And Now We Drink

Matt Slayer
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"The Conversation at the end of the bar" with your favorite Comedians, Musicians, Writers, Actors and Adult performers. Join your host Matt Slayer every Thursday at 3:00 PM EST/12:00 PM PST for drinking and debaucherous stories.

  1. 4d ago

    And Now We Drink Episode 466: With Derek Kage pt 3

    Matt Slayer welcomes award-winning performer Derek Kage back for a rare third appearance on And Now We Drink, and the result is exactly the kind of unfiltered, hilarious, and unexpectedly thoughtful chaos listeners come for. Over dirty martinis, Matt and Derek bounce from Amazon’s ever-expanding empire and digital surge pricing to the strange convenience of modern isolation, grocery delivery, and why self-checkout can feel like a moral dilemma. Derek opens up about an intensely busy year in the industry, working across gay, straight, and trans scenes, winning major awards, and navigating the physical realities of performing while dealing with illness, prostatitis, antibiotics, and the realities of  testing. He also offers a candid PSA about  the importance of informed consent on set. The conversation gets wildly graphic and funny as Derek recounts scene disasters, “horse market” parties, and the surreal experience of being a gay performer in straight gangb**g scenes with performers he admires. Along the way, Matt and Derek trade stories about vasectomies, aging bodies, metal bands, 9/11 memories, dry counties, school rebellion, and much more. Equal parts filthy, funny, reflective, and politically charged, this episode is a deep dive into Derek Kage’s world—and a reminder that no topic is off-limits once the drinks start flowing.   We are proud to be brought to you by BellFlask   www.bellflask.com use promo code slayer20 for 20% off at checkout     Cover your shame in our wares.   New Merch! anwd.net/merch   The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    And Now We Drink Episode 466: With Derek Kage pt 3

  2. 4d ago

    And Now We Drink Episode 466: With Derek Kage pt 2

    Matt Slayer welcomes award-winning performer Derek Kage back for a rare third appearance on And Now We Drink, and the result is exactly the kind of unfiltered, hilarious, and unexpectedly thoughtful chaos listeners come for. Over dirty martinis, Matt and Derek bounce from Amazon’s ever-expanding empire and digital surge pricing to the strange convenience of modern isolation, grocery delivery, and why self-checkout can feel like a moral dilemma. Derek opens up about an intensely busy year in the industry, working across gay, straight, and trans scenes, winning major awards, and navigating the physical realities of performing while dealing with illness, prostatitis, antibiotics, and the realities of  testing. He also offers a candid PSA about  the importance of informed consent on set. The conversation gets wildly graphic and funny as Derek recounts scene disasters, “horse market” parties, and the surreal experience of being a gay performer in straight gangb**g scenes with performers he admires. Along the way, Matt and Derek trade stories about vasectomies, aging bodies, metal bands, 9/11 memories, dry counties, school rebellion, and much more. Equal parts filthy, funny, reflective, and politically charged, this episode is a deep dive into Derek Kage’s world—and a reminder that no topic is off-limits once the drinks start flowing.   We are proud to be brought to you by BellFlask   www.bellflask.com use promo code slayer20 for 20% off at checkout     Cover your shame in our wares.   New Merch! anwd.net/merch   The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    And Now We Drink Episode 466: With Derek Kage pt 2

  3. 4d ago ·  Bonus

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  4. 4d ago

    And Now We Drink Episode 466: With Derek Kage pt 1

    Matt Slayer welcomes award-winning performer Derek Kage back for a rare third appearance on And Now We Drink, and the result is exactly the kind of unfiltered, hilarious, and unexpectedly thoughtful chaos listeners come for. Over dirty martinis, Matt and Derek bounce from Amazon’s ever-expanding empire and digital surge pricing to the strange convenience of modern isolation, grocery delivery, and why self-checkout can feel like a moral dilemma. Derek opens up about an intensely busy year in the industry, working across gay, straight, and trans scenes, winning major awards, and navigating the physical realities of performing while dealing with illness, prostatitis, antibiotics, and the realities of  testing. He also offers a candid PSA about  the importance of informed consent on set. The conversation gets wildly graphic and funny as Derek recounts scene disasters, “horse market” parties, and the surreal experience of being a gay performer in straight gangb**g scenes with performers he admires. Along the way, Matt and Derek trade stories about vasectomies, aging bodies, metal bands, 9/11 memories, dry counties, school rebellion, and much more. Equal parts filthy, funny, reflective, and politically charged, this episode is a deep dive into Derek Kage’s world—and a reminder that no topic is off-limits once the drinks start flowing.   We are proud to be brought to you by BellFlask   www.bellflask.com use promo code slayer20 for 20% off at checkout     Cover your shame in our wares.   New Merch! anwd.net/merch   The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    And Now We Drink Episode 466: With Derek Kage pt 1

  5. Jul 16

    And Now We Drink Episode 465: With Alice Little pt 3

    Matt Slayer welcomes back legal courtesan, creator, educator, and chaos magnet Alice Little for a wildly funny yet surprisingly policy-heavy episode of And Now We Drink. What starts with gin-and-tonic mishaps, parody brainstorming, and farm animal updates quickly spirals into a wide-ranging conversation about SW, personal freedom, privacy, and the strange realities of entertainment. Alice discusses her move to Sheri’s Ranch, explains how discretion works at Nevada brels, and gives updates on her life with goats, pigs, and rural fence-based warfare. She and Matt dive into the history of condom laws in the industry, the difference between fantasy and on-set safety protocols, and how mainstream, OF and brel work overlap more openly than they did a decade ago. The episode also gets into serious ground: Illinois’ proposed full decriminalization bill, SW’ers rights, Nevada brel workers’ independent contractor status, benefits and bargaining power. Along the way, they touch on body cam footage, media literacy, personal security at fan conventions, and the real-world risks performers face when interacting with the public. Plus: Thailand travel stories, New Zealand brel co-ops, Tokyo nostalgia, and why “vanilla” sex should maybe be renamed “pumpkin spice.” It’s blunt, boozy, political, absurd, and exactly the kind of unfiltered ride listeners expect when Alice and Matt sit down together. We are proud to be brought to you by BellFlask www.bellflask.com use promo code slayer20 for 20% off at checkout Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    And Now We Drink Episode 465: With Alice Little pt 3

  6. Jul 16

    And Now We Drink Episode 465: With Alice Little pt 2

    Matt Slayer welcomes back legal courtesan, creator, educator, and chaos magnet Alice Little for a wildly funny yet surprisingly policy-heavy episode of And Now We Drink. What starts with gin-and-tonic mishaps, parody brainstorming, and farm animal updates quickly spirals into a wide-ranging conversation about SW, personal freedom, privacy, and the strange realities of entertainment. Alice discusses her move to Sheri’s Ranch, explains how discretion works at Nevada brels, and gives updates on her life with goats, pigs, and rural fence-based warfare. She and Matt dive into the history of condom laws in the industry, the difference between fantasy and on-set safety protocols, and how mainstream, OF and brel work overlap more openly than they did a decade ago. The episode also gets into serious ground: Illinois’ proposed full decriminalization bill, SW’ers rights, Nevada brel workers’ independent contractor status, benefits and bargaining power. Along the way, they touch on body cam footage, media literacy, personal security at fan conventions, and the real-world risks performers face when interacting with the public. Plus: Thailand travel stories, New Zealand brel co-ops, Tokyo nostalgia, and why “vanilla” sex should maybe be renamed “pumpkin spice.” It’s blunt, boozy, political, absurd, and exactly the kind of unfiltered ride listeners expect when Alice and Matt sit down together. We are proud to be brought to you by BellFlask www.bellflask.com use promo code slayer20 for 20% off at checkout Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    And Now We Drink Episode 465: With Alice Little pt 2

  7. Jul 16

    And Now We Drink Episode 465: With Alice Little pt 1

    Matt Slayer welcomes back legal courtesan, creator, educator, and chaos magnet Alice Little for a wildly funny yet surprisingly policy-heavy episode of And Now We Drink. What starts with gin-and-tonic mishaps, parody brainstorming, and farm animal updates quickly spirals into a wide-ranging conversation about SW, personal freedom, privacy, and the strange realities of entertainment. Alice discusses her move to Sheri’s Ranch, explains how discretion works at Nevada brels, and gives updates on her life with goats, pigs, and rural fence-based warfare. She and Matt dive into the history of condom laws in the industry, the difference between fantasy and on-set safety protocols, and how mainstream, OF and brel work overlap more openly than they did a decade ago. The episode also gets into serious ground: Illinois’ proposed full decriminalization bill, SW’ers rights, Nevada brel workers’ independent contractor status, benefits and bargaining power. Along the way, they touch on body cam footage, media literacy, personal security at fan conventions, and the real-world risks performers face when interacting with the public. Plus: Thailand travel stories, New Zealand brel co-ops, Tokyo nostalgia, and why “vanilla” sex should maybe be renamed “pumpkin spice.” It’s blunt, boozy, political, absurd, and exactly the kind of unfiltered ride listeners expect when Alice and Matt sit down together. We are proud to be brought to you by BellFlask www.bellflask.com use promo code slayer20 for 20% off at checkout Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    And Now We Drink Episode 465: With Alice Little pt 1

  8. Jul 9

    And Now We Drink Episode 464: With Che Durena pt 2

    Matt Slayer welcomes comedian Che Durena back to the bar for a conversation that starts filthy and stays that way. Che gets weirdly honest about his ritualistic relationship with content — the tab-hoarding, the specific routines, the whole unhinged process he's built around it — before comparing notes with Matt on their wildly different approaches to chasing dopamine. Che makes the case for moderation, treating content like any other vice (caffeine, sugar, alcohol) that he cycles off of so the highs actually hit again, while Matt argues for just taking the dopamine and living your truth. It somehow turns into a legitimately interesting back-and-forth about addiction, ritual, and burnout buried under all the chaos. Later the two completely nosedive into gaming, going way too deep on Marvel Rivals and Deadlock. They trade war stories about tilted teammates who refuse to communicate, one-trick players who single-handedly extend a loss for an extra hour, and the specific breed of Spider-Man main who thinks pulling you off a ledge counts as a personality. Slayer lays out his hard rule of never surrendering a match no matter how bad it looks, and the two go back and forth on why hero shooters live and die on call-outs and communication.       Loud, filthy, weirdly heartfelt in places — pour something strong and buckle up.   We are proud to be brought to you by BellFlask www.bellflask.com use promo code slayer20 for 20% off at checkout Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    And Now We Drink Episode 464: With Che Durena pt 2
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"The Conversation at the end of the bar" with your favorite Comedians, Musicians, Writers, Actors and Adult performers. Join your host Matt Slayer every Thursday at 3:00 PM EST/12:00 PM PST for drinking and debaucherous stories.

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  • Creator
    Matt Slayer
  • Years Active
    2016 - 2026
  • Episodes
    563
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Matt Slayer
  • Show Website
    And Now We Drink

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