You Are the Answer

Naomi Mills
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"You are the Answer" is a podcast about returning to your body, regulating your nervous system and remembering your own inner wisdom. Each episode blends storytelling, science and spirituality to help you feel calmer, more connected and more empowered in your everyday life.

  1. 4D AGO

    What Are We Really Seeking When We Pick Up A Screen?

    Your screen time might not be a bad habit at all. It might be your nervous system trying to solve a real problem the fastest way it knows how. I’m Naomi Mills, chiropractor and host of You Are the Answer, and I’m inviting you to look at scrolling, gaming, and constant checking through the body’s wiring rather than through shame, guilt, or “just try harder” discipline.  We talk about what happens when your baseline stress response sits a little too high for a little too long. In that low-level fight or flight state, your brain craves both relief and stimulation, and screens deliver both on demand. We unpack dopamine, unpredictability, notifications, and why the next video, message, or like can feel irresistible even when it doesn’t genuinely make you feel good. This nervous system regulation perspective also explains why focus can feel harder offline, because real life isn’t designed around constant rewards.  If you’re a parent, we go deeper into why teens struggle more with smartphones and social media. The teenage brain’s reward and emotional centres develop earlier than the logical centres that support impulse control, and the prefrontal cortex keeps developing into the mid twenties. That doesn’t mean your child is weak or difficult. It means the environment matters, and the support needs to match their stage of development.  We finish with a practical shift that changes everything: regulation versus distraction. You’ll leave with kinder questions to ask yourself or your young person, plus real-world ideas that meet the underlying needs for safety, connection, soothing, and healthy stimulation. If this resonated, subscribe, share with someone you care about, and leave a review so more people can find their way back to their body. You can order your nervous system reset deck via my website: Products | You are the answer

    17 min

  2. MAY 14

    What Is Your Phone REALLY Doing To Your Nervous System?

    Your phone isn’t just a tool in your hand, it can become the background environment your nervous system lives in. When that environment is filled with constant input, rapid topic switching, comparison, and fear-based headlines, your body can stay slightly on alert all day long and we end up calling it a “mindset problem”. I want to take the shame out of that and bring it back to something more honest and more workable: regulation starts in the body, not in perfect thoughts.  We talk about why modern screen time can leave you feeling tired but wired, why scrolling before bed or first thing in the morning primes your stress response, and how clickbait and negativity hook into survival wiring that doesn’t always know what is relevant to your real life. I also share the dopamine layer of social media and novelty, why stillness can feel oddly uncomfortable over time, and why even curated images can land in the body as a subtle signal of “I’m behind”.  Rather than pushing discipline or deleting everything, we explore a gentler, more sustainable path: creating space. Small pauses like a phone-free start to the day, a short walk without input, waiting in a queue without scrolling, or keeping your phone out of the bedroom can give your nervous system the gap it needs to settle. When your body softens, your thoughts often shift on their own.  If this resonates, listen, share it with someone you care about, and leave a review. Subscribe so you don’t miss next week, and tell me what you notice when you add a little more space to your day.

    14 min

  3. MAY 7

    4 Cultural Myths About Mindset

    Four phrases get repeated like gospel in self-help culture: “fake it till you make it”, “no pain, no gain”, “everything happens for a reason”, and “just think positive”. I’m not here to mock them, because each one holds a kernel of truth. I am here to slow them down and ask the missing question: what is your nervous system doing while you’re trying to live by that slogan? When we’re in fight or flight, advice that relies on controlling thoughts can feel impossible. That doesn’t mean you’re failing, it means your body is trying to protect you. We explore why confidence built on pretending can deepen disconnection, how growth requires discomfort but not pain, and why rushing to find meaning after a painful event can invalidate real emotion. We also name the subtle harm of toxic positivity, especially when we use it on ourselves, and why you can’t think your way out of a body that feels unsafe. You’ll leave with a calmer, more practical model for mindset: regulate first, then reframe. I share grounded nervous system regulation tools like gentle stretching of your comfort zone, integrating emotions through the body, journalling, movement, and a simple three-breath reset you can do anywhere. If this helped you, subscribe, share it with someone you care about, and leave a review so more people can find their way back to safety in their body.

    17 min

  4. APR 30

    What If The World Is Not The Trigger

    Projection can make you certain you’re reacting to someone else, when you’re actually meeting your own fear, anger, or unmet need. I’m Naomi Mills, and I’m taking you into a moment from my firewalker instructor training where a trust fall goes wrong, the group panics, and one person’s distress gets pointed at the “obvious” problem. It becomes a clear mirror for how quickly our minds decide what something means and how fast our bodies follow. From there, I unpack projection in everyday life and in group healing spaces, where witnessing someone else’s release can stir up material we didn’t expect. I share the fable of the monk bumped by an “offending” boat that turns out to be empty, and we use it as a practical way to spot when a trigger is really an internal signal. When we miss that, the nervous system stays on guard, sleep and mood suffer, and we end up trying to control what was never ours to control. To bring things back to the ground, I walk you through the circle of control: what you control, what you can influence, and what is genuinely outside your reach. We talk nervous system regulation and simple self-care that actually supports resilience, from food and movement to meditation, nature, bodywork, and time with the people who steady you. I close with an embodiment prompt from my nervous system reset cards: healing starts when you notice, not when you fix. If this lands, subscribe, share the episode with someone you care about, and leave a review so more people can find their way back to their body.

    16 min

  5. APR 23

    Rethinking Productivity

    Productivity sounds like a compliment until you notice what it is taking from you. I am Naomi Mills, chiropractor and healthcare professional, and I want to ask a sharper question than “What have you done today?”: is your health paying the price for your productivity? We start with a simple story about a fisherman and a businessman that exposes a modern mindset trap: working harder and harder to earn a future you can enjoy, while your nervous system struggles to cope in the present. I share how running a busy family chiropractic practice looked successful from the outside, but came with warning signs in my body, from sleep and mood to skin, digestion, and the constant feeling of pressure. When we do not pause to reflect, we can normalise stress and miss the cost until it becomes burnout. From there, we get practical. We talk about clues that you are overriding your needs, including numbing behaviours like scrolling, shopping, comfort eating, and filling every quiet moment because “just being” feels uncomfortable. I explain why living in fight or flight blocks the thriving work your body wants to do, including repair, resilience, and long-term wellbeing. You will also hear about simple resources on my website to help you spot signs of nervous system overwhelm. My favourite takeaway is a tool called ‘Your Many Hats’, a quick way to reveal the invisible work you are carrying and decide what to keep, what to drop, and what to outsource. Less doing is not laziness. It can be the most effective health strategy you make. If this resonates, subscribe, share the show with someone you care about, and leave a review so more people can find their way back to their body too.

    15 min

  6. APR 16

    Boundaries As Medicine

    Today I’m making the case that boundaries are not a personality preference, they’re medicine. When we say "yes" while our body feels tight or heavy, we override the very signals designed to keep us well. That pattern doesn’t stay “mental” for long; it shows up in sleep, digestion, hormones, mood, and the way we move through our relationships. We talk about the hidden link between people pleasing and stress, and why being seen as a “good person” often gets tangled up with self-abandonment. I lean on a powerful idea from Glennon Doyle’s Untamed: your job is to disappoint everybody else before you disappoint yourself, and what that means in real life when you still want to be kind. We also look at the cultural conditioning that rewards overwork, especially in corporate environments, and how that training makes it harder to say no even when you’re running on empty. You’ll leave with a simple three-step practice: pause before you answer, feel what yes and no do in your body, then deliver the response your nervous system is asking for. I share language you can use in the moment, why parasympathetic “safe state” matters, and a brilliant litmus test: if you can’t say yes with the joy of a small child feeding a duck, it’s a no. If this resonates, subscribe, share with someone you care about, and leave a review so more people can find their way back to their body.

    16 min

  7. APR 9

    Why I HATE "Keep Calm And Carry On"

    “Keep calm and carry on” can sound like strength, but what happens when your body never gets the second half of the story: the part where you finally get to feel, process, and come back to safety? I’m Naomi Mills, chiropractor and healthcare professional, and I’m exploring how this deeply British mindset can quietly train us to ignore signals, delay support, and stay functional at the expense of our nervous system health. I share one of the most painful moments of my life when I carried on too soon after losing my mum, and why that choice shaped my healing for years. From there, I tease apart the nuance: sometimes it truly is wise to hold it together in the moment, especially when circumstances or responsibilities demand it. The harm comes from the silent add-on many of us live by: carry on forever. That’s when unprocessed stress and emotion can get stuck in the body, keeping you in fight, flight or freeze, disrupting sleep, digestion, and your ability to feel at ease in your own skin. We also talk about practical somatic healing ideas that help the stress cycle complete, including the power of shaking, reflection, and journalling. If you’ve ever been told you’re “so strong” while privately thinking you’re not fine, this will land. Subscribe, share with someone who needs it, and leave a review so more people can find their way back to trusting their body.

    15 min
  8. From Overthinking To Embodiment: How Consistency Rewires Your Nervous System

    APR 2

    From Overthinking To Embodiment: How Consistency Rewires Your Nervous System

    Today we celebrate being 20 weeks into the podcast! Now feels like the right time to zoom out on the embodiment arc and reveal a pattern many of us miss: lasting change is built from small, repeated acts that teach the body it is safe. We unpack why starting before you feel ready matters, how consistency beats quick fixes, and what it takes to move from overthinking into grounded action. Along the way, Naomi shares candid lessons from practice and personal life, tying together body-brain connection, breathwork, and the lived experience that rewires a nervous system over time. We explore how safety is often a sensation rather than a story, and why listening to signals like breath, tension, gut instinct, and energy levels is smarter than muscling through them. You’ll hear how firewalking and other challenges can update your brain’s map of “what’s possible,” what a healing crisis really means, and ways to ride the curve with connected breathing, posture shifts, and gentle movement. This is not mindfulness as an idea; it’s regulation as a skill, built through repeatable steps that widen the gap between trigger and response so choice can enter. We also look at the biology: chronic stress chemistry accelerates ageing, disrupts immunity, and rattles hormones. By creating felt safety from the inside out, you influence inflammation, recovery, and resilience in practical ways you can feel. Self-care stops being indulgence and becomes maintenance—like servicing a car—so your body remains a friendlier place to be. We close by protecting what you cultivate with boundaries and previewing our next arc, where we pivot from body to brain and challenge the mantra “keep calm and carry on.” Subscribe, share with someone who needs this reframe, and leave a review to help others find their way back to their body.

    15 min
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"You are the Answer" is a podcast about returning to your body, regulating your nervous system and remembering your own inner wisdom. Each episode blends storytelling, science and spirituality to help you feel calmer, more connected and more empowered in your everyday life.

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  • Creator
    Naomi Mills
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    28
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026 You Are the Answer
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