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Dr. David and Tara Van Dyke
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Real conversations about relationships, family, marriage, and the moments that shape us. Each week, hosts David and Tara Van Dyke explore the science, stories, and practical insights that help people build deeper connection and live with greater purpose. David is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and professor. Tara is a childbirth educator, doula, and relationship educator. Married for more than 34 years and parents of 4 children, they combine decades of professional experience with candid conversations to help you strengthen connections, navigate life's transitions, and thrive.

  1. 12/17/2025 ·  Bonus

    Christmas Reading 2025: The Promise and the Gift

    🎄 A gift for the season from our family to yours. In this special Christmas bonus episode, we invite you to step into the ancient story of hope fulfilled. The Promise and the Gift is a Scripture-based Christmas reading that traces the story of Christ from the dawn of creation, through the words of the prophets, to the quiet wonder of a child born in Bethlehem. We'll walk through the promise of redemption, the long wait, and the moment when the Light entered the darkness—and the darkness could not overcome it. The Messiah has come.And His name is Jesus. --- Scripture included:John 1:1–5, Genesis 3:15, Isaiah 7:14; 9:2, 6–7, Micah 5:2, Luke 1–2, Matthew 1–2, John 3:16–18, John 1:14 --- Music by Clavier Clavier from Pixabay Produced by Zach Van Dyke

    Christmas Reading 2025: The Promise and the Gift

  2. 09/18/2025

    LIVE SHOW: Stories of Friendship, Faith & Formation

    Welcome to the 100th episode of With U Podcast! Recorded live in the Czech Republic, this special episode celebrates three decades of friendship, ministry, and intentional Christian living through the European Summer Study Program (ESSP). We sit down with David & Kriste Sveen, Kurt & Meg Tillman, Bill & Sandy Skowera to share stories of showing up, walking alongside others, and seeing God at work in Central and Eastern Europe.Join us for a conversation about legacy, community, and the simple faithfulness that changes lives. — See the With U Podcast website for extra behind-the-scenes photos of our live recording. https://withuprojects.com/withupodcast Check out these Wheaton College programs that provide opportunities for global partnerships and top quality academic engagement. ⁠European Summer Study Program⁠  ⁠European Initiative Partnership⁠ ⁠MA in Marriage and Family Therapy⁠ — Recorded on location in Josiah Venture’s ⁠Malenovice Conference Center⁠ in the Moravian Hills. We are extremely thankful for the audio & video recording help, technology expertise, and most importantly emotional support and encouragement from Draho Poloha and Rob Chestnut. Produced by Zach Van Dyke

    LIVE SHOW: Stories of Friendship, Faith & Formation

  3. 09/11/2025

    [Movie Review] The Ballad of Wallis Island

    In this episode we discuss the storyline and themes from the film The Ballad of Wallis Island. Brought to a windswept Welsh island to play a private gig, folk music duo McGwyer Mortimer revisit their mismatched dreams and reasons for breaking up the band. Through beautiful music, lonely landscapes, and quirky character interactions we explore themes of regret, loss, letting go, and loving again. —- This episode was recorded while away from our studio working on an upcoming writing project that we can’t wait to share. Any reduction in audio quality is due to our temporary equipment. —- Produced by Zach Van Dyke

    [Movie Review] The Ballad of Wallis Island

  4. 09/04/2025

    A Friend for Every Season

    Friendship changes as much as we do over the years. In this episode, we get a little nostalgic about our earliest playmates, our situational sideline pals, and our long-lasting authentic friends. We share the challenges of staying connected in busy times, and highlight why friendship is essential to human thriving. With a few personal stories about baseball and hula hoops, we reflect on our gratefulness for the friendships that have shaped our lives. --- produced by Zach Van Dyke

    A Friend for Every Season

  5. 08/28/2025

    Coworking On the Road

    On many past road trips, we’ve taken time to enjoy the scenery. But this time, we’re working while driving—and bringing you along for the ride. On our way to a secret sabbatical destination to kick off a new writing project, we share our thoughts on what makes a good coworker, how to nurture a healthy work culture, and our hopes for blending our work styles in both our professional and personal partnership. Join us for some on-the-road reflections about collaboration, culture, and the adventure of building something together — Produced by Zach Van Dyke

    Coworking On the Road

  6. 08/21/2025

    Lessons from a Four-Generation Family Vacation

    What happens when four generations from four states gather for a four-day vacation? We recently traveled with family ages 10 months to 80 years for a holiday on Mackinac Island, Michigan. In this episode, we share what we learned about planning lightly, staying connected, and adjusting to a wide range of needs on a multi-generational trip. From ferry rides and horse-drawn carriages to rowdy meals and rainy-day picnics, we found that the best memories often came in unexpected moments.___Van Dyke Road Trip Stops Grand Haven Boardwalk https://www.michigan.org/property/grand-haven-boardwalk PJ Hoffmaster State Park https://www.michigan.gov/recsearch/parks/hoffmaster Bistro-Polaris Restaurant at Black Star Farms https://blackstarfarms.com/bistro-polaris/ Lower Peninsula https://www.dwhike.com/Hikes-in-the-Midwest/Michigan-Hikes/Lower-Peninsula-Hikes Michigan Slang - trolls and mitten state https://www.michiganpublic.org/arts-culture/2014-03-30/the-vocabulary-of-yoopers-trolls-and-fudgies https://www.michiganpublic.org/arts-culture/2015-12-17/when-did-we-start-calling-michigan-the-mitten-state Arnold Transit Company Ferry https://www.arnoldtransitcompany.com/ Mackinac Island https://www.mackinacisland.org/ Mackinac Bridge https://www.mackinacbridge.org/history/history-of-the-bridge/ Dobbers Pasties - Escanaba https://dobberspasties.com/ Mars Cheese Castle https://www.marscheese.com/ UP road trip https://www.uptravel.com/ Check out more photos at www.withupodcast.com ___ produced by Zach Van Dyke

    Lessons from a Four-Generation Family Vacation

  7. 08/14/2025

    Finding Strength in Your Birth Story

    Every birth story leaves a lasting imprint. Whether your experience was joyful, complicated, or deeply challenging, the way you remember and tell it shapes how you carry it into the rest of your life. You’ll hear why birth is more than a medical event, how to shift from trauma to transformation, and practical ways to reclaim your story as a powerful rite of passage. — To go deeper on this topic, check out the following resources: Tedeschi, R. G., & Calhoun, L. G. (2004). " Posttraumatic growth: conceptual foundations and empirical evidence". Psychological inquiry, 15(1), 1-18.   Purol, M. F., & Chopik, W. J. (2024). Do many hands make light work? The role of romantic partners and close relationships in posttraumatic growth. American Psychologist, 79(8), 1214.   Ketley, R., Darwin, Z., Masterson, C., & McGowan, L. (2024). Women’s experience of post-traumatic growth following a traumatic birth: An interpretive phenomenological analysis. Journal of Reproductive and Infant Psychology, 42(1), 126-137.   Brandão, T., Brandão, S., Prata, A. P., Silva, R., Abreu, W., Riklikiene, O., ... & Thomson, G. (2024). Posttraumatic growth in women after a childbirth experience: The influence of individual characteristics and intrusive and deliberate rumination. Psychological trauma: theory, research, practice, and policy.   Mijalevich‐Soker, E., Ring, L., Joffe, E., Awad‐Yaseen, M., Steger, M. F., & Taubman–Ben‐Ari, O. (2025). Personal Growth Among Pregnant Women During War: The Role of Optimism and Meaning in Life. International Journal of Psychology, 60(4), e70087. Websites Birth Monopoly (Birthmonopoly.com) Prevention and Treatment of Traumatic Childbirth (PATTCH.org) Birth Tellers: Healing Birth Through Conscious Storytelling (Midwifery Today) Healing Birth (Healingbirth.net) Birthing from Within (Birthingfromwithin.com) Birth Story Medicine (Birthstorymedicine.com) Penny Simkin on the importance of birth memories (A Day You’ll Never Forget on YouTube) Transformed by Birth, by Britta Bushnell —  Produced by Zach Van Dyke

    Finding Strength in Your Birth Story

  8. 08/07/2025

    More Than Just a Meal

    Food is never just food. In this episode, we explore the many ways meals shape our social lives, reflect our culture, and reveal our inner world. From family dinners to first dates, guilty cravings to sacred moments, we unpack what’s really happening when we sit down to eat. Pull up a chair—this one’s for anyone who’s ever had feelings about food. — Produced by Zach Van Dyke

    More Than Just a Meal
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Real conversations about relationships, family, marriage, and the moments that shape us. Each week, hosts David and Tara Van Dyke explore the science, stories, and practical insights that help people build deeper connection and live with greater purpose. David is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and professor. Tara is a childbirth educator, doula, and relationship educator. Married for more than 34 years and parents of 4 children, they combine decades of professional experience with candid conversations to help you strengthen connections, navigate life's transitions, and thrive.

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  • Creator
    Dr. David and Tara Van Dyke
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2025
  • Episodes
    102
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Dr. David and Tara Van Dyke
  • Show Website
    With U Podcast