Your Aligned AF Life

Shalvika Patil
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Your Alilgned AF Life is your mindset makeover companion. This show is for the ambitious person who is ready to build a life, career and business that is aligned AF with who theyare! Here in our land, we believe, that you CAN have it all! Your host, Shalvika, quit her successful career in corporate to become a full-time coach and master mindset expert! Here you will get the best practical mindset tips, spiritual advice, energetic and manifestation hacks that are guaranteed to help you live your best life yet. If you are ready to let go of the BRules (b******t rules) and build the life of your wildest dreams, hit the follow button and get ready to experience THE best transformation ever!

  1. FEB 14

    Ep 071 The Worthy AF Series: The Lies You Inherited

    Send a text In this episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on the lies we've all absorbed from our families, society, and culture. These beliefs feel like truth because we soaked them up before we could even question them. But here's the thing: they're not yours, and they don't have to run your life. What We Cover: The Patriarchy Wake-Up Call How a random conversation revealed my own inherited patriarchal programming (spoiler: it was humbling as f**k) Common Inherited Lies We All Believe: Money doesn't grow on treesRich people are selfish/unethicalHard work is the ONLY way to make moneyYour body needs to be fixed/controlledYou need to heal more before you can succeedLove means sacrificeIf you're not struggling, you're being selfishWhere These Beliefs Come From  We inherit operating systems from caregivers, society, schools, and social circles, absorbing them when our brains weren't developed enough to question them How to Spot What's Not Yours: Disproportionate reactions to small triggers"That's just how it is" thinkingPatterns repeating through generationsUnspoken family rulesThe Work: How to Dismantle Inherited Lies  Byron Katie's four questions that'll flip your limiting beliefs on their head: Is it true?Is it absolutely, irrevocably true?How do you react when you believe that thought?Who would you be without that thought?Plus the turnaround—finding evidence that the opposite is possible Your Brain Loves Evidence Want to rewire a belief? Feed your brain proof that something else is possible. That's where the magic happens. Ready to Go Deeper? Join the Worthy AF Experience starting February 23rd. 4 weeks of dismantling the beliefs standing between you and the life you deserve. You'll walk away with workbooks, journal prompts, and actual tools to use anytime limiting beliefs try to run the show. FREE 7-Day Self-Worth Glow-Up Challenge starts Valentine's Day (February 14th). Seven days of overhauling your sense of self-worth. Join NOW! Connect With Me: Instagram: @shalvikap  Substack YouTube Support the show

    30 min

  2. FEB 7

    Ep 070 The Worthy AF Series: Your Self Worth is Not Conditional

    Send a text Let's get real about something that's been f****g with your head for way too long: the idea that you need to earn your worth. Spoiler alert—you don't. In this episode, I'm breaking down why your self-worth isn't conditional on your weight, your relationship status, your bank account, or any other b******t metric society has sold you. We're talking about how we get conditioned from childhood to believe we need to check certain boxes before we're "allowed" to feel worthy, and why that's complete garbage. I'm also sharing the inspiration behind my upcoming Worthy AF Experience—a one-month container designed to help you reconnect with your inherent worthiness. Plus, I'm inviting you to join the free 7-Day Self-Worth Glow-Up Challenge starting February 14th, where we'll tackle different aspects of self-worth together. What You'll Learn Why your self-worth is inherent, not earnedHow society conditions us to link worthiness to external achievementsThe specific b******t stories women tell themselves about not being "enough"How to recognize where you're denying yourself based on conditional worthThe practice of noticing when you tie your worthiness to something external Key Takeaways You are not broken. The system that taught you to earn your worth is broken. Journal Prompts What do I believe I need to do, be, have, or become before I'm allowed to fully love and accept myself?If I woke up tomorrow with unconditional belief that I am wholly and completely worthy, what would I do differently? What would I stop doing? What would I start allowing myself to do? Practice This Week For the next 7 days, notice where you link your worthiness to something external. Keep a log of moments when you deny yourself something because you haven't "earned" it yet—whether that's related to money, your body, relationships, or waiting for permission. Join the Worthy AF Experience 🎁 Free 7-Day Self-Worth Glow-Up Challenge Starting February 14th | Daily voice/video notes via WhatsApp 💎 Worthy AF Experience One-month transformational container starting February 23rd. Deep dive into worthiness, sovereignty, and reconnecting with your inherent value  Connect With Me Instagram: @ShalvikaP Substack Remember: You don't need permission. You don't need to wait. You're already worthy. Support the show

    25 min

  3. JAN 31

    Ep 069 The MAGIC Method for Visualization & Transformation with Anushree Kini

    Send us a text In this episode, I sit down with transformation and visualization coach Anushree Kini to talk about how visualization can literally rewire your brain and help you create the life you actually want—not the one everyone expects you to want. We dive into Anushree's personal journey from mystery illness to discovering the power of visualization, her MAGIC method for transformation, and why most of us are still operating from patterns we picked up when we were 13 years old. What We Cover Anushree's Journey How a mystery illness became the catalyst for her coaching careerWhy her dad telling her to "visualize enjoying math" at 13 seemed like complete b******t (but turned out to be onto something)The moment she decided to stop letting doctors run endless tests and started healing from the inside outThe MAGIC Method Anushree breaks down her five-step framework for transformation: Mind-body alignment: Getting your nervous system out of overdriveAlign with your future life: Getting crystal clear on what you actually want (not what you think you should want)Go beyond your blocks: Identifying and releasing the beliefs keeping you stuckIntegrate with action: Taking action from awareness, not fearCertainty and surrendering: Building faith in the process while releasing attachment to outcomesThe Real Talk About Visualization Why your brain needs repetition to actually rewire (not just two weeks of half-assed visualizations)How to visualize when you don't even believe what you're visualizing yetThe difference between toxic positivity and actually processing your beliefs Why we're all out here trying to fix the external when the chaos is actually internalGetting Started with Visualization Start with ONE area of your life (stop trying to fix everything overnight)Visualize the feeling, not just the outcomeShow up every day, even when it feels fake as fuckNotice what fear or unworthiness comes up—don't bypass it Resources Mentioned Book: Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself by Dr. Joe DispenzaPodcast/YouTube: David Ghiyam (spiritual wisdom & Kabbalah) Connect with Anushree Instagram: @projectdailymagic Final Thoughts This conversation reminded me that we can't keep slapping external action on internal chaos and expect shit to change. You want a different life? Start by changing what's happening inside your head first. Want more aligned AF content? Follow me on Instagram @shalvikap or Substack  Support the show

    35 min

  4. JAN 28

    Ep 068 The Clenching Bu**hole Technique (Why messy action trumps all)

    Send us a text Free Sacred Six Manifestation Session If you're stuck in that endless loop of checking boxes and wondering why success still feels empty, this episode is your wake-up call. I'm breaking down my signature framework for getting unstuck and actually taking action that creates real growth: The Clenching Butthole Technique. Yeah, you read that right. And no, I'm not kidding. What You'll Learn: The 3 Stages of Action: Zero Clench - Your comfort zone (where nothing new happens)Shit Your Pants - The freeze zone (too overwhelming to be useful)Clenched Butthole - The messy action sweet spot (where ALL the magic happens)Why messy action literally trumps everything: No growth happens without messThe only way to increase capacity is through messy actionNo one is perfect when they start offIf you don't ask, the answer is always noRejection is redirection (and every "no" teaches you something valuable) Your Weekly Challenge: For the next 7 days, take ONE messy action every single day. Ask yourself each morning: "What messy action am I going to take today?" Then come back and tell me what magic happened. Remember: We're not going after perfection. We're going after growth. And growth lives in that uncomfortable-but-not-traumatizing space where you're clenching just enough to know you're expanding your capacity. Your dreams aren't going to manifest themselves while you're sitting comfortably on the couch. Get out there and get messy. Connect with Shalvika: Email: admin@shalvikapatil.comSubstackInstagram: @ShalvikaPIf this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who needs to hear this message! Support the show

    24 min

  5. JAN 27

    Ep 067 Who Are You Deciding to Be? Journal Prompts for an Aligned 2026

    Send us a text Free Sacred Six Manifestation Session In this contemplative New Year episode, Shalvika recaps the rollercoaster that was 2025—from record-breaking business success to the difficult lessons of health and team management. She shares her public commitment to 52 podcast episodes this year and explains her decision to step away from Instagram to cultivate a deeper, more intentional community. This episode is a workshop in disguise, featuring four powerful journal prompts to help you align your identity for 2026. Key Takeaways: Reflection & Recap: 2025 was a year of financial wins but personal health struggles.The Pivot: Moving from "Content Creator" to "Identity Alchemist".Digital Boundaries: Why Instagram is no longer the primary home for this community.Self-Worth Philosophy: Embracing the idea that your life is already abundant, and everything else is just a bonus.Journal Prompts from this Episode: The Gratitude Audit: How am I already living the life of my dreams?Energy Assessment: What are the top 3 things that have given me joy & energy in 2025? What are the top 3 things that have drained me?The 89-Year-Old Letter: Imagine that you are 89 years old. Write a letter to your present self talking about your biggest focus areas, your greatest achievements and what you have valued so far in lifeThe "BE" List:  List down all the things you want to BE in 2026. Not do, not just goals that you wanna tick. And then make a list of all the beliefs that version of yourself has embraced. That is your identity shift listConnect with Shalvika: Substack Support the show

    25 min

  6. 11/17/2025

    Ep 066 Grateful for the Shit Show- Finding Hidden Payoffs in your Patterns

    Send us a text What if you're secretly in love with your problems?  In this provocative episode, we explore existential kink meets gratitude - discovering the hidden "yes" in your "no" and finding real appreciation in the weirdest places. No toxic positivity. No spiritual bypassing. Just the uncomfortable truth about what you're actually choosing. Join The Ultimate Manifestation Community If this episode hit different and you're ready to go deeper, I invite you to join The Ultimate Manifestation Community - where we do the real work that actually creates change. What You Get: Monthly live workshops diving deep into each component of the MAGICA methodTrauma-informed manifestation practices that work WITH your nervous system, not against itA community of humans who are done with toxic positivity and ready for real transformationThe complete Sacred Six framework - science-backed manifestation that actually worksWeekly integration support so insights become actual life changes Connect With Shalvika Instagram: @shalvikap Email: admin@shalvikapatil.com Join The Ultimate Manifestation Community Support the show

    38 min

  7. 11/08/2025

    Ep 065 Embracing Your Divine Feminine: A Meditation for Reclaiming Your Power

    Send us a text Ready to stop rejecting parts of yourself and finally feel whole AF? This one's for you. If you've ever felt like you had to choose between being strong OR feminine, successful OR intuitive, respected OR soft... this episode is about to blow your mind and crack your heart wide open (in the best f*****g way). This isn't some fluffy, love-and-light meditation that bypasses the real work. This is about reclaiming the parts of you that got buried under layers of conditioning, protection, and other people's comfort zones. Who this Meditation is for: Anyone who's been told being feminine means being weak (and believed that lie)Those who've had to armor up and push down their softness to be taken seriouslyPeople ready to stop performing femininity OR rejecting it, and just want to BEHumans who are done apologizing for taking up space with their full, authentic energyYou, if you're ready to come home to ALL of who you areYour femininity is not separate from your power - it IS your power. Your ability to feel deeply, create from nothing, trust your intuition, and transform pain into wisdom? That's not weakness. That's f*****g alchemy. Ready to go deeper? Let's work together 🔥 This meditation is just the beginning. If you're ready to: Completely rewrite your limiting beliefsManifest the reality you actually want (not the watered-down version)Become the most aligned, magnetic version of yourselfStop playing small and start living like the powerful creator you areI've got spots open for 1:1 coaching. Book my calendar here  Let's connect on Instagram Support the show

    26 min
  8. Ep 064 Stepping Into Sufficiency to Attract Abundance with Robin Foley

    04/19/2025

    Ep 064 Stepping Into Sufficiency to Attract Abundance with Robin Foley

    Send us a text Ready to build a life that's unf*ckwithable? In this eye-opening episode, I chat with the amazing Robin Foley about how to step into sufficiency to attract abundance in your life. 🔥 What You'll Learn: How to identify when you're operating from scarcity versus sufficiencyWhy desperation energy repels the very things you want to attractThe physical signs of being in "graspy, grabby" energy (hint: anxiety, constriction)Practical ways to shift into sufficiency mindset TODAYHow to "sell yourself" on what you already haveRobin shares powerful insights about recognizing when you're coming from a place of lack and how to transform that energy into magnetic confidence. We explore the importance of believing in possibilities even when there's no evidence they'll happen (and plenty of evidence they won't). Book Recommendations: "Man's Search for Meaning" by Viktor FranklMovie recommendation: "Life is Beautiful" - a powerful example of believing so hard in a particular outcome that it manifests, even in the most challenging circumstancesIf you're ready to stop the desperate chase and start attracting abundance through genuine confidence and sufficiency, this episode is your permission slip to transform your energy and your life. Connect with Shalvika here Join the Ultimate Manifestation Community with Shalvika here  Connect with Robin here Support the show

    43 min
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Your Alilgned AF Life is your mindset makeover companion. This show is for the ambitious person who is ready to build a life, career and business that is aligned AF with who theyare! Here in our land, we believe, that you CAN have it all! Your host, Shalvika, quit her successful career in corporate to become a full-time coach and master mindset expert! Here you will get the best practical mindset tips, spiritual advice, energetic and manifestation hacks that are guaranteed to help you live your best life yet. If you are ready to let go of the BRules (b******t rules) and build the life of your wildest dreams, hit the follow button and get ready to experience THE best transformation ever!

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  • Creator
    Shalvika Patil
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    71
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2026 Your Aligned AF Life
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