Woven: Soft Edges, Deep Roots

SolefulSara

Welcome to Woven: Soft Edges. Deep Roots. A podcast exploring the interconnection of bodies, culture, and transformation.Here, we honor the wisdom held in the body, the stories etched into our tissues, and the ways we are shaped—and shape—culture through care, connection, and courageous softness.Together, we’ll lean into the edges of healing, justice, and possibility.Because transformation doesn’t start in te mind—it starts in the body, and it ripples outward.This is a space to remember what’s already within you. Let’s see what we can weave together. .

  1. Jun 25

    Episode 17: Tom Owens

    In this episode of Woven, Sara sits down with Tom — the first male guest on the podcast — for a deeply human conversation about grief, body culture, masculinity, healing, and the longing for community in an increasingly isolated world. Tom shares his experience navigating a body shaped by decades of travel, physical wear and tear, and the slow process of learning to care for himself differently. Together, they explore what it means to move from treating the body as a utility toward relating to it as a partner. The conversation expands into grief and loss as Tom reflects on losing both parents, including his biological parents from Colombia whom he never had the chance to know. He speaks candidly about therapy, Reiki, mentorship, and the importance of human connection in processing life’s hardest experiences. Sara and Tom also examine the differences between independent and interdependent cultures, drawing from Tom’s travels through Japan, Taiwan, and Thailand. They discuss parenting, public behavior, community accountability, and the ways American culture often leaves people — especially parents, grieving people, and those outside the “norm” — to navigate life alone. This episode is a reflection on:  — healing beyond individualism  — grief and emotional processing  — masculinity and deconstructing patriarchy  — parenting and communal care  — body awareness and aging  — human connection and belonging  — the importance of community support systems If this conversation resonates with you, please consider:  • subscribing to the channel  • sharing the episode with someone you love  • leaving a review on Apple Podcasts  • commenting on Spotify or Patreon  • joining the Woven Patreon community for deeper conversations and reflections Thank you for being part of Woven. To contact Tom, IG - Tompo27777 or HRVirtualGuide #WovenPodcast #SomaticHealing #Grief #CommunityCare #Masculinity #HealingJourney #BodyWisdom #Parenting #Embodiment #MentalHealth Be sure to follow me: ​Patreon​: @SolefulSara ​YouTube​ @SolefulSara ​Substack​ @solefulSara ​Instagram​ @soleful_circles.stl ​Instagram Podcast​ @woven_soft.edges.deep.roots ​TikTok​ @sarasole88

    1h 17m
  2. Jun 11

    Episode 16: Karla & Michelle

    In this episode, I’m joined by Karla and Michelle for a deeply meaningful conversation on Mother Circle facilitation, with a focus on supporting adoptive mothers. Together, we explore how Mother Circle offers something different than traditional mental health or support spaces—moving away from pathologizing and toward community, normalization, and being deeply held in shared experience. Karla and Michelle co-facilitate an adoption-specific Mother Circle, and in this conversation, they speak to the unique and often unspoken realities adoptive mothers navigate: The absence of a clear “threshold” into motherhoodThe weight of external expectations and quiet judgmentsThe layered responsibility toward both their children and birth familiesThe complexity of identity, belonging, and careWe also explore the five pillars of postpartum support— nature, wise community, nourishing food, extended rest, and loving touch— and how these pillars take on new meaning within adoptive motherhood. This conversation gently challenges the idea that mothers are meant to do this alone, and instead invites us into a more communal, interdependent way of caring for ourselves and each other. Mother Circle becomes a space where mothers don’t have to explain themselves— where they can reconnect with their own mother lines, define their unique paths, and be supported in the fullness of their experience. If you’re an adoptive mother, part of an adoption story, or simply curious about reimagining support in motherhood, this conversation offers a deeply human place to begin. Learn more about the adoption-specific Mother Circle: mothercircleadoption.com Be sure to follow me: ​Patreon​: @SolefulSara ​YouTube​ @SolefulSara ​Substack​ @solefulSara ​Instagram​ @soleful_circles.stl ​Instagram Podcast​ @woven_soft.edges.deep.roots ​TikTok​ @sarasole88

    55 min
  3. Apr 9

    Woven Episode 14 Brittanie Zwart

    Intuition, Systems & Reparenting Ourselves | Healing Beyond the Individual What if your intuition isn’t just personal — but political? In this episode, Sara sits down with Brittanie (therapist, long-time friend, and fellow systems-thinker) for a layered conversation about healing, intuition, and the systems that shape both. We explore: Why healing spaces can feel inaccessibleIntuition — and how systemic oppression shapes what feels “true”The political nature of somatic and body-based workCaregiving vs. caretaking (especially in the sandwich generation)How capitalism turns connection into transactionsTelehealth vs. in-person therapy — what actually predicts effectivenessReparenting and breaking intergenerational patternsGenerational trauma and emotional maturityWhy therapy outcomes hinge on safety and relationshipWe also discuss a future deep dive into Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay C. Gibson — and how emotional immaturity echoes through systems, families, and culture. This conversation weaves together personal stories (ADHD, motherhood, burnout, career calling) with larger questions: Are systems the problem?  Or are they also the solution? If you’re curious about reparenting, collective healing, intuition, attachment, or the intersection of therapy and culture — this is just the beginning. To connect with Brittanie:  www.brittaniezwart.com  BGZ Therapy LLC on FB Be sure to follow me: ​Patreon​: @SolefulSara ​YouTube​ @SolefulSara ​Substack​ @solefulSara ​Instagram​ @soleful_circles.stl ​Instagram Podcast​ @woven_soft.edges.deep.roots ​TikTok​ @sarasole88

    1 hr
  4. Mar 26

    Woven Episode 13 Ashley Shears

    Breath Care, Barefoot Massage & Nervous System Regulation | With Ashley Shears  What happens when two barefoot massage therapists start talking about language, breath, and the nervous system? This episode is a deep, nuanced conversation about: Myofascial ashiatsu barefoot massageNervous system regulation beyond trendy buzzwordsWhy we’re shifting from “breathwork” to breath careThe power of precise language (pain vs. discomfort)Interoception and learning to describe sensationBridging relaxation massage and clinical practiceChronic stress and simple, sustainable regulation practicesWhy intake forms are relational tools — not paperworkAshley shares how she blends spa and clinical massage approaches in California, integrating breath awareness and barefoot myofascial techniques to regulate the nervous system while delivering deeply effective bodywork. We unpack why language matters — how the word work changes a client’s experience, and why “breath care” creates a different somatic invitation than “breathwork.” We also talk about the current wave of nervous system trends — vagus nerve gadgets, fight-or-flight simplifications — and why real healing is less about products and more about education, interoception, and accessible daily tools. Plus:  Ashley shares about her upcoming self-care classes and sound baths  If you’re a massage therapist, bodyworker, clinician, or human navigating chronic stress — this one is for you. Be sure to follow me: ​Patreon​: @SolefulSara ​YouTube​ @SolefulSara ​Substack​ @solefulSara ​Instagram​ @soleful_circles.stl ​Instagram Podcast​ @woven_soft.edges.deep.roots ​TikTok​ @sarasole88

    52 min
  5. Mar 12

    Woven: Episode 12 Rachel Wolff

    This episode is tender, unfiltered, and very real. We're recording live from St. Louis after attending a celebration of life for a dear friend. There's been crying and eating cookies for breakfast. Feeling puffy. Not sleeping. Processing grief in the moment and letting the body do exactly what it needs to do. We talk about: Why crying makes your face swell (and why that might be wise)The difference between funerals and celebrations of lifeHow ritual anchors grief in the bodyAmbiguous and abstract lossWhy we need community to metabolize deathDia de los Muertos and what it teaches us about joy, remembrance, and cultureInviting the dead into our lives instead of pretending they’re goneOxytocin vs. dopamine (and why women especially need connection over consumption)Grief massage and touch as ritualWe reference the teachings of Stephen Jenkinson on grief and dying, and Perdita Finn, author of Take Back the Magic, who writes about inviting the dead into prayer and daily life. This conversation moves from marshmallow cry-face to death literacy to flower crown crafting as grief ritual. It’s honest. It’s embodied. It’s about remembering our people out loud. If you’re grieving—recently or abstractly—this one is for you. Be sure to follow me: ​Patreon​: @SolefulSara ​YouTube​ @SolefulSara ​Substack​ @solefulSara ​Instagram​ @soleful_circles.stl ​Instagram Podcast​ @woven_soft.edges.deep.roots ​TikTok​ @sarasole88

    44 min
  6. Feb 12

    Woven: Episode 10 Savannah McDonald

    Sara and Savannah explore the changing world of nonprofit fundraising and the delicate balance between donor-centric and community-centric approaches. They discuss the growing role of platforms like Patreon and how they’re reshaping people’s motivations for giving—moving beyond tax benefits into values-driven, relationship-based support. This episode also looks deeply at ethical marketing in healing spaces, examining the discomfort of emotional appeals and the importance of honest, compassionate communication about suffering and transformation. The conversation widens into the influence of social media algorithms, digital overstimulation, and how these constant inputs impact our bodies and our sense of connection. Sara and Savannah reflect on intentional engagement, community support models, and the shift toward sustainable, people-powered philanthropy. They then turn toward animal welfare, exploring low-barrier adoption models, trust in community, and reducing shame around animal returns. Through personal stories and grounded reflection, they highlight the need for flexibility, compassion, and openness in the adoption process. Throughout the episode, Sara and Savannah return to the heart of it all: Human connection matters. Community matters. Trust matters. This episode is for anyone navigating fundraising, ethical marketing, digital overwhelm, community-supported work, or compassionate animal adoption practices. Be sure to follow me: ​Patreon​: @SolefulSara ​YouTube​ @SolefulSara ​Substack​ @solefulSara ​Instagram​ @soleful_circles.stl ​Instagram Podcast​ @woven_soft.edges.deep.roots ​TikTok​ @sarasole88 Be sure to follow me: ​Patreon​: @SolefulSara ​YouTube​ @SolefulSara ​Substack​ @solefulSara ​Instagram​ @soleful_circles.stl ​Instagram Podcast​ @woven_soft.edges.deep.roots ​TikTok​ @sarasole88

    59 min

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Welcome to Woven: Soft Edges. Deep Roots. A podcast exploring the interconnection of bodies, culture, and transformation.Here, we honor the wisdom held in the body, the stories etched into our tissues, and the ways we are shaped—and shape—culture through care, connection, and courageous softness.Together, we’ll lean into the edges of healing, justice, and possibility.Because transformation doesn’t start in te mind—it starts in the body, and it ripples outward.This is a space to remember what’s already within you. Let’s see what we can weave together. .