Why Did I Get Cancer‪?‬ Deborah Herlax Enos

39: Putting ‘Junk’ in Your Heart Will Make You Sick
A candid conversation with Dr. Henry Cloud
 
Being vulnerable makes me uncomfortable, especially considering how I "used to be" before cancer.
Before cancer, it was crucial to me to be liked. So, "to make" people like me, I didn't always share my opinions or let people get to know the "real me."
When I received the cancer diagnosis, everything changed.
Suddenly, I had to save my energy for healing, and I stopped caring if people liked me. I then started to look at some of my relationships. Some of my friendships needed better boundaries, and I needed to manage my expectations about the friendship.
All of a sudden, I FELT FREE. I felt lighter and truly began to enjoy the people in my life.
I first heard Dr. Cloud, author of Boundaries, on the radio twenty-five years ago.
So, you can imagine how delighted I was when Dr. Cloud agreed to come on my podcast to discuss how our relationships can impact our health.
My specific question to him was this, "can a lack of boundaries or being co-dependent contribute to cancer risk?"
You've got to hear his surprising answer!
 
Dr. Henry Cloud is an acclaimed leadership expert, clinical psychologist, and New York Times bestselling author. His 45 books, including the iconic Boundaries, have sold nearly 20 million copies worldwide. In addition, he has an extensive executive coaching background and experience as a leadership consultant, devoting most of his time to working with CEOs, leadership teams, and executives to improve performance, leadership skills, and culture.
 
Boundaries.Me is your best option for mental health coaching by providing you with videos and thinking tools created by New York Times best-selling author and clinical psychologist Dr. Henry Cloud. You will learn how to apply the research-backed techniques that have helped thousands heal and thrive by following a personalized learning path, connecting with Dr. Cloud daily and joining a private support community.
 
Click here to start your FREE trial of Boundaries.Me
 
This episode is sponsored in part by ButcherBox.
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This podcast is for informational purposes only and none of the information should be construed as medical advice. Listeners should seek guidance from their own medical team before making any medical or lifestyle changes.

38: Can a Lack of Boundaries Contribute to Cancer Risk?
A candid conversation with Boundaries author, Dr. Henry Cloud.
 
I was 33, single, and struggling with boundaries. I always picked the wrong guy, and then the relationship would blow up, and I'd be crushed and have a crisis of confidence.
 
One day I was driving to a work appointment and switched on my radio and discovered Dr. Cloud on my local radio station. He spoke to my brokenness about my relationships. He taught me about boundaries in such a simple way! He stated that boundaries are like the locked door on a house; you unlock the door to let in the right people and keep it shut to keep the wrong people out! 
 
You can imagine what a thrill it was for me to host Dr. Henry Cloud on my podcast! I was geeking out :) He's been my mentor and life coach for twenty-five years, and I've never even talked to him.
 
My focus of this interview was, can a lack of boundaries or being co-dependent contribute to cancer risk. Of course, I've been wondering if I've contributed to my cancer through the drama I've had in my personal life.
 
I found his answer surprising, so make sure you listen to part one of my interview with Dr. Cloud.
 
Dr. Henry Cloud is an acclaimed leadership expert, clinical psychologist, and New York Times bestselling author. His 45 books, including the iconic Boundaries, have sold nearly 20 million copies worldwide. In addition, he has an extensive executive coaching background and experience as a leadership consultant, devoting most of his time to working with CEOs, leadership teams, and executives to improve performance, leadership skills, and culture.
 
Boundaries.Me is your best option for mental health coaching by providing you with videos and thinking tools created by New York Times best-selling author and clinical psychologist Dr. Henry Cloud. You will learn how to apply the research-backed techniques that have helped thousands heal and thrive by following a personalized learning path, connecting with Dr. Cloud daily and joining a private support community.
 
Click here to start your FREE trial of Boundaries.Me
 
This episode is sponsored in part by ButcherBox.
The Benefits of ButcherBox
ButcherBox takes the guesswork out of finding high-quality meat and seafood you can trust
100% grass-fed beef, free-range organic chicken, pork raised crate-free, and wild-caught seafood
Humanely raised; no antibiotics or added hormones
Ultimate Convenience
Get just what you want delivered right to your doorstep
FREE SHIPPING for the continental U.S. and no surprise fees
 
 🐓Click this link, https://www.butcherbox.com/enos, and then use the code ENOS to get FREE CHICKEN BONE BROTH FOR A YEAR! Along with $20 off of your first box — woot-woot! 🐓
 
Connect with Deborah
Deborah on Instagram
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WhyDidIGetCancer.com
This podcast is for informational purposes only and none of the information should be construed as medical advice. Listeners should seek guidance from their own medical team before making any medical or lifestyle changes.

37: Daily Habits to Prevent and Fight Cancer!
 
Today's podcast episode with Keith Bishop is a simple reminder that we can fight cancer or lower cancer risk through our daily habits.
My takeaway today was that let's not make cancer prevention too complicated; there are simple habits we can incorporate daily that can knock down our risk.
Move a bit more each day.
Cut back on sugar and alcohol.
Don't drink super-hot beverages (darn it! I love my piping hot tea 😊)
Keith also told me that while colon cancer risk seems to be going down for older folks, colon cancer in younger people is on the rise. Why?
Keith believes a sedentary lifestyle is a significant contributor. 
What that means to me is Get Up and Move, even if you add only a few sets of stairs or a quick walk after dinner.
My biggest takeaway from this conversation with Keith is that small changes can make a HUGE health impact!
Keith's Social Media and Website:
www.PrevailOverCancer.com
Keith Bishop on Instagram (@prevailovercancer)
Keith Bishop on Facebook (@prevailovercancer)
Keith has some free downloads on his website including Timed Eating for Cancer, Palm Rule for Cancer Foods, and Anti-Cancer Smoothie. Keith's Mantra: Knowledge Helps You Prevail Over Cancer.  
Please see Keith’s links below on some of the topics he discussed with me, including how higher consumption of sugar foods and beverages significantly increases your risk for developing cancer:
Total and Added Sugar Intakes, Sugar Types, and Cancer Risk: Results From the Prospective NutriNet-Santé cohort
Let Food Be Thy Medicine: The Role of Diet in Colorectal Cancer: a Narrative Review
Associations of the Paleolithic Diet Pattern Scores and the Risk of Breast Cancer among Adults: A Case-Control Study
Sweetened Beverage Consumption and Risk of Liver Cancer by Diabetes Status: A Pooled Analysis
Sugar-Sweetened Beverages and Cancer Risk: A Narrative Review
Association of Dietary Risks, Behavioural and Lifestyle Factors, and the Magnitude of Disability Burden Among Australian Cancer Patients: An Observational Epidemiology Study
Critical Protein GAPDH and its Regulatory Mechanisms in Cancer Cells
This episode is sponsored in part by ButcherBox.
The Benefits of ButcherBox
ButcherBox takes the guesswork out of finding high-quality meat and seafood you can trust
100% grass-fed beef, free-range organic chicken, pork raised crate-free, and wild-caught seafood
Humanely raised; no antibiotics or added hormones
Ultimate Convenience
Get just what you want delivered right to your doorstep
FREE SHIPPING for the continental U.S. and no surprise fees
 
 🐓Click this link, https://www.butcherbox.com/enos, and then use the code ENOS to get FREE CHICKEN BONE BROTH FOR A YEAR! Along with $20 off of your first box — woot-woot! 🐓
 
Connect with Deborah
Deborah on Instagram
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WhyDidIGetCancer.com
This podcast is for informational purposes only and none of the information should be construed as medical advice. Listeners should seek guidance from their own medical team before making any medical or lifestyle changes.

36: Can Positive Emotions Kill Cancer Cells?
 
Join me for part two of my interview with the New York Times best-selling author of Radical Remission and Radical Hope, Dr. Kelly Turner.
Did you know that positive emotions can impact your pituitary and pineal glands and flood your bloodstream with oxytocin, relaxin, serotonin, and endorphins?
Translation: These hormones have been shown in studies to reduce the spread of and the growth speed of cancer cells.
Dr. Turner also shared that researchers dripped oxytocin into Petri dishes holding breast cancer cells; the oxytocin diminished the breast cancer cells.
Listen to today's podcast episode to discover the ten healing factors all her study subjects had in common.
These ten key healing factors for Radical Remission are, in no particular order:
Radically changing your diet
Taking control of your health
Following your intuition
Using herbs and supplements
Releasing suppressed emotions
Increasing positive emotions
Embracing social support
Deepening your spiritual connection
Having strong reasons for living
Exercise
In Radical Remission, Dr. Turner states that these factors are in no particular ranking order — in her research, there was no “clear winner” among the factors. While some people focused more on one factor than others, the majority of the survivors she interviewed did practice all nine of these key factors. These key factors are now considered “hypotheses” — that is, more research is needed to “prove” that these factors improve the chances of healing from cancer or other conditions.
Dr. Turner points out: “I don’t give medical advice nor do I even give advice. I’m just here to report on my research, and I can certainly say what radical remission survivors would do from a research standpoint.”
Dr. Turner shows how survivors overcame dire circumstances and diagnoses using modalities beyond the conventional treatments of surgery, chemotherapy, radiation, and other “standard” cancer treatments. Interestingly, seven of these ten key factors that Radical Remission survivors reported using are psychosocial (mental/emotional) factors, while the other three are nutritionally and movement-related.
While getting her Ph.D. at the University of California, Berkley, Dr. Turner, a researcher, lecturer, and counselor in integrative oncology, was shocked to discover that no one was studying episodes of radical (or unexpected) remission—when people recover against all odds without the help of conventional medicine, or after conventional medicine has failed. She was so fascinated by this kind of remission that she embarked on a ten-month trip around the world, traveling to ten different countries to interview fifty holistic healers and twenty radical remission cancer survivors about their healing practices and techniques. Her research continued by interviewing over 100 Radical Remission survivors and studying over 1000 of these cases. Her evidence presents nine common themes that she believes may help even terminal patients turn their lives around.
Information About Today’s Guest, Dr. Kelly Turner:
Kelly-Turner.com
Radical Remission on Instagram (@RadicalRemission)
Order Dr. Turner's Books here:
Radical Hope: 10 Key Healing Factors from Exceptional Survivors of Cancer & Other Diseases
Radical Remission: Surviving Cancer Against All Odds
 
This episode is sponsored in part by ButcherBox.
The Benefits of ButcherBox
ButcherBox takes the guesswork out of finding high-quality meat and seafood you can trust
100% grass-fed beef, free-range organic chicken, pork raised crate-free, and wild-caught seafood
Humanely raised; no antibiotics or added hormones
Ultimate Convenience
Get just what you want delivered right to your doorstep
FREE SHIPPING for the continental U.S. and no surprise fees
 
 🐓Click this link, https://www.butcherbox.com/enos, and then use the code ENOS to get FREE CHICKEN BONE BROTH FOR A YEAR! Along with $20 off of your first box — woot-w

35: Can Listening to Your Intuition Cause a Radical Remission?
 
A candid conversation with Dr. Kelly Turner, author of "Radical Remission and Radical Hope."
 
Today I welcome Kelly A Turner, Ph.D. and New York Times best-selling author of Radical Remission and Radical Hope.
Kelly and I talk about the difference between radical remission and spontaneous healing and the ten key healing factors that cancer survivors have in common. Sure, we can assume that changing diet and lowering stress levels can impact healing but what about factors such as listening to your intuition? For Dr. Turner, intuition was the hardest healing factor for her to understand so she dove into research to see if this could be a legitimate healing factor, spoiler alert, she found numerous studies citing intuition as a healing factor.
According to Dr. Turner, almost all the Radical Remission survivors that she interviewed mentioned doing these same ten things to heal their cancer.
These ten key healing factors for Radical Remission are, in no particular order:
Radically changing your diet
Taking control of your health
Following your intuition
Using herbs and supplements
Releasing suppressed emotions
Increasing positive emotions
Embracing social support
Deepening your spiritual connection
Having strong reasons for living
Exercise
In Radical Remission, Dr. Turner states that these factors are in no particular ranking order — in her research, there was no “clear winner” among the factors. While some people focused more on one factor than others, the majority of the survivors she interviewed did practice all nine of these key factors. These key factors are now considered “hypotheses” — that is, more research is needed to “prove” that these factors improve the chances of healing from cancer or other conditions.
Dr. Turner points out: “I don’t give medical advice nor do I even give advice. I’m just here to report on my research, and I can certainly say what radical remission survivors would do from a research standpoint.”
Dr. Turner shows how survivors overcame dire circumstances and diagnoses using modalities beyond the conventional treatments of surgery, chemotherapy, radiation, and other “standard” cancer treatments. Interestingly, seven of these ten key factors that Radical Remission survivors reported using are psychosocial (mental/emotional) factors, while the other three are nutritionally and movement-related.
While getting her Ph.D. at the University of California, Berkley, Dr. Turner, a researcher, lecturer, and counselor in integrative oncology, was shocked to discover that no one was studying episodes of radical (or unexpected) remission—when people recover against all odds without the help of conventional medicine, or after conventional medicine has failed. She was so fascinated by this kind of remission that she embarked on a ten-month trip around the world, traveling to ten different countries to interview fifty holistic healers and twenty radical remission cancer survivors about their healing practices and techniques. Her research continued by interviewing over 100 Radical Remission survivors and studying over 1000 of these cases. Her evidence presents nine common themes that she believes may help even terminal patients turn their lives around
Information About Today’s Guest, Dr. Kelly Turner:
Kelly-Turner.com
Radical Remission on Instagram (@RadicalRemission)
Links to Dr. Turner's Books:
Radical Hope: 10 Key Healing Factors from Exceptional Survivors of Cancer & Other Diseases
Radical Remission: Surviving Cancer Against All Odds
 
This episode is sponsored in part by ButcherBox.
The Benefits of ButcherBox
ButcherBox takes the guesswork out of finding high-quality meat and seafood you can trust
100% grass-fed beef, free-range organic chicken, pork raised crate-free, and wild-caught seafood
Humanely raised; no antibiotics or added hormones
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Get just what you want delivered right to your door

34. Deb’s Holiday Swaps
Here are some items I'm buying for family and friends this holiday season!
Body Deli
Visit www.thebodydeli.com/ENOS15
Use this code at checkout: ENOS15
Here are my favorite products that are always in my bathroom: 
Creme de la Rose moisturizer
Phoenix lift face and neck oil (when I run out of this, my face gets so dry and cranky!) 
Blueberry Fusion Cleanser
Vitamin C Serum.
Butcher Box
FREE RIBEYES FOR ONE YEAR! 
This Black Friday, your search for amazing deals on high-quality protein ends with ButcherBox.
ButcherBox is offering my listeners one of their best steak deals: Free Ribeyes for a Year plus $20 off your first order. Get two 10 oz ribeyes FREE in every box for a whole year when you join!
I am a HUGE fan of humanely processed and grass-fed beef. I have personally eaten quite a few ribeyes, and I can attest that they are tender and delicious!
Sign up today at https://www.butcherbox.com/enos
Use code 'ENOS20' to get Free Ribeyes for a year plus $20 off your first order.
Vibrant Blue Oils
Calm (can't live without this oil!) I use it during the day when I feel a little frazzled; I put it on a cotton ball and stick it in my bra ;). I also like the Sleep formula; I find it helps me fall asleep faster.
Use this link to order Calm: shop.vibrantblueoils.com
Then use the code Welcome10 for $10 off your first order.
Wave Block
I am never without this product on my headphones! I'm not too fond of the idea of radiation going into my head, and this product from Wave Block has been tested, and it shows that it can reduce the amount of radiation by 96%
Use the code Enos20 for your 20% discount.
Follow this link to shop today: www.waveblock.com
Queen of the Thrones
I love using their castor oil packs on body parts that hurt! And as I get older, that means more and more parts :)
I'm also using their castor oil packs on my liver to help my body detox from all of the medical treatments I've had in the last two years. 
Click this link to get some great Black Friday deals! https://shop.queenofthethrones.com/whydidigetcancer
Lid Covers, Charles Viancin
Click this link to shop today: www.amazon.com/Charles-Viancin-Lilypad-Lid-Small
Everything TEA!
I LOVE this tea company! I've ordered their immune blend, peppermint, and the menopause tea. :) Lord knows I need it, haha.
They've offered a great deal for my listeners: use the code WELLNESS20 for 20% off!
Shop today at Everything Tea - Tea Shop
Occushield
I have this shield on my phone and iPad. It lowers the amount of blue light, and I can't tell it's on my devices; win-win!
Follow this link to shop today: www.ocushield.com
 
This episode is sponsored in part by ButcherBox.
The Benefits of ButcherBox
ButcherBox takes the guesswork out of finding high-quality meat and seafood you can trust
100% grass-fed beef, free-range organic chicken, pork raised crate-free, and wild-caught seafood
Humanely raised; no antibiotics or added hormones
Ultimate Convenience
Get just what you want delivered right to your doorstep
FREE SHIPPING for the continental U.S. and no surprise fees
The main course for Thanksgiving dinner can sometimes be a main source of stress! Not anymore. ButcherBox is offering my listeners a Free Turkey and $10 off in your first box!
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Connect with Deborah
Deborah on Instagram
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Deborah on Twitter
WhyDidIGetCancer.com
This podcast is for informational purposes only and none of the information should be construed as medical advice. Listeners should seek guidance from their own medical team before making any medical or lifestyle changes.