Overwhelmed to Overcomer

Anna H. McLaughlin

Do you have big dreams rooted in an even bigger God … but most days, those dreams seem impossibly far out of reach? Welcome to Overwhelmed to Overcomer podcast, where we unpack and celebrate the unique purpose the Lord has given each of us, and how we can walk it out more fully - with deeper JOY - today, right in the midst of the madness. Together, we will come to trust the Father's deep love for us and our incredible value as one of His children, called to steward well the gifts He's given us … we will unpack and walk out our own unique, God-given purpose … and we will encourage one another to operate in that purpose in our daily lives with courage, leaning into the support of fellow sojourners. In this podcast, you'll find practical, tactical steps; honest conversations; and my-heart-to-yours invitations to rest and receive at the feet of the God who sees you as you steward well His calling for your life. The Lord has called us to do a thing - and He'll not only equip us, but also fortify and fuel us along the way. So, let's dig into this conversation of belonging … purpose … and courage. Sweet friend, your. life. MATTERS. So, if you're here for this, I'm here for you! Let's do this thing. With clarity. With courage. With each other.

  1. Wired for Connection: How to Understand and ENJOY Those We Love with Marita Littauer

    4天前

    Wired for Connection: How to Understand and ENJOY Those We Love with Marita Littauer

    In this insightful conversation, host Anna McLaughlin sits down with personality expert Marita Littauer to explore the four classical personality types and how understanding them can transform our relationships—especially during the busy holiday season. Marita, who grew up immersed in personality work through her mother Florence Littauer's legacy, shares practical wisdom on identifying personality types through visible clues and adjusting our approach to honor how others are wired. This episode is a masterclass in seeing people as God created them—not as we wish they were. Whether you're navigating family gatherings, workplace dynamics, or marriage, Marita offers hope-filled tools rooted in Romans 12:18: "If possible, so far as it depends on you, be at peace with all men." Learn how to give the gift of understanding to those you love most, and discover how embracing personality differences can lead to deeper connection, less conflict, and more peace in your most important relationships. About the Guest Marita Littauer Tedder is a multifaceted author, speaker, and entrepreneur based in Lubbock, Texas. With over 30 years of experience, she has dedicated her career to empowering individuals, particularly women, to embrace their authentic selves and live fulfilling lives. Growing up as the daughter of renowned speaker and author Florence Littauer, Marita was immersed in personality work from age 9, traveling with her mother and eventually carrying forward the family legacy. She brings unique insights into identifying personalities through visible clues and applying this knowledge to improve relationships. Through her writings, speaking engagements, and entrepreneurial ventures, Marita exemplifies a life of purpose, resilience, and continuous growth, remaining committed to inspiring others to live authentically and with intention. Key Points The Four Personality Types Identifying Personalities Through Visible Clues The Arrangement Matters Marriage and Relationships Growth and Maturity Practical Application Scriptures Mentioned Romans 12:18 - "If possible, so far as it depends on you, be at peace with all men." This verse forms the foundation of Marita's teaching Three parts: "If possible" (God's disclaimer), "so far as it depends on you" (we control ourselves, not others), "be at peace with all men" (the goal) Books and Resources Mentioned Books: Wired That Way by Marita Littauer (includes chapters on workplace applications, visible clues, and living in your strengths) - https://a.co/d/bxDv86I The Spirit-Controlled Temperament by Tim LaHaye (the book that started Florence Littauer's journey) - https://a.co/d/ah6wL1l Assessments: Wired That Way Personality Profile - https://thepersonalities.com/product/wired-that-way-online-profile Connect with Marita Blog:https://livingyourbestlife60plus.com/main/ Personality Resources:https://thepersonalities.com Be a Guest on the Show Want to be a guest on Overwhelmed to Overcomer? Send Anna McLaughlin a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/overwhelmedtoovercomer Free Resource: Thrive Through the Holidays The holidays shouldn't just happen to you. Take a moment to cast vision for a season that reflects your family's values and makes room for Emmanuel — God with us. [Click here to get your free guide] Let's Keep in Touch! http://sheconsidersafield.com IG: @‌sheconsidersafield Ready to dive deeper into recovery and faith? Click here for your free guide and to join my e-mail list: https://subscribepage.io/overwhelmed_to_overcomer_welcome If you're craving some rest and renewal, why not escape to Just Like Paradise—our serene vacation rental on Oak Island? Rentals at our Beach House are currently 20% off, and our house is better than ever after coming under new management. ➡️ Book your stay here: https://justlikeparadiseoki.com The show notes above may contain affiliate links, meaning if you decide to make a purchase via my links, I may earn a commission at no additional cost to you. Please contact me with questions.The show notes above may contain affiliate links, meaning if you decide to make a purchase via my links, I may earn a commission at no additional cost to you. Please contact me with questions. MUSIC CREDITS Theme music: Brave New World ASLC-1BEF9A9E-9E9D609662 Artist: Fantoms Inspiring Hopeful Audio source: Jamendo Artist: Aliaksei Yukhnevich ASLC-2B505EF3-E9CD4817A6

    1 小时 6 分钟
  2. Mary's Heart in a Martha Season: How to Pre-Decide Peace This Christmas with Joy Johnson

    12月4日

    Mary's Heart in a Martha Season: How to Pre-Decide Peace This Christmas with Joy Johnson

    Join host Anna McLaughlin in this heartfelt conversation with Joy Johnson, founder of The Joyful Fit Life and host of The Journey to Becoming Podcast. As we enter the busiest season of the year, this episode is a timely invitation to pause, breathe, and choose being over doing. Joy and Anna explore the hidden costs of over-functioning, the power of emotional health, and how to create a "to-be list" instead of just another to-do list. With vulnerability and wisdom, they share personal stories of loss, healing, and the transformative freedom that comes from laying down the burdens we were never meant to carry. If you're feeling the weight of the holidays approaching—juggling expectations, managing relationships, and trying to do it all—this conversation will meet you exactly where you are. You'll discover practical strategies for pre-deciding your priorities, having honest conversations, and making room for Emmanuel, God with us, this Christmas season. Key Points Creating a To-Be List vs. a To-Do List The Unforced Rhythms of Grace Over-Functioning as Emotional Masking Transgenerational Trauma and Emotional Health The Difference Between Emotional and Mental Health Pre-Deciding Your Holiday Season The Gift of Honest Conversations The Lie That "It Only Hurts Me" Making Room for Emmanuel The Question That Changes Everything Scriptures Mentioned Matthew 11:28–30 (The Message) John 15 – Abiding in Christ, pruning, remaining in Him Romans 12 – Offering ourselves as living sacrifices Out of the Heart, the Mouth Speaks – Principle from Scripture Books & Resources Mentioned "The Emotionally Healthy Woman: Eight Things You Have to Quit to Change Your Life" by Geri Scazzero - https://a.co/d/iTXRjvD Joy credits this book with changing her life by giving her language for unhealthy emotional patterns Addresses issues like creating false narratives, over-functioning, and people-pleasing The 5 AM Club (Referenced/Critiqued) - https://a.co/d/99MBRTI Discussion about the pressure to wake up at 5am and how it's become another "should" rather than a personal choice Reminder that what works in one season may not work in another Love Languages Resources The Love Languages Quiz - https://5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language Ready to get unstuck and start living out your God-given purpose and dreams? Join Joy for a FREE Live Workshop designed to help women of faith move from overwhelm to clarity and take practical steps toward the abundant life God created for them. Register here:https://www.thejourneytobecomingpod.com/shop/becomingher2025 Connect with Joy Johnson Website & Podcast: https://www.thejourneytobecomingpod.com/ Community: The Joyful Fit Life : https://joyful-fit-life.mn.co/ Be a Guest on the Show Want to be a guest on Overwhelmed to Overcomer? Send Anna McLaughlin a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/overwhelmedtoovercomer Free Resource: Thrive Through the Holidays The holidays shouldn't just happen to you. Take a moment to cast vision for a season that reflects your family's values and makes room for Emmanuel — God with us. [Click here to get your free guide] Let's Keep in Touch! IG: @‌sheconsidersafield Ready to dive deeper into recovery and faith? Click here for your free guide and to join my e-mail list: https://subscribepage.io/overwhelmed_to_overcomer_welcome If you're craving some rest and renewal, why not escape to Just Like Paradise—our serene vacation rental on Oak Island? Rentals at our Beach House are currently 20% off, and our house is better than ever after coming under new management. ➡️ Book your stay here: https://justlikeparadiseoki.com The show notes above may contain affiliate links, meaning if you decide to make a purchase via my links, I may earn a commission at no additional cost to you. Please contact me with questions.The show notes above may contain affiliate links, meaning if you decide to make a purchase via my links, I may earn a commission at no additional cost to you. Please contact me with questions. MUSIC CREDITS Theme music: Brave New World ASLC-1BEF9A9E-9E9D609662 Artist: Fantoms Inspiring Hopeful Audio source: Jamendo Artist: Aliaksei Yukhnevich ASLC-2B505EF3-E9CD4817A6

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  3. 11月27日

    Let It Be: Gratitude and Grace

    In this heartfelt Thanksgiving episode, Anna invites listeners to embrace the imperfect beauty of holiday gatherings with family and friends. Drawing from her personal experiences and her father's love of the Beatles, she explores the profound simplicity of the phrase "let it be" as a spiritual practice. Anna shares vulnerable stories about family dynamics, culinary disasters, and the precious nature of fleeting moments, encouraging listeners to hold their imperfect celebrations close and find Christ's presence in the midst of it all. Whether you're navigating difficult family relationships, managing expectations, or simply feeling overwhelmed by the holiday season, this episode offers a tender reminder to be fully present and count each moment as a gift from the Father. Key Points Let It Be: Embrace the imperfection of holiday moments rather than trying to control or fix everything Release Expectations: Allow family members to be who they are without needing them to change or meet your expectations Finite Time: Remember that we don't know which gathering will be our last with loved ones—treasure the present moment Choose Presence Over Perfection: Be fully present with God and others rather than caught up in the details Gratitude for Imperfection: Thank God for imperfect moments and ask Him to help you see His love and grace within them Christ is Present: God is with you in YOUR moment, not in someone else's picture-perfect celebration Let Them: Release the need to control others' behavior, opinions, or choices Scriptures Mentioned James 1:17 - "Father of heavenly lights who does not change like shifting shadows" Hymn Reference: "It Is Well With My Soul" - "Whatever my lot, You have taught me to say, it is well, it is well with my soul" Books and Resources Mentioned "Let Them" by Mel Robbins - Referenced for the concept of releasing control over others' choices and behaviors The Beatles' "Let It Be" - Song that inspired Anna's personal phrase and approach to presence Be a Guest on the Show Want to be a guest on Overwhelmed to Overcomer? Send Anna McLaughlin a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/overwhelmedtoovercomer     Free Resource: Ready to go from Overwhelmed to Overcomer? Click here for your free guide, and to join my e-mail list Let's Keep in Touch! http://sheconsidersafield.com IG: @‌sheconsidersafield Ready to dive deeper into recovery and faith? Click here for your free guide and to join my e-mail list: https://subscribepage.io/overwhelmed_to_overcomer_welcome If you're craving some rest and renewal, why not escape to Just Like Paradise—our serene vacation rental on Oak Island? Rentals at our Beach House are currently 20% off, and our house is better than ever after coming under new management. ➡️ Book your stay here: https://justlikeparadiseoki.com The show notes above may contain affiliate links, meaning if you decide to make a purchase via my links, I may earn a commission at no additional cost to you. Please contact me with questions.The show notes above may contain affiliate links, meaning if you decide to make a purchase via my links, I may earn a commission at no additional cost to you. Please contact me with questions. MUSIC CREDITS Theme music: Brave New World ASLC-1BEF9A9E-9E9D609662 Artist: Fantoms Inspiring Hopeful Audio source: Jamendo Artist: Aliaksei Yukhnevich ASLC-2B505EF3-E9CD4817A6

    14 分钟
  4. 11月20日

    "The Imperative Necessity of Obedience"

    In this powerful and deeply personal episode, Anna tackles an uncomfortable but transformative topic: the imperative necessity of obedience in our walk with Christ. Drawing from Andrew Murray's profound work "The True Vine" (Chapter 27, p. 128—from which this episode's title is directly quoted) and the biblical account of David and the Ark of the Covenant, Anna challenges listeners to examine whether they're truly living as friends of Christ or merely skating by on cheap grace. This raw, honest conversation addresses the temptation to elevate our privileges as children of God above our responsibilities, and how our relationship with Christ has become "clouded and lowered" when we fail to take His commands seriously. Anna vulnerably shares her own struggle with distraction during quiet time and the practical steps she took to return to genuine, obedient devotion. If you've been feeling spiritually distant, distracted, or like something is missing in your faith walk, this episode will convict, encourage, and inspire you to say "Yea, Lord" to whatever He commands—no turning back. Key Points Obedience comes first: We cannot expect intimacy with Christ while treating His commands as optional The danger of "soft gospel": We've elevated privilege over duty, thinking grace means God doesn't really expect obedience Pruning is necessary for fruitfulness: Just as a vine must be cut back to bear fruit, we must be willing to let God remove even good things that hinder maximum fruitfulness Justice, mercy, AND grace: The gospel uniquely provides all three—justice fully satisfied, mercy freely given, grace abundantly poured out Practical obedience starts with time: Getting into God's Word and prayer is the foundation for hearing and following His voice Remove distractions intentionally: Identify what keeps you from reverent, focused time with God and make practical changes (phone, notifications, etc.) "If" matters: "You are my friends IF you do whatever I command you"—the conditional nature of friendship with Christ God enables us to stand: When we fall, He is able to make us stand again; obedience isn't perfection but persistent pursuit Scriptures Mentioned John 15 (entire passage on the Vine and the Branches) John 15:14 - "You are my friends if you do whatever I command you" 2 Samuel 6:5-11 - The account of Uzzah and the Ark of God 1 Chronicles 15 - David learning to carry the Ark properly according to God's commands Romans 14:1-4 - "He will be upheld, for the Lord is able to make him stand" References to Moses and the cleft of the rock (Exodus 33-34) David dancing before the Lord in worship Books and Resources Mentioned "The True Vine" by Andrew Murray - https://a.co/d/7y1CE2w   Be a Guest on the Show  Want to be a guest on Overwhelmed to Overcomer? Send Anna McLaughlin a message on PodMatch : Click Here Free Resource: Ready to go from Overwhelmed to Overcomer? Click here for your free guide, and to join my e-mail list Let's Keep in Touch! http://sheconsidersafield.com IG: @‌sheconsidersafield Ready to dive deeper into recovery and faith? Click here for your free guide and to join my e-mail list: https://subscribepage.io/overwhelmed_to_overcomer_welcome If you're craving some rest and renewal, why not escape to Just Like Paradise—our serene vacation rental on Oak Island? Rentals at our Beach House are currently 20% off, and our house is better than ever after coming under new management. ➡️ Book your stay here: https://justlikeparadiseoki.com The show notes above may contain affiliate links, meaning if you decide to make a purchase via my links, I may earn a commission at no additional cost to you. Please contact me with questions.The show notes above may contain affiliate links, meaning if you decide to make a purchase via my links, I may earn a commission at no additional cost to you. Please contact me with questions. MUSIC CREDITS Theme music: Brave New World ASLC-1BEF9A9E-9E9D609662 Artist: Fantoms Inspiring Hopeful Audio source: Jamendo Artist: Aliaksei Yukhnevich ASLC-2B505EF3-E9CD4817A6

    31 分钟
  5. Little Wins, Eternal Impact: Dan Nichols on Discipling Our Children

    11月13日

    Little Wins, Eternal Impact: Dan Nichols on Discipling Our Children

    In this powerful conversation, Anna McLaughlin sits down with Dan Nichols to discuss intentional discipleship in the home. Dan Nichols is a follower of Jesus, married to his best friend Joy, and father to Landon and Declan. He serves as Lead Pastor of Grace Christian Fellowship in Cortland, NY, and is the Founder/President of Northeast Collaborative, a regional church network. Dan holds a Doctor of Ministry (D.Min.) degree from Clarks Summit University where he served as an adjunct professor. Dan shares his heart behind creating the "Making Scripture Simple" book series, designed to help upper elementary students engage with God's Word in language they can understand. This episode explores the daily rhythms of parenting with purpose, the importance of family values, and how to persevere through the long journey of raising children who follow Jesus. Whether you're homeschooling, parenting young children, or simply seeking to be more intentional in your faith at home, this conversation offers practical encouragement and biblical wisdom for the journey.   Key Points & Timestamps Making Scripture Simple – Inspired by Dan's 8-year-old son's honesty; fills the gap between picture Bibles and standard translations with paraphrase, questions, and coloring pages. Intentional Family Rhythms – Pray immediately after reading; let truth sink in; Scripture must be actionable, not just informational. Family Goals – Live for God, Love others, Learn always, Laugh often, Lead with vision, Listen to the wise, Labor for what matters (taught with hand motions). Feelings vs. Truth – Feelings are real but can lie; truth sets us free (John 8:32); parents should balance comfort with correction and model repentance. Phone Accountability – Children can take phones from parents during family time; open conversations about phone use and impulse control. Parenting for Kingdom Impact – A vision bigger than your lifetime; example of Wilberforce; teach children as you live (Deuteronomy 6). Little Wins Matter – Small encouragements (like children's prayers or comments) are signs of God's work; look for the "small cloud" of His movement. Presence Over Productivity – Choosing presence with children over outside work; wrestling with identity; seeing children as God's sanctifying gift; drawing them close when they act out.   Scriptures Mentioned Acts 16 - Paul's connection with the church in Philippi Philippians 1:1-5 - Opening greeting and thanksgiving (read in paraphrase form) Philippians 4:8 - "Whatever is true, noble, right, pure, lovely, admirable - think about such things" (Paraphrased as: "Choose to think thoughts that are true, noble, right, pure, beautiful, and respectable") Deuteronomy 6 - Teaching children as you live life (sitting, walking, going through daily activities) 1 Corinthians 15:58 - "Stand firm, let nothing move you, always give yourselves fully to the work of the Lord, because you know that your labor in the Lord is not in vain" 1 Kings 18 (Elijah and the prophets of Baal story with the cloud the size of a man's hand) John 8:32 - "The truth will set you free" Ephesians 5 - Husbands washing wives with the water of the Word Books & Resources Mentioned By Dan Nichols: Making Scripture Simple: Philippians  - https://a.co/d/3yXzwsv Making Scripture Simple: Colossians and Philemon - https://a.co/d/5nv7HhZ Making Scripture Simple: 1st, 2nd, 3rd John and Jude (releasing Christmas 2025) Other Resources: Little Pilgrim's Progress - mentioned as part of Anna's morning time routine - https://a.co/d/iYckMGF Loving the Little Years by Rachel Jankovic - https://a.co/d/cggZHrG Corrie ten Boom testimony interview - both of Dan's sons were riveted watching this - https://www.sermonaudio.com/gb/sermons/130231919195552 "Dents in the Darkness" podcast - https://www.necollaborative.com/dentsinthedarkness Contact Information Website: https://danandjoy.com/ Email: danielhiram@gmail.com Be a Guest on the Show Want to be a guest on Overwhelmed to Overcomer? Send Anna McLaughlin a message on PodMatch: Click Here Free Resource: Ready to go from Overwhelmed to Overcomer? Click here for your free guide, and to join my e-mail list Let's Keep in Touch! http://sheconsidersafield.com IG: @‌sheconsidersafield Ready to dive deeper into recovery and faith? Click here for your free guide and to join my e-mail list: https://subscribepage.io/overwhelmed_to_overcomer_welcome If you're craving some rest and renewal, why not escape to Just Like Paradise—our serene vacation rental on Oak Island? Rentals at our Beach House are currently 20% off, and our house is better than ever after coming under new management. ➡️ Book your stay here: https://justlikeparadiseoki.com The show notes above may contain affiliate links, meaning if you decide to make a purchase via my links, I may earn a commission at no additional cost to you. Please contact me with questions. The show notes above may contain affiliate links, meaning if you decide to make a purchase via my links, I may earn a commission at no additional cost to you. Please contact me with questions. MUSIC CREDITS Theme music: Brave New World ASLC-1BEF9A9E-9E9D609662 Artist: Fantoms Inspiring Hopeful Audio source: Jamendo Artist: Aliaksei Yukhnevich ASLC-2B505EF3-E9CD4817A6

    48 分钟
  6. 11月6日

    Betrayal: It's Not Your Fault

    In this powerful episode, Anna McLaughlin tackles one of the most painful human experiences: betrayal. Drawing from Malcolm Gladwell's book "Talking to Strangers" and Psalm 73, Anna explores why we often feel we "should have known" when someone betrays our trust, and why that belief is both psychologically understandable and untrue. She offers deep healing and hope for anyone carrying the weight of betrayal, explaining how our capacity to trust—the very thing that made us vulnerable—is actually one of our greatest strengths. This episode is for anyone who has experienced the heartbreak of betrayal and needs to hear three powerful words: "It's not your fault." Key Points Default to Truth: Humans are wired to trust and believe people are telling the truth until there is overwhelming evidence to the contrary The "Should Have Known" Trap: Betrayal often comes with shame and self-blame, but hindsight creates a false sense that warning signs were obvious The Marble Analogy: Evidence accumulates gradually like marbles on a scale until enough weight tips us to see the truth—but we weren't wrong to explain away earlier signs The Cost of Losing Trust: While betrayal is painful, becoming unable to trust (like Harry Markopolos in the Madoff case) leads to isolation, paranoia, and loss of joy Your Tenderness is Strength: The same quality that left you vulnerable to betrayal is what enables you to experience love, connection, and joy Taking it to the Father: Rather than armoring up, we're called to bring our pain to God, trust Him with justice, and choose to remain tender-hearted Abide and Bear: By staying close to God through the healing process, we gain the wisdom and compassion to help others through their own betrayals Scriptures Mentioned Psalm 73 - The psalmist's struggle with seeing the wicked prosper and finding peace in God's sanctuary Key verse: "Nevertheless, I am continually with you; you hold my right hand" (v. 23) "God is the rock of my heart and my portion forever" (v. 26) John 15 - Abiding in the vine and bearing fruit John 20:29 - "Blessed are those who have not seen and yet believe" (Jesus to Thomas) Books and Resources Mentioned "Talking to Strangers: What We Should Know About the People We Don't Know" by Malcolm Gladwell - https://a.co/d/8cYcDRt "The True Vine" by Andrew Murray - https://a.co/d/hK0zBRB   Be a Guest on the Show Want to be a guest on Overwhelmed to Overcomer? Send Anna McLaughlin a message on PodMatch: Click Here Free Resource: Ready to go from Overwhelmed to Overcomer? Click here for your free guide, and to join my e-mail list Let's Keep in Touch! http://sheconsidersafield.com IG: @‌sheconsidersafield Ready to dive deeper into recovery and faith? Click here for your free guide and to join my e-mail list: https://subscribepage.io/overwhelmed_to_overcomer_welcome If you're craving some rest and renewal, why not escape to Just Like Paradise—our serene vacation rental on Oak Island? Rentals at our Beach House are currently 20% off, and our house is better than ever after coming under new management. ➡️ Book your stay here: https://justlikeparadiseoki.com The show notes above may contain affiliate links, meaning if you decide to make a purchase via my links, I may earn a commission at no additional cost to you. Please contact me with questions.The show notes above may contain affiliate links, meaning if you decide to make a purchase via my links, I may earn a commission at no additional cost to you. Please contact me with questions. MUSIC CREDITS Theme music: Brave New World ASLC-1BEF9A9E-9E9D609662 Artist: Fantoms Inspiring Hopeful Audio source: Jamendo Artist: Aliaksei Yukhnevich ASLC-2B505EF3-E9CD4817A6

    44 分钟
  7. Facing Grief Boldly: Finding God through the Storm with JoBeth Polley

    10月30日

    Facing Grief Boldly: Finding God through the Storm with JoBeth Polley

    What do you do when the worst thing you can imagine actually happens? When prayers go unanswered and the pain feels unbearable? In this raw and powerful conversation, Anna sits down with JoBeth Polley, who was widowed at 32 and left to navigate grief while raising two adopted children and running a 120-acre cattle farm and construction company. JoBeth doesn't sugarcoat the journey—grief is dark, physically debilitating, and requires serious work. But she also brings hope: joy is attainable, healing is possible, and the only way out is through. This episode is for anyone navigating fresh grief, carrying unresolved pain from years past, or wanting to better support someone who's hurting. JoBeth shares practical strategies for "treating grief like a business," the danger of stuffing emotions, and why anger at God doesn't mean your faith is over—it means you're still in relationship. If you've been sitting in your pain too long, or you're afraid to open the door to grief because you think it has no bottom, this conversation will challenge you to move your feet and do the hard work that leads to freedom. Key Points Harmful Platitudes – Well-meaning phrases ("God needed another angel") can wound and push people away from God. Anger at God = Relationship – Anger doesn't end faith; it shows you're still engaged with Him. Holding Two Emotions – You can grieve deeply and still be thankful at the same time. Grief in the Body – Unresolved grief can show up as illness, even long-term health issues. The "Poopy Diaper" Analogy – Staying stuck in grief without working through it drains you and your relationships. Treat Grief Like Work – Commit to therapy, safe spaces, crying sessions—don't stuff emotions for later. Find Safe People – Share with those who can handle raw grief without judgment. Validation Over Advice – Say "Of course you feel that way" instead of trying to fix or minimize. Download Before Organizing – Let people tell their story often before moving into solutions. No Set Timeline – Grief doesn't vanish after a year; sometimes later milestones feel harder. Gratitude Heals – Shifting thoughts toward thankfulness helps reframe pain. The Only Way Out is Through – Healing comes from walking through grief, not avoiding it. Scriptures Mentioned Lamentations 3:21-23 (New Living Translation): "Yet I still dare to hope when I remember this: The faithful love of the LORD never ends! His mercies never cease. Great is his faithfulness; his mercies begin afresh each morning." (Paraphrased in conversation as "I will never forget this awful time as I grieve over my loss. But this I call to mind, and therefore I have hope. Because of the Lord's great love, we are not consumed. His mercies are new every morning. Great is thy faithfulness.") Call to love one another: Referenced in discussing how grief gives us greater capacity to love and show up for others Be perfect as your Heavenly Father is perfect: Mentioned in the context that perfection/completeness comes through love, not performance Give thanks in everything: Referenced as God's call to gratitude even while mourning Connect with JoBeth Polley Free 30-minute consultation call: JoBeth offers a no-obligation conversation where she can assess where you are and what kind of support would be most beneficial (grief group, one-on-one coaching, therapy, etc.) - https://auroranetwork.life/connect-with-coach-jobeth Grief Groups: 8-week evidence-based program using the Grief Recovery Method for those who need community and shared understanding - https://auroranetwork.life/coach-jobeth-grief-recovery-group Contact: Facebook  - https://www.facebook.com/jobeth.polley/ If you're feeling that burning inside—that knowing that it's time to deal with your grief—don't wait for the perfect moment or the perfect person. Move your feet. Reach out to JoBeth or another professional. The only way out is through, and peace and joy are waiting on the other side. Be a Guest on the Show Want to be a guest on Overwhelmed to Overcomer? Send Anna McLaughlin a message on PodMatch: Click Here Free Resource: Ready to go from Overwhelmed to Overcomer? Click here for your free guide, and to join my e-mail list Let's Keep in Touch! http://sheconsidersafield.com IG: @‌sheconsidersafield Ready to dive deeper into recovery and faith? Click here for your free guide and to join my e-mail list: https://subscribepage.io/overwhelmed_to_overcomer_welcome If you're craving some rest and renewal, why not escape to Just Like Paradise—our serene vacation rental on Oak Island? Rentals at our Beach House are currently 20% off, and our house is better than ever after coming under new management. ➡️ Book your stay here: https://justlikeparadiseoki.com The show notes above may contain affiliate links, meaning if you decide to make a purchase via my links, I may earn a commission at no additional cost to you. Please contact me with questions.The show notes above may contain affiliate links, meaning if you decide to make a purchase via my links, I may earn a commission at no additional cost to you. Please contact me with questions. MUSIC CREDITS Theme music: Brave New World ASLC-1BEF9A9E-9E9D609662 Artist: Fantoms Inspiring Hopeful Audio source: Jamendo Artist: Aliaksei Yukhnevich ASLC-2B505EF3-E9CD4817A6

    1 小时 10 分钟
  8. 10月23日

    Fun Marriage Moments: Celebrate 15 Years of Crazy with Us Today!

    In this heartfelt anniversary special, Anna celebrates 15 years of marriage by sharing honest reflections on her journey from a wounded young woman with broken templates for love to building a thriving covenant marriage. With vulnerability and humor, she recounts early marriage mishaps (including a thrown suitcase and the "cuddling crisis"), and offers practical wisdom for navigating conflict, staying unified, and allowing marriage to do its sanctifying work. Whether you're married, engaged, or single, Anna's transparency about her struggles and breakthroughs will encourage you that love can grow deeper through challenge—and that God's grace is big enough for all our messy moments. Key Points Prayer is the primary work of marriage - Your role as a wife includes powerful intercessory prayer for your husband, creating shifts in the spiritual realm and transforming your own posture Remember you're on the same team - Fight the problem, not each other; see your spouse as your ally, not your adversary Marriage represents Christ and the Church - Your union is an earthly picture of a heavenly reality, making it a primary target for spiritual attack Recognize your husband's unseen contributions - Like Dwight in The Office, there are countless ways your spouse serves that go unnoticed until they're gone Embrace the "other" - You don't need another version of yourself; you need the complement your spouse provides Marriage is about sanctification, not just happiness - It's "open heart surgery" meant to transform you, not just a fairy tale ending Stay in the conversation - Address issues in the moment, look for the stories underneath the conflict, and break unhealthy dance patterns Use love languages as bridges - Knowing and meeting your spouse's love language can rapidly de-escalate conflict Scriptures Referenced Westminster Shorter Catechism (not Scripture but referenced): "Man's chief end is to glorify God and to enjoy Him forever" Books & Resources Mentioned Vision Driven Marriage podcast by Leslie & Doug Davis: https://thevisiondrivenmarriage.com/podcast-library/ Derek Prince's teachings on prayer and marriage: https://www.derekprince.com/radio/456 Brené Brown's work on shame and vulnerability, including: Listening to shame - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=psN1DORYYV0 The Power Of Vulnerability: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iCvmsMzlF7o Movies Referenced Sleepless in Seattle - https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0108160/ Jerry Maguire - https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0116695/ Still Breathing (with Brendan Fraser): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0120211/ Connect with Anna at the Overwhelmed to Overcomer podcast for more honest conversations about faith, family, and freedom in Christ. Be a Guest on the Show Want to be a guest on Overwhelmed to Overcomer? Send Anna McLaughlin a message on PodMatch: Click Here Free Resource: Ready to go from Overwhelmed to Overcomer? Click here for your free guide, and to join my e-mail list Let's Keep in Touch! http://sheconsidersafield.com IG: @‌sheconsidersafield Ready to dive deeper into recovery and faith? Click here for your free guide and to join my e-mail list: https://subscribepage.io/overwhelmed_to_overcomer_welcome If you're craving some rest and renewal, why not escape to Just Like Paradise—our serene vacation rental on Oak Island? Rentals at our Beach House are currently 20% off, and our house is better than ever after coming under new management. ➡️ Book your stay here: https://justlikeparadiseoki.com The show notes above may contain affiliate links, meaning if you decide to make a purchase via my links, I may earn a commission at no additional cost to you. Please contact me with questions. The show notes above may contain affiliate links, meaning if you decide to make a purchase via my links, I may earn a commission at no additional cost to you. Please contact me with questions. MUSIC CREDITS Theme music: Brave New World ASLC-1BEF9A9E-9E9D609662 Artist: Fantoms Inspiring Hopeful Audio source: Jamendo Artist: Aliaksei Yukhnevich ASLC-2B505EF3-E9CD4817A6

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Do you have big dreams rooted in an even bigger God … but most days, those dreams seem impossibly far out of reach? Welcome to Overwhelmed to Overcomer podcast, where we unpack and celebrate the unique purpose the Lord has given each of us, and how we can walk it out more fully - with deeper JOY - today, right in the midst of the madness. Together, we will come to trust the Father's deep love for us and our incredible value as one of His children, called to steward well the gifts He's given us … we will unpack and walk out our own unique, God-given purpose … and we will encourage one another to operate in that purpose in our daily lives with courage, leaning into the support of fellow sojourners. In this podcast, you'll find practical, tactical steps; honest conversations; and my-heart-to-yours invitations to rest and receive at the feet of the God who sees you as you steward well His calling for your life. The Lord has called us to do a thing - and He'll not only equip us, but also fortify and fuel us along the way. So, let's dig into this conversation of belonging … purpose … and courage. Sweet friend, your. life. MATTERS. So, if you're here for this, I'm here for you! Let's do this thing. With clarity. With courage. With each other.