Why Do I…?

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🎙️ Season 2 Releasing February 16th! Exploring the behaviours that shape our relationships, with ourselves and with others 💬 ‘Why Do I…?’ is a podcast about the behaviours and patterns that show up in our relationships, and what happens when we start to notice them. Hosted by Tom Stroud, the series follows on from Why Do Men, which explored male behaviour in dating and relationships. This season broadens the lens, moving away from expert advice around specific behaviours like ghosting and jealousy towards lived experience across all kinds of relationships.

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    What To Expect In Season 2!

    ‘Why Do I…?’ is a podcast about the patterns we keep falling into in our relationships. The ones we do not always talk about. The ones we sometimes do not even notice. It explores where those behaviours come from, what they might be protecting, and what we could be avoiding when things start to feel uncomfortable. Each episode is a chance to sit with someone as they unpack the patterns they have recognised in themselves, and the ones they are still figuring out. There are no neat answers. No perfect endings. Just conversations and those quiet moments of recognition where you think, maybe that is me. 🎙️ New long-form episodes every fortnight 🧩 Short reflection episodes in between If you have ever caught yourself wondering why you show up the way you do in relationships, this is the show for you. Enjoy Season 2! #WhyDoI #RelationshipPatterns #SelfAwareness

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  2. 2025. 07. 18.

    Confronting Relationship Misunderstandings - Tom's Tips #10

    In our final short-form episode of Season 1, we reflect on a powerful conversation with LaLaLaLetMeExplain about why men blame women. This episode hit hard - from defensiveness and traditional gender roles to subtle misogyny and emotional growth, we dove into the uncomfortable truths that many men (myself included) are still unlearning. The reflection episode is a reminder that blame keeps us stuck - but reflection can set us free. Lastly - I hope you all loved Season 1 as much as we did. Thank you so much for all the support, it truly means the world. Stay tuned, because Season 2 is going to be even bigger! SOME OF MY FAVOURITE BITS: 📚 My Top 10 Books On Dating & Relationships → ⁠https://www.amazon.co.uk/shop/stroudtom⁠ 🔥 My Favourite Supplements:Science-backed supplements for your brain, body & gut → ⁠https://www.yourheights.com/WHYDOMENPOD⁠ Get in Touch: 💬 Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/stroudtom/?hl=en⁠ Threads: ⁠https://www.threads.net/@stroudtom⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@stroudtom⁠ 📩 For Podcast Enquiries: wdmukpod@gmail.com #WhyDoMen #ModernDating #Dating #lalalaletmeexplain

    10분

  3. 2025. 07. 15.

    Do Men Expect Sex On The First Date? Best Moment #10

    In this powerful clip from the full episode with lalalaletmeexplain, we dive into the complex dynamics of sex on the first date. From male validation and ego to the hidden power plays behind "the chase." 🎧 Catch the full episode now for the unfiltered conversation SOME OF MY FAVOURITE BITS: 📚 My Top 10 Books On Dating & Relationships → ⁠https://www.amazon.co.uk/shop/stroudtom⁠ 🔥 My Favourite Supplements:Science-backed supplements for your brain, body & gut → ⁠https://www.yourheights.com/WHYDOMENPOD⁠ Get in Touch: 💬 Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/stroudtom/?hl=en⁠ Threads: ⁠https://www.threads.net/@stroudtom⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@stroudtom⁠ 📩 For Podcast Enquiries: wdmukpod@gmail.com #WhyDoMen #ModernDating #Dating #lalalaletmeexplain

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  4. 2025. 07. 11.

    Why Do Men Blame Women? #10 - Lalalaletmeexplain

    In this episode of Why Do Men, we're joined again by LaLaLaLetMeExplain to talk about why some men blame women for their pain, dating struggles, or dissatisfaction with life. We discuss how these attitudes show up in modern dating, the impact of misogyny, and how ideas around masculinity and feminism are often misunderstood. We also look at the role of emotional intelligence in relationships and what needs to change for things to move forward. As always, enjoy the episode and let us know your thoughts on this topic below :) Chapter Timestamps (00:00) - Exploring Men's Blame on Women (12:50) - Navigating Traditional Gender Roles in Relationships (20:52) - Unraveling Misogyny in Dating Culture (29:53) - Rising Right-Wing Misogyny in Relationships (36:24) - Navigating Gender Dynamics in Relationships (40:27) - Challenging Gender Dynamics in Relationships SOME OF MY FAVOURITE BITS: 📚 My Top 10 Books On Dating & Relationships → https://www.amazon.co.uk/shop/stroudtom 🔥 My Favourite Supplements:Science-backed supplements for your brain, body & gut → https://www.yourheights.com/WHYDOMENPOD Get in Touch: 💬 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stroudtom/?hl=en Threads: https://www.threads.net/@stroudtom TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@stroudtom 📩 For Podcast Enquiries: wdmukpod@gmail.com #WhyDoMen #ModernDating #Dating #lalalaletmeexplain

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  5. 2025. 07. 04.

    The Fear Behind the First Move! - Tom's Tips #9

    In this solo episode, I reflect on my conversation with Lucy Rout from Haystack Dating and unpack one of the biggest questions in modern dating: why aren't men approaching women anymore? From fear of rejection to changing gender dynamics and social media pressure, I share personal stories, real stats, and honest advice on how we can all create more meaningful connections - whether you're making the first move or waiting for one. If you enjoyed this solo episode, a like and subscribe goes a long way - it helps more than you know :) 📚 My Top 10 Books On Dating & Relationships → ⁠https://www.amazon.co.uk/shop/stroudtom⁠ 🔥 My Favourite Supplements:Science-backed supplements for your brain, body & gut → ⁠https://www.yourheights.com/WHYDOMENPOD⁠ Get in Touch: 💬 Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/stroudtom/?hl=en⁠ Threads: ⁠https://www.threads.net/@stroudtom⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@stroudtom⁠ 📩 For Podcast Enquiries: wdmukpod@gmail.com #WhyDoMen #ModernDating #HaystackDating #DatingApps #Rejection #Ghosting #Masculinity #datingpodcast

    10분

  6. 2025. 06. 30.

    Why Do Men Say They Want To Meet Someone Organically… But Never Approach Anyone? Best Moment #9

    In this 5 minute clip - We tackle one of the most frustrating contradictions in modern dating: men say they want to meet someone “organically” but rarely make a move. From fear of rejection and blurred social cues to the pressure of busy lives and shifting dating norms, we unpack what’s really holding people back - and why both men and women might need to take the first step. If you enjoyed this clip - make sure to check out the full episode with Lucy :) More About Lucy: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lucyrout/?hl=en⁠ ⁠https://www.haystack-dating.com/⁠ 📚 My Top 10 Books On Dating & Relationships → ⁠https://www.amazon.co.uk/shop/stroudtom⁠ 🔥 My Favourite Supplements:Science-backed supplements for your brain, body & gut → ⁠https://www.yourheights.com/WHYDOMENPOD⁠ Get in Touch: 💬 Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/stroudtom/?hl=en⁠ Threads: ⁠https://www.threads.net/@stroudtom⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@stroudtom⁠ 📩 For Podcast Enquiries: wdmukpod@gmail.com #WhyDoMen #ModernDating #HaystackDating #DatingApps #Rejection #Ghosting #Masculinity #datingpodcast #lucyrout

    5분

  7. 2025. 06. 27.

    Why Do Men Not Approach Women Anymore?! - Lucy Rout #9

    Why don’t men approach women anymore? Are dating apps ruining real connection? 👀 In this Episode of Why Do Men, we dive deep with Haystack Dating founder Lucy Rout to unpack fear of rejection, ghosting, gender roles, and the chaos of modern dating in 2025. From dating app burnout to IRL nerves - we’re asking the big questions about love, confidence and connection! https://www.instagram.com/lucyrout/?hl=en https://www.haystack-dating.com/ 📚 My Top 10 Books On Dating & Relationships → https://www.amazon.co.uk/shop/stroudtom 🔥 My Favourite Supplements:Science-backed supplements for your brain, body & gut → https://www.yourheights.com/WHYDOMENPOD Get in Touch: 💬 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stroudtom/?hl=en Threads: https://www.threads.net/@stroudtom TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@stroudtom 📩 For Podcast Enquiries: wdmukpod@gmail.com #WhyDoMen #ModernDating #HaystackDating #DatingApps #Rejection #Ghosting #Masculinity #datingpodcast

    55분

  8. 2025. 06. 06.

    Vulnerability, Inadequacy, and Authentic Connections in Relationships - Tom's Tips #8

    Reflection Episode - Revisiting Love Bombing (with Sabrina Zohar)This is a solo reflection on our most popular episode yet - the one with Sabrina Zohar on love bombing! I wanted to go deeper into what came up for me after that chat. From my own experiences with coming on too strong, to what it really means when we mistake intensity for connection. We talk about nervous system triggers, chasing fantasy over real intimacy, and why so many of us (my past self included) confuse love with validation. If you’ve ever wondered why you rush in or fall fast - this one’s for you. Before You Go! 📚 My Top 10 Books On Dating & Relationships → ⁠⁠https://www.amazon.co.uk/shop/stroudtom⁠⁠ 🔥 My Favourite Supplements: Science-backed supplements for your brain, body & gut → ⁠⁠https://www.yourheights.com/WHYDOMENPOD⁠⁠ Get in Touch: 💬 Instagram: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/stroudtom/?hl=en⁠⁠ Threads: ⁠⁠https://www.threads.net/@stroudtom⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@stroudtom⁠⁠ 📩 For Podcast Enquiries: wdmukpod@gmail.com 🎧 This podcast is proudly built by ⁠⁠⁠⁠I.A.M Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠ - ⁠https://www.iampodcasts.co.uk/⁠ © Why Do Men Podcast #sabrinazohar #whydomenlovebomb #relationships #moderndayrelationships #tomstroud

    10분
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🎙️ Season 2 Releasing February 16th! Exploring the behaviours that shape our relationships, with ourselves and with others 💬 ‘Why Do I…?’ is a podcast about the behaviours and patterns that show up in our relationships, and what happens when we start to notice them. Hosted by Tom Stroud, the series follows on from Why Do Men, which explored male behaviour in dating and relationships. This season broadens the lens, moving away from expert advice around specific behaviours like ghosting and jealousy towards lived experience across all kinds of relationships.

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  • 제작진
    Tom Stroud x I.A.M Podcasts
  • 방송 연도
    2025년 - 2026년
  • 에피소드
    32
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    © Tom Stroud x I.A.M Podcasts
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