Wildly Capable with Kate

Kate Durocher
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Wildly Capable with Kate is a podcast made for those looking to unleash their wildest capabilities. In each episode, host Kate Durocher will help listeners dig deep, turn inwards, and embark on a transformative journey. Together, they'll break free from unhealthy patterns, rip through self limiting beliefs, heal past wounds and build UNWAVERING self worth, all to create healthier relationships as a result. This is Wildly Capable, where the journey to your fullest potential begins. Subscribe now and join in on this empowering adventure. Remember, your wildest capabilities await.

  1. MAR 30

    45. What is Reactive Abuse and DARVO? Breaking down serious tactics being in the Taylor Frankie Paul and Dakota Mortensen domestic violence incident causing The Bachelorette cancellation

    In this episode, Coach Kate Durocher discusses two critical, but often misunderstood concepts - reactive abuse and DARVO - using real-world examples from the Taylor Frankie Paul and Dakota Mortensen incident currently in thew news and her own personal journey. This conversation aims to shed light on these patterns to help victims recognize and break free from abusive cycles. In this episode: Overview of the Taylor Frankie Paul and Dakota Mortensen incident in relation to domestic violenceExplanation of reactive abuse: what it is, how it manifests, and its impactThe concept of DARVO: denial, attack, reverse victim and offender strategyHow these tactics often work together in abusive dynamicsRecognizing patterns of reactive abuse and DARVO in personal relationshipsThe importance of awareness, documentation, and safety plansThe significance of healing childhood wounds and patterns to prevent cyclesPersonal reflection on understanding these terms for empowerment and recoveryResources for victims and those seeking healthier relationshipsResources & Links: ⁠Hotline for Domestic Violence Support⁠Reactive Abuse Explained - Psychology TodayDARVO - Understanding Abuse Tactics - National Domestic Violence Hotline⁠Coach Kate Durocher's Website⁠ Connect with Coach Kate: InstagramWebsiteTimestamps: 00:00 - Introduction and recent move reflections 04:34 - News around The Bachelorette and Taylor Frankie Paul 05:24 - Overview of the incident involving Taylor Frankie Paul and Dakota Mortensen 11:22 - Why understanding reactive abuse and DARVO matters 13:43 - Deep dive into reactive abuse: what it is and how it plays out 15:16 - The cycle of abuse and victim confusion 19:12 - Effects of reactive abuse on victims' mental health 23:49 - Explanation of DARVO: denial, attack, reverse victim-offender 25:06 - How DARVO is used to shift blame and avoid accountability 31:44 - The interplay between reactive abuse and DARVO 33:40 - Personal anecdotes and the importance of awareness 34:36 - Healing from past wounds to break cycles 39:38 - Recognizing patterns and building safety plans 43:23 - Final thoughts on accountability and healing

    29 min

  2. 08/18/2025

    44. FULL WEDDING RECAP: Favorite Moments, Regrets, Unexpected Emotions, Tips & So Much More

    In this episode of the Wildly Capable Podcast, Coach Kate Durocher shares her personal journey of wedding planning, reflecting on the challenges and lessons learned throughout the process. After an eight-month hiatus to focus on her wedding, Kate discusses the emotional rollercoaster of planning a wedding, the importance of creating a memorable experience for guests, and the launch of her Bridal Bestie mini-course designed to support brides-to-be. Click here to get your all-in-one wedding planning hub - The Bridal Bestie Workbook! Kate emphasizes the significance of understanding the emotional dynamics that can arise during wedding planning and the importance of focusing on the love shared between partners rather than the details of the day itself. If you're newly engaged or having a wedding coming up, this is a can't miss episode that will prepare you for all the ups and downs of planning your big day! Follow Kate on Instagram or TikTok to stay up to date on her Bridal Bestie course launch and endless relationship insights. And visit coachkatedurocher.com to explore her different coaching options.

    1h 30m

  3. 12/12/2024

    43: Let Go and Grow: A Guided Meditation for Emotional Release

    In this new guided meditation and visualization, you'll find yourself stepping into a serene forest under the glow of moonlight as your host, Kate Durocher, guides you through a transformative journey of letting go. This meditation invites you to shed the weight of past burdens, symbolized by a heavy backpack, and transform them into lessons that fuel your growth. Feel the grounding power of the earth, the strength of the trees, and the lightness of moving forward unburdened. What you'll experience: ✨ Grounding techniques to center your mind and body 🌲 A soothing visualization in a tranquil forest 🧘 Acknowledgment and release of emotional weights 💪 A powerful connection to inner strength and resilience Find your peace, embrace your lessons, and step into a lighter, stronger version of yourself.

    10 min

  4. 12/05/2024

    42. Exploring the Four Types of Connection with Author and Psychologist, Dr. Adam Dorsay

    Connection is the currency of human experience, but how do we cultivate it in a world that's more fragmented than ever? Kate Durocher sits down with author, licensed psychologist & executive coach, Adam Dorsay to explore the four essential types of connection: with ourselves, others, the world, and something greater. They tackle the challenges of fostering genuine relationships in the age of social media and post-pandemic disconnection, emphasizing vulnerability, self-discovery, and self-compassion as tools for growth. Listen in as they unpack the importance of embracing our shadow selves, finding spirituality in awe-inspiring moments, and navigating the complexities of adult friendships. Whether it's identifying healthy connections or reigniting old ones, this conversation reminds us that connection isn't just a want—it's a need. Find your unique formula for meaningful connection—and watch how it transforms your life.

    41 min

  5. 11/21/2024

    41. Guided Visualization to Embrace Your Innate Power & Capabilities

    A journey into empowerment awaits in this transformative guided meditation with "Wildly Capable with Kate" podcast host, Kate Durocher. Listeners are invited to explore their inner strength and limitless potential through soothing relaxation techniques and vivid visualization exercises. From standing in a vast, open field to affirming your unique power, this meditation will leave you feeling connected to your true essence and ready to carry a sense of capability into every corner of your life. Takeaways include: - Techniques to fully relax and center yourself. - A powerful visualization to connect with your inner strength. - Affirmations to reinforce your sense of empowerment. - A renewed belief in your ability to embrace your true potential. Step into your power and experience the possibilities within.

    11 min

  6. 11/13/2024

    40. From Lawyer to Matchmaker: Why an Ex-Lawyer Wants to Help People Pick Better Dating Matches

    Matchmaking isn’t just about swiping right—it’s about building meaningful connections rooted in compatibility and shared values. In this episode, Kate sits down with Danny Goldstein, a former lawyer turned matchmaker, to uncover what’s really missing in modern dating. From understanding attachment styles to navigating the overwhelm of dating apps, Danny, who created Crux Compatible, shares his innovative approach to fostering intentional relationships. Together, Kate and Danny explore the balance between chemistry and compatibility, the role of therapy in personal growth, and why emotional intelligence is key to successful partnerships. Danny also introduces Crux, his matchmaking service designed to prioritize depth over surface-level attraction, offering a fresh perspective on how to create lasting love.

    45 min

  7. 11/07/2024

    39. Awaken Your Inner Wild Woman: A Guided Meditation and Visualization for Self-Discovery

    This guided meditation with Kate Durocher takes you on a transformative journey into nature’s embrace, where you’ll connect with your inner wild woman and awaken your untamed power. As you dance at the water’s edge, let go of what no longer serves you and step confidently into a new chapter of freedom and self-discovery. Awaken, connect, and let the wild woman within lead you.

    10 min

  8. 10/31/2024

    38. Redefining Masculinity: The Path to Authentic Relationships with Masculinity Coach, Kevin Pasco

    What drives a man to step into healthier masculinity? In this episode of Wildly Capable with Kate, Kate Durocher speaks with men’s relationship and masculinity coach Kevin Pasco to answer that question. Kevin shares his mission to help men reshape their views on masculinity and femininity. He also shares how men can learn to step further into a healthy masculine role. Together, Kate and Kevin explore how men can develop emotional intelligence, understand their relationship patterns, and become more authentic in dating and partnerships. Kevin opens up about how social pressures impact men’s ability to be vulnerable, why self-awareness is essential, and how balancing masculine and feminine energies creates lasting harmony. This conversation is full of practical insights for men aiming to grow intentionally in life and relationships. Key Takeaways: - Men embracing their masculine energy allows women to feel safe in their femininity. - Understanding personal patterns in dating and relationships is essential. - Writing down relationship goals can provide clarity on what one truly wants. - Societal norms often limit men’s emotional expression, making emotional intelligence a crucial area for growth. - Personal development can spark discomfort in others; setting boundaries is vital. - A clear purpose often leads to healthier relationship dynamics. - So much more! Whether you’re a woman who wants to attract a masculine man or a man who wants to learn how to show up stronger in relationships, this episode is for you!

    53 min
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Wildly Capable with Kate is a podcast made for those looking to unleash their wildest capabilities. In each episode, host Kate Durocher will help listeners dig deep, turn inwards, and embark on a transformative journey. Together, they'll break free from unhealthy patterns, rip through self limiting beliefs, heal past wounds and build UNWAVERING self worth, all to create healthier relationships as a result. This is Wildly Capable, where the journey to your fullest potential begins. Subscribe now and join in on this empowering adventure. Remember, your wildest capabilities await.

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  • Creator
    Kate Durocher
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    46
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Kate Durocher
  • Show Website
    Wildly Capable with Kate