You Are the Magic

Sarah Breshears

Women are trained contortionists from birth. We learn how to hide parts of ourselves to survive. I have spent most of my life being a little too much and a little too deep for the rooms I was in. Sensitive. Intuitive. Intense. The kind of person who felt everything and learned early how to hide it so I could function, belong, and be taken seriously. Like most people, I got really good at wearing the mask. I built the life. I checked the boxes. And still felt like something essential was tucked away. After too mean years of hiding my truth, I realized that I created the magic by being who I am and sharing what I know to be true. I stopped trying to become the right version of myself and started listening to the real one. The woo, honest, "werid" one. The one I spent years managing and masking instead of trusting. You Are the Magic is where we talk about the magic of each human you'll meet, taking off the facade, and remembering the truth most of us were never taught to believe... You are not weird, too much, too little, or any other lie the world has sold you. You are the magic. And you always have been. YouAretheMagicPodcast.com Instagram.com/bcsarahsaidso

  1. 6d ago

    ADHD, Private Practice, and a Little Magic

    Jena Castro-Casbon built her career helping speech-language pathologists and occupational therapists start private practices, and she's done it as an introvert with a late-recognized ADHD diagnosis who would rather batch-record video than go to a party. In this episode we get into how she went from wanting to be an FBI agent to becoming the go-to resource for an entire profession, what changed when she stopped seeing her ADHD as a set of flaws, and why building a business is really about building a life that fits. KEY TOPICS How Jena started her private practice on the side at 26, back when nobody was telling clinicians that was even an optionThe "F words" behind why people start private practices: freedom, flexibility, fulfillment, and financesReframing a late ADHD diagnosis, and the visionary-and-integrator concept that helped Jena understand how her brain actually worksPractical tools that make a difference for ADHD business owners: object permanence workarounds, body doubling, batch recording, and time-boxingBeing an introvert who built a public-facing business, and letting other people work in their zone of geniusComing out as gay and being openly neurodivergent in a field that hasn't always made room for eitherHow showing up as your full self gives other people permission to do the same TIMESTAMPS 00:08 Welcome and introducing Jena, the queen of private practice 01:33 From clinical fellow in Boston to starting a practice on the side 04:17 The FBI-agent dream and how Jena found speech pathology 07:04 What Jena is most proud of: impact across a whole profession 10:01 The flexibility to be present for her kids 11:00 The four F words behind why clinicians start private practices 17:35 "Look, I made a hat where there never was a hat" 22:19 A late ADHD reframe and the careless-errors years 24:57 The visionary and the integrator, and the flight that changed everything 29:36 Why so many entrepreneurs are neurodivergent 34:16 Object permanence, body doubling, and building systems for your brain 39:43 Being an introvert in a public-facing business 43:40 Coming out, being openly gay, and speaking openly about ADHD 50:24 Why being out about who you are normalizes it for everyone 55:13 Advice for anyone dipping a toe into showing up more authentically RESOURCES AND LINKS Find Jena: Instagram.com/independentclinicianJena's free courses, resources, and paid programs: independentclinician.comJena's book: The Path to Private Practice https://amzn.to/4tUY6ByRocket Fuel by Gino Wickman https://amzn.to/42SDVcGFind Sarah: instagram.com/bcsarahsaidso You're invited to the You Are the Magic Retreat this October in Florida! social-moguls.com/retreat If this conversation resonated, share it with someone who needs to hear that their brain isn't broken. Follow You Are the Magic so you never miss an episode, and head to YouAretheMagicPodcast.com for more.

    53 min
  2. May 19

    Surviving the Seasons Meant to Break You Without Losing Your Magic

    Surviving the Seasons Meant to Break You Without Losing Your Magic Theresa Richard has spent the last five years surviving things most people couldn't and building a career anyway. In this conversation we talk about why she refuses to play victim no matter what life hands her, how she keeps backing herself when the people around her don't, what cancel culture actually does to a person and how she came out the other side, the bigger conversation about pricing and scarcity in the SLP field, why knowing how you're wired changes everything about how you build a business and a life, and what it really takes to choose your hard. KEY TOPICS Why Theresa doesn't identify with her accomplishments and what she's actually most proud ofSurviving cancel culture and the long process of realizing it was never about herWhat building a business through divorce, IVF, and raising a child with special needs actually looks like behind the scenesThe story of putting the medical SLP certification through NCCA accreditation when people told her to quitWhy the field undervalues itself and the bigger conversation about pricing, scarcity, and public health dollarsKnowing how you're wired through human design, ADHD, and Kolbe, and building a life and team around itWhy she has no tolerance for victimhood and what radical responsibility actually looks likeThe role of mentorship and masterminds in the next iteration of who you becomeWhy the loudest voices on the internet are the most insecure, and who's actually watchingChoosing your hard RESOURCES AND LINKS Follow Theresa on Instagram: @theresarichardslpTheresa's podcast: Swallow Your PridePodcast websiteFollow Sarah on Instagram: @bcsarahsaidso You're invited! The You Are the Magic Retreat is where you finally see the full spectrum of magic that makes you who you are, learn to own it, and leave with a plan to share it with the world! See you in Florida! Social-moguls.com/retreat

    1h 4m
  3. May 11

    The Magic of Ditching the Good Girl Act

    The Magic of Ditching the Good Girl Act Emilie Karun did everything right. She married her high school sweetheart, had four beautiful babies, built the white picket fence life she'd always dreamed of. And then she woke up at 30 and realized something she hadn't been allowed to even wonder: was this all she actually wanted? That question kicked off an existential crisis. Am I a terrible woman if I want more? Am I a terrible mother? Years later, that question became the foundation of her brand, The Good Girl Revolution, where she helps women abandon everything they were taught in order to find what was actually theirs all along. This conversation is for any woman who has felt that quiet pull toward something bigger and immediately apologized for it. We get into feminine vs. masculine energy, why burnout is often the doorway, the question every woman should ask herself, and the kind of woman who becomes truly unstoppable (and exactly why the world doesn't want you to know how good she feels). KEY TOPICSWaking up to the realization that the life you built isn't the one you actually wantThe Good Girl Revolution and why being "good" was costing you yourselfFeminine vs. masculine energy in business and life (and what feminine energy actually is, beyond the woo)The descent: why we meet our real selves in the collapse, not on the mountaintopHow to start listening to your own desires after a lifetime of dismissing themThe one question Emilie used to ask every potential client (and why 99.9% of women couldn't answer it)Building from wholeness vs. building from lackWhy a woman who doesn't need permission is the most powerful thing in the roomBecoming the F**k Yes Woman and what it actually takes to own your desiresTIMESTAMPS00:00 – Welcome and introducing Emilie Karun02:20 – From white picket fence dreams to waking up at 3005:42 – Starting the coaching business and the birth of the Good Girl Revolution09:13 – You are the magic: accessing your feminine superpowers11:05 – A generation of women rising into a new way12:02 – Breaking down feminine vs. masculine energy (without the b******t)15:26 – The burnout that changed everything17:35 – The feminine meets herself in the descent25:00 – The divine breadcrumb and how the path actually reveals itself27:30 – Creating from wholeness vs. lack: the question every woman should ask31:00 – Sarah's 30-second sunshine ritual and pressing pause on growth46:35 – Small unsexy steps and the truth about transformation50:45 – Recognizing you are already herRESOURCES AND LINKSEmilie's website: EmilieKarun.comFollow Emilie on IG: instagram.com/the.good.girl.revolution/Pod Website: YouAretheMagicPodcast.comFollow Sarah on IG: instagram.com/bcsarahsaidso You Are the Magic Retreat: You're invited! The retreat experience where you finally embody the magic within you. social-moguls.com/retreat

    50 min
  4. May 4

    Renaissance, Reverence, and Refusing to Conform: The Magic of Being *That B!tch*

    Renaissance, Reverence, and Refusing to Conform: The Magic of Being That B!tch Kim has built a $500,000 cash year empire with a little over a thousand followers, and she will be the first one to tell you that none of it would have been possible if she hadn't done the work first. She survived a childhood that, statistically, should have sent her in a completely different direction. She spent four years doing trauma and energy work from 5am to 10am every single day to put herself back together. And she came out the other side with this knowing that she will scream from the rooftops to anyone who will listen, which is that your magic is the moneymaking machine. We get into so much in this one. We talk about why surviving your story is the accomplishment. We talk about that ceramic ball metaphor that I think about constantly now. We talk about the conditioning women carry around being too much, too loud, too emotional, too feminine, too anything. We talk about why corporate is not actually the safe bet you've been told it is. And we talk about how deciding to be that bitch is exactly as available to you as deciding to be anything else, because it's a decision either way. Kim is so much fun and so real and I genuinely could have kept her on for another three hours. KEY TOPICSWhy Kim's biggest accomplishment is not the money, it is surviving the trajectory she was handedThe Akashic records reading that explained why Kim has been a coach in every single lifetimeMy first $50K month, the guilt that came with it, and how two truths can live in your body at the same timeKim's token phrase that her clients hear all the time, which is that you do not have business problems, you have personal problemsThe ceramic ball metaphor and what four years of daily 5am healing work actually looked likeManifestation, the T-rex in the snow, and the playground theory of lifeWhy your magic is your moneymaker and what it actually means to come fully online in your body and your brandReinvention as a spiritual practice, being a Renaissance woman, and why the shame around pivoting is keeping so many women stuckWhy corporate is not safe and betting on yourself is the only sure thing you have for lifeThe biggest win of entrepreneurship, which is not the money, it is trusting yourself to figure it outKim's advice for the woman ready to bet on herself and where to startRESOURCES AND LINKSFollow Kim on Instagram at @iamkimarnesonJoin Kim's free Money Making Queens communitySarah's IG @bcsarahsaidso STAY IN THE MAGICIf something in this episode lit you up, the next step is being in a room with women who are doing the work too. Come to the next You Are the Magic retreat! You are the magic, my girl. Go be that bitch. All the details are at YouAretheMagicPodcast.com.

    59 min
  5. Apr 27

    Real Recognize Real: The Magic of Going First

    Real Recognize Real: The Magic of Going First This week on the podcast, I sat down with Ebony Green — CEO of the SLP Business Suite, host of the SLP Business Podcast, founder of the Made for More SLP Business Conference, and a multiple-seven-figure private practice owner to talk about everything she doesn't post about. Being a first-generation college grad and an empath. Her rainbow baby. The gift of intercession. Raising children to be hard workers while enjoying the finer things. And why she refuses to dial down conversations about money even when women are expected to keep it hush. Real recognize real, and this whole episode is as real as it gets. KEY TOPICS The hidden side of being a first-generation college graduateWhat growing up in survival mode taught Ebony about wealth and optionsWhy mentorship changed the entire trajectory of her lifeBeing an empath as both a superpower and a burden in leadershipThe gift of intercession and praying for people you loveFaith, fertility, IVF, and her rainbow babyWhy Ebony talks openly about money when most women are told to stay quietHow she and her husband are raising their kids to value hard work over flash TIMESTAMPS (00:01) Welcome and intro to Ebony Green(02:38) The achievement Ebony is most proud of (and it's not the seven figures)(06:54) The Best Western FAFSA scam and learning to navigate college without a roadmap(11:39) Working through college and seeing a different world for the first time(19:19) Raising kids who appreciate the finer things without losing the work ethic(27:11) The traits she's been told to dial down, starting with fairness(31:40) Being an empath in leadership(34:58) The gift of intercession and praying for people on a nudge(41:40) Fertility, faith, and the rainbow that became a promise(48:15) From $65K paychecks to building generational wealth(53:59) Why she shares money talk loudly even when it makes people uncomfortable(57:38) Where to find Ebony and what's next RESOURCES AND LINKS Ebony's book, From Clinical Fellow to CEOThe Made for More SLP Business Conference Ebony on InstagramThe SLP Business PodcastSarah on InstagramPod Website You Are the Magic Retreat You're Invited! You are the magic, my girl, and this retreat is where you finally own it, embody it, and never shrink from it again. See you in Florida, October 2026.

    49 min
  6. Apr 20

    Black Cherry, Marbles, and an Orange Penguin: The Magic All Around You

    Black Cherry, Marbles, and an Orange Penguin: The Magic All Around You In this episode, Gabriella Thomas shares how she walked away from pre-med, a corporate detour, and a lifetime of shrinking herself to build a life and business rooted in intuition and energetic alignment. She breaks down energy and intuition in plain language for the logical and clinical girlies, and opens up about the signs, synchronicities, and soul-level truths that have guided her every step. Join us for a deep dive into worthiness, intuition, and the magic that has been around you the whole time. KEY TOPICS How to understand energy and intuition without the wooWhy your very first thought is almost always your intuition talkingLeaving pre-med and the pull to stop fitting into the boxThe quiet ways growing up as the good girl wires you for people pleasingWhy worthiness is the work that unlocks everything elseHow returning to corporate made her realize she was meant for moreThe Fiji resort design opportunity that came 24 hours after she decided she was done playing smallAsking for absurd signs from loved ones on the other side and actually getting themHow EMDR and nervous system work open you up to your intuitionPractical first steps for tuning into your intuition without it feeling overwhelming TIMESTAMPS 00:01 - Welcome and introduction to Gabriella Thomas 04:21 - First ever You Are the Magic retreat announcement (October 2026, Florida) 06:17 - Energy and intuition explained for the logical and science minded 08:54 - The black cherry bourbon moment and connecting with loved ones on the other side 12:52 - The GPS analogy for trusting your intuition 16:12 - Walking away from pre-med and accepting the non-traditional path 19:17 - The Fiji resort design job that came from one decision to stop playing small 25:31 - Where worthiness issues come from and how they show up as adults 43:06 - The orange penguin story 51:44 - How EMDR and calming the nervous system opened up intuition 55:30 - Practical first steps to tune into your intuition 59:14 - The lamb in the dream, the marble in the parking lot, the messages that find you 01:00:27 - The doll, the reading, and the signs that show up later 01:07:20 - Final thoughts on worthiness and trusting what is calling you 01:08:14 - Details on the October retreat in Florida with Sarah and Gabriella RESOURCES & LINKS gabrielladthomas.comInstagram: @gabrielladthomasTikTok: @gabriella_thomasGabriella's Aligned Activations Appyouarethemagicpodcast.com You Are the Magic Retreat You're Invited! You are the magic, my girl, and this retreat is where you finally own it, embody it, and never shrink from it again. See you in Florida, October 2026.

    1h 8m
  7. Apr 13

    Owning Your Multi-Passionate Magic

    This episode celebrates neurodiversity, bilingual brilliance, and the power of unapologetic authenticity. Jocelyn Wood shares her journey of leaving a stable career to pursue her passion, navigating neurodivergence as a superpower, and the importance of creating a safe space for your truest self. In this episode: The transformational journey of leaving a 14-year school job for private practiceBusting myths about bilingualism and multilingualism as a superpower, not a delayHow neurodivergence (ADHD, giftedness) unlocks creativity and outside-the-box thinkingThe significance of travel in discovering self and embracing different culturesWhy masking is draining and how to reclaim your authentic selfStrategies for building a safe environment for your vulnerability and magicThe power of community and authentic connections for growthThe role of curiosity in innovation and service excellenceEncouragement to lean into your “weird,” your full unique self Timestamps: 00:00 - Welcome and introduction to Jocelyn Wood's inspiring story 00:38 - Jocelyn's journey of quitting her school job after 14 years 02:21 - Leaving red tape behind to serve families she loves 03:13 - The evolution of private practice and exploring new avenues 05:16 - Busting myths about bilingualism as a delay, celebrating multilingual superpowers 06:11 - How code-switching and bilingual skills empower children 07:04 - Jocelyn's work outside of therapy, empowering bilingual families 10:24 - Embracing neurodivergence as a superpower 11:18 - Finding community among other neurodivergent women 12:10 - The impact of shared traits and "not fitting the box" 15:04 - The magic of authentic self-expression 16:46 - Owning hidden talents and unique traits 20:00 - Travel adventures, overcoming border challenges 21:02 - The transformational power of nature and unplugging 22:14 - Using curiosity to meet clients’ needs innovatively 23:12 - Owning multidimensional talents and gifts 26:50 - Overcoming the fear of being fully seen 28:05 - Building a safe space at home and in community Connect with Jocelyn: Jocelyn Wood - InstagramTeaching Talking by Jocelyn Wood Sarah IG Pod Website You Are the Magic Retreat - You're Invited! You are the magic, my girl, and this retreat is where you finally own it, embody it, and never shrink from it again. See you in St. Pete, October 2026.

    30 min
  8. Apr 6

    The Magic Behind the Mask

    The Magic Behind the Mask In this episode, Elley Mae shares her powerful journey from diverse passions to mastering branding for soulful coaches. She highlights how embracing every stage of her story has unlocked her unique magic and transformed her approach to life and business. Get ready for a deep dive into self-discovery, resilience, and unapologetic authenticity. Key TopicsHow embracing multidimensional passions built Elley Mae’s unique brand identityThe importance of resilience in overcoming life’s curveballsMoving through postpartum depression with support and therapyThe power of self-awareness and journaling in uncovering your true selfHow unmasking your authentic self creates ripple effects in your communityRecognizing ADHD traits and how they contribute to creative magicWhy living authentically is the ultimate expression of your unique magicPractical tips on shifting mindset to lean into your unapologetic authenticityEmbracing change and evolution as a sign of your growing magicTimestamps00:09 - Welcome & introduction to Elley Mae’s story 01:15 - Early entrepreneurial ventures and diverse passions 02:21 - Transition from blogging to beauty branding success 03:12 - Pivoting from influencer to teaching and social media management 05:01 - Helping women transform their income and time freedom 05:53 - The postpartum journey and mental health insights 06:48 - Shifting focus to branding design for coaches 07:15 - The magic of intuitive branding aligned with personal evolution 08:28 - Recognizing and embracing ADHD traits within your magic 09:23 - Breaking stigma around postpartum and mental health 13:31 - The importance of family, support, and setting realistic expectations 16:02 - The transformative power of therapy for authenticity 17:36 - Self-discovery through reflection and journaling 22:23 - Overcoming societal masks and embracing true self 27:27 - Unlocking superpowers like emotional intuition and adaptability 35:02 - The importance of evolving and showing up as your authentic self 39:30 - First steps to leaning into authenticity and dropping masks 43:31 - The power of small daily actions to embody your magic 46:44 - Resources, modern tools, and social media for self-awareness 50:32 - Living in alignment and embracing continuous growth Resources & LinksSelf-Coaching 101 Elley Mae IGSarah IGPod Website You Are the Magic Retreat - You're Invited! You are the magic, my girl, and this retreat is where you finally own it, embody it, and never shrink from it again. See you in St. Pete, October 2026.

    55 min

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Women are trained contortionists from birth. We learn how to hide parts of ourselves to survive. I have spent most of my life being a little too much and a little too deep for the rooms I was in. Sensitive. Intuitive. Intense. The kind of person who felt everything and learned early how to hide it so I could function, belong, and be taken seriously. Like most people, I got really good at wearing the mask. I built the life. I checked the boxes. And still felt like something essential was tucked away. After too mean years of hiding my truth, I realized that I created the magic by being who I am and sharing what I know to be true. I stopped trying to become the right version of myself and started listening to the real one. The woo, honest, "werid" one. The one I spent years managing and masking instead of trusting. You Are the Magic is where we talk about the magic of each human you'll meet, taking off the facade, and remembering the truth most of us were never taught to believe... You are not weird, too much, too little, or any other lie the world has sold you. You are the magic. And you always have been. YouAretheMagicPodcast.com Instagram.com/bcsarahsaidso

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