You Control You

ShaH Evans

You Control You is a podcast hosted by Mark ShaH Evans, diving deep into personal growth, relationships, and the power of self-discipline. We explore cultural differences, gender perspectives, marriage, and much more. Join us for real conversations, practical advice, and motivational insights to help you take control of your life, one decision at a time. Tune in and discover the strength within—you control you. https://linktr.ee/YouControlYou

  1. Your Ego Is Destroying Your Co-Parenting

    4D AGO

    Your Ego Is Destroying Your Co-Parenting

    In this episode of You Control You, I sit down with two women who have played a major role in my life and in the lives of our children. My daughter’s mother Amber and my ex wife Cherrelle join me for a real conversation about co parenting, family, and learning to put the kids first even when life gets complicated.This is not a perfect story. It is a real one.We talk about the early years when things were difficult, the ego battles that can destroy relationships, and the lessons we learned about communication, respect, and emotional growth. Co parenting is not easy, especially when people are trying to rebuild their lives separately while still raising children together. But over time we learned something powerful. When you remove ego and focus on what truly matters, you can create a healthy environment for the kids.In this episode we discuss• The challenges of blended families• Why communication is everything in co parenting• How ego can destroy relationships between parents• Learning to validate each other’s feelings• Why kids should never carry the weight of adult conflict• The importance of patience, understanding, and growthOur journey was not smooth, but it taught us that family can evolve into something stronger when people choose maturity over pride.If you are navigating co parenting, dealing with blended family dynamics, or trying to create a better environment for your children, this conversation may give you a new perspective.Because at the end of the day, no matter what happens between adults, the kids come first.Subscribe to the channel for more conversations about life, leadership, family, and personal growth.Linktree - https://linktr.ee/YouControlYou

    1h 46m
  2. Peace Isn't The Goal

    MAR 5

    Peace Isn't The Goal

    Building something meaningful rarely feels peaceful. It feels like pressure, doubt, responsibility, and the constant demand to grow. In this episode of You Control You, Mark ShaH Evans dives into the reality of entrepreneurship and leadership. The truth is simple but uncomfortable: peace is not the goal. Growth is. Entrepreneurship often feels like stepping onto a battlefield. Every day demands resilience, discipline, and the willingness to face challenges head-on. But that pressure is not the enemy. When directed properly, it becomes fuel. The same intensity that creates stress can also build purpose, strength, and momentum. ShaH explores the mindset required to navigate business, family, and leadership without losing yourself in the chaos. Gratitude becomes a grounding force. Structure becomes the weapon that turns effort into results. And embracing the warrior mentality allows entrepreneurs to channel their drive instead of being controlled by it. The conversation also touches on something many leaders struggle with: bringing the right energy home. Winning in business means nothing if you lose connection with the people who matter most. Leadership is not just about building companies; it is about building a life where purpose, family, and responsibility exist together. Peace is not the absence of war. Peace is choosing where to direct the battle. If you are building something, chasing purpose, or learning how to balance ambition with the life around you, this episode will challenge the way you think about success. Subscribe for more conversations about discipline, leadership, mindset, and the journey of becoming the person you are meant to be.

    55 min

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You Control You is a podcast hosted by Mark ShaH Evans, diving deep into personal growth, relationships, and the power of self-discipline. We explore cultural differences, gender perspectives, marriage, and much more. Join us for real conversations, practical advice, and motivational insights to help you take control of your life, one decision at a time. Tune in and discover the strength within—you control you. https://linktr.ee/YouControlYou