Why You Shouldn't....... With Veronica

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An insightful, humorous, hard, crazy look into certain beliefs, propaganda, facts, and stereotypical thoughts of people. Which as we know can be offensive, but hopefully, you'll end up better.

Episodes

  1. Ep 8: Why You Shouldn’t Entertain Men Who Only Live in Your DMs

    12/13/2025

    Ep 8: Why You Shouldn’t Entertain Men Who Only Live in Your DMs

    In this episode, Veronica breaks down why attention is not effort and why men who live in your DMs aren’t building anything real. From inbox boyfriends to digital voyeurism, this conversation calls out how messaging culture has replaced courage, communication, and real connection — and why women are done entertaining it.

    9 min

  2. 06/20/2025

    Ep 7: Why You Shouldn’t Be Stupid Enough to Betray Yourself

    In this episode, Veronica breaks down the dangerous myth of loyalty when it comes at the cost of your peace, purpose, and power. From toxic relationships to draining jobs, she unpacks why staying out of fear isn’t noble—it’s self-betrayal. This is your permission to choose you.

    10 min

  3. 06/11/2025

    Ep 6: Why You Shouldn't Swallow Other People's Discomfort

    Ever been hurt by someone who came back like nothing happened? In this episode, Veronica breaks down why you should stop silencing your truth just to protect someone else's comfort. Whether it's your mama, your man, or your homegirl—this is your permission to speak up, hold space for your own hurt, and stop being cast as the villain in a story where you're the one bleeding. Let’s talk accountability, silent apologies, and the power of telling your side—out loud.

    12 min

  4. 06/10/2025

    Ep 5: Why You Shouldn't Deny Your Needs

    When’s the last time someone asked you—not casually, not out of habit, but with real care—“What do you need?” In this vulnerable episode, Veronica explores the emotional weight of being the strong one, the illusion of connection through DMs and social media, and the deep hunger so many of us carry for softness, support, and reciprocity. Featuring spiritual reflection, personal storytelling, and cultural commentary, this episode is a reminder: you deserve to be fed too.

    11 min

  5. 10/02/2024

    Ep 4: Why You Shouldn't Keep the Crap Instead of Cutting the Fat | Health & Wellness Episode

    I can’t stay silent any longer. This week on Why You Shouldn’t, I’m sharing a deeply personal story that has forever changed my perspective on health. A family member, who always seemed perfect on the outside, tragically paid the price for neglecting the warning signs on the inside. In this episode, I reflect on the serious consequences of ignoring your health—physically, mentally, and emotionally. It’s time to cut the things that are dragging you down, whether it’s unhealthy food, toxic habits, or negative energy. Your life depends on it. Follow me on this journey toward truth, healing, and self-care.

    19 min

  6. 01/14/2024

    Ep 3: Why you shouldn't date with a purpose

    A survey of 1,000 dating app users by Badoo found that 51% had been on a date pre-10am recently, and 71% said they’d be impressed if someone asked them out in the morning. https://metro.co.uk/2022/03/03/dawn-dating-is-the-hot-new-trend-heres-how-to-nail-a-morning-date-16203338/ https://www.today.com/life/relationships/first-date-ideas-rcna44970 https://hily.com/blog/26-ideas-to-spend-a-morning-date/

    5 min

  7. 12/15/2023

    EP 1: Why you shouldn't beat your children from your life choices

    Join us for a heartfelt conversation about parenting choices and the impact of discipline. We'll unpack a recent incident involving Brittany Thomas, sparking a broader discussion on the thin line between discipline and overboard parenting. Delve into the importance of fostering a positive atmosphere for our children's growth, steering clear of harmful disciplinary and emotional methods. Growth Points: Exploring the downsides of harsh discipline and its impact on our kids' emotional well-being. Addressing the challenges faced by overworked parents, stressed single-parent households, and the need for alternative parenting strategies. Advocating for positive parenting practices centered around love, understanding, and effective communication. Tune in for a brief yet insightful exploration of parenting dynamics and discover ways to cultivate a nurturing environment for your children Calming yourself: Discipline Is Crucial for Black Communities—There's Still Room for It in Gentle Parenting https://www.parents.com/kindred/discipline-is-crucial-for-black-communities-theres-still-room-for-it-in-gentle-parenting/ https://connectedfamilies.org/calming-yourself-before-discipline-ep-109/ Spanking Alternatives: https://www.verywellfamily.com/alternatives-to-spanking-1094834 NY Times: In a Warning Against Spanking, Some Pediatricians See an Attack on Black Families https://www.nytimes.com/2020/04/17/parenting/stacey-patton-spanking.html Harvard Study: https://www.gse.harvard.edu/ideas/usable-knowledge/21/04/effect-spanking-brain

    12 min

  8. 12/15/2023

    EP 2: Why you shouldn't....Be like Winnie the Pooh

    Are you or someone you know a user, a people pleaser, depressed or type A, and need to get out of the 100-acre woods? The Power of Authenticity: https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/power-authenticity-how-embracing-who-we-can-promote-cara-mcnulty-dpa#:~:text=For%20example%2C%20a%20study%20in,key%20to%20our%20well%2Dbeing Setting Healthy Boundaries: https://www.verywellhealth.com/setting-boundaries-5208802#:~:text=The%20key%20is%20to%20start,is%20more%20with%20boundary%20setting. People pleasing: https://mentalhealthmatch.com/articles/health/health-consequences-of-perfectionism-people-pleasing Depression: https://www.helpguide.org/articles/depression/coping-with-depression.htm Egotistical: https://yvetteerasmus.com/personal-growth/how-to-deal-with-egotistical-people/

    7 min
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An insightful, humorous, hard, crazy look into certain beliefs, propaganda, facts, and stereotypical thoughts of people. Which as we know can be offensive, but hopefully, you'll end up better.

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