Create More Intimacy: A Podcast for Men

Alisa Stoddard
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Struggling to fix the distance in your marriage - even though you’ve tried everything? You’re not alone. This podcast is for high-achieving men who want more intimacy, better communication, and a stronger emotional connection with their wives. I’m Alisa, a certified relationship coach for men. I help husbands stop chasing sex and start creating real connection. Each week, you’ll get straight-talking, practical advice to help you feel more respected, appreciated, and connected at home. Whether you’re dealing with emotional disconnection, constant tension, or feeling unwanted - this podcast will help. You don’t need to walk on eggshells. You need a better way forward. And I’ll show you how.

  1. Stop “Helping Out” and Start Showing Up | Ep 29

    17小时前

    Stop “Helping Out” and Start Showing Up | Ep 29

    If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything you can to “help” but still end up with a tense, disconnected home - this episode will hit home. Because here’s the truth: when you “help out,” you’re still putting her in charge. You’re waiting for direction instead of showing up as an equal partner. In this episode, I break down: Why “helping” actually keeps you disconnected (even when your intentions are good) The simple mindset shift that changes how she experiences you How to stop needing to be managed and start leading with calm, grounded confidence - so your family feels your presence, not your pressure You don’t need to do more.You just need to show up differently. 👉 Listen now and learn how to stop “helping out” and start showing up - in your marriage, your family, and yourself. 🎧 Listen to all episodes at https://alisastoddard.com/podcast 💬 Want help figuring this out in your own relationship? Access my free Intimacy Training: https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/opt-in Book a Relationship Clarity Call: https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/podcast-scheduling-page Find out more at https://alisastoddard.com/

    19 分钟
  2. Stop Needing to Be Right (If You Want Real Connection) | Ep 28

    11月7日

    Stop Needing to Be Right (If You Want Real Connection) | Ep 28

    Most men don’t realize how often their need to be right keeps them from the connection they actually want. In this episode, I’ll explain why logic and proof can’t heal emotional pain - and what to do when your wife keeps bringing up something that happened years ago. You’ll learn why she can’t move on until she feels safe again, and how to stop defending and start leading emotionally. In this episode: Why your need to be right often hides a deeper fear of not being respected What to do when she can’t let go of the past How to stay steady instead of defensive when old pain resurfaces What “sitting with her in it” really looks like How emotional leadership - not logic - creates lasting trust Because being right might feel good for a moment, but being understood feels a whole lot better. 🎧 Listen to all episodes at https://alisastoddard.com/podcast 💬 Want help figuring this out in your own relationship? Access my free Intimacy Training: https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/opt-in Book a Relationship Clarity Call: https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/podcast-scheduling-page Find out more at https://alisastoddard.com/

    23 分钟
  3. Why You Keep Losing Your Temper (and How to Stop Feeling So Guilty After)

    10月31日

    Why You Keep Losing Your Temper (and How to Stop Feeling So Guilty After)

    You tell yourself you’ll keep calm next time, but somehow you still end up snapping.Then comes the guilt, the silence, and the promise that you’ll “do better.” In this episode, I’ll walk you through what’s actually happening when anger takes over - and why willpower isn’t enough.You’ll learn: Why anger often hides fear, shame, or insecurity. How successful men use anger to stay in control - and how it ends up controlling them instead. What it takes to finally shift from reaction to awareness. If you’re ready to stop letting anger cost you connection, trust, and peace at home, this episode will show you where to start. 🎧 Listen to all episodes at https://alisastoddard.com/podcast 💬 Want help figuring this out in your own relationship? Access my free Intimacy Training: https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/opt-in Book a Relationship Clarity Call: https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/podcast-scheduling-page Find out more at https://alisastoddard.com/

    19 分钟
  4. You Can’t Go Back to How It Was: Why Real Change in Marriage Starts with You

    10月24日

    You Can’t Go Back to How It Was: Why Real Change in Marriage Starts with You

    You miss how things used to be - when she smiled more, laughed at your jokes, and seemed happy to see you. But what you’re really missing isn’t her, it’s who you used to feel like in your marriage. In this episode, we'll unpack why trying to get back to the past keeps you stuck, and how to move forward by rebuilding trust, connection, and confidence - starting from within. You’ll learn: Why the “old version” of your relationship can’t come back and why that’s okay. What it means to show up differently instead of trying harder. How rebuilding your sense of worth changes everything in your marriage. 🎧 Listen now to discover what happens when you stop chasing the past and start becoming the man you actually want to be. Mentioned Episode:Ep 17 – Why You Keep Losing It https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VvT_AoE8DB4 🎧 Listen to all episodes at https://alisastoddard.com/podcast 💬 Want help figuring this out in your own relationship? Access my free Intimacy Training: https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/opt-in Book a Relationship Clarity Call: https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/podcast-scheduling-page Find out more at https://alisastoddard.com/

    20 分钟
  5. Stop Delegating Your Happiness: Why Money, Sex, and Success Can’t Fix Your Marriage

    10月17日

    Stop Delegating Your Happiness: Why Money, Sex, and Success Can’t Fix Your Marriage

    You’ve worked hard, achieved, and provided. On paper, you’ve done everything right. So why does your marriage still feel distant? Why do you still feel rejected or disrespected at home? In this episode, I break down one of the biggest traps men fall into: outsourcing their happiness. Whether it’s your wife’s mood, how much sex you’re having, your bank account, or your achievements, tying your worth to outside things creates instability, resentment, and disconnection in your marriage. I share a client story that exposes how intimacy turns transactional, why achievement culture sets men up for disappointment, and what begins to shift when men stop delegating happiness to their wives. This episode will challenge you to reflect on where you’ve been outsourcing your happiness - and why it’s costing you intimacy and respect. Since I reference Ep 22, https://www.youtube.com/watch v=t7DZXZUcNX4&t=3s make it queue that episode next. 🎧 Listen to all episodes at https://alisastoddard.com/podcast 💬 Want help figuring this out in your own relationship? Access my free Intimacy Training: https://alisastoddard.mykajabi.com/opt-in Book a Relationship Clarity Call: https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/podcast-scheduling-page Find out more at https://alisastoddard.com/

    21 分钟
  6. Why Putting Your Wife on a Pedestal Hurts Your Marriage

    10月10日

    Why Putting Your Wife on a Pedestal Hurts Your Marriage

    Putting your wife on a pedestal might feel like respect, but it often creates distance instead of intimacy. In this episode, I'll explain why pedestal talk backfires, where it comes from, and how it leaves women feeling unheard. Discover how to shift from performance to presence so you can build real connection, respect, and closeness in your marriage. 🎧 Listen to all episodes at https://alisastoddard.com/podcast 💬 Want help figuring this out in your own relationship? Access my free Intimacy Training: https://alisastoddard.mykajabi.com/opt-in Book a Relationship Clarity Call: https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/podcast-scheduling-page Find out more at https://alisastoddard.com/

    18 分钟
  7. Why Fighting and Silent Treatments Don’t Bring You Closer

    10月3日

    Why Fighting and Silent Treatments Don’t Bring You Closer

    Do fights in your marriage always spiral, only to be followed by days of silence?If so, you know how exhausting the cycle can be. One minute you’re caught in an argument that’s not even about what started it, and the next you’re living in icy silence - no resolution, no repair, no closeness. In this episode, I break down why the fight-silent treatment cycle is so damaging, what it’s really costing your marriage, and what you can do instead. You’ll hear: Why both fighting and silence send hidden messages about worth How childhood patterns shape the way you handle conflict today A client story about what happens when “playing the victim” takes over Simple, powerful shifts that stop the cycle and build connection instead Why repair - not winning - is the most important skill you can bring into your marriage The point isn’t to avoid conflict. It’s to learn how to handle it in a way that strengthens your marriage instead of tearing it down. If you’ve been stuck in this cycle, this episode will help you see a way forward. 🎧 Listen to all episodes at https://alisastoddard.com/podcast 💬 Want help figuring this out in your own relationship? Access my free Intimacy Training: https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/opt-in Book a Relationship Clarity Call: https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/podcast-scheduling-page Find out more at https://alisastoddard.com/

    24 分钟
  8. How Men Can Stop Feeling Lonely in Marriage

    9月26日

    How Men Can Stop Feeling Lonely in Marriage

    Do you feel like your wife is your only source of connection - and it’s driving a wedge between you? In this episode, I share why following her around or envying her social life is backfiring, and how you can stop feeling lonely in your marriage by building a life that lights you up. 🔹 Why hovering makes her feel pressure, not love🔹 The difference between proximity and real friendship🔹 How to build interests and connection outside of her🔹 What makes you fun to be around again 📌 Ready to stop feeling lonely in your marriage? Book your free consultation here:  Podcast Email Opt In | To Scheduling Page 🎧 Listen to all episodes at https://alisastoddard.com/podcast 💬 Want help figuring this out in your own relationship? Access my free Intimacy Training:  Opt-in Book a Relationship Clarity Call:  Podcast Email Opt In | To Scheduling Page Find out more at https://alisastoddard.com/

    16 分钟
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Struggling to fix the distance in your marriage - even though you’ve tried everything? You’re not alone. This podcast is for high-achieving men who want more intimacy, better communication, and a stronger emotional connection with their wives. I’m Alisa, a certified relationship coach for men. I help husbands stop chasing sex and start creating real connection. Each week, you’ll get straight-talking, practical advice to help you feel more respected, appreciated, and connected at home. Whether you’re dealing with emotional disconnection, constant tension, or feeling unwanted - this podcast will help. You don’t need to walk on eggshells. You need a better way forward. And I’ll show you how.

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