wounds to wisdom

tina melendez
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A raw journey of self-discovery, transforming life's challenges into profound wisdom and personal growth.

  1. 5D AGO

    the threshold: why we stand frozen at the edge of what we want

    There's a moment you recognize if you've lived it. You can see what you want. You can feel that something needs to change. And you are completely frozen at the edge of it. That's the threshold. And in this episode, I'm talking about what it actually feels like to stand there. Not from the other side, but from inside it. The grip. The resentment that builds when you don't move. The way we convince ourselves we're being careful when we're actually just staying stuck. This episode is also an invitation into Awake: The Threshold to Becoming — a 9-week container for women who are ready to finally cross. Two spots remain. We begin April 1st. Learn more and register Follow me on Instagram @iamtinamelendez Come sit with me in meditation. See my upcoming events Join my mailing list: https://www.intuitive-soulutions.com/shadow-meditation Stock Media provided by HotZtudio / Pond5

    18 min
  2. when food becomes coping: binge eating, inner child healing, and recovery with ronni robinson

    FEB 27

    when food becomes coping: binge eating, inner child healing, and recovery with ronni robinson

    n this episode, I sit down with Ronni Robinson, a certified eating disorder recovery coach and author of Out of the Pantry: A Disordered Eating Journey. Ronni spent 30 years struggling with binge eating before finding her way to recovery over 17 years ago. We explore how coping mechanisms like binge eating often develop in childhood as responses to emotional needs that weren't being met. Not from major trauma necessarily, but from the everyday experiences of not being emotionally seen or heard. The moments that taught us our feelings weren't safe or acceptable. Ronni shares honestly about how food became a way to control something when everything else felt out of control. How it consumed her thoughts, her social experiences, her entire life. And how recovery wasn't about diets or willpower, but about finally addressing the wounds underneath. This conversation is for anyone who has ever used something external to cope with something internal. Whether it's food, alcohol, work, perfectionism, or people-pleasing, the pattern is the same: we reach for something outside ourselves because we never learned we could handle what's inside. If you're ready to understand your own patterns with more compassion, this episode will meet you where you are. Connect with Ronni: Instagram: @recoverwithronni Website: www.ronnirobinson.com Buy her book: Out of the Pantry ----- Follow me on Instagram @iamtinamelendez Come sit with me in meditation. See my upcoming events Join my mailing list: https://www.intuitive-soulutions.com/shadow-meditation Stock Media provided by HotZtudio / Pond5

    47 min

  3. FEB 12

    the freeze response: why your body shuts down (and how to move through it)

    Last week I shared that I was stuck in freeze - overwhelmed by what's unfolding in this country and unable to process it all. This week, I want to offer something to actually help. In a women's circle I held this week, I heard the same thing from woman after woman: it's not just the collective crisis. It's holding our personal lives - struggling marriages, financial stress, grief, health challenges - while the world crumbles around us. The weight of both is too much. And underneath it all, the same question: Am I doing this right? In this episode, I explore what freeze actually is (a biological survival response, not a character flaw), why our nervous systems are shutting down right now, and the shadow patterns that pile on when we're stuck - the Self-Doubter and Perfectionist telling us we're not doing enough. Then I lead you through a 3-minute somatic shaking practice to help move the stuck energy and interrupt the freeze. Based on how animals naturally complete the stress cycle, this practice is simple, accessible, and something you can return to whenever you feel yourself going numb. You don't have to hold it all perfectly. You just have to keep moving through. Follow me on Instagram @iamtinamelendez Come sit with me in meditation. See my upcoming events Join my mailing list: https://www.intuitive-soulutions.com/shadow-meditation Stock Media provided by HotZtudio / Pond5

    23 min

  4. FEB 5

    facing what's real: i will no longer be silently complicit

    I am heartbroken. The country I was sold is a farce. The Epstein files are showing us just how deep the corruption goes. I'm disgusted—not surprised, but disgusted. As an SA survivor, this moment is incredibly triggering. Even the commentary on the files brings a surge of helplessness to my system. As an empath, I feel the pain of the victims. As someone who has survived my own trauma, it all comes flooding back as though it's happening in real time. Watching American citizens executed in the streets. Young children used as bait to capture their immigrant parents. Families torn apart. It's too much for my system. And I know that's exactly what they want. This is their strategy—flooding the zone to overwhelm us so we can't keep up, so it becomes normalized. I refuse to let any of this become normal. I refuse to stay silent and complicit. In this episode, I share where I'm at: stuck in freeze, overwhelmed with grief, struggling to understand how anyone can look at another human being and feel superior to them. And I share what I'm learning about protecting ourselves so that we can show up—because we need to show up. We need to gather in community, hold each other, and find our light together. If we isolate. If we hide. If we shut down—they win. I'm inviting you to gather with me on Sunday in my women's circle, Sacred Space Annapolis. Pay what you can. If you are unable to pay anything, please email me at tina@intuitive-soulutions.com. This isn't about a sale. It's about building a community that holds one another through this. Our democracy, our freedom, everything is on the line. Follow me on Instagram @iamtinamelendez Come sit with me in meditation. See my upcoming events Join my mailing list: https://www.intuitive-soulutions.com/shadow-meditation Stock Media provided by HotZtudio / Pond5

    27 min

  5. 12/19/2025

    on control, loss, and learning to let things be: birthday reflections

    Yesterday I turned 42. I love birthdays. Not the celebrating necessarily - that's complicated. But the threshold of it. The closing out of one year and stepping into a new one. A personal new year that isn't tied to a collective restart. 41 was an incredibly difficult year for me. It didn't let up. One thing after another, after another, for the entire year. And somewhere in the midst of it all, I learned something about non-attachment. About letting go. About allowing things to move through me instead of gripping so tightly to outcomes I can't control. This is my birthday reflection - on a hard year, on what I'm learning about control and loss, and on stepping through the threshold into 42. This is also the final episode of 2025. I'm taking the next few weeks off to be with my family. I'll see you in 2026. Oracle Card Readings:Choose from a 3 or 13 card reading. Starting at $24. Book your reading here. Upcoming Events:December 21, 3pm at Groundswell Yoga Sacred Space Annapolis Women's Circle Gather in Community January 1, 1:30pm at Groundswell Yoga Vision Board Journey Journey with me Follow me on Instagram @iamtinamelendez Come sit with me in meditation. See my upcoming events Join my mailing list: https://www.intuitive-soulutions.com/shadow-meditation Stock Media provided by HotZtudio / Pond5

    24 min

  6. 12/11/2025

    i f*ing hate the wind: on control, chaos, and learning to let go

    I've been thinking about wind. About chaos. About what happens when you spend your whole life trying to control everything. There's a wind card in the Mystical Shaman Oracle deck, and every time I pull it, I think the same thing: I f*ing hate the wind. It represents chaos to me. The uncontrollable. And I realized something this week. I've been using over-preparation as armor. My way of trying to control everything so I never have to feel that out-of-control wind-in-my-face sensation. I grip. I plan. I anticipate every variable. But what that's actually done is keep me from trusting myself. 2024 was the year I resisted the crumbling. 2025 has been about learning to surrender. I'm standing at a threshold right now - between who I was and who I'm becoming. And I'm beginning to see the wind as an invitation to acknowledge how little I actually control. How much magic becomes available when I stop gripping so tightly and just trust myself to handle what comes. Follow me on Instagram @iamtinamelendez Come sit with me in meditation. See my upcoming events Local to Annapolis? Come to the next Sacred Space Annapolis Women's Circle or a New Year's Day Vision Boarding Meditation Join my mailing list: https://www.intuitive-soulutions.com/shadow-meditation Stock Media provided by HotZtudio / Pond5

    17 min
  7. when grief becomes an awakening: tracy laskos on coming home to yourself

    12/04/2025

    when grief becomes an awakening: tracy laskos on coming home to yourself

    What happens when life doesn't follow the script you were handed? When loss cracks you open and forces you to ask: who am I without all these roles, all these expectations, all these stories I've been told about who I'm supposed to be? In this episode, I sit down with Tracy Laskos, author, conscious leadership advisor, and founder of Wings of Truth, to talk about the seasons of unraveling we all go through, and what it means to come home to yourself when everything else falls away. Tracy shares her journey through profound loss, including losing her mom while she was a new mother herself. She talks about how grief became an awakening rather than something to overcome, and how that loss pulled back the veil and opened her to a deeper spiritual path. We dive into shadow work and what it really means to integrate rather than eliminate parts of ourselves. Tracy offers this beautiful reframe: the darkness is required for the light to be seen. We also explore leadership through vulnerability, the metamorphosis process, and what it means to witness transformation—both in ourselves and in the people we love. This conversation is honest, grounded, and deeply moving. If you're in a season of unraveling, if you've ever felt like life was asking you to let go of who you thought you were so you could become who you actually are, this episode is for you. Tracy recently published her first book, The Spark Within: An Authentic Journey Home, which weaves her personal story with journal prompts and reflection points to support your own healing journey. Connect with Tracy:Instagram: @tracylaskosWebsite: https://www.wingsoftruth.co/Book: Purchase Now Follow me on Instagram @iamtinamelendez Come sit with me in meditation. See my upcoming events Join my mailing list: https://www.intuitive-soulutions.com/shadow-meditation Stock Media provided by HotZtudio / Pond5

    1h 3m

  8. 11/27/2025

    gratitude beyond the obvious: a thanksgiving meditation (a best of w2w replay)

    This week I'm sharing a replay of last year's gratitude meditation as I recover from a cold that's taken my voice (you'll hear my raspy attempt at an intro before we dive into the meditation). This meditation is my thank you to you - for being here, for doing this work, for continuing to tune in and walk this journey with me. May this Thanksgiving give you a moment of rest, peace, and the opportunity to take stock of all that you're grateful for as we enter the holiday season. Happy Thanksgiving. Sending you all my love, courage, strength, and joy. Sat Nam. Follow me on Instagram @iamtinamelendez Come sit with me in meditation. See my upcoming events Join my mailing list: https://www.intuitive-soulutions.com/shadow-meditation Stock Media provided by HotZtudio / Pond5

    22 min
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A raw journey of self-discovery, transforming life's challenges into profound wisdom and personal growth.

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  • Creator
    tina melendez
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    55
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © tina melendez
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    wounds to wisdom