Why Do People Do That?

Stacy Pellettieri, LCSW and Heather Harten. LCSW
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Ever wish you could ask a room full of therapists, ”Why do people do that?” Now you can! Join Heather and Stacy, licensed clinical social workers for close to 30 years, in their new podcast, where they will use their expertise to analyze and discuss issues and topical events we see in our lives! From politics to trending issues and mental health concerns, you can always expect some psychoeducation and laughs from the show. Learn more about yourself and those around you in a way that may enhance your own awareness and relationships with others!  Learn more at: https://whydopeopledothat.com/

  1. 2H AGO

    Why Do I Do That? Understanding the OCD Loop

    In this episode, Brady joins the show to ask a deceptively simple question: “Why do I do that?”  What unfolds is an honest and deeply personal conversation about obsessive thoughts, compulsions, and the OCD loop that shows up in more areas of life than we often realize. Brady shares his lived experience, the patterns he found himself stuck in, and the powerful realizations that began to shift his awareness. Together, we explore the importance of self-inquiry, understanding the “why” behind our behaviors, and how awareness can become the first step toward growth, healing, and real change. A courageous and relatable episode for anyone navigating mental health, self-awareness, or the journey of personal growth.  Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhyDoPeopleDoThat   Visit our website: https://whydopeopledothat.com/   If you'd like to contact Stacy and Heather or learn more about their practices, visit the following sites: Long Island Counseling Services - www.longislandcounselingservices.com District Support Services - www.districtsupportservices.com  ADHD Training Center - www.adhdtrainingcenter.com     Follow the "Why Do People Do That?" Podcast on social media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whydopeopledothatpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61569908326130 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whydopeopledothatpodcast   This episode was produced at Press Record Studios in NYC:  www.pressrecordstudios.com

    53 min

  2. JAN 25

    Anxiety! : This is Where Real Relief Starts

    This is the anxiety episode you’ve all been waiting for. What is anxiety, really? And why does it seem to get worse the harder we try to make it go away? As clinicians, we see far too many people who arrive exhausted—having tried every technique, strategy, and mindset shift yet still feeling trapped in fear. In this episode, we start where real healing begins: understanding anxiety at its root. Are we destined to live with anxiety forever? Does it truly “never go away”? The answer may surprise you. Relief is possible—but only when we treat anxiety in the right way. Cognitive tools don’t work for somatic responses, and somatic approaches won’t resolve cognitive patterns. Effective treatment requires knowing what you’re dealing with and using the right tools for the job. This episode breaks down why a one-size-fits-all approach fails and why working with a clinician who has an eclectic, informed, and flexible approach can be life-changing. Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhyDoPeopleDoThat   Visit our website: https://whydopeopledothat.com/   If you'd like to contact Stacy and Heather or learn more about their practices, visit the following sites: Long Island Counseling Services - www.longislandcounselingservices.com District Support Services - www.districtsupportservices.com  ADHD Training Center - www.adhdtrainingcenter.com     Follow the "Why Do People Do That?" Podcast on social media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whydopeopledothatpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61569908326130 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whydopeopledothatpodcast   This episode was produced at Press Record Studios in NYC:  www.pressrecordstudios.com

    1h 1m

  3. JAN 11

    From People-Pleasing to Power: Understanding the Cycle That Holds Women Back

    In this episode, I sit down with Elaine Belson, LCSW, a seasoned therapist, mindset mentor, and emotional wellness coach who specializes in helping women shift out of automatic negative thinking and into calmer, more empowering internal dialogue. With decades of experience in understanding human behavior, emotional patterns, and communication, Elaine blends clinical depth with the practical, future-focused tools of coaching. Together, we explore the complex dynamics of women’s empowerment, especially for those who naturally take on the roles of caretakers and empaths. We dive into why so many women feel compelled to prioritize the needs of others, sometimes at the cost of our own well-being, and how early conditioning and emotional patterns can quietly shape these habits. Elaine shares actionable insights for recognizing these cycles, reclaiming emotional space, and building a healthier, more compassionate relationship with ourselves. If you’ve ever struggled with overgiving, self-criticism, or feeling responsible for everyone else’s emotional landscape, this conversation offers both clarity and hope. Tune in to learn how to shift your mindset, rewrite old narratives, and step into a more grounded, empowered version of yourself.   Contact Elaine Belson here - https://www.elainebelson.com/

    1h 2m

  4. 12/28/2025

    The Science of Love: What We’re Really Looking for in Connection

    What is love really? In this episode, Stacy and Heather sit down with relationship scientist and licensed marriage and family therapist Marisa Cohen, PhD, LMFT, to explore the science behind how humans form emotional bonds. They break down love into its emotional and biological components, unpack common relationship patterns, and examine what people are truly seeking in meaningful connection. Together, they dive into why human connection is essential to our well-being, what defines a fulfilling relationship, and the common barriers that can get in the way of forming healthy attachments in romantic partnerships.   Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhyDoPeopleDoThat   Visit our website: https://whydopeopledothat.com/   If you'd like to contact Stacy and Heather or learn more about their practices, visit the following sites: Long Island Counseling Services - www.longislandcounselingservices.com District Support Services - www.districtsupportservices.com  ADHD Training Center - www.adhdtrainingcenter.com    Follow the "Why Do People Do That?" Podcast on social media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whydopeopledothatpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61569908326130 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whydopeopledothatpodcast   This episode was produced at Press Record Studios in NYC:  www.pressrecordstudios.com

    1h 2m

  5. 12/14/2025

    Grieving During the Holidays: When Joy and Sorrow Coexist

    The holidays are often painted as joyful, bright, and magical, but for anyone grieving, they can feel heavy, complicated, and painfully lonely. In this episode, we open up about what it’s really like to face the holiday season without our mothers, sharing both our professional insights as mental health providers and our personal stories of loss. We talk openly about the emotional realities of grief during a time that pressures us to “be merry,” explore why this season can intensify feelings of longing, and offer compassionate, realistic coping strategies listeners can use to support themselves. From setting boundaries to creating rituals of remembrance, we discuss the small, meaningful ways to get through the holidays while honoring both love and loss. This episode is a reminder that if this season feels hard for you, you’re not alone, and it’s okay to show up exactly as you are.   Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhyDoPeopleDoThat   Visit our website: https://whydopeopledothat.com/   If you'd like to contact Stacy and Heather or learn more about their practices, visit the following sites: Long Island Counseling Services - www.longislandcounselingservices.com District Support Services - www.districtsupportservices.com  ADHD Training Center - www.adhdtrainingcenter.com     Follow the "Why Do People Do That?" Podcast on social media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whydopeopledothatpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61569908326130 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whydopeopledothatpodcast   This episode was produced at Press Record Studios in NYC:  www.pressrecordstudios.com

    1 hr

  6. 11/30/2025

    The "Why Do People Do That" Episode!

    In this episode, we dive into the timeless question we’ve all asked at least once: “Why do people do that?” Joined by a curious and insightful social work student, we explore a range of listener-submitted questions spanning mental health, everyday behavior, and the fascinating quirks of the human mind. Together, we break down the patterns that shape how we think, feel, and interact with the world, unpacking everything from emotional responses and coping styles to the subtle habits that reveal more about us than we realize. This conversation isn’t just about understanding others—it’s about understanding ourselves. Whether you're fascinated by human behavior, navigating your own mental wellness journey, or simply wondering what makes people tick, this episode offers fresh perspectives, relatable insights, and plenty of “aha” moments. Tune in as we explore the mysteries of the human psyche and shed light on the questions we all secretly wonder. Why do people do that? Let’s find out—together.   Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhyDoPeopleDoThat   Visit our website: https://whydopeopledothat.com/   If you'd like to contact Stacy and Heather or learn more about their practices, visit the following sites: Long Island Counseling Services - www.longislandcounselingservices.com District Support Services - www.districtsupportservices.com  ADHD Training Center - www.adhdtrainingcenter.com     Follow the "Why Do People Do That?" Podcast on social media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whydopeopledothatpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61569908326130 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whydopeopledothatpodcast   This episode was produced at Press Record Studios in NYC:  www.pressrecordstudios.com

    1h 3m

  7. 11/16/2025

    Sober, Not Subtle: Understanding the Roots of Addiction with Jason Mayo

    In this powerful and deeply human conversation, we sit down with Jason Mayo, founder of Sober Not Subtle and author of In Case of Emergency, Break Childhood. Together, to explore the psychological and emotional landscape of Substance Use Disorder (SUD) through Jason’s personal journey of recovery and transformation. This episode goes beyond addiction—it’s an exploration of trauma, self-awareness, and emotional resilience. Jason shares how understanding the why behind his behaviors became the cornerstone of healing and how developing a new relationship with emotions and distress tolerance can open the door to recovery and authenticity. Listeners will gain insight into: How childhood experiences and trauma shape the roots of addiction The vital role of self-awareness and emotional regulation in recovery Why connection, compassion, and understanding our pain are essential to healing A special reflection for Generation X—on breaking cycles and redefining resilience Whether you’re navigating your own recovery, supporting someone who is, or seeking a deeper understanding of the human spirit, this episode is a must-listen reminder that healing starts with awareness—and that no one walks this path alone.   Order Jason's book, "In Case of Emergency, Break Childhood: A Gen Xer’s Survival Guide to Anxiety, Addiction and Accidental Enlightenment" on Amazon - https://amzn.to/4owBrd2   Learn more about Jason on his official website - https://sobernotsubtle.com/   Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhyDoPeopleDoThat   Visit our website: https://whydopeopledothat.com/   If you'd like to contact Stacy and Heather or learn more about their practices, visit the following sites: Long Island Counseling Services - www.longislandcounselingservices.com District Support Services - www.districtsupportservices.com  ADHD Training Center - www.adhdtrainingcenter.com     Follow the "Why Do People Do That?" Podcast on social media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whydopeopledothatpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61569908326130 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whydopeopledothatpodcast   This episode was produced at Press Record Studios in NYC:  www.pressrecordstudios.com

    1h 4m

  8. 10/26/2025

    Hot Girl Halloween: Empowerment or Expectation?

    Why do we do that on Halloween? From the sexy costumes to the spooky décor, from group costumes to ghost stories, this week, we dig into the fascinating why behind our Halloween habits. In this episode of Why Do People Do That?, we unpack: Why we love to dress up and what that says about identity and belonging.  Why women often feel pressure to go “sexy” on Halloween (and where that comes from) How culture, groupthink, and tradition shape the way we celebrate. The healing power of ritual, togetherness, and a little predictability. And why, even as adults, we can’t help but crave the thrill of Halloween night. It’s part psychology, part cultural commentary, and 100% Halloween fun, a mix of reflection and revelry that explores what our favorite spooky holiday says about us.  Tune in, laugh a little, and maybe see your costume choices in a whole new light.   Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhyDoPeopleDoThat   Visit our website: https://whydopeopledothat.com/   If you'd like to contact Stacy and Heather or learn more about their practices, visit the following sites: Long Island Counseling Services - www.longislandcounselingservices.com District Support Services - www.districtsupportservices.com  ADHD Training Center - www.adhdtrainingcenter.com    Follow the "Why Do People Do That?" Podcast on social media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whydopeopledothatpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61569908326130 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whydopeopledothatpodcast   This episode was produced at Press Record Studios in NYC:  www.pressrecordstudios.com

    1 hr
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Ever wish you could ask a room full of therapists, ”Why do people do that?” Now you can! Join Heather and Stacy, licensed clinical social workers for close to 30 years, in their new podcast, where they will use their expertise to analyze and discuss issues and topical events we see in our lives! From politics to trending issues and mental health concerns, you can always expect some psychoeducation and laughs from the show. Learn more about yourself and those around you in a way that may enhance your own awareness and relationships with others!  Learn more at: https://whydopeopledothat.com/

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  • Creator
    Stacy Pellettieri, LCSW and Heather Harten. LCSW
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    40
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Copyright 2025 All rights reserved.
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