Wrenching

Eddie Gastelum
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Wrenching is about working on yourself, turning that low self feeling into that confidence you should have! Our goal is to cover the topics you might not want to have with yourself or others to help you grow as a person or in your relationships. Just like a seized bolt eventually you to eventually loosen to fix the broken pieces keeping you from getting back on the road! I hope you enjoy the powerful and encouraging messages we will be sharing! Please leave us a review or comment and let us know on what platform you are listening on!

  1. May 22

    The Hidden Poison Behind Unforgiveness

    Unforgiveness doesn’t just affect the person who hurt you—it slowly affects you too.In this episode, I talk about the hidden damage that unforgiveness can cause mentally, spiritually, emotionally, and even physically. I break down why forgiveness is so difficult, where unforgiveness often roots from, and how trauma can quietly keep us tied to bitterness without us even realizing it.I also talk about how unforgiveness slowly changes your character over time. Small moments of anger, resentment, pride, or bitterness can begin shaping the way you respond to people and situations. What starts as one unresolved hurt can eventually affect friendships, relationships, trust, patience, humility, and even the way you view other people.Sometimes the damage of unforgiveness isn’t obvious at first—it builds quietly until it becomes part of your mindset and personality. Then the same patterns begin repeating themselves in future relationships because the root issue was never healed.I also touch on the biblical side of forgiveness—why we’re called to forgive, what happens when we don’t, and why forgiveness is more about freedom than weakness.This episode is about healing, character, self-awareness, and learning how to move forward without allowing bitterness to define who you become.

    39 min

  2. May 14

    Losing A Good Thing In Life...Why It Happens

    Some losses in life don’t happen because something was bad. Sometimes we lose things that were genuinely good—but they were still outside of what God was asking from us.In this episode, I talk about losing one of the best relationships I’ve ever had and the realization that came with it. From the outside, everything looked right. To us and to everyone around us, it felt real, committed, and almost like marriage already. But deep down, I knew I wasn’t fully willing to step into what God was asking me to do.This episode is about the tension between what feels good, what looks good, and what is actually aligned with God’s will for your life.I also talk about how sometimes we hold onto things because they bring comfort, stability, or identity—even when we know we’re being called into something deeper.This isn’t just a relationship episode. It’s about obedience, timing, attachment, and the difficult lessons that come when life forces you to let go of something you truly cared about.

    26 min

  3. Apr 18

    The Power of The Incubation Effect

    In this episode, I break down the incubation effect—why stepping away from a problem can actually be the thing that helps you solve it. We’re wired to believe that more effort equals better results, but that’s not always true. Sometimes the best move isn’t to push harder—it’s to step back and let your mind process in the background. I talk about how the incubation effect works, why it’s powerful, and how you can use it intentionally when you feel stuck on a project, in your work, or even in your personal growth. If you’ve ever hit a wall and felt like forcing it wasn’t working, this episode will give you a different way to approach it—and potentially get better results with less friction.

    34 min

  4. Mar 30

    Small Beginnings: Why Most People Quit Early

    In this episode, I break down what it really looks like to start from nothing—and why most people never make it past the beginning.I talk about the early stages of building something for yourself, whether that’s a business, content, a brand, or a skill, and the reality of hitting that first major obstacle. The point where motivation fades, things get hard, and quitting starts to feel justified.I share personal experiences—from YouTube channels and business ideas I gave up on, to the few things I didn’t quit, like trading, working on cars, and now content creation. The difference wasn’t talent or timing—it was the decision to keep going when it stopped being easy.If you’re in that phase right now where things aren’t growing, nothing feels like it’s working, and you’re questioning whether to keep going, this episode is for you.Because the truth is:Everyone starts small—but not everyone pushes through what comes next.Goal Templateshttps://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1MnkTz5KpkhOmRsf-XII1azLzg-eLbVln?usp=drive_link

    28 min

  5. Mar 16

    Master Your Self Image

    In this episode, I talk about one of the most important things you can take control of in your life: your self-image.The way you see yourself shapes how you act, how you carry yourself, and ultimately how other people treat you. If you don’t define the person you want to become, the world will define it for you.I break down why it’s important to create a clear vision of who you want to be, how to start projecting that identity into the world, and why your character has to match the image you’re building. The goal isn’t to fake an identity—it’s to build a version of yourself that you’re proud of and then grow into it.Your self-image determines the standards you live by, the relationships you attract, and the opportunities that come your way. Mastering it can change the direction of your entire life.

    27 min

  6. Mar 4

    The Purpose In Every Season

    We all go through seasons in life — seasons of growth, waiting, discipline, loss, or preparation.But just because a season has a theme doesn’t mean every moment inside it will follow that theme. In this episode, I talk about how seasons often contain interruptions — moments that feel out of place, frustrating, or confusing — and how those moments are usually where the greater lessons are learned. Sometimes the lesson isn’t aligned with what we expected the season to be about, but it’s exactly what we needed to move forward. This episode is about learning to recognize what a season is teaching you, even when things don’t go according to plan, and understanding that growth doesn’t always look consistent — but it’s always intentional.

    30 min

  7. Feb 15

    Patience Is Steady Progression

    Patience is often misunderstood.It’s not about stopping, pausing your life, or waiting for things to magically change. In this episode, I break down what patience actually looks like in real life —staying steady in the direction you’ve chosen, continuing to move forward without forcing outcomes, and learning how growth happens when you don’t quit, rush, or panic. I talk about: What patience really is (and what it isn’t) The lessons you only learn while being patient The challenges patience brings and how they shape you Why patience requires discipline, clarity, and trust in the process If you’re in a season where progress feels slow but quitting isn’t an option, this episode is for you.

    30 min

  8. Feb 4

    Running Out of Time — or Just Misusing It?

    Sometimes it feels like we’re running out of time.Other times it feels like we’re running out of money. But more often than not, we’re not actually out of either — we’re just managing them poorly. In this episode, I talk about how constant hustle, misallocated effort, and throwing everything we have at growth can actually cost us progress instead of creating it. We break down why stopping to reassess, optimize, and restructure how you use your time and resources can give you more freedom — not less. This conversation is about stepping out of the vicious cycle of nonstop work, burnout, and resource drain, and learning how to build forward without sacrificing every part of your day. Growth doesn’t require chaos.It requires clarity.

    23 min
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Wrenching is about working on yourself, turning that low self feeling into that confidence you should have! Our goal is to cover the topics you might not want to have with yourself or others to help you grow as a person or in your relationships. Just like a seized bolt eventually you to eventually loosen to fix the broken pieces keeping you from getting back on the road! I hope you enjoy the powerful and encouraging messages we will be sharing! Please leave us a review or comment and let us know on what platform you are listening on!

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  • Creator
    Eddie Gastelum
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    20
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Eddie Gastelum
  • Show Website
    Wrenching