You Turned Out OK

You Turned Out OK
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From latchkey kids to helicopter parents, You Turned Out OK is a witty and insightful podcast that explores the generational shifts in parenting and grandparenting. With humor, heart, and a touch of nostalgia, we bridge the gap between Gen X & Boomer grandparents and their Millennial children.

Episodes

  1. 3D AGO

    Episode 6 – Sit Still! Pay Attention! Unlocking ADHD’s Hidden

    SuperpowersFebruary 18, 2026Featuring: Nicole Burke & Sharon Burke Summary Ever wonder what it’s like growing up labeled as “difficult” before the term ADHD even existed?Or how a social butterfly blossoms into a fierce advocate? This episode is a revealing, witty, andsometimes tear-jerking dialogue with Nicole Burke, a behavioral analyst turned ADHDsuperhero, and her mom, Sharon, proving that understanding and patience can turn chaosinto kindness. Take Aways ● The childhood stories of Nicole, the “social butterfly,” who was labeled too talkative,fidgety, and just “too much.”● How early discipline often missed the mark, with real talk on what discipline reallyneeds—understanding● The evolution from negative labels to recognizing brain-based strengths, akasuperpowers● The journey of diagnosis, medication, and the myth-busting of what ADHD really lookslike in girls● How masking impacts adult women and what that means for self-acceptance● Practical advice for teachers and parents on fostering a truly supportive environment● The empowering story of how knowledge shifts perception and can help design a moreinclusive future Chapters: 00:00 Discusses the historical context of ADHD and how children were labeled in the past.02:20 Personal stories of childhood experiences and early signs of ADHD.04:26 The journey to diagnosis and common misconceptions about ADHD.06:14 How discipline was often misapplied and the importance of understanding.13:20 Transitioning from negative labels to recognizing strengths.33:31 The impact of masking behaviors and the journey towards self-acceptance.42:07 Tips for teachers and parents on creating supportive environments.53:32 How knowledge and understanding can lead to a more inclusive future. Keywords parenting, ADHD awareness, neurodiversity support, behavioral analysis, ADHD superpowerschildhood ADHD diagnosis, ADHD masking, ADHD in women, ADHD focus strategies, ADHDeducation for parents, ADHD support systems, ADHD advocacy, ADHD and self-acceptance,ADHD productivity tips, ADHD myths and facts, ADHD and hyperfocus

    1h 3m

  2. FEB 5

    Episode 5 – Call Your Grandmother

    Episode 5 – Call Your GrandmotherFebruary 4, 2026Featuring: Gloria Bandarenko Summary In this episode of You Turned Out OK, Mrs. B discusses parenting across generations with hermother-in-law, Gloria (the OG Mrs. B), a member of the silent generation. They explore thedifferences in parenting styles, the challenges modern parents face, and the evolving nature offamily dynamics. Gloria shares her insights on the importance of open communication, therole of a mother-in-law, and the pride of being a grandparent. The conversation highlights thesignificance of family traditions and the impact of cultural influences on parenting. Takeaways Generational differences shape parenting styles.Open communication is key in modern parenting.Parents today face unique challenges with information overload.Millennial parents are more involved and attentive.Cultural influences play a significant role in parenting.The role of a mother-in-law is to support and respect boundaries.Grandparenting offers a different perspective on love and care.Family traditions are important for passing down values.Parents should not feel guilty about making mistakes.Social media can negatively impact parenting. Chapters 00:00 Generational Perspectives on Parenting02:52 The Evolution of Parenting Styles06:02 Modern Parenting Challenges08:49 Admiring Millennial Parenting11:58 Cultural Influences on Parenting14:56 The Role of a Mother-in-Law17:48 Grandparenting: A Different Experience21:00 Family Legacy and Traditions23:43 Reflections on Parenting Advice26:37 Final Thoughts on Parenting and Grandparenting Keywords parenting, generational differences, modern parenting, grandparenting, family traditions,cultural influences, advice, motherhood, family dynamics, emotional support

    33 min

  3. JAN 22

    Episode 4 – It’s 10 PM. Do you know where your children are?

    Episode 4 – It’s 10 PM. Do you know where your children are? January 21, 2026 Featuring: Becky Ford Summary Remember when parents didn’t coordinate playdates like military operations? Parenting a five-year-old is hard. Parenting a five-year-old as a Gen Xer surrounded by millennial parents is… an experience. In this episode, I sit down with another Gen Xer who’s raising a five-year-old among millennial parents. We unpack how freedom became a liability, technology became a third parent, and why letting kids roam—even a little—now feels like a radical act. Takeaways Parenting has evolved significantly from the Gen X era to now Technology and social media have changed how parents monitor their children. Participation trophies are a controversial topic among parents. There’s a balance between giving children independence and ensuring their safety. Gen X parents often reflect on their own upbringing when raising their children. Modern parenting involves more communication and involvement. The concept of ‘helicopter parenting’ is more prevalent today. Parents today have more resources but also face more societal pressure. The role of schools in parenting has changed over the years. There’s a debate on the impact of modern parenting trends on children’s resilience. Chapters 00:00:00 Introduction to Parenting Evolution Overview of how parenting has changed from the Gen X era to today. 00:05:00 Technology and Social Media’s Impact Discussion on how technology and social media have transformed parenting practices. 00:10:00 Participation Trophies Debate Exploration of the controversial topic of participation trophies and their impact on children. 00:15:00 Balancing Independence and Safety Insights into how parents balance giving children independence while ensuring their safety. 00:20:00 Gen X vs. Millennial Parenting Comparative analysis of parenting styles between Gen X and millennial parents. 00:25:00 The Rise of Helicopter Parenting Examination of the increase in helicopter parenting and its effects. 00:30:00 The Role of Schools in Today’s Parenting Discussion on how the role of schools in parenting has evolved over the years. 00:35:00 Resilience and Modern Parenting Debate on the impact of modern parenting trends on children’s resilience. Keywords parenting, Gen X, millennials, participation trophies, technology, social media, independence, safety, supervision, freedom

    43 min

  4. 11/20/2025

    Episode 3 – “Check All That Apply” Embracing Bicultural Identities

    Episode 3 – “Check All That Apply” Embracing Bicultural Identities November 19, 2025 Featuring: Emma BXB & Clementine Fujimura Summary In this episode of You Turned Out OK, host Rachel Bandarenko engages in a heartfelt conversation with her daughter-in-law Emma and Dr. Clementine Fujimura about the complexities of bicultural and multicultural identities. They explore how cultural backgrounds shape parenting styles, the importance of traditions, and the challenges of navigating identity labels. The discussion highlights the significance of food in cultural identity, the role of curiosity in understanding different cultures, and the unique superpowers that multicultural families possess. Emma shares her experiences growing up in a bicultural household, while Clementine provides insights from her anthropological perspective, making for a rich and enlightening dialogue. Takeaways ● Bicultural identity can be a source of pride and complexity. ● Curiosity and asking questions are essential in understanding cultural differences. ● Food plays a significant role in cultural identity and family traditions. ● Navigating labels and identity can be challenging for bicultural individuals. ● Cultural expectations can influence parenting styles and family dynamics. ● Maintaining language and cultural traditions is important for identity. ● Multicultural families often possess adaptability as a superpower. ● Experiences of discrimination can shape how families approach cultural integration. ● Creating a safe space for cultural expression is vital for children. ● Understanding and celebrating diversity can strengthen family bonds Chapters 00:00 Cultural Identity and Labels 07:18 Navigating Bicultural Experiences 13:53 Food as Cultural Connection 19:58 Traditions and Family Dynamics 20:27 Cultural Traditions and Family Practices 22:08 The Importance of Language in Cultural Identity 24:04 Generational Perspectives on Cultural Assimilation 25:42 Navigating Bicultural Identity 27:26 Curiosity and Engagement in Bicultural Families 29:06 Advice for Multicultural Families 31:39 Superpowers of Bicultural Families 35:52 Rapid Fire Questions on Culture and Identity 40:36 Personal Stories and Perspectives on Family Traditions 41:09 Podcast Ending Credits.mp4 Keywords multicultural families, bicultural identity, parenting, cultural traditions, food, cultural expectations, identity labels, family dynamics, cultural heritage, cultural practices

    41 min

  5. 11/04/2025

    Episode 2 – Club Kids

    Episode 2 – Club Kids November 5, 2025 Featuring: Karen Damerau & Palen Roberts Summary This episode of ‘You Turned Out Okay’ explores the evolution of youth sports, contrasting the past with the present. The discussion highlights the increased intensity, financial burden, and pressure on young athletes today, while also emphasizing the importance of fun, family time, and the lessons learned through sports. The conversation features insights from guests who share their experiences and reflections on how youth sports have changed over the years, and what can be done to ensure that the joy of participation remains at the forefront. Takeaways Youth sports have transformed from casual games to intense competitions. The financial costs of youth sports have skyrocketed. Parents play a significant role in the pressure felt by young athletes. Fun should remain a priority in youth sports participation. Family time is often compromised due to sports commitments. College scholarships are not guaranteed for young athletes. The importance of community and rec programs in youth sports. Youth sports should be accessible to all, regardless of socioeconomic status. The role of coaches is crucial in shaping a positive sports experience. Lessons from the past can guide the future of youth sports. Chapters 00:00 The Evolution of Youth Sports 02:29 Comparing Past and Present Experiences 06:33 The Intensity of Youth Sports Today 10:34 The Impact on Family Time 24:45 The Financial Burden of Youth Sports 30:37 The Journey of Young Athletes 32:00 Navigating College Sports Recruitment 34:38 The Reality of Athletic Scholarships 36:22 The Cost of Youth Sports 39:05 The Importance of Enjoyment in Sports 41:44 Lessons from Youth Sports of the Past 43:17 The Role of Community in Youth Sports 49:25 Finding Balance in Competitive Sports 53:40 The True Value of Youth Sports Keywords youth sports, college scholarships, family time, sports evolution, youth sports pressure, financial burden, sports community, youth sports nostalgia, youth sports culture, sports parenting

  6. 10/16/2025

    Episode 1 – Don’t Kiss the Baby

    Summary In this engaging conversation, Mrs B and her daughter-in-law Emma explore the dynamics of parenting and grandparenting across generations. They discuss the inspiration behind the podcast, the importance of intergenerational conversations, and the challenges of setting boundaries within family relationships. Emma shares her experiences as a new mother, including her protective instincts and the humorous yet serious ‘Don’t Kiss the Baby’ principle. The discussion highlights the differences in parenting styles between generations and emphasizes the need for open dialogue to foster understanding and support within families. Takeaways The podcast was inspired by the birth of Theo, Rachel’s first grandson. Intergenerational conversations can help bridge understanding between parents and grandparents. Becoming a parent changes the way you view your own parents. Setting boundaries with family can be challenging but necessary. The ‘Don’t Kiss the Baby’ principle reflects modern parenting concerns about health and safety. Generational differences in parenting styles can provide children with diverse experiences. Open conversations about parenting can strengthen family relationships. It’s important to respect the boundaries set by new parents. Motherhood brings a new level of understanding and appreciation for one’s own mother. The podcast aims to create a supportive community for parents and grandparents. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Podcast Journey 02:04 The Importance of Intergenerational Conversations 03:59 Shifting Perspectives: From Parent to Grandparent 06:08 Navigating Boundaries in Parenting 14:18 The ‘Don’t Kiss the Baby’ Principle 24:44 Generational Differences in Parenting Styles 32:57 The Role of Boundaries with Family 36:09 The Value of Open Conversations 40:27 Conclusion and Future Conversations Keywords parenting, grandparenting, intergenerational conversations, boundaries, motherhood, family dynamics, podcasting, parenting styles, generational differences, family relationships.

    41 min
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From latchkey kids to helicopter parents, You Turned Out OK is a witty and insightful podcast that explores the generational shifts in parenting and grandparenting. With humor, heart, and a touch of nostalgia, we bridge the gap between Gen X & Boomer grandparents and their Millennial children.

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  • Creator
    You Turned Out OK
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    6
  • Rating
    Clean
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