50 episodes

Want a peek inside the world of kink from those who know it best? Longtime BDSM lifestylers and professionals Ian Rath and Aiden Starr host this intimate, sexy and entertaining show that is perfect for viewers of any level or experience in kink. Using eXtreme Restraints props, toys and tech, they show you the newest toys to play with and invite sexy guests to try them out and share their unique and very explicit experience with them. You can enjoy the show via our podcast or on your computer screen at home whenever and wherever you like. Curious about bondage but find it intimidating? Want to try anal but not sure where to start? Uncertain about how to negotiate a scene as a submissive or a Dominant? Conversations between Ian and Aiden are not only fun to listen to, they’re easy to understand and perfect for people from all walks of life who are interested in enhancing their sex life. Tune and enjoy as XR University brings the best in basic BDSM, kink and fetish education right to your car, living room or bedroom. With XRU, you’re on the couch with us!

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    • Health & Fitness
    • 4.3 • 128 Ratings

Want a peek inside the world of kink from those who know it best? Longtime BDSM lifestylers and professionals Ian Rath and Aiden Starr host this intimate, sexy and entertaining show that is perfect for viewers of any level or experience in kink. Using eXtreme Restraints props, toys and tech, they show you the newest toys to play with and invite sexy guests to try them out and share their unique and very explicit experience with them. You can enjoy the show via our podcast or on your computer screen at home whenever and wherever you like. Curious about bondage but find it intimidating? Want to try anal but not sure where to start? Uncertain about how to negotiate a scene as a submissive or a Dominant? Conversations between Ian and Aiden are not only fun to listen to, they’re easy to understand and perfect for people from all walks of life who are interested in enhancing their sex life. Tune and enjoy as XR University brings the best in basic BDSM, kink and fetish education right to your car, living room or bedroom. With XRU, you’re on the couch with us!

    Kink and Disability

    Kink and Disability

    With over 25% of the population identifying as disabled, knowing how to adjust for neutral positions that aren't painful and still let everyone feel sexy, empowered and feel pleasure is important. Our illustrious hosts Aiden Starr and Ian Rath invite an exciting new guest, Rachel, who lets us take a look inside the world of enjoying your body as a kinky, disabled person

    • 34 min
    Play & Pleasure with Zariah Aura

    Play & Pleasure with Zariah Aura

    In this episode of XR University, hosts Ian Rath and Aiden Starr invite Zariah Aura, a gorgeous trans woman, to share how she uses sex toys to enhance her own pleasure and fully enjoy her body!

    • 22 min
    Roleplay with Charlotte Sins

    Roleplay with Charlotte Sins

    Fantasize about role play scenes? Want to be a kinky animal? Enjoy the idea of "breeding" fantasies? On this episode of XR University, we get into our favorite part of BDSM, the element of having fun and playing! Everyone has a fantasy. How do we talk about it and bring it into the bedroom? Our hosts Aiden Starr, Ian Rath and their guest Charlotte Sins dive into the psychology of role play and show us some of the toys that are great tools to make it happen!



    Learn about how role play allows us to become someone or something else in order to let go of our identity/ego and be liberated from any embarrassment we have about being a slut, being kinky or acting out scenes! Having a sense of humor may be required: new scenes and new roles can be awkward, silly or strange. Just let yourself break character, reset, reconnect and keep playing if you're both still into it! Not everyone is going to express their puppy, pig, Dominant or submissive side the same way; there's no handbook, just lots of options to be creative and work the biggest sex organ in the body (the brain)! Our hosts also help the audience navigate the conversation around talking to your partner and introducing role play. After all, there's a first time for everyone!



    If you're listening to this via podcast, be sure to tune in to the second half to watch Charlotte enjoy some of our favorite toys and give us a fantastic show dressed as a very sexy, slutty demon enjoying being bred by one of our hot, demon cocks!

    • 28 min
    Building a Dungeon (Sex Room) with Casey Calvert

    Building a Dungeon (Sex Room) with Casey Calvert

    Ready to turn a section of our house into a play space? Join Ian, Aiden, and special guest Casey Calvert as they discuss how to build a dungeon (or simple sex room). They'll go into pieces, both large and small, that could make any space a personal playground.

    • 27 min
    Bondage Gear with Destiny Cruz

    Bondage Gear with Destiny Cruz

    XR University buckles in for a popular topic: bondage gear. The hosts are joined by Destiny Cruz to discuss the headspace of bondage play.

    • 26 min
    Corporal Punishment with Daddy An Li & Elori

    Corporal Punishment with Daddy An Li & Elori

    In this episode of Extreme Restraints University, guests Daddy An Li and Elori join Ian Rath and Aiden Starr to teach and talk about Impact Play and Corporal Punishment!



    You can enjoy Aiden, Ian, Elori or An Li nerding out about the science of beating up the body with different toys and enjoy the combined experience and wisdom from all four of them.

    • 34 min

Customer Reviews

4.3 out of 5
128 Ratings

128 Ratings

Mainah1! ,

Second half?

Love the show! What happened to the second half of the shows?

HilaryPorter ,

Judgmental, Opinionated, Poor Excuse For “Education”

I’m honestly just really disappointed in this podcast. I wanted to like it, but after listening to just their most recent episode, on roleplay, I was immediately turned off. While they purport themselves to be an educational podcast on all things BDSM, what immediately turned me off was one speaker’s constant shaming of monogamy. While I am polyamorous myself, and I wholeheartedly agree that the vast majority of folks who live a monogamous lifestyle do so for the wrong reasons (societal expectations, religious beliefs, jealousy, etc), monogamy itself is not wrong. Yes, most people don’t actively CHOOSE monogamy because they think that’s the right relationship structure for them, the concept in and of itself is not WRONG. We as polyamorous people, and we as kinksters have been shamed for our lifestyle choices for eons. For that very reason, we as a community need to help promote acceptance, not promote shame and judgment. I don’t know what the girl’s name is, but she acts extremely immature and I don’t like the shame that she promotes. Won’t be listening to this podcast again.

P.S.III ,

Absolutely fantastic podcast!!!

Lots and lots of information, and lots of hot steamy play!

The only thing I could ask for would be links to the toys used in each episode.

Enjoy!

Addendum: the only thing I would ask is for the addition of links to the various implements used.

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