training (CRT) wholeheartedloving.com If you're tired of saying "I'm fine" when you're not, this episode offers grounded tools for building capacity to feel what's actually there.

    1h 1m

  2. MAR 18

    Deep Dating: Vulnerability or Trauma Dumping? | Ep156

    Deep dating is trending — but what it actually means might surprise you. In this episode, Steph and Georgianna break down the real reason so many of us show up to dates (and important conversations) performing instead of present — and what it takes to actually change that. Georgianna opens with a painfully relatable story: smiling and feigning approval on a date with someone she'd already decided she wanted to like. Not fake, exactly — she genuinely felt excited. But there was a difference between the real version of that excitement and the performed version. Learning to feel that difference? That's the whole thing. Steph adds her own gem: the man who said he liked to clean. And technically, he did. Just not in any way that translated to what Steph's brain had decided it meant. This is the core problem with "deep dating" as it's being practiced right now — people front-loading all of their self-awareness, their therapy insights, their dealbreaker lists, as if talking equals knowing. It doesn't. Knowing someone takes time, shared experience, and watching how they actually show up when things get hard. The episode also gets into the vulnerability vs. trauma dumping distinction — not as a rigid rule, but as a felt sense. When you've genuinely worked through something and share it, it lands differently than when you're still ashamed of it and testing whether someone will accept you anyway. Your body knows the difference. The question is whether you're slowing down enough to listen. Georgianna closes with a full somatic practice: what to do with your body before, during, and after a date — including sentence stems that will show you exactly what you're actually hoping for (which, it turns out, is often not what you thought). What You'll Learn: Why feigning excitement has a specific somatic signature — and how to tell it apart from the real thingThe stat that explains why men don't go deeper first (and why women are waiting for them to)How trauma bonding gets mistaken for deep connection — and the energy difference between the twoWhy talking about yourself isn't the same as someone knowing you, and why that distinction matters for pacingA grounded somatic practice for before, during, and after a date so you can stay connected to yourself through all of itThe sentence stems that reveal what success actually means to you on a date (spoiler: it probably isn't what you used to think)How self-acceptance changes the way you share — and why the same story lands differently depending on where you're coming from Resources Mentioned: Somatic Sessions — twice-monthly live online sessions for building nervous system capacity: wholeheartedloving.com/primingforpeaceConscious Relationship Training (CRT) — live cohort program for embodied relational change: wholeheartedloving.com/crtSelf-Compassionate Body-Based Toolkit — between-session somatic support: wholeheartedloving.com/primingforpeace If you're tired of performing on dates or in conversations and want to actually feel present with people — and with yourself — this one's for you.

    51 min

  3. FEB 19

    Repair in Relationships and How You Can Help | Ep155

    Repair in relationships isn't just about saying sorry — it's about understanding what your body needs after conflict and having the courage to ask for it. In this live episode, Georgianna shares a sweet story about waking up still feeling residue from last night's argument, even after it was "resolved." She realized she needed morning reconnection to feel complete, while her partner's system was done the moment they made up. When she named her need without shame, he set a daily 7am reminder to check in — not because she demanded it, but because he genuinely wanted to meet her there. This is what real repair looks like: noticing what's true in your body, speaking it without making yourself or your partner wrong, and trusting them to show up in their own way. We walk you through why some people need next-day repair while others don't, how to stop oscillating between "I suck" and "they suck," and how tiny body-based practices help you access clarity about what you actually need. What You'll Learn: Why resolution doesn't always mean your nervous system is done processingHow to ask for what you need without shame or blameThe difference between attacking and speaking from clarityWhy body awareness is the foundation for relational honestyHow to stop making yourself wrong for needing things your partner doesn't need Resources Mentioned: Self-Compassionate Body-Based Toolkit (our self-led practice studio)Somatic Sessions (twice monthly live body connection practices)Conscious Relationship Training (next cohort starts March 14th)If you're tired of seething silently or pointing fingers, this episode offers a grounded, embodied path toward speaking your truth and experiencing real repair. Keywords: relationship repair, nervous system healing, conflict resolution, somatic practices, attachment healing, emotional needs, communication skills, body awareness, conscious relationships, relational repair

    48 min

  4. FEB 5

    How to Stay Regulated When the Worlds Feels Unsafe | Ep154

    You don’t need to collapse with care. In this episode, we explore how to stay with your body — even when the world feels terrifying. From guilt and spiraling to grief and fight energy, we offer practical, embodied ways to pause, feel, and reconnect. Whether you're watching loved ones suffer or trying to hold it together from afar, this conversation gives you a way to name what’s true and return to what’s here. 💛 Plus: Two simple body-based practices you can use today. #somatichealing #nervoussystemregulation #guiltandprivilege #embodiedwisdom #emotionalresilience #selfconnection

    42 min

  5. 11/30/2025

    How to Trust Connection Through Absence, Change, and Endings | Ep153

    Today we close out a 3-year long season with a tender, grounded conversation about endings, pauses, and how to trust connection through all of them. In this episode of Wholehearted Loving, Georgianna and Steph share that the podcast will be taking a break through December and January — returning in some new and yet-to-be-determined format in February 2026 — and as usual, they bring it back to relationship, and what we make things mean. Steph reflects on her past relationship patterns around “breaks” and readiness, while Georgianna shares how this decision to rest represents her own healing and growth — honoring seasons instead of forcing constant productivity. Together, they explore what it means to shift priorities, how to trust love even when it's not visible, and how to stay open and connected to goodness even when life brings change and uncertainty. Discover how: Pausing is an act of trust, not loss Absence doesn’t have to mean disconnection Endings can hold their own kind of sweetness "Like finding gold." – Alma W. "The best therapy I've ever done for myself." – Sanjeev B. LIVE training & practice programs: wholeheartedloving.com Get our self-compassionate body-based toolkit Every episode begins and ends with a body-based self-connection practice, helping you grow your capacity to be with all that life brings. Self-reflection prompts each week on @wholeheartedloving. With love, Georgianna & Steph

    58 min

  6. 11/23/2025

    Human Design for Families: How to Raise Resilient Kids (with Kat Fong) | Ep152

    Human Design for Families continues our special two-part series with Human Design reader Kat Fong, diving deeper into how self-knowledge can heal family dynamics. In this episode of Wholehearted Loving, Kat shares stories of her own children and how understanding their different designs reshaped her home life. She and Georgianna discuss the tension between discipline and flow, structure and rhythm, and how to build a home where every nervous system can breathe. They talk about trusting children’s inner wisdom, finding compassion for your own limitations, and parenting without fear. Discover how: Each child thrives in their own rhythm and environment Validation and trust build emotional security better than control Human Design helps you parent the soul in front of you — not the idea in your mind "Like finding gold." – Alma W. "The best therapy I've ever done for myself." – Sanjeev B. LIVE training & practice programs: wholeheartedloving.com Get our self-compassionate body-based toolkit Every episode begins and ends with a body-based self-connection practice, helping you grow your capacity to be with all that life brings. Self-reflection prompts each week on @wholeheartedloving. New episodes every Sunday at 10 a.m. PT. With love, Georgianna & Steph

    43 min

  7. 11/16/2025

    Parenting by Design: See Your Child for Who They Are (Human Design with Kat Fong) | Ep151

    Parenting by Design (Part 1) kicks off a special two-part series with Human Design guide Kat Fong (katfong.com), exploring how self-understanding can transform our relationships with our children. In this episode of Wholehearted Loving, Georgianna and Kat trace their 16-year friendship and share how Human Design has helped them parent with more trust and less fear. Kat reads Georgianna’s chart alongside her 15-year-old son’s and explains why understanding a child’s energy type — in this case, a Generator — can reveal how they process emotions, make decisions, and build self-confidence without parental micromanaging. Discover how: Curiosity creates connection in parent-child dynamics Understanding your child’s design eases conflict and builds trust Allowing difference can strengthen your bond "Like finding gold." – Alma W. "The best therapy I've ever done for myself." – Sanjeev B. LIVE training & practice programs: wholeheartedloving.com Get our self-compassionate body-based toolkit Every episode begins and ends with a body-based self-connection practice, helping you grow your capacity to be with all that life brings. Self-reflection prompts each week on @wholeheartedloving. New episodes every Sunday at 10 a.m. PT. With love, Georgianna & Steph

    1h 1m

  8. 11/09/2025

    Shadow Work: The Possibility Gap Between You & Your Dream Life | Ep150

    Shadow work around possibilities explores your beliefs and the optional limitations that hold you back in life — and invites you to let others hold a higher vision for you than you're currently able to hold for yourself. In this episode of Wholehearted Loving, Georgianna and Steph close their shadow work series by exploring the fears that keep us from stepping into our most vibrant, aligned lives. Georgianna shares how others once held impossible visions for her — from working at a dream job in the Netherlands to running her own practice — long before she believed those futures could be hers. Steph opens up about her own shadow beliefs around worth, education, and “deserving” to thrive. Together, they reveal how shame and self-protection masquerade as humility, why gratitude can sometimes become a cage, and how gentle embodiment practices create the space for possibility to grow. Discover how: Letting others hold a vision for you can change your story Fear of “not deserving” is often fear of expansion The body teaches us how to hold new dreams with safety and trust "Like finding gold." – Alma W. "The best therapy I've ever done for myself." – Sanjeev B. LIVE training & practice programs:wholeheartedloving.com Get our self-compassionate body-based toolkit Every episode begins and ends with a body-based self-connection practice, so you can grow your capacity to be with all that life brings. We also include self-reflection and journaling prompts each week, posted on our Instagram @wholeheartedloving. New episodes every Sunday at 10am PT. With love, Georgianna & Steph

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Wholehearted Loving is for growth-oriented people who are "Doing the Work" — but still feel stuck. Hosted by somatic & spiritual counselors Georgianna & Steph, the podcast blends simple self-connection tools with raw, real, and funny stories of personal healing. It’s not more mindset work, it’s the embodied how-to-in-real-life that all your inner work has been waiting for. 🎙️ We go LIVE twice a month on YouTube (call schedule posted on Instagram) 🎧 Replays everywhere you get your podcasts Walk away with practical, 100% usable tools to finally shift your patterns in life and relationships.

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  • Creator
    Georgianna Lee + Stephanie Hunter
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2026
  • Episodes
    159
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Georgianna Lee + Stephanie Hunter
  • Show Website
    Wholehearted Loving