X Why Explained

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Truth. Understanding. Freedom. X Why Explained turns the lights on for men who know that something is not right, who can’t understand their behaviour and feel trapped in fractional sexual addiction, suffocated by shame, isolated and confused. This podcast will help restore dignity and purity to help to make you a better, healthier man. Please feel free to contact the host with any questions, comments or other feedback you may have via email at xwhyexplained@gmail.com

  1. 5D AGO

    #32 A Curiousity to Me

    This episode of X Why Explained sees host David read from his novel, Love Sick Love, discussing how discovering his father's pornography at age 11 sparked a harmful curiosity and sexual shame, contributing to viewing women as objects. He connects this early exposure and subsequent emotional turmoil to the escalation of addiction and sexual violence (citing Australian statistics). Finally, he addresses the argument against God's existence due to suffering, offering "free will" and the "purposefulness of suffering" as complex, partial explanations.   A Porn Recovery Program - The Freedom Fight https://thefreedomfight.org/about/   Podcasts I'm listening to these days. Today on Radio with Dr Charles Stanley Undeceptions The Unplayable podcast (cricket) The Point of Purity (The Purity Coach) Pure Desire (Pure Desire Ministries) Christian Podcast for Men (Real Men Connect)

    15 min

  2. 12/12/2025

    #31 It Makes me shudder

    In this episode, David reads from Love Sick Love to analyze addiction’s emotional warning signs. He addresses the "stupidity" of self-delusion and strongly rejects modern inclusivity regarding gender and sexuality. Citing statistics on image-based abuse, he argues that pornography consumption directly fuels exploitation. He urges men to reject these norms, stop contributing to abuse, and seek recovery.   A Porn Recovery Program - The Freedom Fight https://thefreedomfight.org/about/   Podcasts I'm listening to these days. Today on Radio with Dr Charles Stanley Undeceptions The Unplayable podcast (cricket) The Point of Purity (The Purity Coach) Pure Desire (Pure Desire Ministries) Christian Podcast for Men (Real Men Connect)

    21 min

  3. 11/28/2025

    #30 Lustance

    Host David reads from his novel, Love Sick Love, to explore complex male behavior. He coins "Lustance," describing the confusing mix of lust and romance, and warns that willpower alone fails against sexual addiction, urging men to seek help instead of surrendering. He cautions against "fighting to the conclusion" in harmful pursuits, stressing that determination is only admirable if the goal doesn't cause broken hearts and fractured relationships. He calls for men to step up and be better. He highlights the difference between destructive worldly sorrow and godly sorrow which leads to repentance. Drawing on therapy and scripture, he explains how acknowledging shame can drive positive change, encouraging other men to seek freedom from addiction and secrets by walking in the light. Podcasts I'm listening to these days. Today on Radio with Dr Charles Stanley Undeceptions The Unplayable podcast (cricket) The Point of Purity (The Purity Coach) Pure Desire (Pure Desire Ministries) Christian Podcast for Men (Real Men Connect)

    19 min

  4. 11/14/2025

    #29 Buried under Shame

    Host David discusses courage, defining it as acting despite fear, and shares his experience using vulnerability to overcome shame related to past sexual misconduct. He highlights the difference between destructive worldly sorrow and godly sorrow which leads to repentance. Drawing on therapy and scripture, he explains how acknowledging shame can drive positive change, encouraging other men to seek freedom from addiction and secrets by walking in the light. Podcasts I'm listening to these days. Today on Radio with Dr Charles Stanley Undeceptions The Unplayable podcast (cricket) The Point of Purity (The Purity Coach) Pure Desire (Pure Desire Ministries) Christian Podcast for Men (Real Men Connect)

    13 min

  5. 10/31/2025

    #28 Can we part as friends?

    In "X Why Explained #28," David explores why it's tough to remain friends with an ex, stating that sex creates a bond. He then argues that expectations are the root of relationship problems, urging men to communicate their needs and listen to their partner's. Finally, while leaving a marriage may be necessary, he challenges listeners to consider if they've truly done everything to reconcile first.

    20 sec

  6. 10/18/2025

    #27 Easy as That

    When conflict arises, it's easy to let arguments escalate, but exhibiting self-control means putting the "fire" out immediately. People can feel invisible and ignored, but we shouldn't intentionally choose the darkness of hiding; instead, choose the light and "see" others. Lastly, using euphemisms like a "dalliance" to minimize a wrong like cheating is simply being dishonest.

    16 min

  7. 10/03/2025

    #26 I'm Bored Again

    Host David dissects the flimsy excuse of "I’m Bored Again" for bad online behavior, then discusses webcam models, urging men to view them as someone's daughter to break the cycle of objectification. He critiques the materialistic view of people as just "potential clients" based on utility. Finally, he addresses the shame of addiction, likening it to a "dog returning to its vomit" (Proverbs 26:11), offering Romans 8:1 as the Christian antidote to self-condemnation. The overall goal is to induce sorrow deep enough to lead to recovery.

    18 min

  8. 09/20/2025

    #25 Your thoughts are locked up inside your head

    In the podcast episode "X Why Explained #25," host David's core message is about the importance of communication. He argues that bottling up thoughts is harmful and that sharing them, even if difficult, is crucial. He also addresses emotional manipulation, suggesting men need a strategy to handle it. A key piece of advice is for couples to write down and discuss their expectations, which he sees as the root of many marital problems. The episode concludes by noting that relationships don't fail overnight; they experience a "slow fade."

    21 min
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Truth. Understanding. Freedom. X Why Explained turns the lights on for men who know that something is not right, who can’t understand their behaviour and feel trapped in fractional sexual addiction, suffocated by shame, isolated and confused. This podcast will help restore dignity and purity to help to make you a better, healthier man. Please feel free to contact the host with any questions, comments or other feedback you may have via email at xwhyexplained@gmail.com

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  • Creator
    authordacairns
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    32
  • Rating
    Clean
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